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Joined: 19 Oct 2010 / Female ♀ 		Last Post: 11 Dec 2010
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Posts: Total: 42 / In This Archive: 35 		From: England, Manchester
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Atosha   
18 Jul 2011
Love / Help - evil Polish girl after my partner. [39]

Hun, your fella has manned up and basically told her to do one. (Back the hell of)
If that has fallen on her deaf ears then that's her business. The skank clearly doesn't care for her own well being and that's why she cuts herself so why should you.

Don't get me wrong but your giving her to much of your energy, she clearly is immature and needs to stop her foolishness
Atosha   
17 Jul 2011
Love / Help - evil Polish girl after my partner. [39]

Just front her in front of everyone. If your fella has done something with this person in the past i.e before your time you will soon find out. Also if your fella respects you he will tell her to stop her nonsense.
Atosha   
1 Mar 2011
Love / Polish traditions and parents (I was dating this Polish guy..) [72]

lol talking online does not mean anything to me. since i know how he is online when he talks he is no smooth charmer online and alot of the time he is not smooth in person either

I would never vouch for someone that goes online to talk to strangers whilst they are supposed to be in a relationship no chance. And whether he isn't smooth to you online that doesn't mean he isn't being smooth with someone else.

You are seeing him as you see yourself as an innocent person but trust me not, if he was in a relationship with you for 4 months why have you never been introduced to his brothers? let alone you have seen them in work.

You seem like a really nice person, try not to let love blind your eyes it happens to the best of us :)
Atosha   
28 Feb 2011
Love / Why does my Polish boyfriend keep telling his mum our private business everytime we have words? [49]

Thank you for all comments but like I said the relationship is now over.

Doesn't everyone deserve a chance in life? As some of you may not notice when you first meet someone they watch everything they say and do but once they get there foot under the table you start to see who they really are.

And as for the above comment :You was so desperate and horny that you'd f*ck anyone:
Please don't lower yourself, you may conduct yourself like that but I don't. And by the way I don't need anyone giving me anything I have my own thank you very much.
Atosha   
27 Feb 2011
Love / Why does my Polish boyfriend keep telling his mum our private business everytime we have words? [49]

Send him back to his mummy...

No need, he never left her in the first place

Theres Audis and theres Audis.
I wish I did get him that model but I actually got him the TT

Atosha: She says I am not good enough for her son and it hurts me cause all I have done is love him.
So shes Polish right? living in the UK with her Polish son Maciek?
Yes he came here first and then sent for her 3 years ago

does his mum have issues with your colour do you think?
No not at all, she is just jelous and thinks she is going to lose her son to me.
My only crime is to love him and give him a little taster of what our future could be like if we work hard together
Atosha   
27 Feb 2011
Love / Why does my Polish boyfriend keep telling his mum our private business everytime we have words? [49]

I was only treating him they way I would treat anyone I was in a relationship with. I didn't mind buying him the car it was a birthday present and the holiday was a chance for him and I to go away and relax and spend quality time together. As for his mum she has developed and distaste for me. She says I am not good enough for her son and it hurts me cause all I have done is love him.

She doesn't want me at her house because when I am there her english boyfriend wants to speak to me and she feels like she is being ignored so she shouted at me to get out of her house. Albeit she will never get the chance to do that again.

And I have to book him in advance if I want him to sleep over, you know what! I have answered my own question, I should move on and find a real man and not a boy sitting on the end of his mothers skirt.
Atosha   
27 Feb 2011
Love / Why does my Polish boyfriend keep telling his mum our private business everytime we have words? [49]

No, he has two sisters and he has gone mad when one of his sisters was being treated like rubbish, but he wants to do the same to me.

I feel like a fool because I gave him a chance to man up so I bought him an Audi for his birthday and I paid for us to go to the seychelles in july and now he has asked me if we are finished for good can he go with his mum on our holiday because he was looking forward to it and his mum says she would like to go.
Atosha   
27 Feb 2011
Love / Why does my Polish boyfriend keep telling his mum our private business everytime we have words? [49]

Your right perhaps its time for me to get more firm with him.
But can I just ask you please is it true that when your a boy then your mum is number 1, when you are a man your mum is still number 1, but from when you are having an adult relationship your girlfriend is number 1 and your mum is 1.1?

That how I see it and surely I can't be wrong.
If it wasn't for him telling her all our business we would be living together and looking forward to a great future. But his mum says no he is to stay living with her until she says so, how can I compete with that?
Atosha   
27 Feb 2011
Love / Why does my Polish boyfriend keep telling his mum our private business everytime we have words? [49]

I am beginning to feel like my boyfriend is a mummys boy. Everytime something happens he keeps saying my mum does this or my mum does that so I have to because I am his girlfriend and it really puts me off.

