PolishForums LIVE  /  Archives [3]    
   
Posts by Paulina  

Joined: 31 Jan 2008 / Female ♀
Warnings: 1 - Q
Last Post: 30 Oct 2024
Threads: Total: 16 / In This Archive: 6
Posts: Total: 4338 / In This Archive: 1009
From: Poland
Speaks Polish?: yes

Displayed posts: 1015 / page 3 of 34
sort: Latest first   Oldest first   |
Paulina   
24 Mar 2017
Genealogy / Why did(do) Poles sometimes have German first names? [28]

Thank you for saying this - it means a lot to me.

No problem, I meant it. I myself am very attached to the land where I was born and where my family comes from. For me it's a bond probably as strong as bloodline.

Definitely very well made.

Thank you, although I'd say it's a bit "sketchy", a lot more info could be put in there...
Btw, can you imagine that only thanks to this thread I found out that it's possible that I have some Lithuanian roots? I always wondered about my surname, because it didn't sound terribly "Polish" and it turned out that, judging by the suffix of my surname, my grandad could have Lithuanian ancestry. I was told that he came from "somewhere from the East" - I think that could mean Kresy (Eastern Borderlands) - so I guess "the Lithuanian connection" makes sense... Funny thing, when I was preparing for my First Communion every kid was getting a necklace with a cross or medallion with Mary and baby Jesus, one you wear for the rest of your life - my mum wanted to buy me one depicting Black Madonna from Częstochowa, but they run out of those in the shop so she bought a random one. It turned out that the medallion she picked for me depicted Our Lady of the Gate of Dawn (Matka Boska Ostrobramska) from Vilnius in Lithuania with the coat of arms of Lithuania on the other side of the medallion :) Maybe it was some kind of a sign :)))

Anyway, someday I intend to do a research of my own and get to the bottom of this.

Hopefully someday I will have the opportunity to retrieve any records that may be available from any churches (be it Roman or Greek Catholic, Protestant, or Orthodox) as your aunt did.

Good luck, I hope you'll find something :)

My own great grandfather's surname ended with the suffix "chra" - not sure if that's helpful or anything

It doesn't look German... But I really have no idea, I would have to read into this stuff and I don't have time for this these days, I'm sorry...

This is pure fantasy.

Well, it says that Maciej Stryjkowski "states that...", it doesn't necessarly mean it's true ;)

Even if it was true, there were no surnames in the 10th century, so those surnames could not survive until today.

As far as I understood CuriousBanana's great grandfather's surname doesn't seem to be German (he wrote that it's "mostly distributed in Poland").

Many mediaeval writers confounded reality with their own imagination putting it all this together in their books for readers to believe.

Yeah, true... Either way, according to an article about Sanok in Polish Wikipedia, Bolesław-Jerzy II granted on the 20th of January 1339 "przywilej lokacyjny" (settlement rights?) to Sanok and to Germans, Poles, Hungarians and Ruthenians who were already living there. So I guess it's true that there's been a German presence in that area since the 14th century.

Please avoid excessive quoting
Paulina   
24 Mar 2017
Life / Evening wear / prom dresses - Polish sites? [4]

I don't usually buy such stuff on the internet so I don't know which are good ones, but I guess you could try general shopping sites where you can buy clothes like zalando.pl, domodi.pl or bonprix.pl.

You could also try to google it by yourself and see what you like:

cocktail dresses - sukienki koktajlowe
prom dresses - sukienki na studniówkę
eveningwear - sukienki wieczorowe

Some examples:

cocktail dresses:

zalando.pl/odziez-damska-sukienki-koktajlowe

allani.pl/wyszukaj/sukienki-koktajlowe?stores%5B%5D=125

prom dresses:

domodi.pl/odziez/odziez-damska/sukienki/sukienki-na-studniowke
allani.pl/wyszukaj/sukienki-na-studniowke?stores%5B%5D=125
sukienkimm.pl/sukienki/sukienki-na-studniowke

evening dresses:

domodi.pl/odziez/odziez-damska/sukienki/sukienki-wieczorowe
bonprix.pl/kategoria/846/sukienki-wieczorowe

evening dresses and ball gowns (suknie balowe):

evita.com.pl/produkty/suknie-wieczorowe
navona.pl/Suknie_balowe
sukienkimm.pl/sukienki/maxi
domodi.pl/odziez/odziez-damska/sukienki/sukienki-balowe
Paulina   
24 Mar 2017
Genealogy / Why did(do) Poles sometimes have German first names? [28]

I guess the best way I can explain the desire, at least for me, is because America is really absent of a distinguishable culture so it feels a little "shallow".

I know that Americans think that but I disagree - you have a distinguishable culture even if it's young. You would come to appreciate it more if someone tried to take it away from you, trust me...

Thank you for this!!!

You're welcome :)

Still, I tried checking both Roman and Greek Catholic church records close to that area after seeing this, and still nothing relating to my ancestors.

I don't know much about genealogical research but I'm not sure how much you can find online - probably the best way would be to come to Poland and go to that parish and ask in the church so they would search the records for you (at least that's what my aunt did when she was researching our family genealogy).

maybe he belonged to a different denomination (Orthodox or Protestant)

It is possible. He could be a Protestant if he was German or Orthodox if he had, for example, Lemko roots. You never know with these regions, I guess...

and medieval Poland and Poland-Lithuania has always been a topic of interest for me, so I like to feel connected to it, I guess.

Well, if your family comes from Poland then you are always going to be connected to it through this :)
Paulina   
23 Mar 2017
Genealogy / Place of birth: Tereza Minsk - Russia~Poland? [2]

There's a village in Russia, in Krasnoyarsk Krai, Bolshemurtinsky District called "Minsk" (Минск):

mapdata.ru/krasnoyarskiy-kray/bolshemurtinskiy-rayon/derevnya-minsk

There's also a village in Russia called "Tereze" (Терезе) - it's located in the Karachay-Cherkess Republic, Malokarachayevsky District.

I also had an idea that "Tereza" could be a village or a town in the administritive district of Minsk in Belarus (Belarus was once a part of Russia) but I didn't manage to find anything on Google nor in Russian on Yandex (it's a Russian search engine like Google), so I guess you would have to ask a Belarusian about this.

