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Paulina   
16 Mar 2013
Life / Polish pretense - what's the deal? [72]

I have asked teenagers in this village = girls 13-17 age group

Why only girls? Boys don't hang out in Malls in UK?

but in the meantime it keeps the Malls empty for people like me.

Ewww... You'd like to oogle teenage girls, wouldn't you? ;O

but they are terrified of something that might ridicule the church or allow the scales to fall from peoples eyes and let them see what a nonsense it all is.

lol
Did the men squatting in cirlces in the forest told you so? ;)
How on Earth Andrzejki can "ridicule" the Church and "allow the scales to fall from peoples eyes and let them see what a nonsense it all is"? Andrzejki is the eve of St. Andrew's Day. The priests may preach against it because Christians aren't supposed to practice any magic, fortune-telling or things of this sort.
Paulina   
14 Mar 2013
Love / ACCEPTABLE modest wear for Polish women? [49]

Not really criticizing here

Oh, I know you are, I can feel it in my bones lol

And the Christmas tree is a pagan thing anyway ^^

So what? It's pretty, leave the Christmas tree alone! >:-[
Paulina   
14 Mar 2013
Love / ACCEPTABLE modest wear for Polish women? [49]

Yes, I'm sure you hate the Christmas tree or placing votive candles on the graves of relatives on All Saints' Day - such evil, evil things lol
Paulina   
14 Mar 2013
Love / ACCEPTABLE modest wear for Polish women? [49]

Yeah I'm planning to go to Krakow :)

If you're planning to visit some churches then when in Kraków Kościół Mariacki (St. Mary's Basilica) is a must :) Also the Wawel Cathedral with tombs of Polish kings and I personally like and also recommend visiting the Church of St. Francis of Assisi's.

I think you are right, this is turning pretty much into society and culture rather than everyday life.

Oh, I didn't know you put it in the "Everyday Life" section. I wrote that because someone moved your thread to "Relationships, Marriage" section (I don't know why really).

And this girl is Polish :) She's a Muslim. and she's my fiance :)

Well then I'm sure she'll know what to wear in Poland :)

I just want to know more about life there from other points of view. I want to surprise her with lots of knowledge about the culture there :)

I've found a photo of a Polish Muslim girl living in Poland:

Polish Muslim girl

Btw, she wrote on a blog she can't wear a hijab at work so this can be a problem (I don't know if it's regulated in any way by law, it probably depends on the employer).
Paulina   
14 Mar 2013
Love / ACCEPTABLE modest wear for Polish women? [49]

Thank you very much Paulina & Kaz :D

You're welcome :)

It's a real honor to see people from different backgrounds helping each other with open minds and open hearts.

:)

Thank you Paulina for your responses. It seems Tom made two replies but I only see one ='/

No problem, I'm religious myself. Tom's posts ended up in the bin (Random Chat Thread (deleted periodically)).

Finding that balance is something I want to do out of respect to Poland and its people.

That's very nice of you and I'm sure the girl will enjoy it, however:

at the end of the day, anyone can wear whatever they like in Poland.. its a free country....

Tom is right, Abu3issa, the girl can wear a hijab if she wants to, it wouldn't be considered disrespectful by Polish people. The only downside would be that people would stare at her, as there are so few Muslims in Poland and her outfit would be considered something "exotic" ;)

Btw, is "the Muslim girl" your wife or daughter? Is she Saudi Arabian?

(Mods, shouldn't this thread be in the "Society, Culture" section of the forum?)
Paulina   
14 Mar 2013
Language / Learning to speak Polish(?) for traveling reasons. Help!? [30]

Before I jump into learning how to speak it, being a first time learner, how easy or difficult will it be?

People say it's difficult. I believe them ;) Of course it also depends on your language skills, probably.

My worry is just the pronunciation and what letters are used for what because after seeing the Polish alphabet, I look at the letters like, "how in the world...".

Let's start with how to pronounce Polish letters and sounds then:

A a - "ah"
Ą ą - ivona.com/pl/ or if you have problems with it pronounce it as "on" (as in "on/off")
B b - b
C c - you can pronounce it as "ts"
Ć ć
D d - d
E e - "eh"
Ę ę - if you have problems with it pronounce it like "eh" or "en" in "men"
F f - f
G g - pronounce it like "g" in "great" (always)
H h - h
I i - "ee"
J j - pronounce it like "y" in "yes"
K k - k
L l - l
£ ł - pronounce it like "w" in "wave"
M m - m
N n - n
Ń ń - if you have problems with it pronounce as "n"
O o - like "o" in "spot", "stop" or "Harry Potter"
Ó ó - like "oo" in "poo"
P p - p
R r - r
S s - s
Ś ś - if you have problems with it pronounce it as "s"
T t - t
U u - like "oo" in "poo"
W - pronounce it like "v" in "van"
Y - pronounce it like "i" in "pity"
Z - z
- -
Ż - (it's the same as "j" in French in "J'adore Dior" or "jamais")

In bold - letters pronounced in a different way than in English.

