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DominicB   
29 Mar 2017
Language / Polish - Absolute Beginner Questions. Study plan. [75]

@Ironside

Sorry, but not quite. Bluzka also means a men's sweatshirt, and doesn't resemble what is called a usually called a blouse in English at all. Both derive from French, in which it meant a men;s or women's loose fitting peasant shirt, but the English word changed to mean primarily a women's dress shirt. The English word is changing again to mean just about any kind of informal women's top. It's a false friend.
DominicB   
29 Mar 2017
Language / Polish - Absolute Beginner Questions. Study plan. [75]

"What color is that blouse?"

Not to nitpick, but "bluzka" means "sweatshirt", and "blouse" means "koszula damska z guzikami". A false friend.

Another one is "dres". When I first got to Poland, some of my students told me to be careful of men who are wearing dresses, because they will beat me up. I thought it was weird that Poland was being terrorized by gangs of aggressive transvestites.
DominicB   
29 Mar 2017
Law / Trying to get visitation and partial custody of my son in Poland. (Fathers rights?) [12]

It is highly unlikely that any family court would award residence to someone who does not live in the same country, or someone who was not married to the mother.

... or, in this case, someone who has never been within thousands of miles of said child. As far as I understood from the OP, they have never been on the same side of the Atlantic together. Mom left when she was pregnant.

Also, I'm getting a stronger vibe of spite here than of "love".
DominicB   
29 Mar 2017
Work / RELOCATING TO GDYNIA, Poland - salary question [42]

@Nikki2

Well, budget at least 1500 PLN a month for your own basic apartment, all inclusive. That leaves 1000 PLN left over for food and all other expenses. It's going to be tight. You'll survive, but it won't be much fun. And forget about savings. If this is the only job you can find, then perhaps it is worth considering. Entry-level wages all over Europe are very low, and Poland is no exception.

You might consider living in a shared apartment to cut back on rent. That's what young Poles with that level of income would do.

As for translation work, it's something I did a lot when I was living in Poland, and got paid very well. BUT, I am a senior scientist and pathologist who is native in English and learned Polish to a high level, so I was the type of translator that was most in demand, and I had zero competition. And all of my work came by word-of-mouth, and I never had to look for it.

As for teaching, if you are not a native-English speaker, you're going to have a hard time finding a clientele that is willing to pay much. You can try, but don't count on it.

A word of advice. I notice that you are coy and vague about your country of origin, something I often see here on this board among people from poorer countries. And also about your educational background. If you go into negotiations with an inferiority complex, they will sniff it out like dogs and take advantage of you. Quickly make your peace with who you are and where you are from so that you can negotiate with self-confidence and pride. If you are a Bulgarian Gypsy who studied at Southbank or Trinity St. David, that is nothing to be ashamed of. If you go into negotiations like a simpering puppy, the big dogs will rip you apart, and 3500 PLN netto is going to be the best you can expect. If you don't appreciate your own value, why should they? Grow a pair, and proudly lay them on the negotiating table for all to see and admire.

What are the languages you speak? You can sometimes negotiate a higher wage based on that. It's also going to make a big difference if you are planning on learning Polish.

Another word of advice. Good jobs are almost entirely advertised by word of mouth, face to face in the real world. Recruiters and internet sites get the table scraps, the $hit jobs that nobody in the know wants. The main reason you went to university is to acculturate yourself into the professional community in which you will eventual operate, and to build a network of real-world contacts, especially among senior academics and senior professionals in your field. Exploit that network now, and see if they have any leads. And, more importantly, if they don't, then ask them who they know that might, and so on, and so on. One of the things I drill into my students is the importance of real world networking.

A second tactic is blind carpet bombing. Send out 500 CV's and generic, but well written and self-confident, PAPER cover letters to department managers in your field (not HR departments; they are the enemy). You can often hit upon openings that have not yet been advertised. I just advised a younger colleague to do just that, and he ended up with 50 offers, five of which were much, much better than anything you will find on the internet, at double the pay. Young people like you don't appreciate the magical power that dead trees and well-written English have over people in my generation, who are doing the hiring.
DominicB   
28 Mar 2017
Work / RELOCATING TO GDYNIA, Poland - salary question [42]

@Nikki2

It's not going to be much fun on 2500 PLN a month.

