News / UN threatens ''Poland's windows of life" [24]

I hope the windows of life caused that at least few mothers decides not to kill their newborn baby. It saves babies life. I don't understand, a baby has the right to know its mother, fine, but what if the mother doesn't want to know their baby, because, for example she was raped and has no feelings and feels no connection with this child.

It happens.

Love / Strange Polish Girl. [11]

Why don't people continue threads? I mean, some stories are really interesting and I would like to know the magic "what happened then". It's alike the book you can't finish and you don't know what was the end of the story.

Pity.
I hope you are with you favourite Polish girl, lusiada.

Love / I fear she will cheat on me! I love Polska and Zubruwka! [6]

Your fears are inside you and they are not supported with any proofs. I heard that in reality happen only 5% of our fears so you have a big chance she doesn't cheat on you.

And, by the way, I love Polska too but I don't like Żubrówka.

Language / What has been the hardest language for you to learn? [81]

Polish is a mine of wealth of vocabulary and grammar (unfortunately) for learners.

Food / Sernik Wiedenski [15]

I'd add to your cheesecake "serek homogenizowany" with vanilla flavour. It makes the dough moist and delicate.

Love / Aliments and abortion (I was married to a Polish guy) [64]

Oh, I am so sorry. I hope you will have a wonderful little baby who will bring you a lot of happiness. I'd try to give him a chance but after it, if it will not work I would try to forget. Of course, he must help you with the money. I am sure he earns a lot. Oh, yes, he does. If he doesn't want to give you needed money, it's so strange for me. He must support you. You were close to each other, weren't you? Maybe not everything looks so bad.

Take care of yourself and your baby. Everything will be fine, you will see.
Ask also your family for money. Maybe they help you. Maybe look for a job? I don't really know.

Love / "In Poland a lot of women work and their men don't"? [7]

My friend's husband ca't get a job abroad where he lives with his wife and he feels horrible with it. He is feeling so down.

I wish something will change with your husband's attitude toward work. Usually men will do everything to get a good job. On the other hand, I know a couple where she works and earns a lot of money while he sits at home and cares after their three children.

Try just nicely talk to your man. Maybe he will change his mind.

UK, Ireland / My dream about UK. Please help. [86]

NorthMancPolak - Heyyyyy again!
Scared away, you say, well, maybe.
Well. To tell the truth: three things happened in last week -really. It sounds incredible even for me. Now I have serious reasons for staying in Poland.

My ex boyfriend and I probably will be together again.
Second: I got two invitations for interviews in Bydgoszcz, so finally something changed with my career. I have opportunities to work here.
Third: my mother is not in the best shape, so I have to so far look after her.
My dream about UK is a good title. Sometimes plans change.
But thank you very much for your information. I hope somebody will find it useful for himself/herself.
If anybody is interested in my writings, I invite on my page. There will be wider explanation soon about my UK/aupair dream.

Work / Average IT salary in Poland [60]

I wish I could help.
Not as much as in Wrocław, Kraków and Warsaw for sure.
4 thousands at least, but I may be wrong.
Bu I think somebody who is in IT field should tell you, because I am in education field and salaries here (netto of course) are around 1000 -2000.

UK, Ireland / My dream about UK. Please help. [86]

One is from Greater London, Se1.
They can arrange part time English study for me, I will be treated as a part of their family, wow, both ladies don't say anything about salaries.

'You will have your own private and large bedroom with en suite bathroom Your bedroom has TV, DVD, and stereo and internet access." - from second of the emails. Doesn't it sound wonderful? The second one is also from London but the women doesn't say from which area.

Am I going to take it? Honestly?
I don't know yet. I need 5 days-a week to think it over.
Gosh, starting the thread I didn't realise it will go so far. Thanks for all answers.
Lol, third family is interested.
It's just because of my nice photos.
Gosh, starting the thread I just wanted and needen some info, I am not going to move there now, I am not packed yet.
:) :)
Thank you to all!!!

UK, Ireland / My dream about UK. Please help. [86]

"Damsell in distress." How useful it is for me future Proficiency exam.
However no dictionary says what is damsel. Just silly joke.
Surprise for me. I mentioned I registered on a page for Au-pairs, I got two offers of work today, one of them is from London.

Now I will have to consider if the dream will become a reality.
Wow, the letters look good.
I am pretty shocked.
Am I too sensitive? No, I m not, I had I hard time. Actually I am a very strong person with a tendency to being sensitive when people hurt her.

Woo, I am more than shocked. But I feel happy I started the thread.

UK, Ireland / My dream about UK. Please help. [86]

rozumiemnic
I thought it was cute.
Do I flirt already? - Noreen, don't flirt, you won't get a job, British ladies will not hire you
Hope not, night, bad time. Looking forward new replies tomorrow.
Vincent, realistic advices are more than welcome, thank you so much.

UK, Ireland / My dream about UK. Please help. [86]

Well, in my city I pay 2.50 zlotych for it.
:)

UK, Ireland / My dream about UK. Please help. [86]

Natasia: I am in a very diffucult moment in my life when I need a job asap. I don't care for any men,do you have a pinch of a sense of humour lady? Try to treat my words with a distance.