Btw, Tereza is a Russian and Belarusian equivalent of the name Teresa/Theresa (in Russian: Тереза, in Belarusian: Тэрэза).
Paulina   
23 Mar 2017
Genealogy / Why did(do) Poles sometimes have German first names? [28]

The part of Galicia they lived in was in a district called Sanok, and the town they came from was a place called "Lalyn" (not sure if I'm spelling that right).

It's a village called Lalin:

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lalin,_Poland

Was there a German presence in this area that would give credibility to this theory?

There's been a German presence in that area since the 14th century:

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sanok#History

"Marcin Bielski states that Bolesław I Chrobry had settled some Germans in the region to defend the borders against Hungary and Kievan Rus', who later turned to farming. Maciej Stryjkowski mentions German peasants near Przeworsk, Przemyśl, Sanok, and Jarosław, describing them as good farmers. "

As for the village Lalin - during the Middle Ages the village was divided into two settlements: Lalin Ruski (Ruthenian Lalin) and Lalin Niemiecki (German Lalin).

So I guess this gives you an idea about the German presence over there :)

However, this surname seems to be very uncommon in all aforementioned countries, hence why I cannot track down it's origins.

Maybe you could give us the surname (if it isn't a secret)?

Btw, I've discussed on one internet forum with a German man living in Berlin whose family have lived in Poland since sth like 17th century or longer (I don't remember exactly), he has family both in Poland and Germany, his mother is Polish and his Polish language is pretty much perfect.
Paulina   
19 Dec 2016
News / Poland's political crisis deepens [228]

the exclusion was maintained by the Konwent Seniorów

Where did you get that info? The only thing that I've managed to google was that Petru proposed that the Konwent Seniorów should be called to resolve the crisis (the article is from 10 hours ago):

wiadomosci.wp.pl/ryszard-petru-zaapelowal-o-zwolanie-konwentu-seniorow-i-spotkanie-szefow-partii-6070872155890817a

I'm glad I'm not the only one struggling with the 'why'...

Oh, you're not the only one, trust me...

Because JK was utterly formed by te PRL

Not only him... I thought that Poles don't have a problem with understanding what democracy is all about despite all those years of communism, but it looks like I was wrong - quite a lot of them don't seem to understand... or care - I don't know...

And look here:

tvn24.pl/gowin-o-kryzysie-sejmowym-i-zmianach-dot-dziennikarzy,700968,s.html

Gowin says that he doesn't know anyone in the government and among the PiS MP's who would like Kuchciński's restrictions for the media.
Paulina   
19 Dec 2016
News / Poland's political crisis deepens [228]

The whole thing started, when opposition decided to literally occupy the chamber of parliament.

You seem to forget why they did that - Kuchciński excluded an opposition MP and he did that against the rules (and for no reason, really). The opposition got pis$ed because Kuchciński wasn't treating the opposition MP's fairly for quite some time and this was a drop that filled the cup.

Normally this wouldn't fly, but currently ruling party they have more than 50% of MPs, so they have necessary quorum to pass most laws just by themselves.

The problem is that this chamber wouldn't fit all those MPs so we don't really know whether there was the necessary quorum or not. Why we don't know? Because the media weren't allowed in. There was a view from one camera on the wall that didn't show the whole chamber.

Plus some MP's signed the voting list... after the voting ended... which may mean they didn't vote at all... and that's illegal...

So we don't know whether we have a legal budget or not - what labour courts will do with this?

PiS at this point is all about sh1tting on the rule of law in favor of rule by party leader - just the like PRL.

Indeed.
And the weirdest thing is that they don't have to do that - they have majority anyway... So what's the point? Are they stupid? Self-destructive or what?
Paulina   
19 Dec 2016
News / Demonstrations in Poland in defence of democracy. [2554]

Sure i am.

A fan of Putin?

Im sure that good relations with The West and with The East are just like that.

Really? PiS seems to have problems with both the West and the East... lol

We can cooperate with all.

With the devil too? lol

Putin is now probably rubbing his mits with glee at the sight of hostilre mobs ont eh streets

You think he wasn't doing that during all those demonstrations about Smoleńsk with torches and when he watched the devastation of Warsaw during the Independence Day marches?

The sight of such anarchy and general instability is grist to his mill.

PiS caused this anarchy and instabilty by breaking the law and the Constitution.

Right now I don't care what Putin is rubbing, tbh, what I care about is whether my country will be a democratic, successful country and not some semi-authoritarian corrupt state ruled by incompetent, primitive idiots who can't tell democracy and rule of law from their toilet paper.
Paulina   
19 Dec 2016
News / Demonstrations in Poland in defence of democracy. [2554]

Only crooked and corrupted countries like Italy or recently Hungary are doing things like that. Its not about KOD, about coup, about thiefs from PO or PiS...its about STANDARDS !

Exactly.

Those few manipulated people always make me laugh.

Pro-Putin Russians laugh at those anti-Putin protesters in Moscow too. They find them hilarious and pathetic too. (Oh, and they consider them to be traitors either manipulated or bought by the West). So you're in "good" company.

You're probably a fan of Putin too? :)
Paulina   
19 Dec 2016
News / Poland's political crisis deepens [228]

KOD claimed to mobilize 250,000 people on the streets of Warsaw,this was taken up by the world press,the actual number of demonstrators being closer to 40,000.

Where and when? Which demonstrations are you talking about?

I am suprised you didn't know about the demonstrations in advance they are well publicised...

I've barely watched TV since quite some time. I get too angry at PiS :) And I've become an aunt recently :))) My niece was supposed to be born on November 11, can you imagine :), that was the "deadline" but I guess she's a "Soviet scum" too, because she decided to come to this world the following day :/ The whole family was hoping she would be born on the Independence Day, that would be pretty cool, but oh well...

As for the first KOD demonstrations - I live in Kielce, I don't know whether there is a demonstration in my city every time when there is a demonstration in Warsaw or other bigger cities and at that time I didn't imagine anyone would organise a demonstration against PiS in Kielce (you do realise that Kielce is one of PiS strongholds, right?), so it didn't even come to my mind to look for info about any demonstrations in my city.

