Language / Polish Lessons Units [189]

janusz

I love this.. and I think I am catching on too... there was two in peticular
that caught my attention .. well three.. but the two that made me chuckle
I wont say cause I am sure they will catch it too :)))

yes,, very helpful

Language / Polish Lessons Units [189]


I agree with this.. Janusz!!! more,, more more...

Least the alphabet :)))

Genealogy / Looking for information on family name TOBICZYK [18]

gotcha.. already in the process :)

Life / Do Polish People steal a lot? [330]


Krysia this is good to hear. because people do get the wrong idea about America.

so I too am glad your source is very impressed here.. :)

Genealogy / Looking for information on family name TOBICZYK [18]

Email me :))) please :) this is so close. some of my grandmothers family was also in New
York.. I think I have a record of one of your Tobiczyk.. matter of fact..more then likely do :))

News / What is wrong with Poland that Poles emigrate? [167]


you are so right.. keeping food on the table,shelter over heads,keeping the livelyhood
going.

News / What is wrong with Poland that Poles emigrate? [167]

Aj, u know if I thought she was putting down the brits I would jump in there..

everyone has something to contribute.

News / What is wrong with Poland that Poles emigrate? [167]


so your telling me that people dont call off sick and go do something else?

what is wrong with saying that? people actually do it.. if you say no, your a liar and
lying to the whole forum.

probably where bunia works it happens. alot , some people dont like thier jobs, or
dont like work at all..

I agree with her, because it happens in every work place, people do take days off
when they are not sick.. and maybe where she works it made them extremely short
for staff so people were mad and upset at these people who called in and maybe
from viewing their work habits they were/are lazy at work.. how can you even
challenge this? Why would you challenge this ?? I dont challenge any of the lazy
workers at my job.. it makes me upset to because patients suffer due to the lack of
time i can spend with them... this goes for any job..

I think you owe those Polish folks an Apologie for saying such a thing, I would agree
if you had a valid statement.. but I didnt see her statement as wrong. yours was to
actually degrade and humilate.. some might not speak english, doesnt make them
lesser then you.. that was low.. you called them stupid.

so from her /yours.. I agree with her. you were aiming to hurt.. she was only telling
truth and it goes for everyone, she is only guilty of generalization..

News / What is wrong with Poland that Poles emigrate? [167]


aj, why do you put people down so much? what personal satisfaction do you get out
of it??

how do you figure they are too stupid? they were smart enough to come to the uk
and take/send money back to poland /investing in their own country is pretty smart to me..

maybe you think they are too stupid, but I think while your basking in your own
fueled hatred, they will be richer then apple pie and pass you by a long shot because
your stuck so far into the mudd with hate, you cant find the line to pull yourself out.

Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]


if your not a party person, why would you go for someone who obviously is?

I suggest you go for someone who is more layed back and likes to do other things
besides partying, besides you should know young adults like to have fun their way
and she might not be ready for a relationship.. if thats what you want, good luck.

we cant tell you how to win the girl. thats really up to you.

somethings in life are worth sacraficing for ,and some not..

Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]


what a perfect setting, because her mother would probably encourage a nice gents
advances,, if you see her there all the time, you should ask what her name is or if you
cant do that, buy some flowers and ask one of the other trainers if they would
deliver them to her, but dont leave when its done, watch from whatever machine
you are at.. if she is surprised and smiles, hey, move in and start talking . or tell her
you would like to meet afterwards for a chat :) and invite her mother and sister if
necessary :) compliment everyone, I can bet she would be extremely flattered and
to boot, mom and sis are there to encourage ..

and trust me, moms and sisters are always looking for the children and siblings
someone nice, so whatever way you decide to meet :) its up to you :)
be casual and charming.. maybe even bring a rose or two for the mom and sister
will pretty much put you in their family as future son in law. :)) whether you are
willing or not.. lol

ken, the above is just a senario, she could be married and out with her family
but, ya never know until you make that move. so take your time,. as always
you cant hurry love.. <~as phil collins remake song goes :)

Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]

Ken, we all have our days when we dont like to talk and just have a Quiet day :)

thats normal, so dont think its just a ken thing :)))))

I am especially non-talkative early am before my cup of tea :) LOL...

Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]

re-bound relationships are just horrible, because the unsuspecting new lady or gent
has no idea how much was involved and they wont ever measure up, its up to the
one who broke it off recently to take a break, because this causes more problems
in the end, and what if the "old love" shows back up and says I want you back?
the new one gets hurt, then the old love says, oh yeah, I remembered why we
didnt work and leaves again, and thus, another mess..

not good to jump out of the pan and into the fire..

Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]


no, i never did this, even when I was single, one man at a time, it always ends up
someone getting hurt, people dont realize the domino effect it causes.. because
then that hurt person goes on this huge revenge kick and everyone in their path
including the ones that actually love them get hurt. the process never ends till the
domino effect is broken. everyone on a re-bound, just dont work.

even when you break up with someone, take it as learning, to not do it with
the next person, or take it slower, think before you react so to speak..

Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]

yes, and you dont have to bend over backwards to please everyone, dont think of
it as a chore that you must complete, its a lesson in ethics.(human duty)
how you want to be
as a person. small favors go a long way really.. and you feel better because you
did something helpful without expecting back..

I think so far your doing wonderful, because not only did you accomplish something
you found that fight that you need to survive.. something you had all along just
tucked away!!


:)))))))) rule of the universe. without it, we dont go to the moon, we dont sail
strange waters, or find new lands..

Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]


not at all ken :)

its the better way to think.. :)

alot of people say, its the nice guys who finish last, but its the nice guys who are
hard to find.. you just need to put yourself out there more..

I can tell you from experience with my brother.. alot of times women notice
the attentive men.. my brother is very attentive, girls come up and say
to me all the time is your brother married? no hes not, why I dont know , they
both arent, of their own choice.. but when I tell him that a girl is looking at him
he turns red as a beet!! its funny how they see that in him, being attentive
is a very good aspect in a man. my brother is friendly, he talks to all the neighbors
and everyone at work.. of course if I could get him to meet one and start dating
but hes content, so I leave him alone, but thats one of the things I was approached
with by other females.. and he wasnt really a momma's boy, i have two brothers
so she had to pay attention to both, they are just very kind hearted.

plus, the middle brother ( attentive) likes older women, he is 42. he flirts with
some, but not in a bad way, just his own way, its funny to because they bring him
things to his work , like homemade bread, cookies etc..

when he sees a neighbor out, he asks if she would like some help and he does
it for her, every store I go with him he knows alot of people and it never fails every
time, people are just stopping us to say hello and I think our whole city knows him!
I would swear by this.. lol

so ken, maybe , while your out taking a walk, or perhaps out somewhere ....

I think you have the ball bouncing now :))) so go get emm tiger :)))

Wooooooooooooooooooo hooooooooooooooooooooooo !!!! " Whistleing"

Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]


as i have said southern, this was not his objective. I know you guys mean well
but hes not you, he is his own person, with respect, that stands out.

he wants meaningful, not love emm and run.


Thats it Ken :)))) Keep your thoughts and feelings the way they are today.
I said it before and I will say it again, I am very proud.. there is a nice catch
out there for you.

Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]

some do, and some dont.. and those that do always say, what was I thinking???

lol gotcha again...

Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]

give me examples and proof.. :)

today ken was proof enough , i just dont think we are on same page.. me and you.
your talking a whole differnt thing then what I am, thus, a very good example of
" out in left field" LOL..

gotcha!

Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]


she has a boyfriend of 6 years they went to the uk to work.. what more do you need?
do you think all women lie? if she lied why would he want her anyway then???

if she stumbled on her words when he was talking to her then i would say yeah
she isnt interested. she was willing to make small talk and the conversation went
smoothly. I even have as much trust in ken that he would have been able to sense
that, but the main objective was approach. he didnt know which way it was going to
go and it was more of the fear of the approach then the getting the girl..

my personal opinion you only know call women, so therefore this makes you no
expert on us real down to earth women who dont hang with the playa's who
risk disease and like to think they are the man, but deep down have some issues
they need to deal with.

ken doesnt want to be a sugar daddy, or playa, he wants something real and the
advice your giving him will only send him further into a worse situation..
he has ability to open up and doesnt flaunt how many, or how often or how he
does it.. I am sure that if ken thought he was going the wrong way he would
be asking more advice from you, but the way your sounding is like he should have
just forced himself in there and that wouldnt win someone's heart, it would annoy
them.

not to mention this is the work place, he has to present himself with dignity and
respect towards her, sexual harrassment could have happened if your advice was
followed. I dont think ken would appreciate that..

Yes i get it more so then you, I wouldnt doubt the skeletons in your closet southern
because you obviously are hiding..

two thumbs up for ken, he did wonderful and accomplished something today..

two thumbs down to you southern, for being so cold and selfish.. again self-centered
and only thinking of one thing, thats the impression you give ..

I would bet there is more that agree with that..even some of the guys have
voiced their opinions and I hardly think they are jealous so dont even go that
route!!

Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]

southern, right now you make no sense , so what if he asked her if that boss was
her boyfriend they all work kinda close together things do happen like that.
he happened to see them chatting together, he came strait out with what he wanted
to know. if she was single, then he could have went further with it. the whole point
is to bring out the man from the shell. this is what he personally wanted, he feels
better, now he can approach without fear. dont you get it??

it doesnt matter because your so self -soaked in your own little pathetic world
the intelligent man you portray no one wants to listen to because of this.

His Question was done respectfully, if you dont ask you dont get a answer
so he went about it properly, and she talked calmly with him, I see nothing wrong
with it, I dont think ken needs so much advice as you do on how to treat women!!

Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]

southern. hes content, it was more then actually dating her, which is what he accomplished, hes on a road to a better place..

Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]

Ken, I couldnt be prouder :))))))))

it is one step forward for one kind man :))))

you Accepted her answer, and that was the important thing, you are amazing
and see , you now know that you can.. :))))

Keep that outward charm coming, The next girl that catches your eye, she might
just be the one :)))) lol

(standing ovation for Ken) Yeahyaaaaa!!!

Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]

Im sorry, was I doing that? lol

forgive me :) LOL

Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]


hes ok, actually I dont watch much movies at all, but the ones that catch my attention
I concentrate on, johnny depp is talented though :)

southern is the one who watches to much dodgy movies, he thinks he can land a woman by licking his lips and batting his cyborg eye.. lol

Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]


all ya have to do is throw some mud on him, and viola!! dirty and sexy.. same time!
lol

orlando in a five o'clock shadow with a pirate outfit on? thats perfect reasons
to buy a bottle of vodka and go hunting for hidden treasures.. lol

ooops with him of course!!

Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]


I dont know sapphire, sounds like hes all play no work :)))

Orlando bloom is more my style :)))) he can be my Lord any day :) LOLOLOLOLOL

Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]


southern you watch to much prn..

Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]


well, what type of person do you feel you are..

outspoken? quiet, people watcher? energetic?

do you like indoors? outdoors? clubs or fine dining? walks on a beach or partys in
the sand?

thats what I meant about finding yourself first. do you want someone like you or
oppsite?

are you avid reader? do you go to librarys ?

all these things you need to find out about yourself first. how can you know what
you want out of life if you cant figure out what you love in your life?

Ken, you may email me, we shall get you thru this. somehow , some way.
but keep talking about it, what you feel daily is important. did you go get that
spiffy suit yet?

another thing, take a first step towards confidence. post your picture or put it
in your profile so we can know you as you are. were all friends here, so no ones
going to judge , its just a step forward thats all. you dont have to, but I do
encourage it, most of the time people are afraid of what others will think, and we
want to get past that , do it, say I dont care what you think this is me accept it
or kiss my :)