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Trevek   
27 Sep 2010
Love / Unmarried couples in Poland = pathology [310]

Who is lowering our standards rather than urging people to be upright and decent?

A good question? Who is doing all these things that you speak of?

Also ask who preaches "morality" and then turns a blind eye to its own members doing such things?
Trevek   
27 Sep 2010
Love / Unmarried couples in Poland = pathology [310]

then why are such households more of a a hotbed of domestic violence, alcoholism, drugs, infidelity and confused, unhappy children than those of married couples?

Are they? I can think of a few families which meet those descriptions and which are married. I can also think of a few families where the father just ran like a hae and left the single mother to raise the kid... and they are very happy, well-balanced, loved kids.

Of course, there are well known examples of loving familes in modern times; long term and married:
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fritzl_case
suite101/content/polish-fritzl-sentenced-to-10-years-in-jail-a198521
Trevek   
14 Sep 2010
Study / American Muslim girl thinking to go to Medical school in Poland... [87]

Hey, everyone.

I am considering going to med school in Poland, and I just wanted to know what I should expect. I heard that there are many skinhead bigots there. Is that really true? Should I be worried? Thanks

Olsztyn medical school is starting a course with a large number of saudi Arabian students in 2011.
Trevek   
14 Sep 2010
UK, Ireland / Polish question: what's with the Germans, Brits? Foreign groups in Great Britain. [46]

-there isn't much German merchandise, apart from cars.

German shops, like Lidl (I think it's German).

The Royal Family

Protestantism

German beers (have been in the pubs/shops for a while)

Adidas, Puma, Haribo

It's also worth remembering that having had a victorious army of occupation in germany for the last 65 years the British have also been stealing the better looking Frauleins and bringing them to UK for a number of years and teaching them about civilisation (driving on the left etc)
Trevek   
12 Sep 2010
History / Why did the reformation not have a huge effect on Poland? [28]

ON aspect may have been that the Scottish protestants often were happy to live alongside their catholic Polish neighbours.
One local wrote, "While our neighbours are great heretics, they are also great neighbours".
Trevek   
12 Sep 2010
Travel / Driving to Poland from England - any tips? [264]

keep a handful of change in euroes and zloty for when you visit the toilet.

Not sure if you are using petrol or gas. A few years ago Germany didn't sell gas on autobahns, not sure if it has changed.
Trevek   
10 Sep 2010
Life / How to Politely Refuse a Drink in Poland [72]

Every time we toasted, I simply kept using the same shot glass, never drinking or refilling the contents!

I did something like this at a wedding (I was driving) but I had a bottle of mineral water between my legs. The other guy kept insisting we drink, screaming at me when I initially said I wasn't drinking... hence the water). I kept topping up my glass when he wasn't looking. Of course, as he got drunker, I didn't. Eventually he looked at me with total admiration, "You drink like a Pole!"

Other times I've accepted a glass and kept my fingers around it to hide what was in it, whilst tipping it into a teacup or the nearest flower pot.
Trevek   
8 Sep 2010
Life / How to Politely Refuse a Drink in Poland [72]

Possible to ask for a 'symbolyczny' (sp?) and just kiss it rather than drink it.

wave a car key at them.

Just say that you don't drink.
Trevek   
7 Sep 2010
History / When will you Poles give back German land and the cities which you robbed? [557]

That`s a pity XX century world wars started when German people were told they were the victims and sufferers of unfair decisions of foreign powers. And they should take revenge ... or gain lebensraum, colonies and so on.

couldn't the Russians and Ukrainians say similar things about Poland following WW1?
Trevek   
7 Sep 2010
Life / INVISIBLE MAN in shops and offices in Poland? [70]

it's worse in a supermarket when you are a male and the line is filled with women. My wife once left me standing in a line while she went to get something. The line of women kind of moulded around me and I found the sides of the line fluctuated until i was standing further back with some old biddy loudly saying 'prosze pana, tu jest kolejka' or something like that.

It was only after i blew up and stated loudly in bad polish about how my wife had been there but for them I'd go to the back of the queue, that they all got embarrassed and started saying "oh yes, there was a pani there, wasn't there..." and 'kindly' offering me my place in the queue.

COWS!
Trevek   
5 Sep 2010
History / Poland - Scotland, the untold story... [75]

Yes, I have a photo of it on my FB. Did you visit the museum inside? Nothing to do with AC but a nice little museum of the shoe-maker's guild. Quite interesting in its own right.