I'll probably go to one of those demonstrations eventually, if they continue to organise them, or if they won't - maybe I will go to demonstrate in Warsaw (less likely though - something really, really bad would probably have to happen), although there doesn't seem to be a point - PiS doesn't seem to care about most of them (Black March was an exception to this rule, I guess) and isn't changing its ways. I would go to them only because it's the right thing to do, not because it will change anything... I can imagine many people wonder - what's the point... You gotta admire people who go to each of those demonstrations...
Paulina   
19 Dec 2016
News / Poland's political crisis deepens [228]

the numbers demonstrating are not big

But they are supported by many people. I don't know anyone who would attend those demonstrations (I didn't attend them either for various reasons - I didn't even know about the first demonstrations of KOD in Kielce, I was a bit shocked that anyone dared to demonstrate against PiS here, tbh :)) but I know many people who support those demonstrations.
Paulina   
19 Dec 2016
News / Poland's political crisis deepens [228]

Unfortunately, I have a terrible cold and I can't get into the discussion in detail (yes, my comment could be even longer, so be grateful lol), etc., gotta go to bed ;/// but I just have to comment on something because all of this is far more sickening than my freaking cold...

And ask yourself: if it was Civic Platform trying to push through this restriction on journalists, would you support it then, or oppose it

Haha-ha-HAHA! Observer... Allegedly president Komorowski proposed similar changes in law but of course PiS... opposed those changes back then :D
I didn't invent it - on Friday night I suspended for a while my boycott of state TV and decided to check how the events in the Parliament and outside of it were shown and commented on TVP Info but there was this TV show "W tyle wizji" or sth like that and so I listened a bit and a right-wing journalist Rafał Ziemkiewicz had a fit of objectivity, apparently, because he pointed out that when president Komorowski wanted to introduce such changes in law restricting journalists in the Parliament PiS criticised him and opposed those changes :D

I don't know why that law wasn't passed - I guess it was voted down in the Parliament or maybe Komorowski pulled out of it after being criticised or maybe Ziemkiewicz twisted something - does anyone know? Because I don't remember this...

Intent behind those protests is to overthrow democratically elected, legal government of Poland or to provoke bloody clashes on the streets in Poland.

I see, Ironside, that you know everything about what "zaplute karły reakcji" are thinking :D

Where was any of this in their manifesto, alongside reducing the retirement age or the 500 child payment?

There wasn't, as far as I know.

Being democratically elected is no guarantee against authoritarianism - rather, democracies need to have mechanisms against it, such as the constitutional court that PiS now ignores and has by-passed.

Of course.

Rather, it is a betrayal of the people to label them traitors for demanding their rights to dissent within the current law!

You're preaching to blind fanatics...

under which new law? never heard of anything like that - are you sure we live in the same country

Are you kidding? It was all over the news. Well, maybe not on the state TV, I don't know lol

Maybe you can't imagine it today

I wonder if that's the problem with PiS supporters - lacking imagination and knowledge about how such process develops over a time (dissolvement of democratic rights). I've discussed for years with Russians so I realise how such creeping process may go unnoticed by ordinary people... On the other hand in case of Poland it isn't such a slow process - it took Putin some time to get Russia to its current state and PiS is doing some kind of rather hasty Blitzkrieg.

The changes PiS is making (and there will be more and I suspect it's going to be worse and worse) will affect ordinary people only after some time and by then it is possible that they will be brainwashed to such an extent that they won't know things can be different, better. At least that's what I fear. Of course, at some point Poles may wake up, but I'm afraid it will only happen when the standard of living will get low enough, because as one Russian commented on the situation in Russia - "the worst kind of zombie is a zombie with a full stomach".

Yes I think it will stop there - if you think otherwise then in my eyes you are hysteric

I don't think he's being hysterical at all.

This action has been condemned by Polish Academy of Sciences, State Council of Nature Conservation, science departments of Universities of Wroclaw, Katowice, Krakow and Warsaw. So, basically, all major scientists in Poland. And UNESCO.

Then they must be "SOVIET SCUM"!!!! :D There's no other way :))) All of them - demonstrators, journalists, the opposition, judges, prosecutors, scientists, environmentalists, artists, ordinary people and whoever is currently (I am not up to date recently lol) on the target of PiS populists :) We should round them all, pack them on a train and carat them to Kremlin Russia where they belong! Who needs scientists anyway, right... lol Or the opposition... and the rest of that scum :D

I mean that those demonstrators are Soviet bastards!

Then I am a "Soviet bastard" too, Ironside. And my parents who took part in Solidarity strikes during the commie times with ZOMO at the gates of the factory where they worked. My mum told me that once during a strike my grandma who lived in the countryside was told by a neighbour that he heard on the radio news of ZOMO shooting at workers in a factory in Kielce (probably it was some kind of histerical :) gossip) and my terrified grandma took a bus all the way to Kielce and found the factory where my mum was working. My mum was called out to the gate and there was my grandma - clutching the bars of the gate and crying like a baby because she thought they might have killed her daughter.

Btw, my grandma voted for PiS last year - for my mum and dad so they could have an earlier retirement lol My dad didn't go to the last elections, I guess mainly because he got pis$ed at PO for those changes in the retirement age (he was a somewhat reluctant PO voter).

But now he's even more pis$ed at PiS.

And as for my dad - he was a member of our local electoral committee on behalf of Solidarity during the first elections when Solidarity was allowed into the Parliament. I was a small kid back then - I wanted to watch "Isaura" or some other Latin American sope opera lol but my mum dragged me and my even smaller brother out in the rain (I was so angry lol) to the polling station. She said: "We're going to see daddy, it's important for him". I remember to this day the green curtains behind which people where voting in the local school and now I'm grateful that my mum took us "little citizens" to witness such a historical moment :)

There was also this lady who protested in front of the Parliament last Friday night - she was asked by a journalist how long was she standing here and she answered: "Since 1968" :) She meant that she took part in the demonstrations during the March events of 1968.

So why exactly are you calling us "Soviet scum", Ironside? Do you know who we are? What we think? What we care about? What is important for us? You clearly haven't got the slightest idea.

And what where you doing during March protests in 1968? Where were you during Solidarity strikes?
Where were you?
Who are you to call these people "Soviet scum"? What did you do for Poland? You don't even live here, do you?

