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skysoulmate   
28 Jan 2010
Travel / Best way to go from Warsaw to Varberg (Sweden) [7]

All great advices. Either Göteborg or Malmö - G-town probably better.

Check the here's the English version of the train schedules - it's probably going to be pricey.

sj.se/sj/jsp/polopoly.jsp?d=10&l=en

PS. Who's playing?
skysoulmate   
28 Jan 2010
Life / Can foreigners really understand Poles? [136]

... (You ask me the dialects in Norway is kinda their own language -.- I am a mastermind!!)

Nonsense! Everyone knows Norwegian is simply 'broken' Swedish. They have two main dialects because one is more broken than the other... LOL
skysoulmate   
28 Jan 2010
USA, Canada / My wife wants to return to Poland...but I want to stay in the US [155]

Thank you everyone for your comments. But I forgot to mention one important thing. She would probably leave with my child.... Something I can't even imagine..

Well, she can't simply leave with the child without a court order - if she does it's considered kindnapping - even if she's the child's mother.

Does this ring a bell?
...

The mother of this guy's child (who just like your kid was born in the US) went home to Brasil with their kid. She was supposed to be there for 2 weeks to visit her family. Instead she never returned, started dating a prominent Brazilian lawyer and blackmailed her husband into granting her a divorce "so he could see his son more often." When he signed the papers - she kept withholding the kid from him anyways.

Well, then all of a sudden she died giving birth to the child she had with her new husband (karma?). Shockingly and against all children conventions Brazil had signed in the past - the Brazilian courts then granted her "new" husband full custody of the child (remember he is a prominent lawyer in Brasil). It took many years but the boy is finally with the biological father.

From what I've heard Poland is a stickler to most if not all UN conventions regarding child custody which means if your wife simply took the girl home without a court order you'd have a very strong case and she'd probably lose the custody because of the "kidnapping" charge.

A shared custody is a must as children need both parents - unless extreme reasons exist (violence, drugs, alcoholism, etc, etc.)

Hope this never gets to that point and that y'all work things out.
skysoulmate   
27 Jan 2010
USA, Canada / My wife wants to return to Poland...but I want to stay in the US [155]

Very true, unfortunately it goes both ways. How are you doing today? Have you regained some mobility?

When I said Zimmy had some great advice I think it'd be better if he/she changed "today's women" to "today's couples." Otherwise, good advice.
skysoulmate   
27 Jan 2010
USA, Canada / My wife wants to return to Poland...but I want to stay in the US [155]

Poland can be beautiful.. and the people are nice and intelligent in general, but you'll miss the US too much in my opinion.

You really think so? Maybe I'm naïve but I fly widebody aircraft all over the world and love what I do. I always felt that aviation came first; in fact I moved across the Big Pond to pursue my dreams yet today I think I'd take a janitor's job in China if it brought her back. It's been a while so I'm not 'freshly wounded' but I think you should let your friend move if he wants to. Just my take on it...

I would rather be poor and happy then rich and suffering.

I think this summarizes my feelings too.
skysoulmate   
27 Jan 2010
Language / Usage rules of ł in the Polish language [30]

You're probably correct and obviously more au fait in this matter.

I simply googled "polish L", etc. and few of the results mentioned "L with stroke" but I also saw the "barred L" option being mentioned.

To an amateur such s myself a "barred L" implies I'm getting in trouble for using the letter L... :)

/Polish_L_with_stroke
skysoulmate   
27 Jan 2010
USA, Canada / My wife wants to return to Poland...but I want to stay in the US [155]

Józek - if it makes you feel any better I've seen some rough marriages that were saved. You both need to get with someone who's impartial and who'll listen to your and her concerns and will help you to come up with a solution.

Maybe bring one of her relatives for an extended stay? Whatever takes, at this point you're the one who'll have to walk the extra mile...

Ask your family members how "receptive" to your problems they'll be when your wife leaves you? They might have their own problems but since she's your wife your family is also her family so they should be more "receptive" to your wife if that's what she needs. If that's good for her then it's good for you too.

