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A J   
17 Aug 2010
News / New cross war in Warsaw [530]

and this comes from the older generation... thanks for setting up a good example...

Maybe some old geezer forgot to put on his pampers that morning, and maybe he ate too many Heinz beans, and maybe he farted so hard that it actually tore his pants! Maybe this all just one big misunderstanding! An accident!

xD

Wildrover!!
A J   
17 Aug 2010
UK, Ireland / The slow, whiny death of British Christianity [86]

I didn't say otherwise, A J.

Not exactly, but you made it sound like their growing influence has something to do with the waning popularity of Christianity, while in reality, the current immigration policy is the only explanation for their presence.

My point was that they come freely to the UK anyway and they don't need our nod of approval either.

Oh, but they do need our approval, because we have to live with them. People can sign and file petitions you know, and laws can be changed or adjusted.

Norway has also suffered from so-called charity. I watched a documentary where a Norwegian kid was made to feel bad for just being who he was by Muslims. He is constantly harassed at school.

Sounds familiar.

We know what the immigration laws are in many countries, that's really not what I was discussing at all.

I was, because it's obviously issue-related.

They can get in quite easily and that's the point.

Well, it seems to me that you guys are running out of jobs and houses over there, so there's only one logical conclusion.

;)
A J   
17 Aug 2010
UK, Ireland / The slow, whiny death of British Christianity [86]

why, I am not in the US, Canada does not have such newborn wave of religion, we pray in nature:)

I do other things in, and with nature.

;)

no, it does not. It is still your choice to manage your sexual desires or think on your own.

Not if there's a group which supports the kind of social control which condemns sex before marriage.

I think it's something they need to make peace with, because I accept the fact these people have the right to live however they want to live, eventhough they're a real small minority right now. They've never accepted the fact that I didn't want to live like they wanted to live. And there's the difference. I wasn't looking for acceptance within their group. I was looking for the right to live how I want to live, without catching abuse from them all the time.

my control? I am not trying to control anybody. I am just making an educated observation that religion can be a tool to control the society.

Yes, your control, since you're the one who says we need it. I mean, whatever you choose to support is yours, isn't it?

Social control is totally unnecessary. We have laws, rules and a sense of morality. We've all agreed that certain behaviour is unnacceptable, which is what we call crime. Religion itself will never stop anyone from doing anything. All religion ever did was covering a society under a blanket of make-belief, lies and hypocrisy. Religiously motivated control isn't social control. I would rather call that thought-policing, which usually results in segregation, social terror, mental - aswell as physical oppression.

If you are an adult, you make your choices and there is no need to feel pressured by any religious groups.

You can tell that to the people who wrapped me up in barbwire once. (When I was five.)

I was merely speaking in general terms about what I have learnt about the role of religion in a society.

I guess I'm flaming a litte. I mean, you're an educated woman, so you must have some kind of opinion of your own.

As for rapes, they have nothing to do with religion, but with the inferior position assumed by some males who rape women.

Read the Qu'ran. Most Muslims follow the example of Mohammed to a certain extent. You should read how he feels about women. His teachings do not condemn rape. Quite the contrary. His teachings encourage rape.

Religion has everything to do with control. (Or should I say a lack of control?)

fair enough. I like the rational approach :).

I just wish to know where you stand.

:)

Very nicely articulated Seanus.

Oh, there will be a culture-shift alright, but not the one you're envisioning here. See, you seem to forget one thing; The majority of the second or third generation of Arabian immigrants will probably renounce their religion aswell. I mean, a lot of pretty Moroccan girls here seem to be very interested in Dutch guys, and they're obviously not wearing a Ni'qab, Hijab, Hidjaab or Jilbab..

:)

The secular/feminist/homosexual-type ideologies.

Who's taunting who here? Beheading? Really?

Now tell me my comment doesn't make sense ;) ;)

Seanus, you can drag as many scientific research and surveys into this discussion as you want, but none of these theories change the fact that religion has nothing to do with immigration laws. (Seperation of Church and State, remember?)

I don't hate God. I don't hate you either. I don't believe that a God who loves all of us unconditionally would condemn anyone. People do that. I just want to be able to live my life and make my own decisions within the boundaries of our laws, without catching any abuse for that. (Making a few mistakes doesn't make you a monster.) That's all.

;)
A J   
16 Aug 2010
UK, Ireland / The slow, whiny death of British Christianity [86]

Are you sure about that?

Yes.

Look at all the people in this video, (which starts at 40 seconds).

3000 people. I think there are about 310.006.372 Americans.