What kind of work do you hope to get? Where are you from (passport)? What education, qualifications and experience do you have?
DominicB   
28 Mar 2017
Love / Why the Polish girls are not laughing? [22]

@Wulkan

Yes, it is ambiguous. You probably meant "Is your appearance amusing?" or "Is the sight of you amusing?". Or even "Do you look funny?". The way you put it, "sight" means "wzrok" rather than "widok" or "wygląd": "Czy twój wzrok jest zabawny?"
DominicB   
27 Mar 2017
USA, Canada / Pol-Am citizen wanting to move to Poland - documentations of my Polish ancestors? [14]

Be ready to take a HUGE Pay cut.

It's not the pay cut that hurts so much as the even HUGER cut in savings potential. An engineer with only $100,000 in the bank at age 52 has to start thinking seriously about saving up for retirement, and he won't be able to do that in Poland, UNLESS he gets sent to Poland by an American company and is paid American wages. Otherwise, the opportunity cost is so high that moving back to Poland is essentially a pipe dream.

Another possibility is to sign up for a five-year contract in the Gulf or in the oil fields somewhere, and then retire early.
DominicB   
27 Mar 2017
Study / MS Finance vs MBA vs MFE in Poland? [13]

finance

A MBA or a MS in Finance from a program taught in English in Poland is a waste of time and money. Neither will help you get a job anywhere, so your money would be wasted.

The MFE, on the other hand, is an excellent choice, and will help you get a good job just about anywhere.

Yes, it is math intensive. The prerequisites for the course are C++ programing, and the standard science/engineering sequence of math courses: Differential and integral calculus and analytical geometry for scientists and engineers with transcendentals, linear algebra, differential equations, partial differential equations, multivariable calculus, advanced probability and statistics for scientists and engineers, and formal logic for scientists and engineers. You will have to be at ease with statistical software for finance like SAS, RATS, Gauss or SPlus, as well as with standard math packages like Mathlab. Some programs require at least one semester of pure math, like real analysis.

If you are lacking in any of these areas, take the necessary coursework in your home country. and then apply in a year or two. The better your mastery of math is, the easier the masters coursework and research will be. You don't want to be stuck in a rigorous engineering program with deficiencies in math. Once you get behind, you'll never catch up.

Contact schools to find out all the prerequisites, talk to your professors about how to best fulfill them, and get to work!

Good luck!
DominicB   
26 Mar 2017
Law / Residence permit in Poland. Starting an own business is enough to get this? [14]

@Peruvian

The golden age for teaching English in Poland is long over. You're twenty years too late. Schools try to save money, and wages have stagnated while the cost of living has increased. Quality full-time contracts are harder to come by, and most schools offer "garbage contracts" and pay their teachers as independent contractors (that is what they mean by starting your own business: they shift the hassle and expense of doing business from them to you). Few schools are willing to go through the hassle of hiring teachers from outside of the EU as there is no shortage of teachers within the EU, or even within Poland itself. The best an unqualified newbie can expect is a very frugal, hand to mouth existence with little in the way of fun. It is entirely possible that they will not pay you enough to cover the cost of your relocation, your certificate and your very basic living expenses. A viable career option it is not.

When you ask a question like this, you have to provide more detailed information about yourself, or else you just get a generic answer. Where are you from (passport)? Where are you now? How old are you? What is your educational background? What qualifications do you have to teach English? And why, of all places, Poland? Where is this school, and how much are they offering?

Avoid Callan method, "direct method", Avalon and Berlitz schools like the plague. They are scam outfits that pay extremely poorly, if at all.

It is also suspicious that a school in Poland is hiring in March, when the school year ends in two months. Something is not right with that. Generally, newbie English teachers either do not work during the summer, or work at greatly reduced wages. There is little high-paid quality work available, and what little there is, goes to more experienced teachers. So count on three months with little or no income. How do expect to survive the summer?

And yes, the quality of your writing does indeed matter, and, yes, you will be judged by it, wherever you go. Your sloppy writing hardly inspires faith in your ability to teach English.
DominicB   
24 Mar 2017
Work / Senior system administrator in Wroclaw - is 7500 OK? [29]

@Rising star

You're going to need at least 15000 PLN a month to lead that sort of lifestyle, or more. depending on how much you need to send home to India.

Also, never tell your prospective employer your salary expectations. You automatically lose the negotiation process. Always kick the ball back in their court and ask them how much they are offering. If they don't tell you without hesitation, then don't work for them. It means that they are dishonest and want to take advantage of you. If you tell them your salary expectations first, you are just telling them that you are stupid and giving them permission to treat you like an idiot. And that is exactly what they will do.
DominicB   
24 Mar 2017
Law / Residence permit in Poland. Starting an own business is enough to get this? [14]

Thanks

Someone is joking with you. There is no way that you will be granted a visa and residence permit on the basis of having your own business without a proper work permit and full-time work contract.