Also, talk to her about the worst possibility as well - make sure that if she decides to leave for Poland, she will not do it by disappearing while you're at work (unless you're a violent person which by the tone of your post and concern you exhibit I doubt) - otherwise you'll never be able to get a closure.
skysoulmate   
27 Jan 2010
Love / Polish Girls vs Russian Girls [813]

Only problem is the mentality. It's generally difficult to have a connection with a Polish girl, other than a sexual one, because of the mentality. Girls in Poland tend to have this simple "finish school-get married early-go to church-have kids" aim in life and if you're a guy with unique passions/ambitions they are hard to relate to on a deeper level.

Wow, really?! Stop attempting to connect with Polish women via dating sites or cheap bars. The Polish women I know, including my mother, but also many that I've met in Sweden, Norway and the US are very intelligent, most well educated, interested in outside world, and simply a blast to be around.

A person's perception of the opposite gender is directly proportional to the person's treatment of that said gender.
skysoulmate   
27 Jan 2010
USA, Canada / My wife wants to return to Poland...but I want to stay in the US [155]

Józek - not enough info here. Based on your name I assume you're Polish too, is that correct?

Has she given you an ultimatum or just alluded to her being better off in Poland? Sorry about being frank here but is it that she misses Poland or is she maybe not happy in the marriage or both?

It's hard for us guys sometimes to see the signs. I came home one day and my wife was gone. I thought things were great, or very good at the very least. All our friends thought I was joking when I told them what happened - "but you guys were SOOO happy" was what I heard from everyone of them, and we were blessed with many friends.

So my point is - how sure are you about her true feelings?

I'd say sit down with her and have an honest conversation about that, maybe even have a counselor there with you.

You said she has no friends and now she stays home with the little girl. What are the chances of you taking some time off to let your wife go to work instead? Not sure what she was making in the past but if it was less than you, maybe the pay cut will be worth it anyways? Remember the saying - a happy wife is a happy husband.

If you worry about the money, remember, the best retirement plan a man can have is to keep the same wife until the retirement. ;)

By the way, what are the chances of you trying to move to Poland with her for a few years?

Wish you both the best!
skysoulmate   
27 Jan 2010
Genealogy / Szczyglinski Sluchaj, possibility of being Russian? [33]

Who are you "talking" to? Explain your comedy movie again? Not sure what this movie (a link maybe?) has to do with her question?

Why do you people dont like Ruskies they are very nice people( if you lived in russia )

Don't like is not the right word. Don't trust is closer to the truth.

Has to do with history and the ruskyi propensity of killing as many cousins as possible - throughout the centuries - millions, more than "Gitler" ever dreamed of. Today they focus on "non-cousins" though - Chechens, Ingushetiens and Georgians. Who knows what tomorrow brings? Ukrainians maybe?
skysoulmate   
26 Jan 2010
History / Poland's General Anders and one of the biggest "What Ifs?" of WW2 [31]

Ok, sorry I misunderstood. Still don't quite agree with you but that's ok.

I'm not pro-Russian if anything i'm anti-Russian and definitely anti-Soviet but propagating a historical lie that West won the war or that Russia would not win without the West is just wrong.

Ok, that's fine. However, I totally disagree with you on Soviet being able to win the war on their own.

You're forgetting the brutality of the Soviet system where indoctrination, internal spies, etc always kept an eye on the soldiers. Millions of the soldiers were not Russians but minorities forced into the service. Many were fighting out of fear of either them or their relatives being punished and even executed by the communists. Don't forget that Bolshevik revolution happened when the Russian population was exhausted and starving under the Tsar regime while fighting a "far away" war. The tsarist soldiers were exhausted, discontent, starving and many joined the rebellion.