This is a Christian concert and all of those people made the decision to follow Christ.

Do you even hear what he says? He says: ''Let's pray; Lord Jesus, I know I'm a sinner.'' Oh really? Since when did you know? Who told you?

It sounds like the churches are different in the U.S. ? Don't they have things like this overseas?

No, they don't. They organise art expositions in most churches around here. They even have banners on some churches, which read: ''God still believes in you.'' I think this describes the state of our churches perfectly. I also have a video for you to watch:

youtu.be/2b01yvOlXn8

You can ask M-G or any other Dutch person about these guys if you don't believe me or think I'm overexaggarating. Okay? You can see about 300.000 people here, attending a concert for the first Dutch hardcore-rap group ever, which actively spread the message of the new generation. They've opposed Christianity for almost two decades. These guys are living legends, and have influenced and inspired whole generations. You can ask any Dutch person around thirty or younger how they feel about organised religion, and about 95% of them will tell you it has no place in their lives anymore.

those are probably called megachurches, a fairly new phenomena in the US.

My condolences.

In my opinion religion serves some basic human needs:

In my opinion it surpresses some basic human needs. It condemns sexual desires and stigmatizes people who happen to have a mind of their own.

sense of belonging, sense of hope, need for having sense in life, the need for guidance, and finally, religion is a large degree a tool of social control.

We don't need your control. We have laws. We don't need your guidance, because we're adults who can think for themselves. We don't need your hope, because we aren't afraid of your non-existing Boogieman. We belong in our country, and we all share the same blood.

All those things are needed within the society, otherwise there would be a total chaos.

Oh really? Care to explain why our generation is the least violent of all generations before us? Care to explain why our generation is the least criminal of all generations before us? Of course I'm talking about the indigenous Dutch population there, not the immigrants from religious countries who are making a mess of our society, not even mentioning how many of them like to rape and assault young girls. Yeah, religion is really necessary here. We really need it.

For those who are interested, the sociology of religion is something to look into.

I guess I'll politely decline.

:)
A J   
16 Aug 2010
UK, Ireland / The slow, whiny death of British Christianity [86]

Certain people would love to see an implosion from within.

I'm convinced some people have lost their minds completely. I mean, even the silent majority of Arabians hates Islam and never asked for it, but some people here believe that they have to respect religious oppression. I'm sorry, but I don't see how I am racist for pointing out the obvious. I'm speaking up for our freedom, and of course I'm worried about the future.

By renouncing, and indeed denouncing our Christianity, we are just making the job of Islamic elements that bit easier.

Nonsense. Renouncing Christianity has nothing to do with our immigration policies. Can you please explain to me why any Atheist or Agnost would like to invite the most intolerant religion of the world to his or her country? I'm sorry, but I don't think your comment makes any sense.

:S
A J   
16 Aug 2010
Life / WOULD YOU MOVE BACK TO POLAND IF.... [73]

I have a solution too.

Your solution seems to be working. It's solving your own people.

Why don't you get some education, get yourself out of the ghetto so you can be among people for whom the intelligence is the first and race is last of the considerations when judging another.

Why can't you let a native guy do a simple job? Is he too good for that? Do you want to keep him on benefits and tell him he should educate himself? Even when he doesn't have the talent? I really hope you want to answer my question objectively: How do you think he will be able to educate himself when he's forced to claim benefits? (Regardless of his intelligence.)

Oh, and did you know that in my country, you're not even allowed to study for as long as you're claiming benefits? Fair enough, maybe they will let you do a course, but of course those courses won't be too expensive, and those qualifications won't be worth much on the labour market either, which means there will be a fat chance you'll stay unemployed.

;)

You are a bunch of low lifes that think the are better because they're white.

I'll be the last person to tell someone that he's better because he's white.

How embarassing!

You know what I find embarrassing? Educated people who fail to acknowledge that this is totally unacceptable in a country which values freedom and democracy:

youtube.com/watch?v=mLVtaJ-OpV8

How much longer will people like you condone, tolerate, accept and even defend this behaviour? Racist? I'm not talking about their skin-colour. I'm talking about the things they say about us.

This is why I could not let anyone that knows me to know that I waste my time reading this garbage.

You should really read those slogans on those banners before you call me a low-life, a racist, or even treat me like I'm your enemy.

:S
A J   
16 Aug 2010
UK, Ireland / The slow, whiny death of British Christianity [86]

I'm not sure we're thinking on the same lines.

I'm sure we have our agreements sometimes?

