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"In Poland a lot of women work and their men don't"? [7]
Long but I need a help with this :)
I am from a different culture in which a man supports his woman financially , but am a bit different and it's ok if I Help with the finance.
Now the thing is that am married to a guy who is half polish and half like me :D
he's doing his Master degree , he goes to university 3 days a week after each day he stays at home . other than this he's doing nothing.
I am working as a teacher (just month ago I found the job) , but the money I bring is not enough at all (his tickets to university is half my salary)!! and he won't even look for a job
saying : in Poland lots of women work and their men don't !
supporting that with the fact that he's studying !
am not asking for 24/7 job , am just asking him to work in the weekend !!!!!!!!!
am so frustrated , broke and tired !
so am I putting too much pressure on him to work 2 days a week ? or does it work this way in Poland?
oh and add to that , do polish men (as Europeans) believe in the quality of "being the man of the house and being responsible for his woman"? because he says that this is only in our culture but in Poland it's ok if he's not supporting his woman and he's not acting manly ! I mean am doing everything like everything under the name "there's not such a thing called being the man in Poland"