My contention is that had the war gone on for a longer period and had the Soviet gotten NO help from the West whatsoever, it's quite possible that a similar rebellion would've come about in Soviet Union all over again, this time not against the Tsar but against Stalin. Although the Russians "understood" and supported this war much more, millions of minorities did not, or simply didn't care as much. They just wanted food on their tables and to get away from the Stalin's terror regime. Today the Russians wouldn't be able to control their troops in a similar way. ...but that's a totally different subjetct...

Go read about "Deep Encirclement" and "Elastic Defense" Russian doctrines that were the most advanced in all theatres, tanks like KV-85 or IS-3, Katyushas ... Russians had everything the Allies had and more..

I might look into some of those books as I enjoy history.

Having said that, no reason for you to tell me "Dream on and learn history while at" - maybe you don't mean it but it sounds quite belittling. I majored in electrical engineering and history (quite a mix ;) in Sweden and felt they're pretty to the point and unbiased. Always tried to show both sides of the story; it's hard to do sometimes but I never felt the Russian (or other) side's accomplishments in any of he wars were being diminished.

After moving to the States I went back to school and got an aviation degree, again signed up for many history classes because I enjoy it. ..and I felt the history taught here was very unbiased as well. If anything the US universities are controlled by very leftists, usually "it's all America's fault" professors so trust me, they would be the last ones to claim America won the war singlehandedly.

However, once again I felt they always showed both sides of the story whether discussing the late help in liberations of the concentration camps, the Dresden bombings, the Russian war efforts, the atomic bombs, etc, etc. In fact often I was amazed at how hard the Professors and many students came down on America. Either way, I didn't feel brainwashed in any way.

Then I joined the military here and I won't get too deep as I'm actually still a "part timer" in the National Guard but I separated a few years ago from active duty - it's all in the aviation field and it's pretty normal to separate after 10+ years to pursue civilian jobs while maintaining a part time Guard status (unless you want a Pentagon job, then you become a 'lifer' - don't think so).

Well again, different classes, tactics and obviously many of us talked about present and past conflicts and I didn't see any "victory-hogging" - I think people just want to do the best they can and move on. I always saw respect for the enemy whether we talked about Russians, Iraqis or Afghanis. Of course you'll find nut cases every now and then but they truly are a very tiny minority. ..and they're usually despised because they make lives miserable for other Americans out there who're still in harms way.

Because i dont like the West "hogging" the victory when they were just a sideshow, having been abroad i've got a good idea as to how a typical Western European views history and its almost as focked up as hardcore Soviet versions.

Fair enough although I think some of that "hogging of the victory" you mentioned is simply somewhat nationalistic BS'ing we all see and sometimes gladly participate in after a few drinks in our home countries. Whether drinking some beer, vodka, wine, sake, or jui - deep inside we all like to exaggerate our achievements and diminish the enemies' accomplishments.

I've seen it in Sweden (history-wise - the weapons are pretty rusty there lol) and Norway, the UK, Germany, the US, Japan and China. To say there's some "victory hogging" conspiracy in the West is probably a little far-fetched.

So let's just agree to disagree on this one.
skysoulmate   
26 Jan 2010
Genealogy / Szczyglinski Sluchaj, possibility of being Russian? [33]

Mystic - or is it Ashley ;)

Not sure if you "look Polish" - you definitely look pretty but the diversity of womens beauty-types in Poland is so wide that there's really no way to say you look Polish (or Russian for that matter).

I'm impressed that you came up with the number 60% of being Polish. At least it's over 50% However 75%+ would've been better... :) Hope you know I'm kidding. That number is probably as accurate as our governments deficit projection.