Other Polish sounds:

CZ cz - pronounce it like "ch" in "chunky"
SZ sz - pronounce it like "sh" in "shadow"
CH ch - pronounce it like "h"
DZ dz -
D- dź -
DŻ dż - pronounce it like "j" in "joy"
RZ rz - it's pronounced in the same way as "ż" (it's the same as "j" in French in "J'adore Dior" or "jamais")

For example, if you want to order a beer you say:

"Poproszę piwo."

You could pronounce it like:

"Poprosheh peevo."

o - always pronounced like "o" in "spot", "stop" or "Harry Potter"

If you have any questions ask away :)
Paulina   
14 Mar 2013
Love / ACCEPTABLE modest wear for Polish women? [49]

Rubbish!!! Have you not been to a british niteclub.... i mean dyskotek...

No, I haven't been to a British nightclub. Abu3issa's is asking about Poland. He asked: "What can a Muslim girl wear in Poland, to appear modest yet blend in with society?"

Walking around in underwear isn't "modest", do you understand that, Tom?

not all muslim girls are traditionalists...

So?

same as some catholic girls in poland dont believe in no sex before marriage.... when i say some...i mean most..

That's fascinating, Tom, but what does it have to do with clothes for a Muslim girl?
Paulina   
14 Mar 2013
Love / ACCEPTABLE modest wear for Polish women? [49]

If you have more ideas please give me :)

OK, I'll try :)

Although I rather the long skirts she would truly prefer the pink and blue jeans

If she likes colourful clothes then she could go with skirts like these, for example:

And as kaz200972 wrote she could combine those wide jeans with a tunic blouse:

Also, during summer when it's hot she could wear those tunics with wide linen pants, which are a classic and elegant choice for that time of year:

As for skirts, then this could be considered a very casual "university" look:

Everyday outfit:

For work:

Poland work clothes-

Something more chic, elegant:
Elegant outfit in Poland

And more summer looks:
broken link

To be honest I'm not sure what would be acceptable for Muslims, so I don't know what to propose. Are long sleeves in blouses obligatory? And how close to the body they could be? For me, for example, the first "summer look" (the photo with the white chair in the background) is pure innocence, but maybe it wouldn't be acceptable for a Muslim girl?

Btw, how old is she?

In winter the long chunky sweaters and cardigans over jeans, woollen scarves and hats to cover your hair.

+1
Or woollen skirts:

woolen skirt from poland-

lol Paulina, it wasnt a stag party,,, just a normal tuesday night :D

I had a feeling you'll write that lol

But Muslim women dont have to conform to Saudi norms... they can conform to there new adopted countries laws...

Well, if she's a Muslim then she may want to conform to some Muslim laws out of her free will and then it's neither mine nor your business.

For example, they wouldnt like it if you went there and walked around in a bikini.... when in Rome... it works both ways u know...

Tom, even in Europe you can wear a bikini only on a beach lol
Paulina   
13 Mar 2013
Love / ACCEPTABLE modest wear for Polish women? [49]

How about a hat and roll her hair inside instead of a hijab?

That would be OK.

Or maybe something like this:

wear in poland

What would you recommend that would be the least revealing and the most blending?

How about this?:

modest wear in poland

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Paulina   
10 Mar 2013
History / What do Polish think of Gen. Pilsudski? [12]

women in Poland had voting rights right from the begining in 1919 (March constitution)

1918 to be more precise, by Piłsudski's decree, which was confirmed by the March Constitution of 1921.

Poland in its first days after regaining independence (1918) following the 123 year period of the Partition of Poland (before 1795 tax-paying females were allowed to take part in political life), allowed voting rights to women, as well as rights to be elected, without any restrictions.

From: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women%27s_suffrage#Poland
Paulina   
10 Mar 2013
History / What do Polish think of Gen. Pilsudski? [12]

When Pilsudski is mentioned in Chinese books, Pilsudski is a reactionary dictator, a military fascist leader, who ruled Poland without granting people freedom...
But Pilsudski also fought for Polish independence?
What do Polish people really think of him, do you hate him for his dictatorship or praise him for his patriotic efforts?

