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aphrodisiac   
14 Mar 2010
Love / I don't know if she's married and I don't speak Polish - help me romantic folks [55]

. Her cousin works there so I could ask her,mind you, I might aswell just ask her herself!

well, the sooner the better, so you can plan your next step:). You don't want to obsess about somebody who might not be available.

Good luck:)

Hector, you really make me laugh, what difference does it make if ur gonna ask her out in English or Polish?

If she is stupid enough to misunderstand a simple question about going out in English what would you do after on a date, are u gonna hire an interpreter? lol

oh, shut it;)
aphrodisiac   
14 Mar 2010
Love / I don't know if she's married and I don't speak Polish - help me romantic folks [55]

well, it would be good if you found out if she is available first. Maybe there is somebody at work who knows. Being smart about is is my advice, but you don't seem to need it anyways, since you come across as a person who has things together. Find out if she is planning to stay in the country for longer or she is just there for employment and is planning to go back.

PS. I just got a wedding invitation from an Irish man who used to be a member of this forum and he is getting married to a Polish woman soon. All I can say that there was a time that he might have been in your position and we talked about it.
aphrodisiac   
14 Mar 2010
UK, Ireland / No job unless you're Polish [201]

If an English person is turned down for a job because he doesnt speak Polish then its wrong, what other perspective is there to look at it from?

It is, but we are discussing an Irish company, aren't we? I think it is not fair to the Irish for sure or people who don't speak Polish.

I can post some links about how hard the Brits worked and fought for the rights of workers, if you like? These rights are being destroyed.

there is no need, I am aware of the situation. Things like that happen here as well and it appears that I happen to be too white to get a job, or that I am overeducated, or my English skills are too advanced and on, and on.

Its all about supply and demand, if the supply outstrips the demand then we have a problem and this is becoming a problem in the UK.

I would say worldwide, since less and less countries are insular and the biggest "import" % wise is import of the labour - I think I posted that at least 2 years ago on this board.
aphrodisiac   
14 Mar 2010
UK, Ireland / No job unless you're Polish [201]

Just doesn't feel right.

well, what is he reason for using Spanish. If there are a lot of Mexican customers- then I see no problem with that. Business is business is business and it adjust to the market in order to be compatible, no?

.You are looking at it from a different perspective, so I understand you are quite ignorant about how my countrymen feel.

he is looking at it from the right perspective. The business owners initiated it and you just find it as a fuel to bash immigrants. He is not ignorant how you feel, he has a DIFFERENT opinion.

Give me the Mexicans anyday over the poles and turks.

people are not things and so change your guest workers policy or simply fek off with you silly post, which only causes havoc on this board and puts people against each other. You just stir **** because you like it.

I need a helmet from BB;)
aphrodisiac   
14 Mar 2010
History / just before the war the Polish/Ukrainian szlachta learned Ukrainian [243]

She is very polish.How can one be so polish?Ha ha I noticed that in Greece too.

some people cannot help themselves I think and the Polish identity is ALL they have. It helps them to deal with other culture, or cope with different cultures. Whether is is a GOOD thing or not, it is not up to me to decide, but there is a certain degree of superiority of their own culture, or inferiority. In reality, it is good to work out a balance of implementing both in my opinion. What works in one culture, might not work in another. Of course there is also the issue of flexibility, acceptance and tolerance and by reading Ksysia's blog - she seems to struggle with those. However, she is HONEST enough to admit it, even if it is expressed between the lines in her blog. However, the last entry where she says that Brits steel from her is an indication that she might be loosing touch with reality by concentrating ONLY on negative things in the UK.
aphrodisiac   
14 Mar 2010
History / just before the war the Polish/Ukrainian szlachta learned Ukrainian [243]

Dear foreigners, LOL. What a patronising remark! Another Polish patriot living abroad, ROTFL.

yep, rubs me the wrong way too:). Don't worry your little head about it Seanus;P. Ksysia rides a horse in the UK, that is why.

Try reading her blog- you would be changed forever.
aphrodisiac   
14 Mar 2010
USA, Canada / Are you a US citizen? Test for Americans. [67]

And Aphro as a Ukrainian I know you feel the need to unite with your Eastern brothers but they would throw you under the bus in an instant if it benefited them so might rethink that. Poles treat Ukraine the way they complain that others treat them...shows that anyone will take the chance to be the "boss".

Oh, I know that very well, you have no idea, however I refuse to gang up on Poland without some solid argument and cause and only if I have a case. I lived in Poland for a long time, so it is possible that I am much more tolerant and I take many things for granted. I can relate to a lot of things in Poland without having my cage rattled:)

Also, I have no need to unite with anybody, I think for myself most of the time and don't have a wolf pack attitude. I disagree with Ukrainians too on certain issues but that is another story.

