My boyfriend is on a Polish dating site

you cannot repossess but you can take him to court if he is not going to promise to pay the money back.

Become practical and write down how much money he borrowed from you, including the last loan. Write it down and if worse comes to worse, take him to court. It is your money.

He has no respect for you and he is gonna take it to th enext level if you resist playing his game.
I have been watching too much of Judge Judy.

Go to a Citizens Advice Bureau.

I don,t know about Poland , but in UK the name on the log book don,t mean a thing...its just the registered keeper , not always the owner....If you paid for it girl , it could be said its yours....get a lawyer...now....

I paid for the car and have the receipt to prove it, he is the registered owner. God I am stupid. I think he will pay me back, but dont know over how long and I will have to pay interest.

No, you are not stupid. Unfortunately you have been played by a right twat.

Then legally the car is yours....hang on to that reciept......you are going to need it.....What it says on the log book is not important...its your car....

thanks for your responses. You make it sound so easy and clear cut but I know when he gets home it will be a different story. I am sure that I may forgive him and try to forget about this. I do really believe that he loves me.

Before you talk about courts and stuff shouldn't you speak to him, seems to me as it is getting a bit out of control here.

You have now to buy a present for his girlfriend.

zabko have a romantic evening , put candles , have a bath with him , give him a massage , then give him blow job , then have sex with him , and clean his car after

I hope it works out for you....but somehow i don,t think so....good luck....

zabko..
sorry but it doesn't look good. If he put " looking for sex, love , romance" in his profile thats just wrong. If he was like u said just for fun, he should have put "friends and fun, blah blah blah" in his profile. Sucks, but if he loves you, why is he looking for love, sex on line?? I guess try to talk to him, try to work it out. Else, just get out. Its tought, and it may seem like its the end of the world. Just hang in there and good luck.

listen love there are a few things you have to understand here, 1, your boyfriend is telling you lies. 2, he has probably already cheated on you before. 3, due to 1 & 2 it means he does not respect you, do you feel you can form a relationship based on disrespect.

When you have answered that question honestly you will then have to take the hard choice and get rid. It won't be easy i'm sure and i cannot possibly understand your situation fully, what i can do however is like the other people on this good forum prevent you from being hurt in the future. It is best to act now and be hurt for a short time than a continuation of hurt in the future.

Sorry it seems harsh but its just the way i say things

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He might follow Mick Jagger's logic, 'it seems very hard to have just one girl, when there's a million in the world'. Still, I wouldn't be so sure. Some guys go online to dating services out of boredom more than with intent

They're bloody useless they'll just give you a list of the most expensive solicistors in town and tell you to go there. Ofcourse it depends on the amount involved and if it makes economic sense to spend more to recover less.

ASAP.

none of this sounds right to me at all. please consider everything and then move on. you deserve better then some jackarse.

if he was just looking for people to talk to or meet then he'd be here or similar places. i have never know any one who is on a dating site and not looking to date. someone is fibbing big time.

the car: if his name is on the pink slip (title) then you're kind of screwed but you could sue him for the dough. good luck and never, ever loan him another dime. try to collect all the money from him asap too. keep good records of everything, like someone mentioned above, just in case. hope you made him sign a doc when you loaned him the money. good luck and keep us posted.

i know that when you love someone you trust them with everything, but until you are married or at least put it down in writing in front of some witness that you are lending them a lot of money, why would you just give it away like that? i mean i myself wouldn't just keep asking my partner to lend me money every now and again, especially if i knew he was overdrawn. it's sad to read about people being conned like this, when they are blinded by love and forget to use their head and common sense. it's unhelathy for a bloke to depend on his female partner like this, borrowing huge amounts of money. and how bloody ungrateful of that twat to go on some websites, PAY for access and flirt the days away with other women! i think i'd strangle him...

Or castrate him

Don't tempt them.What if she spits it after out of the window?

C'est la vie

zabko, as everybody already has said...i think he's cheating...that's sad and i feel sorry for you....but now it's your turn, play it smart and you'll win his game... good luck on your own...

has happened before. Are you in danger Southern.LOL

I will keep mine in iron shield.

whatever it takes man.

We have only one.We got to protect it.

and sleep with one eye open as well for extra protection.Oh,and attach an alarm to it too.


i think i'd strangle him...[/quote]
Or do both actually.

You and Fireif seem to have a lot in common.....both of you are with people who cause you to totally lose all sense of reality.....move on with your life.....without the cheater!

Perhaps her boyfriend IS Fireif...that would be spooky.....

Or one of the girls he met online is Ania;) lol

This girl has been with her guy for 3 years, you would expect a certain degree of respect and trust in that time...FuckwitFireif is just a brainless nob!


Couldn't have put it better...as for the loan, sorry but it might be more money to add to your debt..live and learn...

Wonder what happened to her?