I believe they were going to try to put a plaque to AC in the cathedral too (there was one there before the war), any idea if they have done so, yet?

Also, in the city museum there is a map of who lived in the houses of the main square, and a couple of them seem to have Scottish names.
Trevek   
3 Sep 2010
News / New cross war in Warsaw [530]

What amazes me is that these people seem to think that their great leader and the dead of Smolensk would want to be remembered by the thuggish actions of a bunch of spitting, poo throwing louts.

Is this how they think the world should see Poland? their catholic faith?

Why not put their energy to something positive? Wouldn't that be a better memorial than yet another cross/monument in a city full of them already?
Trevek   
3 Sep 2010
History / In Memory of victims, who had their lives cruelly taken at Treblinka Death Camp in Poland [104]

just to remember in a dignified way

to commemorate. To recognise, to acknowledge

I feel quite horrid saying this but I thought it was clinical and the brick buildings and tree lined roads reminded me of a Barrats housing estate

What got me was the tour was at such a speed, using soundbite terms like "factory of death". At one point I asked about a particular photo on the wall and how, if the nazis were trying to conceal evidence, such a picture was ever taken. The guide said it was taken with a hidden camera by the camp resistance.

I later found there was a whole area showing aspects of the camp resistance, the secret theatre shows, religious services etc.

This was what I needed to see, the evidence that people didn't just go like sheep, they fought, they endured. The hman spark amidst 'the factory of death'.

BTW, mega thanks to Beckski for these pictures.
Trevek   
3 Sep 2010
History / Why did the reformation not have a huge effect on Poland? [28]

The tolerance in a broader aspect loosed it's meaning when the partitions started!

Yes, the idea of a CATHOLIC identity of Poland kind of became concrete during the partitions, as a kind of politicised identity became formed via literature/art etc and the actions of secular/protestant/orthodox powers against a largely catholic Polish population.
Trevek   
3 Sep 2010
History / In Memory of victims, who had their lives cruelly taken at Treblinka Death Camp in Poland [104]

Yet it was one of the most peaceful places I've ever visited.

I was at Stutthof (near Gdansk) recently and I found it a much more moving place than Auschwitz, despite it being much smaller. I think Auschwitz is a bit of a circus, with big groups being shown around at break-neck speed and, strangely enough, the exhibitions.

At places like Stutthof I found the peace more unnerving.

I was also at the KGB museum in Vilno once. that place made my blood run cold AFTER I left it and looked at the building from outside in the busy street.
Trevek   
2 Sep 2010
UK, Ireland / Ive been in the UK for 6 days to relocate and im going back to Poland. [281]

BUT the real reason is that they can't find decent work!

I'd say decent work at a decent price. In Poland a Native Speaker is something prestigious, in a way. In UK, they are often just another English speaker with a CELTA. Summer work in places like Paignton earned me a lower hourly rate than in provincial Poland.

the other is lack of a relevant education. A degree in english lit (or some other useless program) and a celta certificate + a few years of teaching grammar isn't going to get you far in today's competitive world (outside of the esl market).

This depends. Another problem is that unless you are somewhere like the south-east, where there are a lot of schools, language schools aren't THAT common in UK. I mean, if I go into a small town in Poland i can usually find one or two schools. In UK it might be impossible to find any. Even those that are large enough to take new staff probably deal mainly with summer work, so the jobs aren't always there. Of course, it doesn't help when whatever experience and quals you have as an EFL teacher are so lowly regarded by 'real' teachers that you then have to do a 'real teacher's' course to get work in the state school sector.

If you people (those complaining about the UK) had degrees/qualifications in in-demand jobs (science, engineering, medicine etc.), you wouldn't have any problems readjusting.

Not necessarily. A few years ago there were very few good engineering jobs in UK and the amount of engineering studes was going down. Some couldn't even get decent practical work as degree students. Likewise, many medical professionals, especially nurses, have left UK to go abroad to get better paid jobs with better conditions.