But are you suggesting the Rational Generation will be suffocated by immigrants with their own religions? Maybe you're right.

What else do you expect then? The top seven baby boys' names recently were Mohamed, Adam, Rayan, Ayoub, Mehdi, Amine and Hamza. (Sorry, but that's reality for you.)

;)
A J   
16 Aug 2010
UK, Ireland / The slow, whiny death of British Christianity [86]

I'd be relieved if Christianity would cease to exist as an organized religion which meddles in the affairs of politics and public opinion. Of course people like skysoulmate have the right to believe in whatever they want, but he should know that he's part of the minority who really does, so he should be able to figure out why the majority doesn't want to follow his religion.

Me? I believe that it's pretty harmful to deny your own nature. Socially, physically aswell as mentally. People who worry too much usually drain themselves. I'm not going to suffer from all the hidden negativity in Christianity. I mean, the Bible explains that Satan is the accuser of humanity. Wait a minute, doesn't your religion accuse, judge and condemn human nature?

;)
A J   
16 Aug 2010
UK, Ireland / The slow, whiny death of British Christianity [86]

Rationality.

I'm sorry, but I really think European people are being bombarded with these overpopulation stories for a reason. We're obviously having less children, to which the government answers that we need more immigrants.

Conclusion: We might aswell decide to have more children ourselves, because people in the rest of the world obviously aren't having less children. If I look around me, I don't think Christianity will be replaced by rationality.

By your average Brit, they are just living their lives without having religion involved and dictating what they do or how they act. But i think the article is quite misleading, there are 1,000s of dodgy African churches popping up in the UK and growing in numbers..

I think you're right about the misleading part, because to me it's pretty obvious that the elite wants to see more religious people, as they're probably more obedient, and easier to control. I think that's why they love all those beautiful Mosques everywhere, and those lovely African churches.

;)

I mean, just look around you?
A J   
15 Aug 2010
Life / Why Aren't The Shops in Poland Open on Sundays? [82]

I think shops could be open on Sunday, but employers will need to come to some sort of agreement with their personnel. (Shift work perhaps?) We need our breaks sometimes, you know..

:)
A J   
13 Aug 2010
UK, Ireland / Ive been in the UK for 6 days to relocate and im going back to Poland. [281]

Theres no work, nobody has any money, everybody ive spoken to has said the same. Its all doom and gloom, i know ive complained a lot about Poland over the past few years but jeeze its better there than here IMO.

Does that mean you understand some of my complaints you described as whining now? I was wondering why the hell you wanted to go back in the first place. I mean, you have a Polish wife, and it sounds like you've got plenty of stuff most people in England would be very content with.

:)
A J   
8 Aug 2010
Love / Are Polish Women cold and aloof? [249]

Many are off their chumps and addicted to pain relief tablets ;)

Thank God for Cannabis. Praise the Lord! Amen. (I thought I'd say something Yankee-like to gain respect.)

xD

They eat them like candy.

Well, they do look like candy sometimes! I once ate a whole package of laxatives when I was three or something. I must've thought they tasted pretty nice. I also attempted to drink from a bottle of spiritus once. I thought it was water. Appearances can be decieving and all that.

;)
A J   
8 Aug 2010
Love / Are Polish Women cold and aloof? [249]

I wanted to say something funny about the picture of the Elephant next to the picture of the Russian girl, but let's not insult anyone.

;)
A J   
7 Aug 2010
Work / From the USA, is it hard to study in Poland? [44]

Oh just like my brother ;)

Your brother is smart. There's plenty of work to be found in this line of work, and multi-nationals aren't bothered about where you come from, because they are usually looking for people who speak two or more languages.

I think you are pretty too optimistic ;)

I don't think so, really. I have plenty of family members who are succesful abroad.

:)
A J   
7 Aug 2010
Work / From the USA, is it hard to study in Poland? [44]

you will never learn English to an extend which won't betray that you a foreigner.

I know some Polish girls who speak Dutch perfectly. I would never have guessed they were Polish.

You can apply for jobs that are in shortage of specialist, then yes they will accpet anybody. you can be also brilliant in something... then maybe yes, genius are all welcome.

Don't underestimate social participation.

But for instance a polish psychology teraphist (you said you wanna be psychologist, am I right?) can' work with native english ppl. Could you imagine that?

Maybe not in an instant, but that's probably because the cultural and social aspects are important in that field of work. I don't want to be a therapist though, I want to specialize in Occupational Psychology. I'm willing to bet that if you spend a few years in England first while socializing and integrating completely, you'll be able to find such jobs eventually. People usually know people, and once you're known and become a valued member within the community, the possibilities might surprise you.

