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Virtual Relationship of an Asian girl with a Polish man [43]
well, phi
i hope u guys really work out
im havin a relationship exactly like yours now ;) except that we're in our 7th months nd hes hopefully comin in summer
u ask if hes a player or if u can rly make sure he loves u. well, honestly, u cant.
but, in da same way u fear of dat, u know for sure u cant let all this go for nuthin. think of it like...u're neva wastin ur time with him. if u get ur heart broken then u know hes the one who made u smile once. that should be enough for u to know u can move on. [seriously though, he betta not break ur heart. :P ]
but, as much as u consider him perfect nd everythin, be careful NOT to give him everythin.
cuz u still havent met ion real.
just be you, the girl he loves nd who does her best for her bf. in da same way, be sure that men dunt like to be followed or takin care of as much as girls. su dunt question him bout his calls or why he got 5 mins late. just ask for him to have fun nd be considerate of his "quality time" with his friends. encourage to go out nd dunt cage him.
it works pretty fine when u understand how free they "need" to be nd how "attached" they would be if u do that.
he would be back to u tellin u how much fun he had like a baby talkin to his mom XD
to make it more surprising to you, my polish bf nd i met on a drawin site cuz we both enjoyed it. nd in 3 months he quit drinkin nd smokin weed. [i have access to his emails nd accounts nd talk to his perverted friends XD they tell me bout him...even the ones who dont like him talks how much he changed for me..we even send stuff by post to make it more physical...]
so dunt lose ur hope phi, but dunt bet all u have on it too
gd luck ;)
