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jon357   
11 Jun 2015
Love / My Polish girlfriend is pregnant by cheating on me and wants this baby without my permission. Please help. [51]

That's entrapment. Sadly very little you can do. It was an issue of broken trust, which means you should absolutely insist on a DNA test in case there are other lies. Remember though, this may well all turn out for the best.

that does not give you the right to make patronising and belittling comments does it?

None of those, except perhaps in your understanding of the thread.
jon357   
11 Jun 2015
News / Prediction: Poland to be World Superpower in XXI century [147]

Poles have never been too quick to want to rule all other people. This is because there is something fundementally inhuman about it.

They weren't exactly reticent about that in the days when the Commonwealth stretched from the Baltic to the Black Sea.

I can't see Poland ever reaching such a position of power. Population and territory too small, economy not competitive on a global scale, maintaining a large military completely unsustainable, ...

Plus hemmed in by countries with greater natural resources and better communications and export routes. I see Poland's future as being close to that of Sweden, Denmark, Belgium etc. Significant; rich in science, technology and culture, a liberal democracy and quietly rich.
jon357   
11 Jun 2015
Love / My Polish girlfriend is pregnant by cheating on me and wants this baby without my permission. Please help. [51]

i do not know why everybody is blaming this guy, he clearly said that he is not sure if the child is from him.

One issue is that he wasn't careful - contraception is easily available. But yes, if there's doubt, a DNA test is essential.

it is considered to be a destruction of life and a serious offense against life, and therefore, a major sin.

Not in most of Europe, however if the young lady in question is from a very traditional background, she will need a lot of support to overcome any baggage she may carry about it.
jon357   
11 Jun 2015
Food / Monosodium Glutamate (MSG) and its use in Poland [30]

real butter

Butter is actually good for you as well as delicious. It's the margarine producers' lobby capitalising on a misunderstanding about complex fats by dieticians back in the 70's that caused it to be demonised.

Breakfast cereals are loaded with fructose yet advertised as healthy food as is yogart.

That's true. It's also a myth (in my opinion) that breakfast is important - your body stores enough carbohydrates to last the morning. Breakfast just mucks with your blood sugar levels and stops you burning the carbohydrates that your body stores as fat. A cup of tea or coffee is enough.

Pick up almost any canned vegetable or soup and check out the MSG and sodium content. WoW !

Salt is worse than MSG (and sugar the very worst) however people do like the flavour. I notice people using a lot of salt in Poland.

One thing about MSG. It's flavour is what's known as Umami (Google it - discovered by Japanese, hence the name) which is similar to breast milk - this contributes apparently to its appeal.
jon357   
11 Jun 2015
Food / Monosodium Glutamate (MSG) and its use in Poland [30]

Obesity is being caused by fructose which is fake sugar. There is the REAL problem.

Fructose is bad for you too - even fruit juice isn't as healthy as it looks. The corn syrup they use in America is responsible for a lot of harm too.

When I brought a friend to the United States (for the first time ever being out of Jamaica) the very first words out of her mouth in the airport in Atlanta was, "Look at all the fat people" !

Poland is getting like that, especially the men rather than women who tend to diet more.

Kielbasa is a particular baddie. Traditional, but still preserved meat and processed food (and usually crammed with chemicals).
jon357   
11 Jun 2015
Food / Monosodium Glutamate (MSG) and its use in Poland [30]

One issue here is that during the PRL there were a lot of pressures due to centralised planning and some really nasty processed food (though not much of it) and that when the shops started to sell much more, anything that was a convenience food in a nice shiny packet looked appealing to the tired housewife. Plus people do like the taste that MSG etc give.

That and the fact that a lot of this stuff is (or seems) cheaper. People are getting more clued up though, however the quickest, cheapest, shiniest and easiest will always appeal to a lot of people. Hard to blame them, but not good for the health.
jon357   
11 Jun 2015
Life / Amazon stops super saver delivery on orders to Poland [40]

It's actually cheaper with Amazon to save your purchases up in bulk, get them mailed at around the same time to a UK address, then pop over on Ryanair. Even with Ryanair's hidden costs etc, its actually cheaper than getting them mailed to Poland.
jon357   
11 Jun 2015
Genealogy / Zawadynski - herb. Rawicz / Rawa and herb. Dolega [26]

Be careful @rawicz. Pol3 does know what he's talking about in these matters - in fact he seems to be an expert, and family legends are notoriously prone to romanticising, embellishment and fantasy. Especially when there's a claim of aristocratic forebears and no proof.
jon357   
11 Jun 2015
News / Poland Parliamentary elections 2015 [1060]

You mean the one that doesn't exist?
The last time PIS were sure they could form a coalition, they instead turned Poland into an international laughing stock.