I am tired of arguing, so dobranoc.
aphrodisiac   
14 Mar 2010
USA, Canada / Are you a US citizen? Test for Americans. [67]

I am not defending anything but the laws and ethics of my nation. It is hardly the same thing as being "offended" by criticism...lots of things wrong with the US also. Though it is a convenient way for people here to dismiss me.

oh boy. Well, I hope that the future will bring something brighter to you soon. I mean it.
aphrodisiac   
14 Mar 2010
USA, Canada / Are you a US citizen? Test for Americans. [67]

did he say ethnically?

no, I made a mistake.

I was legal all the way and I have complained about how corrupt that process is here and it was part of the reason I left.

corrupt process ? hmmm .....I missed your complaining about it.

Not all of us play by Polish ETHICAL standards.

you obviously failed miserably, but many posting in this board have not.

I don't think anything good happened to you in Poland, how long has it been?

I don't even know how one can compare Poland to US when it comes to immigration law.
aphrodisiac   
14 Mar 2010
USA, Canada / Are you a US citizen? Test for Americans. [67]

The only reason such policies exist is because of the lobbying of immigrant groups...fool.

so how come you were allowed to cheat the Polish system when you were working in Poland - because this is WHAT you did, right?
aphrodisiac   
14 Mar 2010
USA, Canada / Are you a US citizen? Test for Americans. [67]

Ethically and legally he is in the wrong.

how can anybody be ethnically wrong lol

Screw the Americans who need jobs...let's get our Polish buddies hooked up so they can milk the system.

it is an American gov hiring policy you fool. She said it.
aphrodisiac   
13 Mar 2010
Life / COMBATING "POLACK" JOKES [460]

I guess you have not Juche yet. He has a distinct style:)
aphrodisiac   
13 Mar 2010
History / just before the war the Polish/Ukrainian szlachta learned Ukrainian [243]

sorry Nathan but unlike Ukraine with its huge Russian minority Polish minorities are ethnically and culturally Polish

you wanted to say integrated Sokrates. Ukrainian Russian minority's number is much larger then the small % of ethnic minorities in Poland, so you are probably right that Ukraine has a much less stable situation due to its make up.

Ukraine would be better off without Russian minority because it acts as a Trojan Horse for RUssian interests.
So you stated the obvious, so.....what now?
aphrodisiac   
12 Mar 2010
Life / I'm from Polish descent. CAN YOU GUYS EXPLAIN THE EU TO ME? [115]

Thankfully, there are a lot of books to choose from.

I agree. I was raised in a tolerant home (in Poland and my parents were not hippies- just decent folks who worked hard and understood that tolerance makes you life hell lot better), so I keep thanking my mother for it.
aphrodisiac   
12 Mar 2010
Life / I'm from Polish descent. CAN YOU GUYS EXPLAIN THE EU TO ME? [115]

Isn't the whole so called gay movement is "backwards" by definition?

not in my books, nor in any inclusive society.

I would agree that CC has influence but is not ruling. That's the huge difference.

that is another topic all together.

In the vacuum situation it's better to have church reminding people about moral code and responsible behavior than letting people go wild.

I did not make a judgement, just an observation. I agree that there are certain values instilled by CC which benefit the society and keep it cohesive. However, if that said CC values do not allow to include whole society, I see a problem.
aphrodisiac   
12 Mar 2010
Life / I'm from Polish descent. CAN YOU GUYS EXPLAIN THE EU TO ME? [115]

I honestly don't think that this is what the OP meant Bzibzi.
Are you saying that between 1989 and accession to the EU there was a total lawlessness in Poland? with the EU membership Poles can appeal to the Human Rights Court if they are wrongly treated by their domestic law. That is a great opportunity for those, who for the lack of better option have a chance to find the justice.

And speaking of lack of secular values you made it sound like Poland is ruled by the church

to a certain degree. Catholic church has put a lot of effort to dominate the lives of Polish citizens once the communist was no longer in power. There was a vacuum and CC filled the space, at least it tried.

There are secular values in Poland, but the question is to what degree.
Or do you mean that Poland is so backward as to not accept gay marriages, gay adoptions, state-sponsored abortion, euthanasia etc with open arms because it is such a brilliant idea and beneficial to us all?

not backward, less tolerant in comparison to other new members of EU.
aphrodisiac   
11 Mar 2010
Life / COMBATING "POLACK" JOKES [460]

Like here:

brilliant BB- thank God for another perspective, I guess if one wants jokes about their nationality one should just ask for them;)

*going into hidding*
aphrodisiac   
10 Mar 2010
History / just before the war the Polish/Ukrainian szlachta learned Ukrainian [243]

To us, the national processes meant that all the various local tribes, Mazovians, Lemkos, Germans even

lol, I was really trying hard to take what you write seriously, but I think that you cannot be. German tribes lol.

What you have done in Ukraine was to sign out of the Common Thing for a separate national interest. It's like separating a part of Canada or US on the basis that a majority of, say, Puerto-Ricans live there.

you are loosing me again.

Nation should not matter, citizenship matters for us.

make up your mind, you are confused. It is irrelevant what matters to you really.

