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DominicB   
21 Jan 2017
Food / Help identifying a herb for chicken soup [15]

@UHPD

The closest thing I can think of is Borage, which is called Ogórecznik (pickle plant) in Polish, but used to be called Miodnik (honey plant), because it is the most popular plant with bees in the garden, and is rarely seen without bees on its flowers. It's commonly grown in home gardens, usually for flavoring pickles, and can indeed be used in soups. Use google images to see if this is the plant.
DominicB   
20 Jan 2017
Love / Should I follow her? I met a beautiful Polish woman who has been working in the UK [62]

I simply wanted to know. Is it a regular thing for Polish woman to be torn between love and home.

Yes. Very common, in fact.

And If love follows her home can it work out.

It "can", I guess, but it rarely does. Like anyone "can" win the Powerball, just buy a ticket, but almost no one ever does. The situation you are counting on happens so rarely I've never heard of anything like it during my twelve years in Poland. Sounds more like a fairy tale, and Poland ain't fairy tale country.
DominicB   
20 Jan 2017
Love / Should I follow her? I met a beautiful Polish woman who has been working in the UK [62]

until she finds a stable guy she can latch onto

That's exactly right. Financial stability is a major priority for Polish women, and trumps "love" every time. Not that I blame them, since they have had to deal with instability and insecurity all their lives. Another priority for Polish women is their families, and you never, ever would want to place her in a position where she has to choose between them and you. You will lose every time.

Frankly, it seems that there isn't much overlap in her priorities and yours. Without common goals and aspirations, you will always be in conflict. If she stays in the UK with you, she will resent you. And if you follow her to Poland and sacrifice your career and earning potential, you will come to resent her.

She seems to have made her decision and future plans, and they seem not to include you (or else you'd have been invited to go to Israel with her). Take the hint and start making alternative plans and decisions for your own life. Whether she is happy in the future or not is no longer your responsibility. Let it go and get on with your life. Good luck!
DominicB   
18 Jan 2017
Work / Salary for a senior software engineer in Poland [195]

@zids82

For your level of experience and the lifestyle you describe, wife, kid who needs to be put in school, traveling back to India twice a year, and saving a substantial amount of money, you will need 20 to 25 K PLN gross to make the move worth while. That's not likely going to happen unless you have some senior managerial or administrative experience. At 10 K gross, you will actually be earning less than you do in India.

I advise you to try to find a job in a richer western European or English speaking country, where wages are double or more what they are in Poland. Don't rely on recruiters or internet sites, but use your network of real-world contacts to find a job. The best jobs are advertised solely by word of mouth, and never through recruiters or internet sites.
DominicB   
17 Jan 2017
Work / Salary for a senior software engineer in Poland [195]

1. Is it advisable to move to Poland for 10000 PLN Gross, where net will be 7000 PLN & I m already drawing 5000PLN in India.

Obviously not. With the difference in the cost of living and relocation costs taken in, you would be earning less than you are in India, especially if you are bringing a wife and kid along. Anything having to do with children is very expensive in Poland. Forget about trips back to India twice a year, and about savings. Your savings are higher in India right now than they would be in Poland. There would be no point in transferring to Poland.
DominicB   
17 Jan 2017
Love / Should I follow her? I met a beautiful Polish woman who has been working in the UK [62]

I don't feel she really loves me. Even though she says she does.

More important is that she considers you as dispensable and easily replaced. You are clearly not a priority for her at this stage of her life. She is looking for husband material, and has decided that you do not and can not fit the bill. There's little point in pursuing something that just ain't gonna happen. Trite as it sounds, there are plenty of other fish in the see. Hop back up on your horse and start looking for a new mate. Good luck!
DominicB   
17 Jan 2017
Study / English Studies / European Studies (EU Law) in Poland [2]

Both courses are a total waste of time and money. Neither will help you find a well-paid job. To do that, you will have to study engineering or another field with a lot of advanced applied mathematics, like petroleum engineering, geological engineering, biomedical engineering, econometrics (not economics), financial mathematics (not finance), financial engineering and actuarial studies.

Basically, any degree in a non-math major is a waste of time unless you are a top student in a top school. There are no top schools for these fields in Poland. Graduating with a degree in English studies or European studies from a university in Poland will qualify you for such exciting jobs as washing dishes, sweeping floors and cleaning toilets.

