Love / Polish Girl Doesn't Want To Touch. [240]


Marvin Gay was good. I had myself smiling 'listen". :)

If that doesn't work, he should het her a huge zirconian ring, and see what happens then. ;)

Love / Unmarried couples in Poland = pathology [310]

trener zolwia
I still don't want to talk to you.

Love / Unmarried couples in Poland = pathology [310]

SeanBM
I think I know why most people get married: because they think they'll have better chance of staying together. And this would be very noble, if it didn't imply a certain amount of mistrust - either in a partner or their own abilities.

It's a seemingly small distinction, but means a lot to me and it's somewhat similar to this: do you not steal because it's against the law or because it's wrong?

Life / Let`s compare prices of services and products in Poland [359]

you have to make it a percentage of average wages.

Love / Unmarried couples in Poland = pathology [310]


So, really why do people get married?
*If it's tradition, pressure, love, reckless abandon... none of them seem to be good enough to even get a tatoo!
*If it's insurance, economics, sense of safety - all false, judging from divorce rates and lawyers raking it in.
*If you think you're going to be a better person because you signed that paper - that hardly ever works. It's not the same thing like paying a lot of money for the gym will make you go more often.

To me, marriage does not represent commitment - staying together whether you're married or not, does. Seems much more so when you're not married.

Life / Let`s compare prices of services and products in Poland [359]

don't they have those things in McDonalds in US? If so, it's free.
Nevermind.. I guess yours is bigger.

Love / Polish Girl Doesn't Want To Touch. [240]


This is a perfect example of everyone reading into this what we want to read.
To me, the insult is, to both sides, the two days to decide if she'll sleep with him or not. Who forced the issue?? That is very ...unpolite

Love / Unmarried couples in Poland = pathology [310]


All true!
But "quaint" expectation of love, vs "idealized" past linked to duty... you're not telling us which world would you rather live in?

Love / Unmarried couples in Poland = pathology [310]


Congratulations. Honestly.
Another quick question, and I'm not baiting, I'm really curious about your opinion - do you think you two would last as long if you were not married? And if not, who would have bailed?

Love / Polish Girl Doesn't Want To Touch. [240]


yes, but here is the guy who is pressuring a girl to sleep with him, and honestly does not see anything wrong with it, and thinks that everyone thinks like him, too.

Love / Unmarried couples in Poland = pathology [310]

I'll just leave you guys to your theories, one quick question though - any of you are married?

Love / THE POLISH DISEASE, wanna marry a Polish girl ? read on... [197]

Just a guy going through a divorce. Venting. Wishing he didn't sign that piece of paper, no? ;)

Love / Unmarried couples in Poland = pathology [310]

Ah, Zimmy is here. So, back to violence... I think those statistics have more to do with socio-economics than the marital status. In my view, things get much worse if people cannot get away from each other because of economic reasons.

Love / Unmarried couples in Poland = pathology [310]


I don't want to talk to you at all.

Love / Unmarried couples in Poland = pathology [310]

And also, I think because lawyers were not involved in our spit, we are able to still be friends.

Love / Unmarried couples in Poland = pathology [310]


you really think so?? A guy that can't handle his woman bringing more money and having a carrer would have been helped by a legal paper?

Love / Unmarried couples in Poland = pathology [310]

markskibniewski
I think marriage is a sign distrust: "I love you honey, but do sign here. Also, this way, if you ever stop loving me, you'll have a hell of a time getting away."

I had a 10 year relationship that had everything but the legal paper. Boy was I glad it didn't when I went back to school and he decided that drinking solved all of his problems!

Love / THE POLISH DISEASE, wanna marry a Polish girl ? read on... [197]

I'm still curious as to what makes his girl so unhappy.
Sometimes "easy going" is a euphemism for lack of ambition.
Maybe she thought they would be conquering the world together, while his perfect weekend plan is a 12-pack and couple of games?
Two small kids and a football season?

Love / THE POLISH DISEASE, wanna marry a Polish girl ? read on... [197]

I actually know few of those Polish women! LOL
I think you have to have special um.. constitution for a Polish woman. You have to be able to take control. Otherwise she's always going to be looking for what is wrong and trying to fix it.

I don't mean you got to slap her around, you just have to remember that you've got the *ick.
;)
That said, this is a huge generalization - every woman is different. The best way is to establish early on what you can and cannot live without.

Which is easier said than done. That's why me and my bf live in two different houses.

Love / Categories of Polish girls [37]

I'd say they have a simpler goal.
;)

Love / Categories of Polish girls [37]

true. But in light of a next sentence after it...

Now men divide women into two categories:
1. I'd do her
2. I'd have to be really drunk to do her.
;)

Love / Categories of Polish girls [37]

there are 3 categories of guys:
1. the ones we like
2. the ones we don't like
3. the ones you we're not sure about yet.

Which category is the guy in depends on numerous criteria , and their weight according to what is important to a woman, like intelligence, looks, age, ability to provide, sense of humour, political affiliation, experience, baggage, religion, location, fashion sense, personality, etc etc etc

In reality, we just look accross a room at some guy we know absolutely nothing about and for totally unknown reasons we decide we're going to... change him.

Never understood it myself.
;)

UK, Ireland / Ed Miliband, new Labour leader, talking about Polish immigrants yesterday [62]

monocultural?? A term borrowed from farming and just as unnatural.

Love / Unmarried couples in Poland = pathology [310]

the most permanent arrangements are between two people that want to be together. Marriage might be a result of their commitment, not the cause.

UK, Ireland / Polish eligibility to claim benefits in the UK [30]


Since she ended the relationship, you should not feel bad about cutting her off. If you know her family, I'd call their parents and let them know she will be homeless soon.

Love / Polish Girl Doesn't Want To Touch. [240]

I would love to hear her side of the story.
When I was in college and struggling, I rented a room in this guy's big house, in exchange for keeping the whole place clean. He turned out to be a pig in more than one sense. He said it was my fault he could not stop thinking about sex, looking the way I did. I was trying to be polite and considerate of his feelings, thought we could be friends, but he "had his needs", he said. I scraped his whole pig-sty of the house clean while he oogled me, before I realized that I had look for a new place to live, all within one week.

USA, Canada / Moved back from Canada to Poland:). Here are the reasons why. [868]

aphrodisiac
I think it took a lot of guts.
I'm really looking forward to your further reports.
I'm sure many others do as well.

Love / Unmarried couples in Poland = pathology [310]

Chicago Pollock
I can understand law requiring that both parents support the child.
But without children, I don't think either party should pay alimony. I know that many women forgo their careers during marriage, but if they do it willingly, then they should consider that they are taking a gamble.

Love / Unmarried couples in Poland = pathology [310]


I honestly don't know what you mean. How does marriage do that?

Love / Polish Girl Doesn't Want To Touch. [240]


Run girl, run!!!
Szukaj innego mieszkania!