He is not hated for sure (at least by the majority of Poles, I think) but also the assessment of Piłsudski isn't unambiguous.

I think the article in Wikipedia sums it up well:

For a decade after World War II, Piłsudski was either ignored or condemned by Poland's communist government, along with the entire interwar Second Polish Republic. This began to change, however, particularly after de-Stalinization and the Polish October (1956), and historiography in Poland gradually moved away from a purely negative view of Piłsudski toward a more balanced and neutral assessment.[177]

After the fall of communism and the 1991 disintegration of the Soviet Union, Piłsudski once again came to be publicly acknowledged as a Polish national hero.[12] On the sixtieth anniversary of his death, on 12 May 1995, Poland's Sejm adopted a resolution: "Józef Piłsudski will remain, in our nation's memory, the founder of its independence and the victorious leader who fended off a foreign assault that threatened the whole of Europe and its civilization. Józef Piłsudski served his country well and has entered our history forever."[178]

While some of Piłsudski's political moves remain controversial — particularly the May 1926 Coup d'état, the Brest trials (1931–32), the 1934 establishment of the Bereza Kartuska detention camp, and successive Polish governments' failure to formulate consistent, constructive policies toward the national minorities[179] — Piłsudski continues to be viewed by most Poles as a providential figure in the country's 20th-century history.

In Poland Piłsudski is also:

Widely recognized for his opposition to the National Democrats antisemitic policies,[131][132][133][134][135][136] he extended his policy of "state-assimilation" to Polish Jews.[129][130][137][138] The years 1926–35, and Piłsudski himself, were favorably viewed by many Polish Jews whose situation improved especially under Piłsudski-appointed Prime Minister Kazimierz Bartel.[139][140] Many Jews saw Piłsudski as their only hope for restraining antisemitic currents in Poland and for maintaining public order; he was seen as a guarantor of stability and a friend of the Jewish people, who voted for him and actively participated in his political bloc.[141] Piłsudski's death in 1935 brought a deterioration in the quality of life of Poland's Jews.[136]

Quotes from: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/J%C3%B3zef_Pi%C5%82sudski

Hitler considered Pilsudski as a great lider

That's definitely not the best recommendation in the world lol

Far from it

Really? He is rather infamous for the prison for political prisoners at Bereza Kartuska and his authoritarian methods.

did the Polish ever think of reuniting Ukraine, Belarus and Lithuvania like they did so in the medieval commonwealth?

I think probably during at least one of the uprisings (during the partitions) and you could also read about:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polish-Soviet_War
Paulina   
10 Mar 2013
Life / Thoughts on Music in Poland [132]

Not a Polish song, but I just had to share it because this woman made me cry yesterday lol (and her story - she was born prematurely and is blind in one eye and has some 30% of vision in the other) - Dorota Osińska singing "Calling You" (a song from "Bagdad Café"):


Paulina   
9 Mar 2013
Polonia / Polish people have no presence in China and most people are confused! [16]

Ylzmichal, are you a Catholic?
What is the attitude of Chinese Catholics towards those bishops imposed by the government?

I know about Poland and so I often mention about her at school like a civilian propagandist for Poland.

That's cool and very nice of you, thanks :)
Paulina   
8 Mar 2013
Life / The two sides of the Poles: friendly and honest / saying behind ones back [15]

it was like if you suddenly start a life among tribes of Amazon jungle o.O

What do you mean by that? ^__^

The human condition. Poland and the rest of the world over.

Noooooooooo...

and that type of people are everywhere.

Noooooo... Can't be...

I get the same thing from Brits in here :)
Its nothing extraordinary indeed.

Nooooooo... Not possible... The British people are white and fluffy - in one word: perfect.
Talking behind one's back happens only among Poles and tribes of Amazon jungle o.O
Paulina   
8 Mar 2013
Language / Secret to the Polish Rolling R [40]

Re-read my prior post(s) and you'll see that I only said I THOUGHT I detected an "r"-sound, not that I actually heard one, nor that one in fact existed.

I have not only read your posts but I've quoted them. I see that you have problems not only with reading what I write but also with remembering what you wrote yourself o_O

You didn't write you THOUGHT you detected an "r" sound in "rz". You wrote: "In fact, this "r", even to my non-native ears, is definitely audible".

"Definitely audible." Do I really have to quote what you wrote over and over again? Can't you simply admit you were wrong so we could move on?

That's my problem with you. You don't ask, you don't "query", you state, despite the fact that apparently you lack some basic knowledge about Polish language. Be aware that overweening confidence with which many of your messages bristle combined with ignorance about Polish language can be rather irritating. And harmful as some learners of Polish language can actually believe what you're writing. It's not the first time I'm (and others) correcting you on this forum. So, please, have some humility and don't pose as an expert when you don't have enough knowledge, because you can confuse people who are learning the language.

