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Jojosz   
29 Jun 2019
Law / Child support in remarriage and child support increase for adult children in Poland [10]

My husband has two daughters from a previous marriage, his daughters are 16 and 19. The 19 year old recently sued him for more child support. I have two sons, 5 and 2 years old. My husbands salary is less than mine as he is a rhythmic teacher. His salary pays our rent and child support and he is left with enough for fuel. I generally take care of education (one of my sons is autistic and the other is on day care so that I can work), food, clothing and everything else as I have a better paying job.

My question is, is my money a determining factor in his daughters child support increase?
And if I divorced, what are the child support terms for both the girls and my sons?
If the petition is passed, I will be paying the rent too, and I see no point anymore.
Jojosz   
29 Jun 2019
Law / Child support in remarriage and child support increase for adult children in Poland [10]

@pawian thank you, I will check the link. I meant will the child support be reviewed for all 4 children or my sons will be viewed separately? He threatened to kill himself if I divorced him. I don't mind taking care of our boys, if it comes to that. I just want all the knowledge I can get to prepare myself.
Jojosz   
29 Jun 2019
Law / Child support in remarriage and child support increase for adult children in Poland [10]

@pawian, I honestly don't know what to do. The court hearing for child support increase is this Tuesday. Even if I applied for divorce now, it's a long process. I suggested divorce but he told me he will kill himself, as he cannot imagine paying child support for 4 children. That's why I said I don't mind taking full responsibility of our two sons if we divorce, so he can pay only for the daughters if it means, he won't be strained some more. I am trying to weigh in on an option that suits everyone.
Jojosz   
29 Jun 2019
Law / Child support in remarriage and child support increase for adult children in Poland [10]

@pawian, he is a good father but our marriage has been a struggle. I have always been put second, esp the first year of marriage. I tried to be supportive, I still am but it always goes back to being second. The ex has more power, she can blackmail him and extort but he does nothing. He always seems afraid... I can't fight his battles. No, I don't love him but I am horribly empathetic...