As for the type of degree you have guaranteeing anything, I did my CELTA with an English engineer in Warsaw. He'd been offered a job in Poland, come over and moved his life here... then the firm went bust, leaving him high and dry, with a flat, girlfriend and other expenses. Not speaking Polish he had to find another way to make money... teaching English.
Trevek   
1 Sep 2010
Life / Polish pride. PL stickers, flags and the white eagle! Where does our obsession come from? [79]

Why are you calling it obsession? Who is to decide when is too much and when is not enough? It's all subjective and up for a debate I suppose.

Yes, perhaps i was overstating it when i used the word 'obsession'.

It would be a good debate (as long as it didn't degenerate into name calling, as many others do). Funny thing was, I was discussing this with my wife today and when we discussed things like reenactments of battles, I recalled having seen a few in Britain too (although not on the scale or regularity of those done here).

My thoughts were that in Britain we don't celebrate the Spanish Armada every year or the battle of hstings, nor do we run over to france and reenact slaughtering the French on the anniversary of Agincourt (although that might be fun). Likewise, we don't have memorials on every street corner... but that is perhaps because the history of the 20th century has not meant we in Britain have to remember those kinds of events. Somewhere like Ireland, this is more noticeable because of their recent history. The problem is that when you are surrounded by memorials and reminders of the past it may be harder to escape the past.

As we discussed it, I realised I myself had recently been cursing the British Council for refusing to commemorate something. I had written to a friend about seeing if BC might be interested in a project to commemorate the beginning of WW1 (not least because the last british soldier of WW1 had recently died). He got an unoffical reply that they probably wouldn't be doing anything related to the occasion because they preferred to look forward. I thought this was rather questionable...

Therefore, I find myself actually arguing against myself with what I put on this board.
Maybe there is a greater need to remember and express in Poland, having been denied the chance for so long.

My other experience comes with living in Scotland with an English accent. I was often hammered with "Aye, at Bannockburn we sent yeez hameward tae think again!" (it's based on a line from the song "Flower of Scotland") or, some diatribe about what the "English" did at Culloden. Funny thing was, my Scottish family hardly ever mentioned these events, let alone celebrated them. I remeber hearing the Scottish singer Dick Gaughan comment that he didn't like the idea of Flower of Scotland being made national anthem (it isn't) for Scotland, "because it's about the English, and why should my identity as a Scot be based solely on oyr historical relationship with them... why not on something positive about being a Scot." I liked that.

From an English point of view, I find it highly embarrassing that the world is constantly reminded that England won the World Cup in 1966 (and never again!)... also the habit of the red-top papers of constantly using WW2 as a way of attacking Germany and France in any field from politics to sport. Having been working abroad one year, I was mortally embarrassed when The Sun had a headline preceeding an England/Germany game "Achtung, for you ze european cup is over!" I was working alongside Germans, who just asked, "So, for us ze cup ist over, ja?" (I laughed when England were thrashed). But also, as my brother's kids are half German it was also uncomfortable having this constant obsession with the war brought up again and again. I was mortified when a german friend of mine said, "You know, you think you're above it but you do it all the time as well!" i hadn't realised.

I just wonder whether the frequent (constant?) use of Grunwald, WW2 etc is liable to hold back some people from moving on without constantly referring to it, the way many Britons seem unable to do with historical conflicts.

It was pointed out to me that this year was a special anniversary of Grunwald, so that was probably why there was a new monument.

Having a queen and a bunch of freeloaders to support that's what I would call the obsession with the past.

Perhaps, but they are still part of the modern society and are actively involved with changing their role and working in different areas. It's not like they don't exist anymore and there is a big movement to celebrate a lost thing.

So if the people want to express themselves now - let them.

The fact this is a recent thing has also been pointed out to me. Perhaps it is that coming from Britain, where such things aren't always done on a such a big national scale with such regularity, that it seems strange to me.

Sorry for the meandering waffle... thanks if you've made it this far.
Trevek   
31 Aug 2010
History / Why did the reformation not have a huge effect on Poland? [28]

Possibly cos Scotland was close to England and John Knox, the main guy in the scottish reformation had worked there. Also it might have been political, as a rejection of France.

The Ref in Germany was also largely political and that might also be a reason that Poland wasn't affected so much, as a rejection of German changes.

That said, prussia did become protestant, as the Baltic branch of the Teuton Order converted. Also, Poland was multi-faith anyway (Orthodox, catholic etc) and didn't really do much to help the counter reformation (indeed, it openly welcomed protestant settlers; Scots, dutch etc).

Dunno, good question.