The fact that the "school" wants you to open your own business is a sign that they are not going to pay you well enough to live. The fact that they offered you, a non-native speaker, a job to teach English in Poland, when there is no shortage of non-native speakers in Poland, is very, very suspicious indeed. Either they are totally incompetent, or they are a scam outfit, or both.

In any case, there is no realistic way for you to survive by teaching English in Poland. Or Spanish, for that matter. Forget about it and make realistic plans. Poland has nothing to offer you.
DominicB   
24 Mar 2017
Love / My Polish girlfriend and her change of behavior [5]

@Ishq

Reading your post is like walking in on somebody "enjoying themselves". Excuse me for not knocking.

And I am not sure what you mean by aggressive behaviour - if it's shouting then OK

It is???
DominicB   
23 Mar 2017
Life / Driving license needed while driving in Poland? [8]

@aahil

It's not only disgusting, but it can give you a criminal record and earn you a one-way ticket back to your home country. False documents are treated VERY seriously in the EU. My friend, who is Polish, failed three times. And another friend's wife failed eight times before she passed.
DominicB   
22 Mar 2017
Work / Legal professional on a lookout in Poland [4]

@topu

In Poland, not particularly. Try the richer countries of western Europe or the English speaking countries. Germany, Austria, Switzerland, Denmark, Sweden, Norway, the Netherlands, Belgium, France, the UK, Ireland, the US, Canada, Australia and New Zealand. You might try South Korea, Japan and Singapore, too. Wages in Poland would be too low to make it an attractive option.

Also, do not rely on recruiters or internet sites to find good jobs. The best jobs are advertised solely by word of mouth, face to face in the real world. Recruiters and internet sites get the table scraps. So build up and exploit your network of real world contacts, especially senior professionals in the field and those that have worked in richer countries.
DominicB   
22 Mar 2017
Work / Legal professional on a lookout in Poland [4]

@Jitesh.k

Pretty much means that you can cross Poland off the list of places you should be looking, as well as all the other former communist countries of the EU, and probably the southern European countries, too. I can't think of a single country in this group that does not have a glut of law-school graduates and relatively inexperienced MBAs. Nor are any of them a suitable place for a clueless young person to figure out what to do with their life.

So, as far as getting a good job is concerned, that is pretty much out of the question. There is no demand for your qualifications, and any job you might find would be very poorly paid and will give you little, if any, saleable experience. As for improving your qualifications, the best place to do that is India, unless you can afford to go to a very good school in an English-speaking country.

I hate to say it, but studying law is a poor investment unless you have close relatives or very close connections in the legal field, preferably who own their own practice. It's a very tough field for outsiders to break into, unless they are top students from top schools, and even then.

And MBAs are not worth much either unless you have lots of prior experience or are a top student at a top school, and even then.

In terms of long-term goals, it would be worth considering getting a degree in a field that requires lots of advanced applied mathematics, like petroleum engineering, geological engineering, biomedical engineering, econometrics (not economics), financial engineering, financial mathematics (not finance), or actuarial sciences. These are the fields with stellar job prospects, We live in a technocracy, and people who can do high-level quantitative analysis are in demand.

A further bonus is that, with a technical degree, your law degree will become useful, as you will be able to enter one of the few fields of law in that is easily accessible to outsiders: patent and intellectual property law.
DominicB   
21 Mar 2017
Life / Good place to live in Poland (if you want to move on)? [66]

You'd need to provide some information about yourself to get a good answer. Where are you from? What job are you considering? Where are you planning to move to? Does your spouse have a profession? How old is your kid? Do any of you speak Polish? How old are you and what are your long-term goals, especially in terms of saving for a home, retirement and your kid's education? Are you planning on having more children? How long do you plan to stay in Poland? And what do you mean by "comfortable"? Different people define that in radically different ways.

And why, specifically, Poland? Poland is not a particularly attractive country for immigrants because wages are low, cost of living relative to wages is high, especially for foreigners, and savings potential is very, very low, which is usually the deal-breaker. Savings potential is usually the most important financial criterion when seeking work in another country.
DominicB   
21 Mar 2017
Travel / Bialystok - what to expect? [4]

@nervousgal

Białystok is a cool town. There are quite a few things to see in the city and in the countryside. Whatever you do, make sure that you attend the Sunday Divine Liturgy at St. Nicholas Orthodox Church. The choir is one of the best in Poland, and it is definitely worth seeing. The service and music are breathtaking.

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The Holy Spirit Orthodox Church is also a gem.

There is a really interesting Medical Museum that is worth visiting, too.

