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I`m Polish bloke lookin`for an English girl. Is it gonna work out?


SebbyFowler9  1 | 14  
24 Aug 2009 /  #1
Hi

I`ve always had a soft spot for English women`s. Just wondering if any English lass could advise me how I could attract an English beauty to myself? Ilive in Yorkshire.

Will respond to every letter.

Cheers

Sebastian
Lodz_The_Boat  32 | 1522  
24 Aug 2009 /  #2
Sebastian

Aa... friend. Hello! Its customary here to be English (probably one of the main reason for which I am here... its good for my linguistic skills :) ).

English ladies... many in here. They should be happy. What are the basic differences between an English woman and a Polish one... can you mention them?
rebsengland  1 | 6  
24 Aug 2009 /  #3
speaking as an english woman, my furture h2b on our first date opened doors for me (he still does) and was a real gentleman. He didn't have an expensive car or wore the latest fashion but he was smartly dressed and he complemented me, he was polite and didn't overstep boundries. He gave me a nice gift at the end of our first date, 2 and a half years later we are palnning our wedding for next year and couldn't be happier.

Sebby just be yourself and you can't go wrong.
SzwedwPolsce  11 | 1589  
24 Aug 2009 /  #4
As you can see there are such relationships. So, yes it can work out.
Good Luck!
LukeXX  4 | 75  
24 Aug 2009 /  #5
Let the English girls give you their opinions.
OP SebbyFowler9  1 | 14  
26 Aug 2009 /  #6
Thanks a lot

Hi

Thanks a lot. Can you guide me where, when and how I should approach my future English lady to do it in a proper way. I don`t wanna one night stand, but a proper relationship.

I`m not bad lookin` bloke, but with so many Poles in this country I don`t wanna be seen as a migrant..............
ShelleyS  14 | 2883  
28 Aug 2009 /  #7
I`ve always had a soft spot for English women

Why?
sausage  19 | 775  
28 Aug 2009 /  #8
I`ve always had a soft spot for English women`s

me too, quick sand
aphrodisiac  11 | 2427  
28 Aug 2009 /  #11
Just wondering if any English lass could advise me how I could attract an English beauty to myself?

first you need to find that beauty, then start talking to her, then....................maybe you could state some more details bout yourself?
CzarnyBiala  1 | 8  
28 Aug 2009 /  #12
Sebastien,

There is no magic formula.

I dont know your circumstances but the best way to get know new people (and this way potential dates) is to get doing things.

You may spend a lot of time with Polish speaking friends which is great but if you want to meet more british people then this wont really work.

So try some new things... Britain is a friendly place, if you are a good guy you will be fine.

So some new hobbies is good idea - say sports- running , cycling, climbing etc etc there are lots of clubs like this in yorkshire.

Dont like sport? What about joining local classes in something, books/cinema groups or charity. Join them and you will meet new people. Dont get focussed on "finding a woman" enjoy yourself, be yourself and the rest will follow...

Ever notice how people are attracted to fun, happy people than those desperate for dates?
ShelleyS  14 | 2883  
28 Aug 2009 /  #13
So try some new things... Britain is a friendly place

Britain can be a friendly place, but there are plenty out there who are not. Its a mine field for an English guy out of a weekend trying to speak to a large group of girls, this guy is Polish it's unchartered territory for him.

So some new hobbies is good idea - say sports- running , cycling, climbing etc etc there are lots of clubs like this in yorkshire.

Mostly blokes go to these clubs, so unless he's changed his mind and fancies batting for the other side, its not the best suggetion.

What about joining local classes in something, books/cinema groups or charity.

I really dont think the above is going to help him find a girl, but he might make some new friends.

Ever notice how people are attracted to fun, happy people than those desperate for dates?

Whats that supposed to mean?

By the way are you an English woman?

first you need to find that beauty, then start talking to her, then....................maybe you could state some more details bout yourself?

Bingo.
CzarnyBiala  1 | 8  
28 Aug 2009 /  #14
Shelley,

I was merely being positive and speaking with experience of different countries, if i struck the wrong tone then hands up.

Your right Britain is what is, some good some bad people but it could be said for many countries I have been to. Nowhere's perfect. Polska's pretty good :-)

Making new friends by joining new groups will increase social circle making it more likely to meet girls. I disagree- try a starbucks/coffee store book club- mostly female! I wasnt encouraging homosexuality....

In my experience women are not aliens, not creatures to be hunted. Often seems that guys who soley chase for dates may seem desperate to women and not many people like desperate personality. If seb is himself, enjoys himself then he is an attractive happy guy.
ShelleyS  14 | 2883  
28 Aug 2009 /  #15
I disagree- try a starbucks/coffee store book club- mostly female!

