Love / Polish Girls vs Russian Girls [813]

Maxx, I am speaking respect in general.

do you walk around calling them sluts to their face? do you make sure you go
out of your way to pull the chair from under their arse?

I dont believe half the crap posted on these threads, because its bullcrap
I see people posting they dont respect, but in a natural setting, like in
a resturant, or just out in public, I dont see horse Sh*t like that. and so this
leads me to believe that its all dumb conversation to make people look bad.

I am not buying it! as my mother used to say, if you dont have anything good
to say, dont say it at all!

just goes to show you what small minds can think up. hmm I dont have anything
else to say, so I will call some names and yes, that will make me look so intelligent
and I will tell everyone what country I am from so that they will get the wrong impression of my people!! Yah there ya go, say some more silly stuff, let the whole

world know you are not the sharpest pencil in the box and like to talk smack
about people to make your self look better.

USA, Canada / Michigan Polish markets and places? [20]

mike there ya go, :) someone came to the rescue :) lol

Genealogy / Information on family name, Krzycki [23]


No problem :) the more the better :)

and your welcome :)

binkowski.org/detroitl.html

Vespa, Heres some interesting reading, and all are welcome to read this
because it does explain some other interesting facts about immigrants in
the Detroit Area!! maybe I should have made this a open discussion on
another thread?

Genealogy / Looking for information on family name TOBICZYK [18]

Nope Koach, but there is alot of holy cross cemeteries , mines in Michigan.
if you also need to get records from the cemetery, you can write to them
the only prob with them is, sometimes they wont search without a date of death
which is the reason your searching, so I sum it up to lazy and excuses.

if you need some help locating, I can try, maybe we can find some dates for you
to get you going on the mailing etc :) Let me know.

Genealogy / Information on family name, Krzycki [23]

Vespa,

first of all, without proper knowledge I cant help you.

when did your family immigrate?

if it was early on, I can direct you to the ellis island site. they have up to 1924.
if it was late I can look into my ancestry and see if there is anyone by that name
and the location Which I need that too, what state :)

as for records. I will try to find a link to the town name, unless it was later
on. genealogy is hard, you have to have little more then just the name because
the name could be spread around the world :)

so info I need is.

location of where they grew up
(make sure they always stayed there too :)

Time frame of immigration. I will check some stuff out and see if I can lead you
in right direction :)

some times local librarys have genealogy like Obits and old news articles.
thats another direction you can also try for now till I get a location of this family
in the states. :)

Genealogy / Looking for information on family name TOBICZYK [18]

No, it will get better , you will see :)


Prehistoric?

lol. Lonestranger, this would be a miracle to get that far back and know who your
dinosaurs are :)

Thank you for compliment :)

Read email tonight :)

Bringing this back up to top :)

USA, Canada / Michigan Polish markets and places? [20]

Sorry mike, I know its hard :(

Maybe your only option is to have someone go to Hamtramak and send you some
via UPS. or maybe call and see if these places have a online site to order?

I am not good at polish so I cant help ya there :(
Best of luck to you though while your away at college :)

Genealogy / Looking for information on family name TOBICZYK [18]

Katrina I have some Tobiczyk info from holy cross cemetery, and might even have
some baptismals for ya :)

I believe Tobiczyk is also related ( way up there) to my mothers side.
i have also done research on them. I can help some I hope.

join the forum and email me I can help you out. I don't have photos. but will do
my best with the other info :) :)

Genealogy / Information on family name, Krzycki [23]

Lincoln? what country are you in?

my only help is in the U.S. as for Poland, once you find a town name then you can
write to parish.

But I am sure there are others here who can help :)

Love / Polish Girls vs Russian Girls [813]

I think you should have respect for all women. isnt that what your taught growing up?

USA, Canada / Michigan Polish markets and places? [20]

mike, I tried looking it up on the online and no luck, lots of farm markets though!!

Hamtramak is the closest .

Life / Do Polish People steal a lot? [330]


lol, I have to say, I have done the same responding twice. :)

well least u did what I asked lol ya joined, way before I asked ya too lol.

