jarnowa
7 May 2011
Love / Hot Polish girls in clubs - why don't they dance/talk with the most attractive men only? [148]
That could indeed be reasons for a beautiful girl to date an ugly guy that she already knows from work or a friend of a friend.
But some unknown below average looking guy that approaches her in a club? How can she assume that his personality must be interesting, only based on his lack of physical attractiveness? Like less attractive guys can't be total creeps on the inside.
True, in general there's a lack of attractive men, so many women will have to settle for a guy that makes people think "she really couldn't find a better guy?".
But the really beautiful women shouldn't ever need to lower their standards as there are enough Polish guys without an ugly face and i don't believe that they all cheat and have uninteresting personalities. Ok, i can understand that some hot girls are open to talk to anyone, just for fun. Nothing wrong with that. But i don't understand that a hottie doesn't walk away after a while.
If i would get approached by some ugly girl (even ugly girls ignore me like i have some disease, but let's imagine) i would be polite enough to talk to her for a few minutes. But after 10 minutes at most i would go to the toilets or get myself a beer so as to get rid of her and look around for more attractive girls.
So i don't understand why the hot girls i saw yesterday didn't walk away after a while from the below average and ugly looking guys. If i start talking to a very hot girl she always quickly finds an excuse to walk away asap, so i want to know why some guys (like me) don't even get the benefit of the doubt, while some worse looking guys are treated like they are Brad Pitt lookalikes. I just don't get it.
So good appearance can really backfire.Only if you control all terms you can be successful because opposite logic is always at the corner to prevail.
That could indeed be reasons for a beautiful girl to date an ugly guy that she already knows from work or a friend of a friend.
But some unknown below average looking guy that approaches her in a club? How can she assume that his personality must be interesting, only based on his lack of physical attractiveness? Like less attractive guys can't be total creeps on the inside.
I would say that many girls go with those that will let them be themselves and open up. Jarnowa, I guess you are merely witnessing a reality here whereby beautiful women accept that the men are just not quite up to scratch as far as comparisons go.
True, in general there's a lack of attractive men, so many women will have to settle for a guy that makes people think "she really couldn't find a better guy?".
But the really beautiful women shouldn't ever need to lower their standards as there are enough Polish guys without an ugly face and i don't believe that they all cheat and have uninteresting personalities. Ok, i can understand that some hot girls are open to talk to anyone, just for fun. Nothing wrong with that. But i don't understand that a hottie doesn't walk away after a while.
If i would get approached by some ugly girl (even ugly girls ignore me like i have some disease, but let's imagine) i would be polite enough to talk to her for a few minutes. But after 10 minutes at most i would go to the toilets or get myself a beer so as to get rid of her and look around for more attractive girls.
So i don't understand why the hot girls i saw yesterday didn't walk away after a while from the below average and ugly looking guys. If i start talking to a very hot girl she always quickly finds an excuse to walk away asap, so i want to know why some guys (like me) don't even get the benefit of the doubt, while some worse looking guys are treated like they are Brad Pitt lookalikes. I just don't get it.