What baffles me is the complete lack of understaning by PiS supporters of the intentions of people who go to KOD demonstrations and other people who criticise PiS. I don't understand this. It's seems to be pure fanatism. Another planet. Parallel universe. I didn't imagine that something like that could happen to Poles...

I don't see all people voting for PiS as some kind of "evil incarnate". So what is wrong with you, PiS supporters?

PiS must know that the restrictions work both ways - they might want to protest one day, when they are in opposition. But this doesn't seem to matter to them. Isn't that a bit chilling?

My thoughts exactly. I don't know whether they lack imagination and are that short-sighted or whether Kaczyński plans to be the next Putin... Piłsudski... or whatever.

You know what, during that TV show "W tyle wizji" on TVP Info they had a call from a viewer who expressed a sentiment that maybe it would be better to "pogonić" this whole Parliament - according to the caller we could use someone like Piłsudski to make "order"... :)) Ordnung muss sein... Who needs democracy... It's so messy :) Ziemkiewicz was talking to him, but he didn't crticise such an idea in any way. That was pretty worrying...

Oh, and you know what Ziemkiewicz in the same TV show called KOD protesters? "Kodomici" (kodomites). He said, smiling, that it was a "biblical reference". Not sure what he meant by that, the only association that came to my mind immediately was "sodomici" (sodomites). That's the level of our current state TV, it seems :( Unbelievable...

again - YOU ARE PARANOID - I think it comes with education - the more educated people are the more paranoid they get

*FACEPALM*

Did you mean Jarosław Kaczyński, btw? ;D

those on the streets protesting are nothing more than Brussels puppets...

No, you are an idiot who has no idea, clearly.

The rest of your utter drivel is just too dumb to be taken seriously.

What a devastating argument, Ironside! :D You're such a great debater :)

if Russian wanted to invade Poland it would do it long ago - why wait?

Because Poland is a member of the EU and NATO, for example? For now, at least... ;P

The man also has no ideological principles at all, so whether he decides to support Poland in any way will depend only on what he can get from it (and very good terms for him), not whether it is the 'right' thing to do by Poland and her people.

That's my assessment of Trump too - he's a businessman. I don't think he cares about democracy, right or wrong, etc. He will care about American interest and that's it. If he thinks it's in American interest - he will side with Russia (and in result against Poland, as usual). I have little doubt about it, tbh...

Can't you wait till they meet/speak to each other till you make this statement?

You mean like when Bush looked Putin in the eye and "found him to be very straightforward and trustworthy"? :D
I honestly don't understand what's with this naivety of latest American presidents towards Putin.

Only in your eyes.

Not only in his eyes.

homegrown psychology

...of many Polish experts and journalists... You seem to underestimate Russia, gumishu... Obama already made that mistake.
Paulina   
14 Dec 2016
Life / What is the reaction of Poles to Russian? [95]

Molotov gave the impression of being "pro-German", which he might in fact have been. Fact remains though, he was wary of, if not intimidated slightly, by Hitler:-)

I didn't write he was pro-German, I don't know whether he was "in fact" pro-German or not. I wrote that he was a long-lasting supporter of the agreement with Germans and probably that's why Stalin dismissed Maxim Litvinov from the position of the Commissar for Foreign Affairs (since Litvinov was rather a supporter of alliance with Great Britian and France) and appointed Molotov in 1939.

Whether Molotov was wary or intimidated by Hitler that I do not know, maybe he was pis$ing his pants for all I care - I have no idea and I don't know how does this matter and why we're even discussing this man. In the end it was Hitler and Stalin who decided about the content of the pact and about signing it, not Molotov.

As far as Germany "courting" Poland, hardly a whirlwind courtship, if any!LOL

Well, it was significant enough for Russians I discussed with or so they claimed :)

The relationship was scarcely equal

I didn't write it was equal, I wouldn't even say there was any "relationship" and that was my point - Nazi Germany was courting Poland but Poland refused to go along with it.

Germany merely looked upon Poland as fodder for the German Reich, as a nation populated by ignorant, drunken peasants (whom Hitler even referred to as "Untermenschen"), there if only to do Hitler's bidding!

And you think that German Reich looked upon the Soviet Union in a different way? lol Of course, the Soviet Union mattered far more militarily and politically than Poland, there's no doubt about it, but Hitler and his ideology regarded all Slavs as subhumans.

Have you heard about the Nazi Generalplan Ost? According to this plan all Jews were to be exterminated along with majority of Slavs (the rest would be turned into slaves of the Reich). Russians were to be entirely exterminated by stopping the birth rate of the Russian population and 3-4,8 mln of Poles were to be left alive as slave workforce. The Nazi Germany was supposed to rule from Portugal to the Ural Mountains.

I wouldn't call it exactly an "equal relationship" but each to their own, I guess :P

Poland was one of numerous former Soviet "satellite" states/republics, used by Moscow for her own ends right up through the fall of Communism in around 1989-90.

Yes, and? I don't understand what's your point, Lyzko, and why we're even discussing this.
As I wrote, Poland didn't "go to the altar" with neither Nazi Germany nor Soviet Union. I think your comparison with a bridesmaid isn't correct - Poland wasn't even present at the wedding. Poland was kidnapped and gang raped during Nazi Germany's and Soviet Union's wedding night. After the World War II Poland was forced into Soviet Union's "harem" - it didn't end up there by its own free will either.

That was my point.
Paulina   
13 Dec 2016
Life / What is the reaction of Poles to Russian? [95]

Hitler basically pushed Stalin's man Molotov into signing!

I don't think Molotov had to be "pushed" - he was a long-lasting supporter of agreement with Germans.

As usual, Poland was the buffer between Hitler and Stalin, forever caught in the middle, always a bridesmaid, but never a bride.

As far as I remember Nazi Germany was courting Poland but Poland didn't feel like going to the altar with Hitler.

Seems she still hasn't made it to the altarLOL

I guess we prefer marriage out of love, not pragmatism lol ;)
Paulina   
13 Dec 2016
Life / What is the reaction of Poles to Russian? [95]

Well I think the current semi-official Russian position is that Poland caused WWII through it's intransigent refusal to meet entirely reasonable German demands.

