Law / Major Issue with Poland's Residence Card! I have Polish wife, but no job, passport, I'm seeking for asylum. [9]

Hello House,
I will go straight to the point;
I am an asylum seeker; i have with me an ID card TYMCZASOWE ZASWIADCZENIE TOZSAMOSCI CUDZOZIEMCA, I just got married to my Polish wife some last month, i want to amend my card to the Residence card, to enable me work!

So far my case has been a straight, but i don't know how to go about this i want the best advice from the experienced people on the forum as a matter of urgency.

The major issue is this:
-I dont have my national passport with me, if i want to apply for one i can only do this in Berlin, of which i am not permitted to travel out of Poland with the ID that i have.

- My wife is not currently working all our finances that covers the rent and every other expenses comes from my family monthly they support us with $400.

The question is:
1.Must my wife have a job before i can apply for the residence card as i will not be able to work during this process?

2. Can i apply for this card without my passport, having understand that i cannot travel outside Poland to get my passport, every information about me is as written on my TYMCZASOWE ZASWIADCZENIE TOZSAMOSCI CUDZOZIEMCA.

3.During this process, can i enroll for a driving school? so i wont be sleeping at home doing nothing
Now i want to know the possibility of me applying for the residence card based on marriage in my City and not having to complicate the whole matter. I can apply for this in OPOLE, Poland.

Thank you in advance