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Polish men what is the worst thing a girl can do upon first impression? [360]
I always do, and I always open up doors for ladies, pull out a chair, etc. My mom taught me that and I enjoy that part of being a man. However, I think it's sad when a lady "expects" for me to pay it, or if she makes her stand clear on what her "expectations" are. I love chivalry but hate being taken advantage of just because I was born with the wrong part between my legs.
I understand your thinking, but I definitely wasn't implying that I want him to pay for it because I want to take advantage of him, I just don't think I should have to do that on a date. I wouldn't ever say that, but I would be annoyed if he asked me to pay for it. I wouldn't show I was annoyed, but I might dump him. It would send the wrong message for the man to not offer to pay. But then again, in some situations it may be right like if her family were coming along or something I don't think the guy should have to pay for all of that. Or if a couple knows each other well enough, its acceptable.