Life / Do Polish People steal a lot? [330]


OMG someone who sees what I see!!

Amazing!! join Please JOIN!!! you are needed here!

I am so with you, amazing , took the words right out of my mouth.

Thank you :) !!!!!!

News / Polish Immigrants Leave America for Europe [210]


who are the 3rd world Immigrants?

News / Polish Immigrants Leave America for Europe [210]


agree.

Ive not heard of people leaving, maybe that was their plans in the first place?

Love / Is Indian/Polish relationship possible? [370]


That is so sad :(

well, if I can try to help, somehow, someway. I will do so.

Love / Is Indian/Polish relationship possible? [370]


Awsome, I thought most Polish families kept their family history alive.

Here, its very hard, still alot of people ask me what I did to get to records.

you have to be like a sherlock holms and follow the clues. lol


its more foot work KB. trust me I know. then its mail work :) lol


Death certs and social security apps are helpers KB :)

because they knew their own parents and they lists parents names :)

Love / Is Indian/Polish relationship possible? [370]


Wow, Thanks :)

Love / Is Indian/Polish relationship possible? [370]


wow, u into genealogy? or family history, Awsome!

I have mine back to about 1759 (approx)

thats in Lomza.

lots of military in my family all the way up to my great grandfather. skips my
grandpa, then my father and all my uncles.

Love / Polish girls attitudes towards sex. [568]


I can tell you from experience, and also others , saying that, when you truely think
you know somebody, they change, it happens in real life, to men and women.

your life is going wonderful, then the rug which you stepped on, seems to be pulled
out from under your feet.

alot of women, some married many years, children are half way thru school, the
husband decides he is going thru a mid-life crisis, and wants out of his marriage
and finds a young pretty lady to satisfy this need to be young again?

the woman was so sure that they had the perfect relationship, no signs of
anything wrong, What then?

my Point, you can never ever be sure .


Explain yourself? what gives on the I hate everyone and everything polish?
do you think that london belongs to you and you only?

thats pretty selfish, self centered. you have ample opps to go and work anywhere
as well as anyone now, so why dont you try it? instead of focusing on so much
hating people you know nothing about.

Love / Polish girls attitudes towards sex. [568]


and she is the one who didnt leave the child, and is working to take care of this
child, many do it here, just like they would in a real family the only difference is
its minus 1 person who was supposed to be there, but decided to leave.

and that dont make her at fault in anyway if she is the more responsible one
who did take on this child and didnt leave like a coward like the husband did
and she is the one who feeds , clothes, supports , nutures, in every way possible.


I can respect that your opinion is one which seems to lean more towards the
old fashioned, but, europe is changing more and more everyday.

your opinions, and views are very strait, and I am sure you have many women
knocking your door down , we love hearing those words.

.
I hope that your not the only one in Poland who feels this way.

Love / Polish girls attitudes towards sex. [568]

Im not talking culture. its a matter of how much one person can take when
married, children, housework, errands, working outside the home as well.

what are you referring to?

Love / Polish girls attitudes towards sex. [568]


Frank, Poland is moving towards a New light. women still nuture men because
at times they require this , and play the role of oh poor poor sick me. lol

getting back to the point, here in the US , theres not many women who dont work
and have a career and attempt to do all these needed chores which are
exhausting after long hours at work. Physically, most women can do them, mentally
its frustrating to be the only one doing them when there is perfectly able
bodies adults who can pick up after themselfs and help out when needed.

generations change, it dont mean the values arent there, when a man says
your my princess, does he mean cinderella? do all the house work, and find
the time to get yourself all pretty for the ball?

we do what we can to keep the whole process going, but in all fairness, is this
a fair way for men to think , when women have to in this day and age have to
also work along side her husband and keep up the bills and have the housework
label branded on her, cook, take care of the kids etc.

when men who think this is the only way understand that they need a quick
reality check because this is how we become weary and fed up and say
goodbye and toss in the towel, then divorce rates might go down.

