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Poland after one year of living here [105]
I agree with Paulina about watching what you wish for. I started chatting with Polish people and it tok a bit but once they open up they really open up and can keep you for a while. But in the end I love it.
Atch, that was a great story! What an excellent gesture to take the couple a gift, I find gifts and food are excellent ways to open doors and hearts. I got to know my new neighbors by bringing them pies, cookies and other American baked goods. If you can cook or bake at all do it and share.
I think the advice from above that you may have to expand your horizons and open your "nope" category to allow for more opportunities to socialize. I will be honest, I am not much of a drinker. But in being social having a drink does help and also loosens people up a bit. I will have a glass of wine while the group have a bottle.