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drew123   
29 Dec 2011
Love / Problem with my Polish boyfriend [74]

Hi everyone!

i need your help please.

...im having problems with my boy friend. He left to go back to Poland in November and should be back in February.

We spent 8 lovely months getting to know each other, but since he's been home it's like we are living two separate lives. He told me that we would talk every night but that's just not happened.

He's taken to ignoring my calls/texts and even saying he has left his phone at home or at his sisters... iv asked out right if he is with someone else but he say's no.

The thing that's really upsetting me is that when I ask what he's been up to or plans for the evening he just say's he with his friends, he wont tell me their names when I ask.. I just find that weird.

I called him the other night and he did not answer, but I got a text saying that he was at his friends and would I mind if we talk tomorrow as he was in bed watching titanic and playing on the computer at his friends house...

I know for a fact that he would not be happy if I did that to him... it's like one rule for him and another for me.

i just feel like im hitting my head against a brick wall!
drew123   
29 Dec 2011
Love / Problem with my Polish boyfriend [74]

watching Titanic around his friends house!! who does that?

you just made me smile for the first time in a couple of days thanks!!! (that's what i was thinking!!)
drew123   
29 Dec 2011
Love / Problem with my Polish boyfriend [74]

yes i did get the call at christmas, thanks for your reply's but i really dont need to hear that he is with someone else.

i may have not been Special to him, but he is to me.

Appreciate your comments but I think I will just leave it at that as it is very upsetting for me.

Thanks again.

actually im going to disagree.. i dont think he is cheating on me. he is not like that.
we have made plans for next year and they are going to happen.

i think we are just a problem at the moment thats all.
drew123   
29 Dec 2011
Love / Problem with my Polish boyfriend [74]

book a return ticket to Poland

we already talked about that and both came to the decision that i shouldn't visit till next september.. but the reason he went home was because his flat is run down (in the old quarter of przemysl) and he is working on it, it's just him and his mum at home..

quote=PennBoy]Well you shouldn't jump to conclusions or stalk him [/quote]

guess not.. but being intrested in what someones doing wrong?

Does he look at you like he sincerely likes you and is into you? Or just faking it?

he isn't faking it. he's one of my best friend's.. that's why it's confusing
drew123   
30 Dec 2011
Love / Problem with my Polish boyfriend [74]

i really dont think it's that simple anymore.. i have had difficult boyfriends before. but this is different
drew123   
30 Dec 2011
Love / Problem with my Polish boyfriend [74]

sorry.. im lost this isn't the place to talk. maybe im just a over complicated person.. like a lot of people have said on here.. im just being a typical female.. or he has a wife/girlfriend back home. i was just the stand in for when times were bad