If your ancestry is really that important why don't you take a simple a DNA test? (cheek swab)

There are several companies that specialize in that, here's one.

dnaancestryproject.com

One way or the other we're all related. Heck, even Barrack Obama is related to Dick Cheney. LOL

The results won't be as specific as you'd want it to be but it'll put you in one (or several) of these categories:

Caucasian
European:
Eastern European: The Slavic-speaking region of eastern Europe.
Finno-Ugrian: The Uralic-speaking region of northeastern Europe.
Mediterranean: The Romance-speaking region of southwestern Europe.
Northwest European: The Celtic and Germanic-speaking region of northwestern Europe.
Aegean: Anatolia region, modern territories of Southern Italy and Sicily, Greece, and Turkey.
Near Eastern
Arabian: The Arabian Peninsula.
North African: Populations of the Atlas Mountains and Sahara Desert.
Mesopotamian: The historical "Cradle of Western Civilization", including modern Iran, Iraq and nearby territories.
Levantine: Populations along the coast of the eastern Mediterranean Sea.
South Asian:
Eastern India
North India
South India
East Asian:
Subsaharan African
East African
Southern African
West African
American Indian
Polynesian

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Genealogical_DNA_test

Your ancestor's name is as Polish as it gets so I'd imagine he was a Pole living in a Russian occupied area of Poland but I guess you never know. Whether he was involved with a Polish woman or Lithuanian, Ukrainian, Russian, or maybe German, who knows? Hopefully she was good to him and vice versa; that's what really matters.

If you really want to know about your ancestry open up some books, check stuff on the internet, do research - it's truly fascinating even if you are not into history. I'm sure undressing your Russian boyfriends is a lot of fun but what you find in their pants won't tell you about your past - but possibly about your family's future... ;)

On a different note - if your relative was indeed a Pole living in Russian occupied Poland - this gotta be quite ironic that here's his female offspring "[who's] absolutely fascinated by the Russian culture and by their history and [she] only date[s] boys born in Russia, lol" - wow - history is full of irony and surprises for sure.

PS. Your horse looks much more Kuwaiti possibly Yemeni rather than Arabian. I'd test her too! LOL
skysoulmate   
26 Jan 2010
History / Poland's General Anders and one of the biggest "What Ifs?" of WW2 [31]

Bratwurst Boy:
You know how Hitler preferred them: Kinder, Kirche, Küche (children, church, kitchen).
No Kombat? ;)

...or Kommando! :)

Since we talk about German women - last night I saw "A Woman in Berlin" - "Anonyma - Eine Frau in Berlin" on Netflix - a female survivor's diary/recollection of the Soviet occupation of Germany turned into a movie , wow! Scary but a great movie, strongly recommended...

Sokrates - how come you are so intensely pro-Russian?

I think you might be overestimating the Russian power and underestimating the allies and the German side. The lend-lease program was a vital support for the Soviets and more important than you try to make it out to be.

At the time the Europeans criticized the US for their neutral, laissez-faire approach to Europe (somewhat ironic, isn't it? :) and the conflicts going on there so the Congress came up with the Lend-Lease proposal to at least supply Europe with tools, vehicles, gas, weapons, etc. for self defense.

"...The USSR was highly dependent on rail transportation, but during the war practically shut down rail equipment production: only about 92 locomotives were produced. 2,000 locomotives and 11,000 railcars were supplied under Lend-Lease.... Likewise, the Soviet air force received 18,700 aircraft, which amounted to about 14% of Soviet aircraft production (19% for military aircraft).[7] ... Although most Red Army tank units were equipped with Soviet-built tanks, their logistical support was provided by hundreds of thousands of U.S.-made trucks. Indeed by 1945 nearly two-thirds of the truck strength of the Red Army was U.S.-built. ..."

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lend-Lease

However the most important part of Lend-Lease when it comes the Soviets was the reverse engineering they used to build many vehicles and weapons and improve their own. Either way, the program was of a huge value to the Russians.

Something else - had the allies de-nazified Wehrmacht and Luftwaffe and used their help in the fight against the Soviets I think the central and eastern Europe would've never found themselves behind the iron curtain. Russians had the numbers. Germans and the allies had the rest.

Not much different today, when we train for combat against the Soviet/Russian fighter planes for example we focus on the tactics and not so much equipment.

So why so pro-Russian Сократес? I'm not really picking on you, just curious.
skysoulmate   
26 Jan 2010
Language / Usage rules of ł in the Polish language [30]

If you watch a pre-war Polish film, you will hear the ł pronounced very differently. In those days, ł (the so-called 'dark L') was vocalised more.