You will be safe as long as you avoid drunken people. Threats to personal safety almost always come from drunken people in Poland, so if you avoid them, it is highly unlikely that you will have an unpleasant experience. Don't worry. There are lots of students in town, so you will have no problem finding people to talk too. You'll have fun!
DominicB   
20 Mar 2017
Work / Salary for a senior software engineer in Poland [195]

Should I believe him?

No. They are vastly underestimating the cost of the apartment, and not telling you about the hidden costs. First of all, good studio apartments (one-room apartments) are very hard to find. They are very much in demand, and the supply is not so good. Most of them that I have seen have kitchens that are basically useless, so that means that you will have a hard time cooking at home. A good studio apartment is going to cost from 1500 to 1800 PLN all inclusive (rent, hidden administration fees, and all utilities except internet/phone/TV). If it costs less than that, there is something wrong: bad kitchen, bad windows, bad location, bad neighbors, etc. That is why you need the help of an OLDER experienced Polish colleague to find a good apartment.

My guess is that you will not be able to find a good one-room apartment and will have to rent a good two-room apartment, which are much easier to find. The total cost for that will be between 1800 and 2200 PLN, all inclusive.

If you are making 7500 PLN gross, that means about 5000 PLN after taxes. After deducting the cost of your relocation, your apartment costs and your living expenses, the most you would be able to save is 1500 PLN, and that is if you live like a monk. You won't be satisfied with that lifestyle for long and so you will dip into those savings to avoid going crazy. Even then, it will not be a comfortable life.

Like I said, if you want to save 3500 PLN a month, you will need to earn 12,000 gross. I doubt an employer that initially offered you 3000 PLN is going to go that high. I would never work for an employer who made an initial offer of 3000 PLN. They are obviously either unethical, or just plain stupid, and it is not pleasant having either as an employer.

Again, if you are interested in saving money, Poland is not a country you should even be considering. Wages are very low, cost of living relative to wages is very high, and savings potential is downright abysmal.

You will never find a good job if you depend on recruiters and internet sites. Good jobs are advertised exclusively face-to-face in the real world. Recruiters and internet sites get the table scraps. If you want a good job, use your network of real-life contacts to find one, especially those people who have worked in richer countries where the savings potential is much higher than in Poland.

This job is not the dream job you are looking for. Stop wasting time on it and look for better opportunities elsewhere. They certainly exist.

As for pollen in Poland, it is a big problem. Often, there is so much pollen in the air that it forms patches on the roads and covers cars with a thick layer of "dust" after a rain. I was surprised when I first saw it. If pollen is a problem for you, then anywhere with wet weather is pretty much out of the question because of the abundant vegetation. Try to find a job in Saudi Arabia or the Emirates.
DominicB   
20 Mar 2017
Classifieds / Studio Apartment in Poznan, Poland [8]

Some of the websites that I have come across are a little shady and look like they are trying to scam a customer

You're going to find it very difficult, if not impossible, to find an apartment on your own. You will need the help of an OLDER, experienced Polish colleague who knows the market and knows what to look for. For example, bad windows can increase your heating costs in winter. And an apartment in a bad location can mean a complicated commute that can be time consuming and nasty in winter. And after chatting with the landlord, they will know who is a shyster, and who is good. They can negotiate a lower rent than you could.

Forget about looking on internet sites. You're going to end up paying premium or with a substandard apartment in a bad location.
DominicB   
20 Mar 2017
Work / Salary for a senior software engineer in Poland [195]

@fappper

If you're hoping on saving 3000 to 3500 PLN a month, then you're barking up the wrong tree in considering Poland, where savings potential is very low.

Your BASIC costs per month will be:

Off the top, your relocation costs: travel to and from your home country, visa and residency permit. This has to be deducted from your monthly wage, as it is a cost associated with working in Poland.

Housing: 2000 PLN all inclusive (rent, fees and all utilities except internet/phone/TV).

Everyday living expenses (food, household supplies, cell phone and transportation): at least 1000 PLN a month for a rather frugal lifestyle for a non-smoking, non-drinking, non-dating single person that cooks all meals at home from in-season local ingredients). Considerably more if you want a better quality of life.

That's about 4000 PLN right there, without expenses like clothing and shoes, travel and entertainment.

So if you wanted to save 3500 PLN a month, you would have to earn at least 8000 PLN a month net, or 12,000 gross.
DominicB   
20 Mar 2017
Life / Good place to live in Poland (if you want to move on)? [66]

@apfreitas

Not if your son is of school age and has to be put in an English-medium school. A good school can cost more than 4000 PLN a month. Also, not if you plan on saving up for college or retirement. Even if your son receives free schooling, you're not going to be able to save very much more than a very modest rainy day fund. Those are the two biggest problems ex-pats face in Poland: tuition for school-age children, and a very, very low savings potential.