And this is key to it. The conservative PO aren't perfect however the nationalist/socialist PiS were, during their brief sniff at power, an absolute joke. Gave the foreign media plenty to laugh at though, unfortunately at Poland's expense.
jon357   
11 Jun 2015
Love / My Polish girlfriend is pregnant by cheating on me and wants this baby without my permission. Please help. [51]

And my fingers are really itching to put some people like you and vincent in some real life court for things like those that you are making here. Really, really itching.

You'd be laughed out of court.

OP if you didnt want a baby, you should have taken responsibility for birth control or ensured that she did, or kept your pants buttoned.
Idiots.

Indeed, however as we all know, things just don't always happen like that.
jon357   
11 Jun 2015
Love / My Polish girlfriend is pregnant by cheating on me and wants this baby without my permission. Please help. [51]

Why don't you just go back to your own country and never return, that way everything is taken care. To me that's great advice!

If she won't get it flushed out (easy to sort in Poland, illegal or not and she knows that), and you don't want to take responsibility, this might be your best short term option. Not long term, because the EU will eventually sort out child support issues, Europe-wide.

Have you offered to pay for the abortion? Maybe take her to the clinic?
jon357   
11 Jun 2015
Language / Meaning of Bejbe - a Polish girl said this to me [14]

Pretty well the same - it can mean something and it equally can't. She might have used it because you're American and she knows the word 'babe' is American. Or it could be a very good sign indeed :-)

Depends on context, tone of voice, anything. Try calling her Niunia (like babe but definitely affectionate) and see how she reacts to it...
jon357   
11 Jun 2015
Language / Meaning of Bejbe - a Polish girl said this to me [14]

What you really want to know is "does she like me?". The answer is that you shouldn't read too much into it - same as the word babe in English. It might mean she does, but equally might not mean much at all.
jon357   
11 Jun 2015
Language / Meaning of Bejbe - a Polish girl said this to me [14]

I don't know what you mean by 'common talk'. It isn't an English expression. Do you mean common as in frequent or common as in lower class?

By the way, if you expect a response, writing 'u' and 'cuz' to strangers isn't the best way to get one. Also, you say that you heard it. No doubt you read it too, since you got the spelling right.

For info (and I think this is what you want) a very young person is more likely to say it than someone more mature. It's, as I said, street slang. It probably means she likes you a lot, but equally might not - hard to say without knowing anything about the person who said it or the context.
jon357   
11 Jun 2015
News / Poland's fight against paedophilia [277]

Very few over the years the death penalty has been legal here.

You don't have the death penalty for sexual abuse wherever you live, do you? And absolutely tons of cases happen like that every year in Europe, especially England (and some in Poland too, though they have a higher burden of proof so fewer cases reach court). Juries tend to convict, then some new information comes up to clear person who is victim of the false allegation (or the false alligator admits they lied about an innocent person). It's happening now about a famous person called Rolf Harris - jailed for 6 years and it now looks like he was never in the same town as the under-age complainant. There was also an adult complainant against him who lied through her teeth for money and attention and has as much as admitted this online. He is the victim not them - and you'd have had his blood on your hands had he been executed. Fortunately we don't kill people so there will be a judicial review instead.

And you don't mention those who're guilty but are freed by a sympathetic judge

Not in the UK - there are minimum sentences. same in Poland.

And I notice no mention of the brutality of the deaths inflicted by these criminals.

We are talking about sexual abuse. If there's a murder as well, then it would be treated as a murder.
jon357   
10 Jun 2015
News / Poland's fight against paedophilia [277]

If the death penalty isn't a deterrent, that certainly won't be. And you don't mention that percentage of people wrongly convicted who are later freed on appeal. You don't mention female offenders either.
jon357   
10 Jun 2015
Law / British in travel. Many trips to Poland within a year - do I need to register? [9]

That's interesting actually as I'd consider opening a business here, but again I've been warned about the bureaucracy.

It's not actually that bad (and getting better) though as with registering as resident you shouldn't assume that the person at the relevant government office (or whatever) knows what they're doing. In Poland people never admit they're wrong or don't know - they just come out with something and insist it's true. The person in the office down the corridor will say the exact opposite.

but intends to open a company in the UK

He'd still have to do most of the paperwork, in order to trade in Poland if he wants a bank account here or to issue an invoice. That may well however have changed. Poland wasn't really prepared for the single market and government agencies don't really talk to each other in order to make plans for things or formulate strategies etc.