True, my grandfather (on my mom's side) would use that £ sound. I remember it sounded 'different' but nice. Of course I might have liked it simply because he was my Grandpa.

I have an old 78-gramophone record titled "Szkoda Twoich £ez, Dziewczyno" and remember my grandfather singing along it when being playful with me grandma. He loved music, just like his dad and had many records at home - we only have a few left.

I found the very same song and the artist on youtube - my grandpa's ł pronunciation was exactly the same as the singer's.

I highlighted a few spots of the "dark" ł in the song.

Wow, this brought some nice memories I thought I'd forgotten...

...na mnie "zła"... - 0:28
..."posłuchaj"... - 0:29
..."miłość"... - 1:15
...szkoda twoich "łez"... - 1:28 and -2:16

...and here's another great example of how the hardł used to be pronunced...



£ - L with stroke

Polish
In Polish, £ is used to distinguish historical dark (velarized) L from clear L.
In 1440 Jakub Pakoszowic proposed a letter resembling to represent clear L. For dark L he suggested l with a stroke running in the opposite direction as the modern version. The latter was introduced in 1514-1515 by Stanisław Zaborowski in his Orthographia seu modus recte scribendi et legendi Polonicum idioma quam ultissimus. L with stroke originally represented avelarized alveolar lateral approximant[1], a pronunciation which is preserved in the eastern part of Poland[2] and among the Polish minority in Lithuania, Belarus, and Ukraine.

In modern Polish, £ is normally pronounced /w/ (almost exactly as w in English as a consonant, as in were, will, firewall but not as in new or straw).[3] This pronunciation first appeared among Polish lower classes in the 16th century. It was considered an uncultured accent by the upper classes (who pronounced £ almost exactly as: л in East Slavic languages or L in English pull) until the mid-20th century when this distinction gradually began to fade. The old pronunciation of £ is still fully understandable but is considered theatrical in most regions.

Polish £ usually corresponds to Russian unpalatalised Л in native words and grammar forms, although the pronunciation of £ and Л are different in modern Polish and Russian. Polish final £ also often corresponds to Ukrainian final/pre-consonant Cyrillic В and Belarusian Ў. Thus, "he gave" is "dał" in Polish, "дав" in Ukrainian, "даў" in Belarusian and "дал" in Russian.

The shift from [ɫ] to [w] in Polish has affected all instances of dark L, even word-initially or intervocalically, e.g. ładny ("pretty, nice") is pronounced [ˈwadnɨ], słowo ("word") is [ˈswɔvɔ], andciało ("body") is [ˈtɕawɔ].

In Polish £ often alternates with clear L, such as the plural forms of adjectives and verbs in the past tense that are associated with masculine personal nouns, e.g. mały → mali ([ˈmawɨ] →[ˈmali]). Alternation is also common in declension of nouns, e.g. from nominative to locative, tło → na tle ([twɔ] → [na'tlɛ]).

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/L_with_stroke
skysoulmate   
26 Jan 2010
Love / Polish Girls vs Russian Girls [813]

I don't know if it's sexist, but I don't like it.

Why if I may ask? I lived in the Southeast for long time before moving to Hawai'i so I got a habit of opening up the doors for ladies, pulling out the chair in restaurants, etc. and I think the ladies appreciate that. It's not very common in the Northeast or on the West coast but in Hawai'i you can see it quite often.

I sort of like some of the old traditions, think they show our kinder sides even if it's for a few seconds at a time.

I think you're a lady? So why don't you like the old tradition of someone kissing your hand when being introduced (just curious).

Also, I was a kid so I don't remember but what did/do they say when introduced that way? Obviously not Cześć, right?
skysoulmate   
25 Jan 2010
Love / Polish Girls vs Russian Girls [813]

Polish Girls vs Russian Girls

Hmm, an interesting thread although I think it’s almost impossible to compare.