Quite rightly, we get more than a trifle annoyed at this eternal double standard which few even acknowledge ^^

Wow, you are really obsessed with this topic, aren't you? I think you wrote about it in almost every language thread on this forum.

*raises an eyebrow*
Paulina   
7 Mar 2013
Language / Secret to the Polish Rolling R [40]

It seems to me there was no "query" on your part.
First you stated that sometimes "the "r" in Polish is practically elided with the letter or sound following, NOT TRILLED at all" and as examples you've given words with "rz". That was rather useless because "rz" is pronounced as "ż" and has nothing to do with "r" anymore.

And so I decided to make it clear so you wouldn't confuse people who are trying to learn Polish.
Then you wrote: "Paulina explained that the"r"-sound in a word such as "gorzka", for example, is indeed pronounced, only not trilled:-)" which was simply not true and got me wondering whether you actually read what I wrote.

You also wrote: "In fact, this "r", even to my non-native ears, is definitely audible".
So, I'm still curious - where did you hear this "r" in "rz" (gorzki, Małgorzata, brzeg, etc.)?
Paulina   
7 Mar 2013
Life / Thoughts on Music in Poland [132]

18L.. those were the days!

I don't usually listen to rap but I liked those two songs by 18L:

And I like this one by £ona lol (btw, what happened to Polish diacritics on the forum? o_O):



:)
Paulina   
7 Mar 2013
Life / Thoughts on Music in Poland [132]

And who could have said that someday I would listen to (and enjoy) some Polish rock performed by a Black Polish dude, huh?

There's also Patricia Kazadi (not rock though and not my kind of music tbh, but it looks like she has a nice voice):



Btw, isn't Matt Pokora French with some Polish roots?

He really has an interesting and powerful voice (to me).

I like his voice too :)
Paulina   
7 Mar 2013
Language / Secret to the Polish Rolling R [40]

Paulina explained that the"r"-sound in a word such as "gorzka", for example, is indeed pronounced, only not trilled:-)

No, I didn't!

I wrote: "In these words it's no longer "r", it's "rz", which is a compeltely different sound - you pronounce it like "ż"."

There's simply no "r" in word "gorzka" - trilled or not trilled.

One should pronounce "rz" like "ż".

In fact, this "r", even to my non-native ears, is definitely audible, merely it elides, that is, it glides, into the consonant immediately following.

Audible? How on Earth can you hear "r" in here?:
upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/c/c0/Pl-gorzki.ogg

Then again, as in any nearly every language, there will be regional or dialect pronunciations which vary from a consistent standard, Kraków vs. Warszawa, for example.

In general Polish language (the one you're taught at school and which most Poles speak) fricative rż (ř) turned in pronunciation into "ż" already in the 17th century. It was retained in some very few areas of Poland as this map shows:

However, even there such pronunciation disappears more and more rapidly and is spoken (rarely) only by older people.

From:
gwarypolskie.uw.edu.pl/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=218

One more link:
pl.wikipedia.org/wiki/J%C4%99zyk_polski

wiele spółgłosek miękkich zostało utwardzonych, np. miękkie r (zapis: r', np. r'eka - rzeka) przeszło w ż (zapis: rz).

Paulina   
3 Mar 2013
History / Aurochs, the primitive prehistoric cattle of Europe, had lived in Poland? [48]

Was it in the religious wars of Europe (is it called Thirty Years War?) when Catholic and Protestant princes fought it out and, I believe, the Swedes invaded Northern Poland?

Btw, officially the Polish–Lithuanian Commonwealth didn't take part in the Thirty Years' War. The Polish king sent once companies of elears (Polish–Lithuanian Commonwealth light cavalry) to draw away Protestant troops from besieged Vienna and it looks like that was it.
Paulina   
3 Mar 2013
History / Aurochs, the primitive prehistoric cattle of Europe, had lived in Poland? [48]

Thanks to you all.

You're welcome :)

1jola should not be concerned that the did not know the word 'auroch', as I guess most English-speaking natives don't know this word.

It was me, not 1jola, and I wasn't concerned, I always look up words I don't know when I read books in English ;)

That 'Game of Thrones' sounds interesting...what is it about?

It's the first volume of the so called "epic fantasy" best-selling series "A Song of Ice and Fire" by George R. R. Martin. HBO adapted it into successful television series:

youtube.com/watch?v=XfAE3hIaPm4

There's another extinct animal in those books (and TV series), not only mentioned, but a pet of the main characters - a dire wolf (Canis dirus) and it's the sigil of their House.

