The absolute complete silence is the one thing I saw in common with the Polish girls, something other girls haven't done as much as the Polish ones, for sure. But of course it's in common with all women, they solve problems with silence, not by talking. Interesting concept I didn't quite grasp yet. lol.
I noticed that it changes with age, younger girls tend to "hope" you're gonna deduce what is actually wrong. After age of around 25 ( may vary ) the idea of conversation about the problem starts to kick in ; )
oh i think they are fine deciding by themselves to be silent. This last Polish girl I knew, I was meeting her once and she was laughing that she would ignore me one day. And she also said another time while laughing, that she was always the one who ignored the guy first, and she looked so pleased with herself. She was kind of at that 'up herself' attitude sometimes. I told her she is nothing special.
The absolute complete silence is the one thing I saw in common with the Polish girls, something other girls haven't done as much as the Polish ones, for sure.
That's very true. Girls in Poland generally prefer to give the silent treatment then take responsibilty for their decisions. Call it lack of spine, courtesy or respect for men or whatever. Western women are more likely to be straight with you and let you get on with your life. Let's say you meet a girl in a bar, get her number, text her later and for whatever reason she changes her mind about seeing you. A western girl is more likely to text you back, e.g. "I'm sorry it's was nice meeting you, but I was a little drunk last night and I have a bfr". Polkas would rather not reply or just let their phone ring and ring, frustrating the hell out of the horny foreign guy. ahhh...
she was always the one who ignored the guy first, and she looked so pleased with herself. Stuck up b*tch. I told her she is nothing special.
When expectations such as "ah, easy polish girl, my little money is enough for this beautiful" go beyond the limit, your angryness such as "stuck up b*tch" will make her silent. It is not a Polish female thing. A general false approaches of male world toward female world. Lack of understanding females in male minds.
Ps: I too experienced a similar stiuation with a Polish girl. But, I am not victim of her, but, victim of male world. So, we males need to educate each others first. What do these female want?
When expectations such as "ah, easy polish girl, my little money is enough for this beautiful" go beyond the limit, your angryness such as "stuck up b*tch" will make her silent.
Yes, those expectations definitely compound the feeling of frustration and anger. It's amazing what a simple Polish village girl can do to western guy's ego. :)
well, silence means NO, whether is it with a girl/business partner or anybody for that matter and comes from all walks of life and cultures.
I take is always as a NO and I honestly think that if somebody has no guts to tell me things straight, then I don't have the time to deal with them. simple and saves a LOT of time and frustration.
First time shame on him/her, second time shame on you.
I have other options now, but having experienced this with a few now, I just laugh at them, I don't feel bad. I suppose I just have to learn not to be too nice and just treat people how they treat me in future, without feeling bad about it.
you didnt say "shut up, b*tch"? but, you said "she is nothing special" to her. it is worse than saying "shut up b*tch."
ps: if she is 'real' feminist, just stay away, it is like cancer thing that is cureless. are you doing researches for cure of cancer? money is useless..
There's only so much you can take before you have to tell a person you don't like how they are acting. And I'm not letting it all out here, simply responding to people
she was once asking what I thought to her and asking if I want to kiss her, we did then kiss. Then she just changed...
Many, perhaps most women, especially young women 'test' the waters and getting some guy to show interest in them is a goal in itself. I've seen that scenario replayed in bars often enough. One woman will send out signals and then when the bait is taken the unaware male in question is summarily dismissed. Women reassure themselves that they can attract men and that's victory enough for them.............while they wait for a top 10% good looking, wealthy alpha male who 'deserves' them. Usually these kinds of women end up spinsters living with cats while bashing all men because none of them caved in to their petty game-playing.
It's interesting you said that, I suppose that caused my logic of then, at a later date, bringing her opinion of herself down by telling her she was not special. Also about the spinster analysis, this I can relate to the girl I speak of. She said to me she's a princess and picky, and about marriage she was saying she doesn't mind if she stays alone forever, and that it's quite possible. She only wants the best, and I wondered which men will see her as the best actually!
That is a major red flag. When a woman talks like that she should immediately be dismissed from your circle of acquaintances.
The last time a woman told me she was a "goddess", I just turned around and walked away from her. She was probably too stupid to figure it out.
The ultimate disgusting self expression of female "empowerment" is the "Vagina Monologues". Usually, 80% of the audience is female and the men who allowed themselves to be dragged to this exhibition of vulgar narcissism are manginas. (If a play called the "Penis Monologues" were put into production, that play based on gender alone would be considered disgusting and sexist but that's the skewed society we live in now.).