A polish lawer won't make it on british market (unless he make a specification to counsel polish imigrants only).

Maybe not right away in most cases, but like I've said, you can choose to remain a Pole abroad, or blend in because you want to be just as English as the rest, which will make a huge difference. That's all I'm saying. Of course most people won't accept you right away, but it's always up to you to do something about that.

;)
A J   
7 Aug 2010
Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

No, no, you're confusing my (sparkling) eyes with my "smiling" heart.

I wasn't talking about his smiling eyes.

;)

I've noticed that some Polish women can flip at the drop of a hat.

No problem, I can flip in a nano-second.

;P
A J   
7 Aug 2010
Work / From the USA, is it hard to study in Poland? [44]

Yes theoretically. But the truth is that noone would hire a Pole to jobs which are more than cleaning toilets.

Unless you get with, socialize with or even marry someone who's from the country, and do your best to integrate. If you choose to stay a Pole abroad, then yes, you will get nothing but the menial tasks, but that's not because you're Polish. It has more to do with the fact you'll stay a foreign stranger that way.

;)
A J   
7 Aug 2010
Love / What do Polish guys think of Irish girls? [187]

Home wrecking tramps who should not be allowed in Ireland.

I'm willing to bet some Irish girls are home-wreckers aswell, and there are plenty of single guys out there. (Guess what? Some guys are home-wreckers too!) So you can blame everything on all the Polish girls here, but it's not like your guy wasn't old enough to make his own decision. Sorry, but what's done is done.

Dont get mad, get even!

It's easier said than done for some people, but anger doesn't solve anything, that much is true.

:)
A J   
6 Aug 2010
Work / From the USA, is it hard to study in Poland? [44]

well, that tells you something. If yo don't want to study in Holland, what about the Scottish or Welsh unis.

It's not that I don't want to study in Holland, but I would like to be somewhere else for a change. (If that makes sense?) But maybe the Erasmus program will be a nice alternative aswell.

You need to do a research in order to make an educated opinion.

I know.

Besides, school is hard work, so prepare yourself mentally for that:). Nobody said it was suppose to be easy, but knowing you, you would enjoy the challenge.

I've already started with my VWO, which seems too easy so far! I'm going to request my first exams in May next year, and I will do my last exams in September next year, and after that I will file a request for a student loan and attend the VU in Amsterdam, unless I find a more exciting place to study! (So I have plenty of time to explore my options.)

Also, you can apply for bursary, you need to keep an eye on that, I am sure the is a number of them accessible vis unis.

Okay.

Look into Erasmus program as a part of your studies, or other EU programs.

It seems the best alternative so far. (Thanks again for giving me ideas.)

:)
A J   
6 Aug 2010
Work / From the USA, is it hard to study in Poland? [44]

AJ take student's loan and stay in Holland.

But it's always raining here!

Go to Poland in summer breaks instead ;)

Unless I have to work, because we don't want to be broke every semester, do we?

;)
A J   
6 Aug 2010
Work / From the USA, is it hard to study in Poland? [44]

I couldn't see the VU in Amsterdam, but I did see the UvA on the 120th spot internationally, and on the 23th spot in Europe. I'm sorry folks, but I didn't see any Polish University on that list from 1 to 100. I guess this answer should suffice?

:S
A J   
6 Aug 2010
Work / From the USA, is it hard to study in Poland? [44]

i'd say that if he decides that he doesn't really want to live in Poland and returns to the States, his degree from the States will be worth more... Americans have no idea about schools and education in PL... US degree always looks better...

Makes sense.

it is not that they are bad, they don't score high in rankings, however based on my own experience- they have a log way to go.

Hmm.. Maybe I should stick to studying in Holland then. (Will cost me 30.000 € though!)

:S
A J   
6 Aug 2010
Work / From the USA, is it hard to study in Poland? [44]

If you want booze and hot women Poland is the right place for you. If you want career USA is better.

I'm probably asking for too much, but I want booze, hot women *and* a career, so where do I go?

xD

move to Poland after you finish college in the States...it's better for your career...

Are Universities in Poland really *that* bad?

:S
A J   
5 Aug 2010
Off-Topic / PF - The Omnibus Edition [1502]

So that's why you are always short of cash...

I'll see you next year.

;)
A J   
5 Aug 2010
Off-Topic / PF - The Omnibus Edition [1502]

Don't worry, the next edition is dedicated to bit part players. You might make it in;)

I hope so, because I have royalties on myself these days.

;P