Yes, there was even an article in "Rossijskaja Gazieta" (state newspaper), I think, which outlined this semi-official position and was emphatic towards Hitler on this issue :) It stems, of course, from the fact that the annexation of Crimea and general mood in Russia resembles the actions of Nazi Germany and the state of mind of Germans at that time and such comparisons were being made (the article appeared some time after the annexation). So Russian propaganda had to deal with that somehow. And they did that in a pretty twisted and shocking way - I must say that I was surprised to what lengths they can go, especially considering the hate of Russians towards the Nazis. It probably means that everything is possible now. Propaganda is capable of remarkable things - it wasn't the Nazis' fault that they invaded Poland, but Poland's, it isn't Russia's fault that it took Crimea - Ukraine was "asking for it". Blame the victim :) Pretty disgusting if you look at it from the moral point of view.
Paulina   
13 Dec 2016
Life / What is the reaction of Poles to Russian? [95]

Its true russians don't give a **** about Poland or much else lookibg at the world class rare failed white person country.

Well, I did come across quite a few Russians on the internet who seemed like they did "give a ****" about Poland or at least about what Poles think about Russia and Russians (to the point of being obsessive, even if they usually claimed they didn't care :)). Although I imagine that majority of Russian society doesn't know nor care much about Poland and Poles. I think it's similar to some extent with the majority of Polish society - I doubt Russia is constantly on the minds of ordinary Poles (I don't mean the media here or some politicians).

There is a difference of levels of interest between the countries, of course, but I don't think it stems from "inferiority complex" as the charming troll suggested but from the difference in potential of doing harm :) Elephants (countries like Russia) don't usually care where ants are going, because they don't have to, but ants (countries like Poland) have to know where elephants are going in order to survive. Hence the increased "interest" on the part of Poland and Poles.

Russians, on the other hand, seem to be greatly interested in Ukraine and Ukrainians which leads me to a conclusion that Russian interest isn't something I would necessarily wish upon my country and my people :P
Paulina   
12 Dec 2016
Life / What is the reaction of Poles to Russian? [95]

Russians don't give a **** about Poles or Poland, but Poles seem to be obsessed with Russians.

I know, pumpkin, I know, Russians who read everyday Polish comments translated into Russian write the exact same thing as you do ^__^
Maybe you're one of them? If yes, then give my regards to the She-Bear and her little bears - I didn't visit their forum for a long time lol Or maybe they got a life at last and shut down the forum? :P
Paulina   
12 Dec 2016
Language / Polish inscription in a book for a loved one [35]

we have our reasons. Please respect that. That's all I ask.

I have to agree with EuroBrit on that. It isn't our business. I don't understand why you guys jumped on him like that.

I myself thought it's weird that he would write her name ended in "i" that's why I commented, but later on I remembered that a Polish girl I knew who's name was Gabriela was called "Gabi" for short and that there was a girl in our highschool who's name was nicknamed into "Sali" (both are rare names in Poland, btw, in fact - the second one is so rare that I'm not giving it here on purpose :)) so I suspected it can be a nickname in his girlfriend's case too. It doesn't have to be declined so it's all good.

you clearly implied we're a bunch of snoops for asking for the necessary information.

Come on, maf, he didn't. He clearly wrote "it only takes that one mutual friend to be on here".

What I consider respectful you consider weird.

If it's a common name you probably don't have to be so careful, nevertheless, I respect your sentiment.

If you think we're prying and nosy, then just wait till you meet her freinds and family (or her for that matter - once she's decided she's locked you down).

He didn't write he thinks we're prying and nosy. And you're generalising (not for the first time). Poles do differ among each other, we're not some identical robots from a factory line. You don't know her nor her friends or her family. I'm Polish and I'm a very private person, especially in certain matters like intimate relationships and I must say that EuroBrit comes off as a gentleman and as woman I would feel safe with such a respectful man. It wouldn't hurt if more men were like him, tbh.

Well it is a very public place and sadly respect is in short supply around here to boot.

But there's plenty of judgement, as we can see lol

You do come across as terribly stuffy and serious, perhaps you are, but you're probably a very nice person

He definitely seems more nice than "stuffy and serious".

It can translate as 'beloved'

True, but I wouldn't exaggerate with that... "Dla mojej kochanej (Name)" would be less heavy or "poetic", I guess, but also probably a little bit less elegant in this context (dedication in a book). I suspect that EuroBrit may be a more refined type and so maybe his lady is like that too so she may appreciate this kind of language.

The last place I expected to find a dissection of my character was on a language forum.

This isn't a normal forum... Better avoid it like a plague, it may destroy your soul if you stay here for too long... lol :))
Paulina   
11 Dec 2016
Language / Polish inscription in a book for a loved one [35]

Her name ends in 'i'.

Is this a Polish name? I don't think any female Polish name ends in "i"...

Would you mind explaining to me why your suggestions are completely different to my initial translation?

When you're giving a book in Poland as a present with a dedication then you write in Polish:

"Dla mojej ukochanej (Her Name),
na zawsze Twój, (Your Name)."

It means:

"For my darling (Her Name),
forever yours, (Your Name)."
Paulina   
11 Dec 2016
Life / Libraries in Poland [20]

Another links:

biblioteka.stalowawola.pl/index.php/wypoyczenia-midzybiblioteczne

"Materials brought from other libraries can be made available only in the Main Reading Room of Municipal Library in Stalowa Wola for the period of 3 weeks"

lib.tu.kielce.pl/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=18:regulamin-wypozyczalni-miedzybibl&catid=5:miedzybiblioteczna&Itemid=18

"9. The materials brought from other libraries are being made available on spot in the Main Library"

If I googled some more I'd probably find more of this.

Do you still want me to get my eyes checked, DominicB?
Paulina   
11 Dec 2016
Life / Libraries in Poland [20]

You ask them to order it for you from another library. It's called interlibrary loan, and it's free.

But will they allow me to take it home?

You know wrong. The only books you can't take home with you are rare manuscripts and archival copies, and books put on reserve by professors so that they are available for the whole class to use.