Should I be careful of every word I say about anything what can have a meaning in the situation?
I am not the type of women who looks for opportunities how to steal somebody's husband. If you thought so, I feel so sorry now. Tears in my eyes, really.

I am just looking for new opportunities, because a month more and I am out of my money earned with hard work on tuitions.
Be Polish and try to apply for a job in UK!
Good, waiting for others critical words.
If anybody cares for it, feel free to write them.

UK, Ireland / My dream about UK. Please help. [86]

peter_olsztyn: Deposit for a month. Good to know.
The title is: my dream about UK. I haven't made the decision about going there yet. If it will happen, I will have to stay in here without job for much longer.

I am unfortunately a type of person who change her mind easily. It's a bad side of my character. Like I said in one Polish threads I can't find a job in my city for a longer time and I become more and more desperated because I can't be unemployed for years. The accicent I mentioned about excluded me from professional and real life for almost 3 years. Now, when I am finally completely healthy, I look for new opportunities. I know nothing about life in London except from some of my friends stories, PF and some other sides.

I'm not joking, mate. What's more, maybe I'm not too responsible, I don't know.
This is my dream. Nothing more. But one thing I know for sure, if I won't go there what is a bit more pobably that going there, I will always regret it.

I've been in UK once over 12 years ago for 3 days. I know almost nothing about that place.
However I want you to know that I find allmost all the answers very useful and wise.
I appreciate all answers. Who knows, maybe after a month of reading it, as a very hesitant person, I decide for yes?
I will try not to forget about the deposit, hehe, however, the question is, will I really go there?
i will have to find the answer during next two or three weeks.
I will inform you, when I will make up my mind.

UK, Ireland / My dream about UK. Please help. [86]

So, ok, any sexual or based on relation woman-man comments, yees, or no? Never-ever?
I thought Great Britain is a European one of the most developed country. I though London is e metropolis. Why being Polish is equal to getting an edventure with some Muslim or other strange Turkish idiots whose culture is so different that understanding each other on so many levels is impossible? I am not rasist. Just Catholic and some opinions drives me mad.

I don't catch. I don't really get it.
Put me off? For what? A single joke, which one? Men, homme and men?
It's funny for me.
Turkish, Arab,and Muslim and southern of course on my left side and NorthMancPolak +Peter Olsztyn on my right side, show me London, please. Would be cool!!!!

I can't wait for it?
No, seriously,, My only friend is in Coventry I guess, anybody from Londoners from here to offer me a single room for a month, lets say, June.

I forgot to say I will take Southern with me! Promise!
No, really, with no jokes. If any of you Polish and not nightmare British can offer me a room for June it would be nice.

Is a month a time long enough to find a flat and job in London?
The last question is the most important for me. How much money should I take for 4-6 weeks to London?

UK, Ireland / My dream about UK. Please help. [86]

English architecture you say?
I am not a big fun of village English architecture. i am rather in love of the language and thinking about deteched houses, wooden fences, musty properties and brics I see Warmia and Mazury district rather than Scotish or Irish areas.

And suddenly on my last post appeared advertisement: "technical translations" and disappeared. Why?
Ashhhhhhhh, whata jinx.
Oh, by the way, am I really in love with the language?
Or with homme, men generally people who send me so many useful links?

I thought i was tired enough to go to bed.
So, I went there, imagined some nice situations with some men and came back again to read my thread.
If it will become too boring, let me know.
S****...Aren't I too nice? Maybe I should become bad or bat or.....bed, than, a cool family will answer me.
PF is compelling, Chleb, i noticed you are one of the new members.
Watch out. It causes THEADDICTION.
At the beginning i vivited the page only a few times a month, because I didn't want to forget things i learnt before preparing to my CAE exam, now I do this almost every day.

ANDGOODNIGHTANDGOODLUCK

UK, Ireland / My dream about UK. Please help. [86]

i am so grateful for all the information.
I noticed here, on PF a page easyaupair.com and I registered there. So my first step, a thread on PF is behind me, also a second step what was finding a good page with a lot of advertisements.

However, nice and helpful people from PF a still wait for your supporting words and any infos and knowledge you have about the topic. Also about being a teacher assistant on lessons in British schools.

Wooow, I just noticed they sent profiles of 10 families which could be proper for me. What a nice page.
Messages, so far 0.
We will see. The page looks good.

UK, Ireland / My dream about UK. Please help. [86]

People form PF, you become much funnier with every post. I am looking except of looking for a job for my second half that is a reason why I sometimes confuse the two aspects of my life, lol.

UK, Ireland / My dream about UK. Please help. [86]

Piotr is a name of my ex. Peter is it your real name?
What do you mean PeterOlsztyn: insted of going to London as Au-Pair going to Peter Olsztyn to Olsztyn to live in deteched house made of brics with wooden green fence with you or am I really single much to long to understand what do men really mean sayings things like you say?