Women are taken advantage of just because of the label "homemaker"
and if you think about it, what kind of life is that for someone who is the
Rock of the family, and keeps it going.

I say ,more power to those in Poland who have gone above and beyond and
made these changes.

no matter what, we will always have those instincts of sensitivity and nuturing
for children and our husbands. its built in like you say.

Genealogy / Monte Cassino + Russian labour camp [23]

feefhs.org/BLITZ/HEREDITARY_NOBILITY.htm

Blitz has alot of information on Russian military and Polish . maybe try them.

Life / Do Polish People steal a lot? [330]


we all had thought of this, we think making a nice piece of choc cake with
ex lax chips on the top :)

its unfortunate that people do this, if someone was to say or ask me, hey do you
have some extra, i would willingly share with no re-payment.

its the constant stealing. so far, its stopped, maybe the sign that says you
will be punished, and possibly lose your job worked!

for a short time anyway, till they think that no one is watching again .

I have to work today, Im buying lunch there. hopefully they have something
worth eating.

Life / Do Polish People steal a lot? [330]

no its not rubbish, People steal, its not limited to anyone either.

I work in a hospital, we put our lunches in the refrigerator expecting to see them
when we get to have lunch, come back and someone has either taken a bite out
of a sandwich or stole the whole lunch! Money taken from coats, and out of bags
and whatever else, there have even been coats taken. How ballsy is that?

we all decided to get a small camera to put in our break room and also put up
a sign that this room is being watched, since then it has stopped, but it can
happen again, and we think we know who it is, just catching them in the process!

No it isnt rubbish, it could be your neighbor for all you know.

the one thing that really gets me is when people say how Christian they are
and you watch them do it . that makes me so mad, anyone who says I am
close to god and steals must have got their morals mixed up.

I lock up everything, I pay way to much to just give trust away.
its just the way things are, you have to keep what you have, cause there might
be someone out there who wants what you have and will do anything to get it.

Life / Alcohol problems of Polish people [141]


:) I am with ya on that one, I'm Non functional before my first cup of tea as well!

Life / Alcohol problems of Polish people [141]

The Alcoholics studied had not been using heroin so how did the THIQ get there.

ok

so what your saying is I should believe it because they said these guys who were
winos and picked up on the street , and they were homeless winos, how do you
know that they didnt have heroin, they were homeless, I doubt they had much of
a medical history , and even so, most Druggies dont tell the truth till they get tested
for it.

I am sure if someone was desperate enough to get heroin, they would do what
ever it was to get it, homeless or not that is a powerful drug.

another thing that raises questions for me is the fact that they called them wino's
that dont sound like a professional scientists words. if you know what I mean.

Researchers, using animals, have yet to identify a single gene responsible for any alcohol-related behavior.

found this in some research I was looking at about this,

alcoholism.about.com/cs/alerts/l/blnaa18.htm

so lets shoot animals up with alcohol and tell everyone that its a frickin gene in
humans that is hereditary.. yeah thats it!

they dont know, so it isnt fact, there is suggestion, but not proven.
but hey shooting innocent non alcoholic animals up with thiq to see if its true.

hmmm thats science for ya.

but this gives ,me an idea, I think I will advocate with the animal cruelty groups
on this one, cause it seems pretty pathetic that this occurs just so they can prove
a gene exists in humans that leads to alcoholism.


I have all the genetic makeup, mom dad both drank, older brother, younger
brother, grandfathers (both) grandmother 1 before that I dont know, I drank
for 12 years, never had shakes, nothing, no side affects, and

my head might be thiq (LOL) but no poison in it.

anyway, I dont mean to sound so stubborn, I just wont buy the genome project
as the reason for lifestyles.

what about marjuanna? Nicotine? cocaine? are all these part of that project?

so we are all really made up of drugs and not flesh?

its hard for me to grasp that concept, not that I dont believe alcohol dont
produce chemicals that cause us to become one, but that our genetic make
up is a part of it.

yes if you grow up in a home with alcoholics, the risks are higher.
I am sure children with adhd and add and bipolar are also born from
alcoholic parents, that I would believe that it altered their chemicals during
pregnancy, I am not closed to that, but the gene theory and the shooting up
animals <~really convinced me that its another excuse .

for all my life, I believed that Pluto was a planet, taught this in school, then
science came along and bursted my bubble! its not a planet after all!
whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa lol

they should focus on a cure, what makes the brain to stop wanting it.
so they can recover.