Maybe it depends on the library in question?
Here you have this for example:

biblrac.pl/pl/site/index/2-abc-czytelnika/118-uslugi/155-wypozyczenia-miedzybiblioteczne.html

"The materials brought from other libraries can be used only in the library's reading room for a certain period of time as specified by a library that loaned the material. The cost of bringing the library materials from other libraries is covered by the reader according to postal fees."

Not at any library I heard of. Certainly not in Poland. I ordered hundreds of books that way during my stay in Poland.

Maybe you ordered books from Polish libraries?
Here you have fees for bringing books from abroad in National Library:

bn.org.pl/programy-i-uslugi/wypozyczenia-miedzybiblioteczne/oplaty-za-sprowadzenie-materialow-bibliotecznych-z-zagranicy

That's expensive. It cost me less to buy the books I mentioned in an online store and I could keep them for life...

It's a bit cheaper in the Jagiellonian University:

bj.uj.edu.pl/wypozyczalnia-miedzybiblioteczna

It's "even" cheaper in Wrocław University, but, still... 50 zł?:

bu.uni.wroc.pl/o-bibliotece/wirtualny-przewodnik-uzytkownika-cenniki#miedzybiblioteczna

I could buy a book for 50 zł... And I could use it at home whenever I wanted, for as long as I wanted and keep it forever.

For most students, that's a prodigious, or even prohibitive, outlay for mere convenience's sake.

Well, imagine a Polish student would need a book from abroad - he or she would have to pay sth around 50 zł, apparently.

Even after my patient explanation above,

Sorry, Dominic, but it wasn't a "patient" explanation - you behaved like an unpleasant as$hole.

you are still thinking of a library as "books".

No, I'm not. I know you can find more in a library than just books. But that's not what we're discussing right now.
Paulina   
11 Dec 2016
Life / Libraries in Poland [20]

Of course you can simply borrow them.

So why do librarians say that they don't have this or that book (not that it was borrowed by someone else, but that they simply don't have it)?

Of course you can simply borrow them. Are you that clueless?

Yes, imagine that I am :) So, please, explain. Maybe there will be a very special place reserved in Heaven for you too :))
If a librarian says "We don't have this book in our library" - what do I do??

And any library can get you just about any book in the world through interlibrary loan.

From what I know such books are only available in the reading room of the library and that wouldn't be an option for me anyway. I had no time to go to the library every time I had some time to write my graduation work. I needed something that I could physically borrow to home or simply buy. So buying books was far more convenient, fun and definitely more productive option for me.

Had you paid attention, your studies would have been a lot more productive and a lot more fun

I did well enough, thank you very much :))

And a lot cheaper, too, because you wouldn't have had to spend money on books that you could easily have read for free.

Well, apparently you have to cover the cost of sending the book. But as I wrote - I don't regret buying those books, I kept them after I finished my studies.

you though you knew better and didn't have anything to learn.

You know what, Dominic, you don't know me and you have no idea what you're talking about.

It's comically trivial to anyone who know how to use a university library. Not even worthy of being called a "challenge".

Well, do it then :) Maybe borrow them written in Arabic or sth so it would be more interesting or "challenging" or whatever, I don't know ;)
Paulina   
11 Dec 2016
Life / Libraries in Poland [20]

Of course you can borrow any book in print even from your municipal library. For free. How can you not know this?

Oh no... So I was buying books all my life, while I could simply borrow them... And when I went to any municipal library and asked whether this or that book is available and I got an answer "No, I'm sorry, we only have this and that title of this author" or "No, we don't have books of this author, but the books of this one are on similar topic" - they all lied... They just didn't want me to lay my unworthy hands on those precious books stored away somewhere in the library dungeons... :P

How can you not know this?

Oh... I don't know... Because nobody told me? :P Please, do tell, how do I do that and what to do if they look at me as if an UFO has landed in front of them when I ask them about it? ;D

They certainly covered it during orientation.

Dominic, what they covered was how to physically search for books and other stuff in the library and told us how to "reserve" and borrow books through the university's library internet system.

They covered that, too.

Nope, they didn't!

Everything was available to you back then, no matter how long ago that was or where it was.

Sure, even during the stone age they had the internet ;))

This was all explained to you.

No, it wasn't. And now what? You will write that I was "undoubtably" blind and deaf? lol
Trust me, Dominic, I was a good student and a diligent one and I paid attention - after all I needed books for my graduation work - don't you think I would use any resources that I could get my hands on? All other students were doing the same as me if they couldn't get the books they needed so they somehow mysteriously didn't pay attention too? lol

And, anyway, I was interested in the topic I was writing about, obviously, so I don't regret buying those books - I still have them.

You never even bothered asking them, did you?

One would have to know what to ask about in the first place :)

I have never met an incompetent reference librarian. The ones I met in Poland were all extraordinary.

Well, if you say so, but the guy lives in Jordan so I'm not sure if that helps him in any way...

i dare you to go to your library and find a book that talks about the cost of stores and lands in my country Jordan and provide me with the rules and regulations about it from a book in a polish library.

Dominic, will you take up the challenge? :D And take photos of those books to prove that you borrowed them :P
Paulina   
11 Dec 2016
Life / Libraries in Poland [20]

basically any book or journal in the world is at your disposal

Dominic, what are you talking about? If that was the case there would be no need for bookstores because people would simply borrow books from libraries for free. In my case I needed also some newer books, so how on Earth would they get them for me for free?

You should have paid attention during your orientation, because they undoubtedly explained these thing and much, much more in excruciating detail.

I'm sorry, Dominic, but what's clearly "undoubtable" is that you haven't attended a library orientation course at my university, so how on Earth would you know that? :) You don't even know when I was studying and what was available back then.

And you have an eager staff of expert reference librarians to help you.

Yes, and the library staff everywhere is equally eager and expert :))

God, why am I wasting my time here again... lol *facepalm*
Paulina   
11 Dec 2016
Life / Libraries in Poland [20]

I don't think you're clear on the idea of what a university library really is capable of, even a small university library in a poor country

Well, I don't know, Dominic, I myself was buying books on the internet both in Polish and English and I think I've stumbled upon one or two in second-hand bookshop in order to make my graduation work better and more interesting (since there wasn't much in the university library), so maybe I have some idea :P

And what if he's studying in one of those "business schools" in some small city (Wrocław isn't exactly some tiny sh1thole by Polish standards, btw :P)?

he brushed off the library orientation course

A library orientation course (I had one too lol) won't help you if there are no books that you need...
Paulina   
5 Dec 2016
Language / Perfective vs Imperfective - grammar [150]

NoToForeigners, as I already wrote pretty clearly this is a coloquial usage, not correct, proper, "standard", or, as you put it, "High" Polish. This is not what people are taught at school, obviously, but people may use it like this anyway, so I think it's always good when foreigners are aware of some coloquial uses too and when it's explained to them that although some native speakers may use this word in this or that way it isn't necessarily the correct, "proper" Polish.