Wake up and smell the coffee, kid. You are living in a technocratic world, and math is money.
DominicB   
16 Jan 2017
Study / Studying in Poland for international student (at Warsaw University of Technology) [3]

@poli_warszawska

First of all, ignore the racists. Many of the racists on this board have never even been to Poland. I lived there for twelve years, and I have to say that Poland is not an especially racist country, at least as far as overt racism goes. There is a subtle form of racism, though, that you will meet with, which I will describe later.

Second of all, your logic about the 36,000 students is a bit faulty. By far the bulk of them are Polish, and they are studying there not because the school is good by global standards, but because it is the best they can get being Poles. They will be studying in Polish, whereas you will be studying in English. There is a huge difference.

Polish universities have started teaching courses for foreign students in English, and have been rather aggressively recruiting students from poorer countries in Asia and Africa. Sadly, their advertising has been less than honest. They, together with unscrupulous "recruiters", "consultants", and "agents" from these countries themselves, have been telling prospective students a whole host of blatant lies about the quality of the education, student life, the worth of the degree and, worst of all, the possibility of finding part-time jobs in Poland during studies and the possibility of finding work in Poland or richer countries after the studies.

The truth is that an engineering degree in Poland is no better and opens no more doors than a degree from a good university in India. The quality of education is inferior to that in the richer countries of western Europe or the English speaking countries, primarily because there is not very much R&D money available in Poland, especially in a field like aerospace engineering.

Courses taught in English for foreign students are sort of a scam. The school is doing it to earn money off of gullible and desperate Asians and Africans. The quality of courses taught in English is generally much lower than that of courses taught in Polish, and even the quality of courses taught in Polish is much lower than that of universities in the US, the UK, Switzerland or Germany.

The main problems with technical education in Poland are:

1) A lack of practical courses and hands-on experience. Education tends to be very theoretical. Laboratory equipment is outdated and scarce. Laboratory courses often consist of demonstrations by the teacher rather than hands-on work by the students.

2) There is very little R&D money in Poland, The rather small US state of Connecticut, for example, has much more R&D money flowing through it than the entire country of Poland. For an engineering student, R&D money is like blood is for the body. R&D money funds interesting and innovative student projects, internships and jobs, and makes well equipped labs possible. As an aerospace student, you should be looking into universities that receive a lot of aerospace R&D money. There aren't any in Poland, including WUT.

3) Polish universities are lousy at building and maintaining relationships with local and global business and industry. This means it is harder for Polish students to network and find internships and jobs at home and abroad. It will be much, much harder for you as a foreign student.

4) A degree from a Polish university is no better on the global market than a degree from India. Why go through the trouble and expense of getting a degree from Poland when you can get the same thing from a good university at home.

5) The drop-out rate from Polish universities is staggeringly high. Out of 100 students that start studies, less than half finish. For foreign students, even less go on to graduate. Polish universities provide very little support for students, and even less for foreign students. Compare that to the US, for example, where by far the majority of incoming students will eventually graduate, and universities practically dance around students. One of my Polish students is now studying engineering in the US, and the amount of support he gets from the university is light years ahead of anything you will find in Poland.

6) There is little financial aid available for Polish students, and essentially none at all for foreign students. There are few part-time jobs for Polish students, and essentially none at all for foreign students. If you cannot afford to pay for 100% of the costs of your studies and stay in Poland, then forget about coming to Poland. You will not be able to finish your studies if money runs out, and you will have great trouble getting the work you will have done recognized by a university in another country.

7) Internships, even in technical fields, are usually unpaid. Even so, it is incredibly difficult for foreign students to find any internships at all.

Sorry, but I really can't see any reason why a foreign student should study in Poland. Yes, it may be cheaper in the short run, but the long-term return on investment is much, much lower than studying in a richer country in western Europe or the English speaking countries, or Korea or Singapore. It's no better than studying in India, for example.

Don't believe "consultants", "recruiters", "agents" or internet sites like "Study in Poland". They are lying to get your money and don't care whether you will be able to finish your studies. Like I said, it is a big scam, and, frankly, it makes me want to puke.

Now about racism. You are unlikely to encounter overt racism as a student in Poland. However, you will encounter a more subtle form of racism that I call "benign neglect". Basically, people will just ignore you. You won't be excluded, exactly, but you won't be included, unless you are a very assertive, self-starting person who actively goes out and persistently seeks friendships. If you are shy and reserved, it will be as if you are invisible. Poland is a rather closed society, and breaking into it requires quite a bit of work and ingenuity for a foreigner, especially one from Asia or Africa. Otherwise, you could end up being very isolated.