Love / Polish Girls vs Russian Girls [813]


now why would you ask a stupid question like that, when you chose a name that
(donkeys penis) is surely saying you have some really strange fantasies!

Life / Alcohol problems of Polish people [141]


I used to drink every day of the week, then stopped. havent done it since, I had no
symptoms of wanting it again, even on the days that I didnt drink, no shakes, no
nothing, my dad drank, mom drank, my mom was alcoholic, but, once someone told
my dad, well stop drinking or you will have another stroke, he did. same with smoking

my mom, she could drink every day, then stop for a week, then drink two days, stop
drink again, then go a month without it, but she would get so belligerent when she
did drink, my dad was quite, he would just sit and drink, no loudness, no anger, just
worked in the garage, but he drank like my brother as he was younger, and many
nights come home penniless.

my whole family minus my sister, <~she drank too, but moderately, then once in while.
so , you see, there was plenty to blame it on, but, the real blame is within the person!

I dont drink, maybe once every six months, one small drink, then I am done, it dont
make me want it more, when I was out Partying when I was in my 20's yes, it was the
cool thing to do. but never had any shakes, and I see plenty of women who are
alcoholics come thru my hospital, yes, they say proof that it is a gene, but
what did they blame it on back when the cavemen were here? after all, the cavemen
didnt drink, but yet, they are part of our history if we want to use genes?

Maybe they smoked dinosaur poop! lol that is why we are all messed up.


yes, I drank, I went out to bars, nightly, and no, didnt do it to me, so this theory
might be right in some ways, but, I dont buy it.

science has been proven wrong before many times, this is a temp fix till they find the
real truth, but I am living proof that the chemical described is not the reason, least
my opinion , and I am sure there are many more like me.

put it this way, with the money I spent in bars, I should own one.
I dont doubt, that chemical is not produced, but I dont believe in that gene theory
at all.

Ps, I started going to bars to meet guys when I was young, I hated beer, and it took
me a long time to actually choke down mixed drinks when I started trying them.

like I said, cavemen didnt drink, Hey, who knows when the first alcohol beverage was
created??

Is alcoholism inherited?

Research shows that the risk for developing alcoholism does indeed run in families. The genes a person inherits partially explain this pattern, but lifestyle is also a factor. Currently, researchers are working to discover the actual genes that put people at risk for alcoholism. Your friends, the amount of stress in your life, and how readily available alcohol is also are factors that may increase your risk for alcoholism.

But remember: Risk is not destiny. Just because alcoholism tends to run in families doesn't mean that a child of an alcoholic parent will automatically become an alcoholic too. Some people develop alcoholism even though no one in their family has a drinking problem. By the same token, not all children of alcoholic families get into trouble with alcohol. Knowing you are at risk is important, though, because then you can take steps to protect yourself from developing problems with alcohol. (See also "Publications," A Family History of Alcoholism - Are You at Risk?; Alcohol Alert No. 18: The Genetics of Alcoholism.)

All of the above, contradict each other.

The genes a person inherits partially explain this pattern, but lifestyle is also a factor.

then it says BUT:

Risk is not destiny. Just because alcoholism tends to run in families doesn't mean that a child of an alcoholic parent will automatically become an alcoholic too. Some people develop alcoholism even though no one in their family has a drinking problem

Sorry, but Again, I say, science can be wrong, "WHICH GENE?"

I do believe it is a disease. but not a gene.
Nor will I buy that story ever.

but, I do Question Science when they will find the gene that makes us smoke
cigerettes also. I will definately give up on emm then.