I don't think there's a country where 100% of population use only the "literary" version of their language so I think it's better when learners know what thay can face when they'll get in contact with live language on the ground.

No. You can't. It's "pozmywam" in both cases.Period.

Yes, that's the correct, proper Polish, but I'm pretty sure that it happens that people use also "umyję". I don't know if it's only a colloquialism or also a regionalism - gumishu and majkel would have to tell us where they're from in Poland or where did they hear it being used :)

I myself will try to remember to pay attention next time and observe whether people also use "umyję" (I'm pretty sure I've heard it) :)

"Pomyję" would be more rare and even more colloquial in my opinion, but it doesn't mean people don't use it (at least where I live).

The word "trochę" implies action wont be finished.

So? One doesn't exclude the other - it's Polish, not English.

Btw, this is not PWN dictionary, but still:

sjp.pl/pomyj%C4%99

pomyć

umyć, oczyścić z brudu wiele rzeczy, osób lub zwierząt (to wash, clean from dirt many objects, people or animals)

That's not how I would understand it myself (washing many things) but, who knows, maybe people use it in such a way too (definitely not in my region though).
Paulina   
5 Dec 2016
Language / Perfective vs Imperfective - grammar [150]

I feel there are at least a couple of posters here who would rip the sh!t out of my Polish if i got it wrong, even though I am a learner.

Nah, only Lyzko deserves that ;D

Most people here say my Polish is very good, but I know they are just being kind

We can always try you out in the "Po polsku" section of the forum :)

I know most many of the words in the polish language but I struggle to find them when making a sentence, and I don't always use them in the right context.

You could try to practice here on PF, I'm sure people would help you out.

Which is what I would have said - umyję naczynia, but this is obviously wrong.

Not really, people use this word too. I would say it's the case of coloquial Polish (umyję) vs. correct, "proper" Polish (pozmywam).

I have never attended schools and all that.

Wow, I have a sixth sense or sth :D

Is it wrong in the context of washing dishes?

"Pozmywać" is a word kind of "reserved" precisely for washing dishes, while you can use "umyć" for basically everything, except for laundry.

But it happens that people use "umyć" colloquially in case of washing dishes too.

What? that makes no sense.

You can use it in such cases:

- Pomyję trochę naczyń, a potem obejrzę film. (I'll wash some dishes and then I'll watch a film.)

Lazy Husband :): - Wiadomości się zaczęły! (The news are on!)
Wife: - Zaraz przyjdę, pomyję tylko trochę naczyń! (I'll be right there, I'll just wash some dishes!)

It kind of implies a little that she won't wash all the dishes, just some, hence "pomyję" and not "umyję" ("u-" usually implies sth finished and "po-" the opposite). But one could use "umyję" in this context too (colloquially).

Again, it's coloquial Polish but it's possible to use it in this context.
Paulina   
28 Nov 2016
Study / Turkish guy to study at a university in Poland. Is that problem for Polish people? [139]

I never said that.

You did: "They have different ideas what marriage, family and happiness means."

That is what you say.

What I say is that Muslims are the same human beings like everyone else. Just like Catholics are the same human beings like everyone else, etc. etc.

And based on my knowledge about human beings, my observations and logical thinking I think I can safely say that majority of Muslims, just like majority of people on this planet, have similar goals in life - to have food on the table, to be happy, etc. etc. no matter what their religion tells them to do (or not to do).

pay no attention to the plank in your great,great, great X 30 father eye.

You know, the Sabra and Shatila massacre in Lebanon by Christian Phalange on Palestinians and Lebanese Shiites done virtually under the eyes of the Israeli army wasn't THAT long ago (1982).

Quite the opposite, the New Testament says that you don't bear responsibility for the sins of your father.

I'm not saying that you do but bearing in mind that Christians were wiping out whole continents and civilisations in the name of God I think Johnny should show a bit more restraint.

Meaning your examples of Christians doing this or that are irrelevant to this debate.

I disagree. It seems to me Muslims probably still have some catching up to do with Christians as far as the body count is concerned and the scale of atrocities.

I'm telling this to you.

Then I answered you :)

In Poland it mean nothing, you can do whatever the hell you want. Is not even a big deal - not so in other cultures.

Yes, exactly, that was one of my points. In some cultures people don't even have much choice - maybe they often have to pretend that they believe in this or that or that they agree with this rule or that rule. I remember watching a documentary in which one reporter was travelling in trains through different countries and talking to people. One episode was about Iran - and when the train would cross a border and get out of Iran women would take off their hijabs :))

This proves my point that all Muslims are not the same, they don't have one goal in life, as Johnny claimed - killing infidels. They're not Borg. If they were then all Muslim countries would wage a holy war on all "infidel" countries or all Muslims would blow all of us up in unison. And somehow it's not happening.

Your agnostic friend too.

Then they're both prejudiced and that was my point.

Paulina do you have brain? Are you able to think for yourself?

Yes, I do and I am able :) Now tell me - did you go to school and in what country?

Not that is the view on the issue in our culture. The same that gives you all those rights and privileges. Is not a question of my personal opinion.

Ironside, what are you talking about? Gregy741 compared Islam to Nazism and that agnostic Pole compared Christianity in the past to Nazism too.
You've concluded that both of them are raving idiots.
So what kinds of views on what issues in our culture are you talking about? And what rights and privileges have to do with it?

Did I call you names?

No and I didn't call you names either - I just stated a fact.

No, so you just proved my point.

Oh, what point this time, Iron? :)))

Are you telling me that there is no differences between the way women and men talk about issues?