So when you are saying that Ukrainians were suffering for the Kingdom to rise back from the ashes - you should have suffered more. You should have made sacrifices like the children in Warsaw Uprising. You would have now belonged to what will be made beautiful again. But you sided with the Devil, and the Devil, Stalin, had starved you to death.

oh, so now you are changing the tune. Interesting.

You know what? Go back to writing you silly blog, at least there will be less people exposed to the rubbish you keep producing. Unbelievable stuff indeed.

I really, really tried to see some light in your posts but it appears that my effort was futile.

Good luck with buying the house in the Ukraine, I would reconsider if I were you lol

Please, don't bother with replying, I rather you spent your time on something else.
aphrodisiac   
9 Mar 2010
History / just before the war the Polish/Ukrainian szlachta learned Ukrainian [243]

Uff, thanks for having a mature discussion.

it is hard, isn't it?

The 'from here' is not about patronizing someone, this is what people anywhere in the world call themselves before the modernist idea of nationality is popularized. Before nationalities there were villages, communities, Kings to identify oneself with. That's all I was saying.

I think it still prevails to a large degree. Unless somebody is a globetrotter. Most people derive their identity, including national identity from the place of their origin.

I watched a documentary about Hungarian Jews, who finally went to visit their home town after many years of living in another country and one of them said: this is home, this feels like home, so maybe this is what you were trying to convey here?

I really am not being patronizing, I am talking about the victims and the grief, not about being 'better'. Not sure why another nation seems to think we are cold, patronizing, aloof and other things. It's really simple - we are both proud and shy, not: feeling better, simply feeling not at home. That really is all.

point taken. Thank you.
aphrodisiac   
8 Mar 2010
Life / Mixed race girl in Poland, good idea? [149]

well, I have to agree with most of the points here. Good post.

Yeah, cut the philosophising and start to come to terms with reality, enkidu.

I think he already did tell you what he thinks and what you think about what he thinks is not going to change it LOL
aphrodisiac   
8 Mar 2010
History / just before the war the Polish/Ukrainian szlachta learned Ukrainian [243]

point taken. It would NOT be practical to say the least.

But there is one reason for which it's important to stick to the facts: facts are important in themselves, otherwise we end up with a Ministry of truth.

You lost me here.

So: don't exaggerate by saying that Poles were oppressors which is proven by slaying Poles. German Nazis proved that Poles were slaves by slaying Poles. We were and are neither of those things.

and where in my post did I say it? Poles oppressed Ukrainians - true. I repeat. Ukrainians were oppressed by Poles. Just to clarify in case you will run into denial again.

Now - did I try to pretend that Poland did not take down Churches, interfere with religion, ignore Ukrainian language? NOT. I said that was a wrong and stupid thing to do, though the leaders of the time thought it a good stratagem in the Russian conflict. But - to hack families to pieces??? UPA were as barking mad as Dirlewanger.

I never said such a thing, have I? Never mind what has driven the Poles to do that. I am not getting into that.

What I told you in November: at the time you were gaining a national Conscience, where you thought about yourselves as Ukrainians, instead as 'from here'.

I am not sure what you are referring to? Are you referring the the Orange revolution by any chance? If that is the case then I was in Poland at that time and I saw the immense support of Poles. However, I would like to to inform that for an average Ukrainian, me included, I have never though of myself : I am from there, so I find your comment tad patronizing to be honest.

I understand a lot of what happened, and that we stood in your way to your own identity.

No you did not, don't assume that much. When Poles were in Ukraine, they did, but they are not longer there, so there is no problem.

You have been aggressive. (I'm assuming you're Ukrainian from previous comments). And that's fine, this is not a peaceful land, there had been wars before. But to hack families to pieces???

Again, please stop being patronizing.

There is also the thing of Soviet regime, you were on the red side,

I was not there during those time, so I think that this comment is irrelevant, however I understand what you are trying to say.

So, the state of today - the borders are coming down, trips are going abroad to see Ukraine, it's pretty.

well, it is nice to see that you liked it.

I may buy property there. I hope you welcome my money.

Go ahead, I have nothing against it. If the government of Ukraine allows other nationalities to purchase property, it is up to them. I have no saying it this to be honest.

From what I understand, Ukraine is a separate country now and is interested in good trading, economic and political relationship with Poland, but this is it. It should be good enough for both parties, me thinks.
aphrodisiac   
8 Mar 2010
History / just before the war the Polish/Ukrainian szlachta learned Ukrainian [243]

I haven't written his comment was communist. I've written he WAS a prominent communist journalist. So, in fact, I have no willingness to read him today. I can recall some of his deceitful comments from 80s. I have enough of him. I don't read him - the biggest revenge I want (and can) execute upon him.

Then you did not read his comment then. I understand.

If you actually predicted your reaction, so what is your post for?

I posted it because I partly agree with his points.

To expose my mental weakness? ;-)

No, I don't know you well enough :).

Maybe you can consider, if he has some motives or sensitivities in his journalism common with Ukrainian journalists or opinion makers.

you might be onto something but if Jews were badly treated in Ukraine, then your logic does not make sense;)