Also, the language of the country is Polish. It's a difficult language that you will almost certainly not be able to learn well enough to fit into society. It takes many years of very hard work, and you will definitely not be motivated to learn it, based on your comment about "opening doors" in your post, as learning Polish doesn't open any doors outside of Poland. You won't have the time, either, as an engineering student, to learn more than a few phrases at most.

Hope this all helps.
DominicB   
15 Jan 2017
Study / Undergraduate study (Aerospace Engineering) @ Warsaw University of Technology. [8]

@WUTprospect

The problem with that plan is that a bachelors in engineering probably will not meet ABET standards, so that getting into a masters program in a richer country may not be possible. I appreciate that you are trying to save time and money, but studying in Poland may not save you either in the long run. The quality of technical education in Poland is poor, especially in terms of practical courses. Also, Polish universities are lousy when it comes to networking and landing paid internships.

All in all, studying at even the best technical university in Poland is probably no better than studying at a top engineering school in your own country, and far inferior to studying at a good school of engineering in a country like the US, the UK. Germany or Switzerland.

One of my students from Poland is studying engineering on a full-ride scholarship in the US. On top of the full scholarship and superior level of education, he has been able to get paid internships every summer, and has been able to build up a truly impressive network of quality contacts in his field. Both of those things are extremely difficult in Poland. If he wants to go to a conference, his professors find money for him to go. He has seen dozens of different cities in the US going to conferences (he's on his way to a conference at this very moment). Try to get a Polish professor who is going to find money to send an undergraduate to a international conference. Being an undergraduate in the US is heaven compared to being one in Poland, both in terms of education, quality of life and opportunities to earn and learn.

As far as return on investment goes, your best options are either to study at a top university in your own country, or to study at a good university in a richer country, especially one that is ABET accredited. I cannot envision studying in Poland to be a better option than either of those.

Yes, education in Poland is cheaper. But there is a reason for that, namely lower overall quality and saleabilty. I personally find the trade off not worth the short term savings, and the cost in time, effort and money in the future may be higher in the end.
DominicB   
14 Jan 2017
Work / Is it possible to work whilst studying in Poland? [20]

There are no jobs in Poland for foreign students. If you need to earn money to study, then forget about Poland. Make your plans on the very safe assumption that you will never be able to earn a single penny during your stay in Poland. If school "recruiters", "agents" or "consultants" are telling you that you can find a job in Poland, they are lying. Don't believe them.

Studying in Poland for Indian students is almost always a very bad idea, and a very poor investment.
DominicB   
14 Jan 2017
Language / Male name declension in Poland [38]

which means "you can say BOTH" w Warszawie" AND "w Wrocławiu" but you can ONLY say "we Wrocławiu" (as you CAN'T SAY we Warszawie).

No, it doesn't say that at all. It clearly says that "w Wrocławiu" is incorrect.
DominicB   
13 Jan 2017
Language / Male name declension in Poland [38]

@Lyzko

Everybody contends exactly that, including the source that NoToForeigners quoted.
DominicB   
13 Jan 2017
Language / Male name declension in Poland [38]

@NoToForeigners

Means "w Wrocławiu" is as correct as "w Warszawie" is.

No, it doesn't say that at all. Read it again.
DominicB   
13 Jan 2017
Language / Male name declension in Poland [38]

Futhermore, according to Iwona Sadowska's Comprehensive Polish Grammar, wE Wrocławiu IS ACCEPTED USAGE AND THEREFORE CORRECT!

Everybody here agrees on that. We Warszawie, however, is not standard Polish. Did you see the link I left above to Swan's grammar?
DominicB   
13 Jan 2017
Feedback / This forum should have section under the exact title - Business [23]

This forum should have a section with the title "Racist Slurs accepted here only".

I would be embarrassed to tell anyone I know about this forum. Made that mistake once, and she still thinks I must be some kind of right-wing loony to be posting here. Embarrassing.
DominicB   
13 Jan 2017
Language / Male name declension in Poland [38]

I mentioned Oscar Swan's grammar to you before. He's really good at explaining things like this. You can download it for free on the internet. It's worth its weight in gold. He has by far the best explanation of verbal aspect that I have come across, and he goes into the minutia of pronunciation and orthography. Here's the link that will download a (completely legal) pdf copy of the grammar from his own personal website:

lektorek.org/lektorek/grammar.pdf
DominicB   
12 Jan 2017
Work / Poland Onsite - Oracle Pl SQL / experienced Developer salary? [12]

Totally impossible. You've priced yourself far outside of the Polish job market. 40 to 60 K is what you should expect. The higher number if you have five years experience as a senior manager or administrator, The lower number if you have no managerial experience beyond team leader.