You would have to ask blues_fan - there was a time when he thought I'm a man, because, as he stated, I write like a man (whatever that means lol) :)

Ironside, you wrote: "There is difference between incoherent woman talk and a rational debate".
Women are perfectly capable of conducting a rational debate.
My comments aren't "incoherent woman talk".
In fact, they are more coherent than yours are. Your debating skills are often poor, Iron, and it was pointed out to you before already (I think by roz and Atch). So it's the case of pot calling the kettle black.

But could we focus on the exchange of the actual arguments and discussing stuff like adults rather than commenting our debating skills and such, Iron? :)

And, please, refrain from comments like the one with "incoherent woman talk" and I won't "call you names" then.

Christianity doesn't preach that is OK to kill peeps.

Well, that's interesting. Then why were they killing in the name of God and waging crusades?

If they want to came to Poland to study I'm have no issue with that.

I'm happy to hear that :) What about johnny_reb though? He seems to have a problem with that...

'm only have issue with your misguided views on things.

And which of my views are misguided exactly?

That is not the point daughter.

I am not your daughter, grandpa :)

The point is that Islam sees it as a martyrdom and point to the heaven as a reward for blowing up a random bunch of people.

Iron, in case you didn't notice over 1 billion people aren't blowing up a random bunch of people.
I'm not defending Islam right now - I'm not an expert on this religion, I probably don't know enough about it to defend it or not, I didn't read the Quran.

All I'm doing is defending people against unfair generalisation and prejudice.
Over 1 billion Muslims won't blow us up just like probably majority of Poles don't refrain themselves from using contraception when having sex.
So - common sense and the will to live prevails.

Better than in most places.

Well, that would be nice...

No, the WWI coupled with the rebellion of Armenian minority.

The Armenian Genocide was "the Ottoman government's systematic extermination of 1.5 million Armenians". It doesn't matter whether it happened during a civil war, a war with other countries, or during an invasion of Earth by aliens from Mars or during an attack by mutant rabbits or orcs from Mordor.

Crimes against humanity are crimes against humanity - that was my point.

If you don't know how can you lol? Is that lol express your ignorance?

No, my "lol" expresses my opinion that it doesn't matter what kind of conflict it was. Genocide is genocide - no matter whether it happens during a civil war or a local war or a world war or interstellar war or if there is no war taking place at all. It's still a genocide, those are still crimes against humanity, etc.

Do we understand each other now? *very heavy sigh*
Paulina   
27 Nov 2016
Study / Turkish guy to study at a university in Poland. Is that problem for Polish people? [139]

Everything you say about Turkey is absolutely true of Russia as well, yet Russia you like.... hmmmmmm

True.

Johnny doesn't talk about Turkish guy studying in Poland but about reality in the USA.

If that was the case then it would be more fitting if he was writing on a forum about the US. However, in this thread he was clearly writing about Poland and on behalf of Poles (quotes):

"The Polish Universities don't need you"

"you are way to smart to attend a Polish University.
I think you would be much happier if you pick a college in an Arab country which has a similar culture ass you."

"The Polish people do not want to bastardize their Catholic culture to Islam just like the rest of the world.
Pay no attention to the ex pats responses here but to the native Polish responses like the ones below."

"That is a polite way of saying, "Please don't come to Poland."

"Poland definitely would not be a good place for you to study"

They have different ideas what marriage, family and happiness means.

Sure, Iron, because you're such an expert on what marriage, family and happiness means to over 1 billion people. You can look into the mind of every Muslim on this planet. I envy you your omnipotence lol

Is that argument from the textbook - How to told your opponent to shut up without looking like an ignorant churl?.

Something like that - it's from the New Testament - I don't know, maybe you've heard of it? ;)
It goes like this: "Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?"

In fact you have no argument at all, so you lost it at this point!

Tell this to Jesus, smartass :D

Not quite the same thing.

Not quite the same thing as what?

So what? Listening to raving of some idiot suppose to b e an argument?

Well, you've just called gregy741 a raving idiot ;)

Really? Christian did it all?

Yes, Iron. Did you go to school?

BS, there are always some idiots or ideological churls that are only happy to milky their 'victim' status.

o_O What does it have to do with anything I wrote?

There is difference between incoherent woman talk and a rational debate.

Well, I can also write that there is a difference between an incoherent Ironside's talk and a rational debate. And what now, you little misogynist?

Do you really want to bring up stuff from 600 years ago? Why not 6000? Eh?

World War II ended 71 years ago and I will bring up whatever is needed to be brought up to stress my point.

The significance of either today are the same - nil!

That is your opinion.

So what this sob stories tell us?

Those aren't "sob" stories. Those are simple real life stories.
And what those stories tell us? I don't know, Iron, maybe that... you know... Muslims are people too? Like us? You guys seem to be forgetting about that.

just to blow himself up after sending to their early graves many unbelievers

Well, people like that are a small minority among Muslims, just like rapists are a small minority among men. Right, Iron?

You are getting older - no mystery there.

I'm sure my great-grandmother was getting older before World War II but what was going on at that time had nothing to do with her age, I'm afraid...

Don't exaggerate, Poland is a relatively save space.

Well, I'm not sure whether "a relative" safety is enough for that Turkish student, I guess it's up to him to decide.

Oh come on it was a civil war...

And the Armenian Genocide was what? A "foreign war"? lol What difference does it make? Crimes against humanity are crimes against humanity.

Turkey exist only because Poland and Russia can`t agree what to do with it, while we Serbians know

And what would you like to do with Turkey, Crow?
Paulina   
27 Nov 2016
Study / Turkish guy to study at a university in Poland. Is that problem for Polish people? [139]

I assure you that Serbians didn`t do anything that this world already didn`t seen in times of war.

Following your logic the Turks also "didn`t do anything that this world already didn`t seen in times of war" so what's your problem with them? Aren't you being a hypocrite?

My best friend is an EU diplomat.

And what's his nationality, if you don't mind telling us?

You are aware that they call Serbia "the Cancer of Europe".

Who are "they"?

They wish Serbia would just disappear from the face of the earth, and take the rest of the Balkan countries with it.

Well, interesting stuff you can find out on this forum... They won't tell you this on TV now will they...

There was an Austrian who once felt the same about Poland, I think his name was Adolf Hitler.

Good point, dolno.