Women are …women. Some are kind and elegant, others mean and simple-minded; you’ll find some ladies beautiful while others are simply average. Oh, and some of them happen to be from Poland while others are from Russia, or…

If I may I’d like to ask a different “gender specific” question.

As a young kid in Poland I often saw men kissing women’s hands when being introduced.
Is that tradition still alive? Is it pretty common or rare? Do women like it or feel it’s sexist?

Also, was/is there a similar tradition in Russia? ...any other countries? Wonder where and how the tradition started and why there are so few places where it still exists (France is one I think?).
skysoulmate   
25 Jan 2010
Life / Polish stereotypes of other nationalities!? [472]

I don't think we need to be told bad things about Russia, least of all by the Americans.

America is doing that? Sure it isn't Poles whose relatives survived or didn't survive the gulags/prisons, etc?

Why this Russia - Serbia comparison on this thread anyways? Seems sort of strange...

...any more Polish stereotypes of other nationalities? ...especially the funny ones?
skysoulmate   
25 Jan 2010
Life / Polish stereotypes of other nationalities!? [472]

Really - Russians are considered to be worse than Germans? What did Russians do
that is WORSE than slaughtering 6 million Poles done by Germans, destroying Polish
intelligentsia, treating Poles as sub-human and manufacturing soap out of dead Polish
citizens, to name just a couple of examples? Where are you from?

Torq - whether under the Tsar or the Commissar more Poles were tortured, exiled to the gulags and exterminated under the Russian oppressions than under the German/Prussian/Austrian occupations. Irrelevant though as both sides were extremely brutal.

I can agree on not being too shy. Most Scandinavian girls are liberal (from a Polish point of view; very liberal), and more straight forward when it comes to these kind of things than Polish ones.

True but it's awesome - nothing better than when girls ask you out and they aren't embarrassed or ashamed of it. :)

Not really a stereotype but a fact - Norwegians speak a "broken Swedish" dialect ;)

Germans = regulation fanatics

Swedes = regulation avoidance fanatics (especially in tax arena)

Norwegians = they think blue (conservative), vote red (socialist), eat green, and work black (without paying taxes)

French - the only soldiers who like to have rear view mirrors mounted on their armored tanks LOL
skysoulmate   
25 Jan 2010
Language / Usage: Freedom in Polish and in English [30]

[Your original post to which I asked my question to which you have given the answer being here in my quote above have been erased by the moderator.

Aha! - so I'm not the only one confused on that subject :)

The lady who started the thread asked "How's that in other languages?" - so I gave examples of the Swedish and the Norwegian versions. Also made a few jokes.

Boom - my reply gets exiled to: This Random Thread seems to be really en vogue here
skysoulmate   
25 Jan 2010
Language / Too many English words in the Polish language! [709]

Finnish also has its goodly share of Swedish loanwords

Don't forget some 5-10% of Finns speak Swedish as their native tongue. Some coastal areas of Finland are predominantly Swedish speaking so it's easy for both cultures to borrow words from eachother. Finland by the way is a Swedish word - it's Suomi in Finnish. Likewise a Finn is called Suomalainen. Just apropo...

I heard that Finnish needed some sorely lacking consonants...

You think? :). ...here's just a taste...

Haitin tukikonsertti tuotti ennätykselliset 57 miljoonaa dollaria

Poptähti Madonna esiintyi "Hope For Haiti" -hyväntekeväisyyskonsertissa. Konsertilla kerättiin 40 miljoonaa euroa maanjäristyksen uhreille.

LOS ANGELES. Haitin maanjäristyksen uhrien auttamiseksi järjestetty suurkonsertti keräsi lauantaina yli 57 miljoonan dollarin tuoton. Summa vastaa 40:tä miljoonaa euroa.

...
hs.fi/ulkomaat/artikkeli/Haitin+tukikonsertti+tuotti+ennätykselliset+57+miljoonaa+dollaria/1135252360818

Imagine Mickiewicz's "Pan Tadeusz" let alone Maniuszko's "Halinka", in English! LOL

Litwo - Naturalized Citizen Residency Moja...