Poland is a country that IT professionals leave in order to find better paying jobs in the countries I listed. You would be hired to replace the Poles who have left, specifically because you are willing to work cheap. The IT industry in Poland is very much motivated to keep wages low. Much lower than in the countries I listed. You can ask as much as you want, but I doubt that any Polish company is going to pay wages that compete with these richer countries.
DominicB   
12 Jan 2017
Work / Poland Onsite - Oracle Pl SQL / experienced Developer salary? [12]

Dominic can you please advice in which country where employer is ready to provide work permit and good salary as well.

The US, the UK, Canada, Australia, New Zealand, Ireland, Switzerland, Austria, Germany, Luxembourg, France, Belgium, the Netherlands, Denmark, Norway, Sweden, Finland, South Korea, Taiwan, Singapore and perhaps the UAE and Saudi Arabia. All pay substantially more than Poland, and experienced IT professionals are in great demand in all of them.

please advice what should be the best salary for any one having experience and skill set like me

Anywhere from 80 to 129 K USD a year, depending were you go, perhaps more depending on how serious your experience in investment banking is.

Use your network of real-world contacts to get more information and find a position.
DominicB   
11 Jan 2017
Work / Poland Onsite - Oracle Pl SQL / experienced Developer salary? [12]

Oracle Developer Salary having 11 Years of experience and having investment banking experience

With those qualifications, you can easily get a much better paying job in a richer country than you would in Poland, where wages are low and savings potential is abysmal. I suggest that you concentrate on finding a job in a western European or English speaking country, relying primarily on word of mouth from real-world contacts and ignoring recruiters and internet sites. The best jobs are advertised solely by word of mouth. person to person. Recruiters and internet sites get the table scraps. Negotiate with actual managers and administrators, not with HR departments, as much as you can.
DominicB   
9 Jan 2017
Work / RELOCATING TO GDYNIA, Poland - salary question [42]

@kabir1989

Well, considering that you have provided no useful information about your skill set, no one can. There are lots and lots of threads on this forum about salary expectations and cost of living, so use the search function to find them.
DominicB   
9 Jan 2017
Work / Salary for a senior software engineer in Poland [195]

@kp62103

Because of the higher cost of living in Poland, especially for foreigners, and the fact that you have to pay for your own relocation, 15K would effectively be less than you are making in India, and 18K would be approximately the same as you are earning in India. In either case, there would be no point of moving to Poland.

There is lots about Katowice on this forum. It is considered the least attractive of the large cities in Poland. Most people consider it a gray, depressing and ugly industrial town with little charm, especially in the winter. Personally, I agree. About the only good thing about Katowice is that the cost of living is a little lower than in Warsaw, Kraków or Wrocław. But, in my opinion, doesn't make up for the lower quality of living, especially for your wife.

Like I said above, Poland is not an attractive place for Indians to work, except perhaps extremely experienced senior managers, administrators and consultants who can command extremely high wages. There is no "Indian Community" here like in London, Chicago or Sydney, for example. English is not widely spoken, especially by older and less educated Poles. It's more difficult and more expensive to live if you don't speak Polish. You can end up feeling socially isolated and excluded, especially your wife. Winter can be very depressing for people from warmer climes. Concentrate your efforts on finding a job in a richer country where savings potential is much higher and the quality of life is better than in Poland. And, like I said, rely on word of mouth rather than recruiters or the internet.
DominicB   
8 Jan 2017
Genealogy / Surname Nowicki - but Jewish ancestors? [19]

Here's a clue: You are not going to learn anything about Poland from a ridiculous far-right-wing rag like the one you linked to. I take it you at least read Polish, and that you read the article. It doesn't take much to figure out it is ultra-right wing neo-fascist drivel. It took me about two seconds.

If you really want to know about Poland and Polish culture, you should be more selective about your reading material.
DominicB   
8 Jan 2017
Genealogy / Surname Nowicki - but Jewish ancestors? [19]

There is no such thing as the "Nowicki family", just like there is no "the Jones family" or "the Smith family". There are hundreds of completely unrelated families that use that very common surname, some noble, but mostly peasant.

The stuff about a coat of arms is, of course, total nonsense. It's mostly Romantic Era baloney.
DominicB   
8 Jan 2017
Genealogy / Surname Nowicki - but Jewish ancestors? [19]

It's, of course, completely ridiculous. It isn't a Jewish-specific name, and it means someone who comes from a place that was once called a "new settlement".