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I need advice: divorce and my rights as a father in Poland [165]
I will read the report when I have spare time.
Evidently you don't have much "spare time" or do objective facts confuse you?
we are all suffering on PF..
"Ah suffer". (this video shows typical female response to Zimmy - difference is, Zimmy has blond hair and is much nicer looking :))
Upon getting married, men lose many rights, at least in western societies. That's because the male instinct is to protect women but it's gone way overboard. I don't recommend marriage for men because the institution of divorce discriminates against men.
1/ Half of all marriages end up in divorce and women initiate 70% of all divorces. The reason for that is women have less to lose for a variety of reasons including support services which are denied men.
2/ Men lose the house and half the assets (or more) after a divorce. Women sometimes get government assistance as well.
3/ Men lose custody of the children 89% of the time and their visiting times are frequently and informally controlled by the mother of the children.
4/ The Violence Against Women Act (VAWA), means that your wife can call 911, claim abuse or simply be afraid of you, have you arrested with no evidence and get a restraining order put against you, again with no evidence. There is no corresponding act for men. False accusations are at an all time high.
5/ In the U.S. the Bradley Amendment ensures that if you lose your job or become injured, alimony & child support will not be adjusted & if you can't pay, you will be imprisoned while your obligations continue to mount. No excuses.
6/ Approximately 10% - 12% of children are not the fathers' but the financial responsibility is still there for them even after a divorce (women cheat as often as men).
7/ Too many women use their husbands as their sperm bank, walking ATM, wage slave, retirement fund and whipping boy. It's how they've been raised by womens magazines, articles, books, gender studies, and the "You go girl" mentality.
It's safer for men to play Russian Roulette.
Reminder: the reality of this thread is based in POLAND, not in the USA.