It might be and he might meet someone there, he might also increase his knowlege about athors so its not a bad idea ;0)

Anyway, he's best off just getting himself out there rather than asking for advice on a forum, everyone has different expectations and views, only he knows what he wants.

Im just curious to know what he finds so appealing about English women since our own spend half their lives complaining abouut us! Or making snide remarkes like midget boy!
CzarnyBiala  1 | 8  
28 Aug 2009 /  #16
Yep your spot on.

It may the intrigue of something different.

Speaking for myself, women from different countries can be interesting, behave differently, there is probably an exotic factor there too.

Also what is appreciated by people and tastes in different countries varies. Take for example something as trivial as ginger haired guys.Not really liked in UK perhaps but in other countries it is almost a badge of honour!
OP SebbyFowler9  1 | 14  
3 Sep 2009 /  #17
CzarnyBiala

Hope u r alr8 bud. Cheers 4 answer.

How long u`ve been livin` in Poland then?

S
clairejane  1 | 5  
3 Nov 2009 /  #18
The best advice you could receive is to be your self. Plus the English love the accent in my opinion so you cant really go wrong ;)
PennBoy  76 | 2429  
24 Nov 2009 /  #19
Of course it can work you just gotta find the right one, good luck bro
cable  3 | 42  
24 Nov 2009 /  #20
I totally agree here. I am an English Woman and I have been dating my wonderful Polish guy for almost a year!!! Happy Days :-)
Forfour44  9 | 94  
24 Nov 2009 /  #21
Sebastian

I'm an English Man with a Polish Woman.
Polish Women are 100x better then the English Women of young.

MOVE AWAY FROM YORKSHIRE!!! There are not many good women in Yorkshire left. The good ones are taken and the ones are left even the English Men wouldn't take.
Amathyst  19 | 2700  
24 Nov 2009 /  #22
I'm an English Man with a Polish Woman.

Good for you.

Polish Women are 100x better then the English Women of young.

What all of them?

There are not many good women in Yorkshire left.

Hilarious.

The good ones are taken

No, they're not, they just dont want to date you, there are plenty of lasses about who are inteligent and attractive, they just dont pay you any attention (no wonder with your pittyful attitute)

and the ones are left even the English Men wouldn't take.

More for nice Polish men, good deal if you ask me if you are an example of an English man from Yorkshire. Poor attitude and no respect.
jonni  16 | 2475  
25 Nov 2009 /  #23
if you are an example of an English man from Yorkshire

Trust me, he's not a good example of a Yorkshireman. I however am. :-)

Sounds indeed like the women there don't want to date him. Wonder why he thinks Polish women will be any different? Maybe he hopes their knowledge of the English language will ensure they don't understand the crap he talks.
Forfour44  9 | 94  
25 Nov 2009 /  #24
I'm not from Yorkshire. But i know alot of Girls from Yorkshire. and only around 5% of them are nice. Yes i've dated a few.

Plus i think Polish Women are smarter them most or Women.
wildrover  98 | 4430  
25 Nov 2009 /  #25
Where in Yorkshire are you Sebastien...? I am a Yorkshireman , so might be able to give you some advice.... I don,t live in Yorkshire now of course...i moved to Polska five years ago...
Michal  - | 1865  
25 Nov 2009 /  #27
quick sand

So are Polish women!
DannyJ  - | 129  
25 Nov 2009 /  #28
I`ve always had a soft spot for English women

You need to see a doctor :)

No only joking, just never seen a polish guy with an english girl,, anyhow I thought Polish guys liked stick thin woman???
Amathyst  19 | 2700  
25 Nov 2009 /  #29
and only around 5% of them are nice.

Blimey, did you conduct a survey? I'm impressed :D What were the other 95%

Plus i think Polish Women are smarter them most or Women.

Evidently it doesnt take much to be smarter than you!

anyhow I thought Polish guys liked stick thin woman???

There are plenty of stick thin English women sweety.

just never seen a polish guy with an english girl

Then that must have been scotch mist I was having a coffee with tonight :D
wildrover  98 | 4430  
26 Nov 2009 /  #30
There are plenty of Polish guys with English girlfriends , and English wives and English guys with Polish women....There is no reason why international relationships wouldn,t work as well as any other....My son has a Polish girlfriend , and is very happy with her , i am just begining a relationship with a Russian woman , the world is shrinking , lets mix up the gene pool a little , its good for the human race....!

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