Speed dating on PF, hmm?
You, jokers.
;)

Po polsku / Jaki seriale polecacie dla dorosłych? [30]

Zdaje sie, że go nie wznowili.
wredotko, nie to nie żart
Od prawie 3 lat mam zastój w życiu zawodowym i osobistym. Opiekuje się dzieckiem trochę dzieckiem koleżanki (5zl/h lol really) i udzielam korków z angielskiego, ale wakacje zbliżają się milowymi krokami i znowu bedzie prawie 0 chętnych. Jestem sama jak ten pies. Mam kasę na 3 miesiące życia. Jak nie znajde pracy to zęby w ścianę. Z głodu. Mój były facet mnie okłamywał i mam uraz do płci męskiej a drugiej strony chciałabym poznać chyba Britisha bo jestem zakochana w języku angielskim.Przekroczyłam 30 parę lat temu. Sama pomyśl, co to za zycie w za... Bydgoszczy, kiedy 4 razy w tygodniu pódziesz na korki a raz albo dwa razy do kochanego malucha wprawdzie?

A więc, może, żeby trzymać się tematu, to nowy wątek we wznowionym serialu Londyńczycy? Historia mojego życia? Nowa Polka w Londynie, noreenb, real Magda by the way.

Nie wredotko, to naprawdę nie żart.
No więc, polecam serial dla dorosłych, jak w Polsce umiera się z głodu z braku pracy. Jestem po prostu zdesperowana.

Po polsku / Jaki seriale polecacie dla dorosłych? [30]

Polecam Hotel 52 i Ojca Mateusza.
Londyńczycy to też świetny serial i go uwielbiam.

UK, Ireland / My dream about UK. Please help. [86]

PeteOlsztyn. Kids deserve a lot of respect and a warm, nice heart. They become better then. Or was it a comment about my appearance. If so, in reality I am much uglier. So, why am I single, tell me, friend, if i look good. Maybe the topic should be really changed into Noreenb and men, not necesarily about noreenb and her job.

Really, i am a lonely person who needs many kind words. So, thank you all the people who care a bit for my life.
Thank you also very much Vincent.

UK, Ireland / My dream about UK. Please help. [86]

Thank you for your post, Chleb, just imagine a family with 3 children. How much ironing they have. How much time they lose doing boring things like the one. I'd do this instead of them.

:)
But, if I will find a family who would do the ironing themselves, it would be the perfect expected family for me.

UK, Ireland / My dream about UK. Please help. [86]

The jokes made me to laugh today, Rozumiemnic and I am grateful for it. I was in a bad mood. I sent 12 emails yesterday and today to possibles places where I would like to work and nobody's answered me yet. What a horror. Looking for a job in Bydgoszcz is a horrible duty. I must do it everyday and with every hour I lose my hope. Many people I know are in simiIar situation to mine in the sad city.

In fact, my dream about going to UK becomes with every one of yours, friends, posts, more realistic.
Gosh, gosh, British families, wake up, I am here, your future nanny and au-pair and childminder and cleaner, ironer in one, hire me, please, I wait for it.

UK, Ireland / My dream about UK. Please help. [86]


You know, Rozumiem nic, what I really mean:
London, men, men or June, and you, men, home, NorthmancPolak, and for example dtaylor5632, and home, hmm.
lol
I want to be an Au-pair... and men lol
Please do not change the thread just into "Noreenb wants to go to UK and men".
Mafketis, actually both brake and break. Stupid driver's brake caused a break in my proffesional life and my spine problems. I smashed into a pavement after being hit by a car that driver's forgotten what brake was.

UK, Ireland / My dream about UK. Please help. [86]

Thank you guys for all the answers, so, outskirts of London is cheaper. Yes, I heard about that many times.
I had a little hope that a nice family will answer me quickly here. i will wait for it for a few days. Maybe the hope will become the truth.

I wish I could have a nice adventure for a year. The people who say I will regret it, have so much right. That's the fact. I would be good if I had some nice friends around me who could help me in first several days in the City. Anybody of the nice men interested? London, me, May or June and you, hmm, NorthMancPolak, for example or dtaylor5632, hmmm? Or someone else?

I actually didn't take the decision where should I go. The nicest part before me, watching pictures of cities of Great Britain. If any kind of coincidence happened in here, I mean if somebody proposed me here a job in particular/precise place also would be fine.

UK, Ireland / My dream about UK. Please help. [86]

NorthMancPolak: wow, thank you for nice words.
Do you already have a free room for me, friend?
:) Yammi, yammi! Do I already have a few fruits in my tummy?

UK, Ireland / My dream about UK. Please help. [86]

Gamble, you say, so help me, people from PF, to find a GOOD AND NICE family.
:);)

UK, Ireland / My dream about UK. Please help. [86]

As for first steps... What should I do at first? Go there and then look there for a family or contact with British family and do all formalities in Poland? To tell the truth, I don't know. Should I do all the organisational matters in Poland or in England? i know somebody can think it's a silly question, but I've never been in a position of au-pair and I am just curious.