Would that work? :)
skysoulmate   
25 Jan 2010
Language / Usage: Freedom in Polish and in English [30]

Does it have a Polish equivalent? Probably. I just don't remember what it is (...if I actually ever even knew!)

Wouldn't sakta (sachte) be equivalent to The Polish powoli?
skysoulmate   
24 Jan 2010
Language / Usage: Freedom in Polish and in English [30]

Got ya. Yeah, gentle breeze is correct.

"En sakta vind" sounds very foreign in itself. We'd probably say something like "en mild vind (bris)" but now I see your poäng. ;)
skysoulmate   
24 Jan 2010
Language / Usage: Freedom in Polish and in English [30]

I think your conclusion is pretty accurate, Swedish (and Norwegian) is straight to the point, even when compared to English.

It's probably a leftover from the less-than-courtious Viking days. When Halfdor courted Ragnhild "their" conversation sounded sort of like this: "ARGH! - you woman - my wife - N O W !!! - ARGH!" Obviously very much to the point...

Ah the good 'ole days... ;)

Not sure about the word en sakta - makes no sense to me at all.

Maybe you meant sakta ner = slow down?

In your earlier example en sakta vind = a slow wind - en is simply the Swedish (Norwegian) equivalent of the English a.

(there are two forms en and ett - mean the same thing).

Clear as mud? LOL
skysoulmate   
23 Jan 2010
Love / Polish Girls vs Russian Girls [813]

Guest - I must say I'm not sure what you're asking about. So let's say you're a 40, 45, 50, or whatever old man looking for love. Will it really matter to you (be honest) if she's Polish or Russian, or American, British, Asian, etc. when you turn 65 and need/hope someone will help you to change your adult diaper? Insteadof worrying whether you should date a Polish or a Russian lady let's face it - anyone who loves us at our "worst" will be great. You act as if you're a "God's gift" to Slavic women - if that was the case you wouldn't be looking for a wife in an online "catalog".

I'd like to rephrase your question - "I was wondering what is the difference between a Russian or a Polish woman being willing to consider dating me?"

"I know they all are beautiful, but in more details - why would any of them choose me?"

"should any of them choose to date me - which one will stay with me for the long run???"

The answer is - the one who falls in love with you!!!

Love knows no borders, religions, nationalities, etc.

Realize you're the lucky one where top notch, well educated and classy women even consider looking at you, much less dating you!!!
skysoulmate   
23 Jan 2010
Love / I met a Polish guy but wonder what his intention is.. [35]

Why two threads?

Dear Sleeping Beauty - time to wake up and realize that a Polish man is no different than an American man, or a British, German, etc. man. (I'm a guy btw)

Forget nationality, background, religion, etc. Use common sense and do what your heart tells you. It's very corney but it's also very true.

If it feels right it probaly is, and vice versa. So be a woman and let him be a man. Leave the other, unimportant garbage, such as one's nationality, age, location, citizenship, etc. at the door.

Things happen for a reason so - (this is important) - try not to be the reason for things that were meant to be not happening. (hope this makes sense to you)

Wish you both the very best.
skysoulmate   
17 Jan 2010
Love / Is she genuine? - I would like some advice please re a Polish girl. [130]

Why not? i'm open to other cultures. :-) i have used the net for local girls and the ones who have been in touch are only interested in 2 things, 1 being money the other s**.

It's great you're open to other cultures. As far as your past net experience, a woman being interested in sex Andy is not a bad thing; in fact it's great... Just get her disinterested in the money part... Wear her out Andy so she can't even think about money but wants to sleep to regain her strength... ...and when she wakes up do it all over again... :)

I'm joking Andy. Well kind of...

Wish you the best!

My Russian lady tells me they have a saying in Russia.... The best way to learn a language...is to fall in love...

I like that saying, makes lots of sense