To give you an idea about costs, a modest two-bedroom apartment will set you back 2500 to 3000 PLN a month, all inclusive (rent, fees and utilities without internet/phone/TV). Food and general household expenses for three people is going to come to 1500 to 2500 PLN, depending on how frugal you are. Less if you prepare all meals at home from scratch using in-season local ingredients. More if you like beef, seafood, or prepared or foreign foods, or if you eat or snack away from home a lot.

That's a minimum of 4000 PLN right there. Then there's clothes, travel, entertainment, etc. As well as the cost of your relocation to and from Poland which has to be added in (tickets, visa, residency permit). That will leave you with only a pittance to save, if anything at all. And that's without taking into account schooling/daycare for your son.

6000 net a month is a rather modest existence for a young, single ex-pat, a frugal existence for a couple, and not even worth considering for a family.
DominicB   
16 Mar 2017
Study / Wroclaw or Krakow or Bialystok to study in Poland? [36]

What century was it when you hosted yours?

Less than ten years ago. One German and two Czechs, two engineers and a botanist, all of whom spoke Polish. And all of whom were the workaholic type, with serious, carefully-planned projects to carry out, both science-wise and language wise.

It would surprise me that there was such a shortage of serious candidates that the selection committee would have to resort to clueless bunglers who just want to take a nice extended vacation.
DominicB   
16 Mar 2017
Study / Wroclaw or Krakow or Bialystok to study in Poland? [36]

Understood, maybe I learn Polish, right?

Maybe not. That isn't going to happen. You have demonstrated no serious motivation to do so. And if there's one thing your going to need while learning Polish, it's motivation. Lots and lots of motivation.

There's something bothering me here, or a few things.

I'm not seeing any evidence that you know anything at all about Poland other than its position on a map.

I'm not seeing any evidence that you have a concrete plan of what you intend to do while in Poland.

I'm not seeing any evidence that you have researched the universities in Poland to decide which would offer the best circumstances to carry out your plan, if you have one.

I'm not seeing any evidence that you have reached out to any Polish academics working on your specific area of interest.

You seem to be more concerned about choosing a city, not the best university department to further your education.

In short, I'm not seeing any evidence that you are an attractive candidate for an Erasmus scholarship.

Why do you want to come to Poland, and what do you plan on doing there? It would help if you shared this information with us, we can provide you with useful information.
DominicB   
16 Mar 2017
Study / Wroclaw or Krakow or Bialystok to study in Poland? [36]

Also which city more improves my language?

I think you're misunderstanding something here.

The primary and default language of education and life in general in Poland is Polish. Most academics, especially those over thirty years old, cannot speak English at all. Many have only a rudimentary reading ability restricted to topics only in their field of interest. Younger people may have learned English in school, but only a minority can speak it with any degree of fluency, a very small minority can speak it well, and very few indeed can write in English. Outside of the university, you will be hard pressed to find anyone who speaks English, aside from a few waiters in the city center, perhaps, or a few workers for international companies. As a non-Polish-speaker, you are going to be very much an outsider, just as someone who does not speak Turkish would be an outsider in Turkey.

If learning English is a priority for you, then the only real options are the UK and Ireland. Otherwise, as Maketis points out, you might become better at communicating with other non-native speakers, but will develop a lot of strange and bad habits that will be difficult to get rid of. Poland is no better than Turkey in that respect.

By the way, Polish is not similar to English at all. Nor are you going to learn any Polish beyond "Hello", "Please" and "Thank you" and a small number of disjointed words during your stay. It takes years of very hard work to learn Polish.
DominicB   
15 Mar 2017
Study / Wroclaw or Krakow or Bialystok to study in Poland? [36]

@erasmustudent

As far as cost goes, they are about the same. Neither has much going on as far as finance or trade are concerned, though. If I had enough money, I would pick Wrocław over Kraków. Like I said above, I lived there for eight years myself and loved it. And, like I said above, if money were a problem, I would pick Białystok over either.
DominicB   
15 Mar 2017
Study / Wroclaw or Krakow or Bialystok to study in Poland? [36]

There's plenty of stuff that is geared to students in Białystok, too. There's 45,000 students in the city. 20% of the population. The OP will have little trouble finding things to do, especially considering that their money goes much further. They're not going to exhaust what the city has to offer by the end of an Erasmus stay.