Re the aurochs it would seem then that that they have been extinct throughout Europe, since 16th century (could any have survived in Siberia for eg)

Aurochs became extinct first in the Western Europe. By the 13th century, the aurochs' range was restricted to Poland, Lithuania, Moldavia, Transylvania and East Prussia. The last auroch in Bavaria died in 1470. The last auroch in Poland died, as Grzegorz already mentioned, in 1627.

I don't know whether they were ever present in Siberia.

and therefore it is puzzliing how that Dutch scientist could find auroch genetic material in modern day cattle.

I have no idea, I'm not a geneticist. But isn't the auroch the ancestor of domestic cattle?

I agree that the theme of looted treasure is another thread...and a very worthwhile one at that. But when did the Swedes do all this plundering

During what Poles call "the Swedish Deluge":
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Deluge_%28history%29
Paulina   
3 Mar 2013
History / Aurochs, the primitive prehistoric cattle of Europe, had lived in Poland? [48]

Polish scientists have been working on bringing back the extinct species for seven years now, and believe they can do it.

That would be interesting.

Interesting that the species survived the longest in Poland as it was protected. Pretty novel for 17th century.

Actually, according to Wikipedia, aurochs were protected in Poland since the beginning of the 15th century.
Pretty cool :)

Must say, had no idea about this.

Me neither, probably. I've read about them only because they were mentioned in "A Game of Thrones" by George R. R. Martin and since I was reading it in English I had to look up in the dictionary what those aurochs were :)
Paulina   
3 Mar 2013
History / Aurochs, the primitive prehistoric cattle of Europe, had lived in Poland? [48]

Grzegorz is right. From a horn of one of the last aurochs which died in a Polish wildland a hunting horn was made as a gift for a king of Poland, Sigismund III Vasa, with an inscription: "A horn of the last of the aurochs from Puszcza Sochaczewska from rawski voivode Stanisław Radziejowski, at present time sochaczewski starost. 1620."

róg tura
Paulina   
3 Mar 2013
Language / Secret to the Polish Rolling R [40]

Sometimes though, the "r" in Polish is practically elided with the letter or sound following, NOT TRILLED at all. Examples:\

gorszy

It isn't trilled at all in "gorszy"?

gorzki
Małgorzata
brzeg
etc...

In these words it's no longer "r", it's "rz", which is a compeltely different sound - you pronounce it like "ż".
Paulina   
1 Mar 2013
Life / Polish Positivity and the Myth Of Middle-Class Pretense, or "Everything Will Be Fine." [27]

I beg to differ young lady

I have never heard this "proverb" in my life (and I've lived in Poland since I was born). Neither in real life, nor in films or on the internet o_O

The closest thing would be "Polak Polakowi wilkiem" which is a version of "Człowiek człowiekowi wilkiem" (Homo homini lupus).

Proverbs are:
zadane.pl/wypracowanie/Najpopularniejsze_polskie_przyslowia-18014

Mądry Polak po szkodzie
Kto pod kim dołki kopie, ten sam w nie wpada.
Kto pyta, nie błądzi.
Kto rano wstaje, temu Pan Bóg daje.
Kto się czubi, ten się lubi.
Kuj żelazo póki gorące.
Kwiecień - plecień, co przeplata, trochę zimy, trochę lata.
Lepszy rydz niż nic
Nie chce góra przyjść do Mahometa, musi Mahomet przyjść do góry.
Nie dziel skóry na niedźwiedziu.
Nie kupuj kota w worku.
Nie ma dymu bez ognia.

etc. etc.

'I guess you would have to be made of strong moral fibre. to sell elastic by the meter."

?

therefore I treat each group as they treat me, sometimes I am ashamed the way I behave on the road, its either join in or be eaten.

Ah, Warsaw... I think Warsaw is a bit different world than the rest of Poland tbh.
Paulina   
1 Mar 2013
Life / Polish Positivity and the Myth Of Middle-Class Pretense, or "Everything Will Be Fine." [27]

Though wry and realistic, Poles, are an inherently, some would say pathologically positive, optimist.

I don't know about that... It probably depends on individual people.
Poles complain a lot. We say that complaining is our "national sport" lol And we complain about our complaining, of course :)

They aren't ignorant to hardship, they just know that they can outlive it.

We are like cockroaches - we will survive even the atomic bomb (some Poles joke like that ;)) lol

the following Polish proverb " I don't care how much I have as long as its more than my neighbor"

It may illustrate mentality of some people, but there's no such proverb.