I keep telling him to man up and drop the foolishness and he goes straight to his mum and tells her word for word what we have been talking about.

He is 27 and I am reaching the end of my sweetness with him, what can I do, or say to him to save this relationship? my heart hurts so much because I love him so much, will he ever man up?
Atosha   
15 Dec 2010
Love / Should I still go to my Polish ex boyfriends parents house for Christmas? [13]

I dumped my boyfriend today because of his immature ways.

For the first few weeks everything was great and he could do no wrong, then one day when we were eating dinner at the kitchen table he started repeating everything what I was saying and I told him to stop and he just carried on until I walked away. He said sorry and that he wouldn't do it again and the next day without fail he did it again so this time I took my food into the living room and eat my food there. From then I don't eat with him anymore. After that he has done other stupid immature things that just get on my nerves and we argue about they way he acts and it just falls on deaf ears.

Today we were at work and he filled his 2 litre water bottle and walked up to me and pretended to throw the water in my face and he stood there laughing. I was so shocked and people in work saw what he done and asked me if I wanted to report him as it is deemed as a form of bullying. I said no but I sent him a text telling him its over and he's not to expect me to go to his mum's for Christmas dinner.

Anyway he sent me a text back asking me to still go to his mum's for Christmas dinner as his mum will get mad if she finds out he has not been treating good as she really likes me.

Why should I go to his mum's and pretend everything is going good when he is immature and not ready for an adult relationship?
Atosha   
4 Nov 2010
Love / Fell in love; I need to go back to Poland for 2 months - what to say at work (UK) [50]

im not looking for your opinions on something i have not or not planning on doing (maybe set up a new thread to discuss your strong beliefs on this) i am simply looking for some guidance.

But to be honest you was planning on doing as you wrote this:
So I'm thinking that maybe we should give this a try for about 2 months and then we'll both see if this is working for us. If it will the choice is going to be really easy but if it won't I'd like to come back and get my life in here back. Which means that I'd like to go back to my current job (which I like pretty much by the way). So to arrange that I'd need to take an unpaid holidays or give a medical certificate of temporary work disability or something..or maybe should I just tell a truth and hope for understanding.. ??? What should I do????

You should understand that people are entitled to have there say as it was you that asked the question in the first place. Being responsible is also about taking the positive with the negative. If you wrote something in the heat of the moment fine but please don't be to quick to get angry.

Anyway perhaps you should speak to the HR department at your work place as you clearly don't know about your company policys. In most company's you can only take of 3 weeks with the written consent of management and you are not entitled to unpaid leave unless there is a very good reason and even then you have to provide proof and its only 5 days you would get. So no matter how you do it you would not get the 2 months you are looking for.

Good luck
Atosha   
29 Oct 2010
Love / Being Taken For A Idiot by my Polish girlfriend? [37]

Hun, I never said ignore her, I said give her the sweet taste.

i.e make sure you look great at all times, be extra nice to everyone and the most important thing you must do is smile all the time do not jump when she wants you to.

Do not let her know that you feel upset at the way she treats you. She will soon straighten up. You must learn how to play the game and you will be fine.
Atosha   
29 Oct 2010
Love / Being Taken For A Idiot by my Polish girlfriend? [37]

I hate to say this but she is making a fool out of you. She can only treat you like that if you allow her to.

Give her the sweet taste of her own medicine and she will soon stop her child like behaviour.
Atosha   
27 Oct 2010
Love / Filipina married a Polish man, need more advice [90]

my Polish bf lie to me, he told me that he was divorced and no kids but turns up he has kids and wife and living in the same house and not divorce. Does he has any reason to lie to me because I told him that I prefer to meet someone with no kids? Please advice

wait a minute you wrote this Oct 11, 10, 16:41 but on Dec 2, 09, 14:06, 10 months earlier on a thread called How will i explain to him I'm not ready to marry him. you wrote:

we will get married but not this time. i know in my heart that he is the one i want to marry but i just want to spend more time so u know in the future if the real colors will come out no regrets and will not cost him money for the divorce.... hehehehe

Lies you knew he was married and not divorced, he never lied to you.

You should be ashamed of yourself lying about your situation, you knew he was married from day one. So from December 2009 till October 2010 you were laughing saying if the real colors come out no regrets and will not cost him money for the divorce. You are a skank looking for people to feel sorry for you and this proves you got pregnant on purpose. All you are doing is looking for people to feel sorry for you and some nice woman on here that may have felt sorry for your situation is probably the mans wife. SHAME ON YOU.