The whole thing about registering as resident is part of that.

Superfast broadband and mobile networks, reliable tram systems, banks that treat you like royalty not peasants... I've found a few nice surprises already :)

And restaurant dining cars with tablecloths and proper food, cheap tickets to the National Ballet, 24 hour booze shops, cheap taxis in the capital, and long, glorious summers and warm autumns ;-)
jon357   
10 Jun 2015
News / Does democratic Poland guarantee it's LGBT citizens respect for human and civil rights? [1169]

Poland's supreme legal criterion is the Polish constitution

Indeed. Which protects the Human Rights of all citizens and residents. And you may well find the chance you're so afraid of happening much more quickly than you would like.

In any case, people can just pop on a Ryanair and marry elsewhere - as we do.

BTW, Pol3, you still haven't given even one example of your 'LGBT agitation teams descending on kindergartens' and teaching 'mutual masturbation' to 4-6 year olds. Why? Because you were lying, simple as that.
jon357   
10 Jun 2015
Law / British in travel. Many trips to Poland within a year - do I need to register? [9]

I'm renting a flat here, so in that sense I'm "resident" (I don't know if that changes anything), but then I also have a home in the UK. To me, this is just a very long temporary stay (or series of stays).

You shouldn't worry about the flat - it doesn't make any difference.

I'm not intending to work here. However I'll almost certainly be here more than 183 days in the year, which presumably will make me tax-resident. In a way I'm less worried about that, though, as it's something my accountant can deal with.

Not that I'm advocating tax evasion or anything like that (of course...), however they can't prove you're actually in country or haven't popped over the border elsewhere in Schengen etc and I really really wouldn't complicate stuff by involving the Polish tax office. They are a pain in the proverbial at every level.

I just looked at my last post and one bit wasn't clear. If you want to vote etc, you do need to register, however there's no legal instrument by which they can make you register as resident nor is there anything they can do to you if you don't.

You can however work without registering, however you'd need to apply for a tax reference number (NIP) and they may have started asking for the card people get when they register since the days when I applied for mine. I was able to open 2 businesses though, one as a registered sole trader and one as a limited company (as well as half a dozen bank accounts over the years) without being registered as resident, and in fact there are tax advantages in not being resident.

If it sounds contradictory and a bit confused, don't worry - you've probably figured out by now that Poland is a land of contradictions, conflicting advice and regulations, anomalies and surprises - most of them nice ones.
jon357   
10 Jun 2015
News / Does democratic Poland guarantee it's LGBT citizens respect for human and civil rights? [1169]

Too late to edit, but elsewhere here today someone said that the Poles are at heart anarchists - they certainly don't tow the Vatican line nor do they swallow automatically what churchmen, the media and politicians say. And yes, there is respect for people's rights. There are cranks and other assorted nutcases, however Polish law is very effective at dealing with homophobia.

Were you there when Jesus spoke, were any of us?. No!, so you don't know.

Others were, they wrote it down. Christians accept this, quite literally, as Gospel. He mentioned so much else. But not this. Polish law however is secular, and the Human Rights of all citizens and residents are guaranteed by law. Additionally, Poland is voluntarily subject to the European Court of Human Rights.
jon357   
10 Jun 2015
Law / British in travel. Many trips to Poland within a year - do I need to register? [9]

Very true - they have no legal basis whatsoever on which to enforce the registration thing anyway, and unless you're actually settling as a resident to work there, pay taxes and vote, would probably prefer that people didn't.

I know that with a Schengen visa

Schengen Visas are for people from outside the EU.

with a British passport I am allowed free travel around the Schengen area

Not only that, but you have a right to live and work there as well as vote in certain elections. If you're ever asked by (say) the police about the basis in which you're in the country, you should say that you are there as a citizen of an EU member state. Anything else (like humming and hah'ing about registration) would confuse them and cause delays while they checked it out, not least because the police here in Poland are not generally either very worldly or among life's intellectuals although this is slowly getting better.

Is there any need for me to apply for a temporary residency permit?

None at all. Enjoy Poland - it's a great place!
jon357   
10 Jun 2015
News / Does democratic Poland guarantee it's LGBT citizens respect for human and civil rights? [1169]

Is that the Catholic version?? As Catholics we are not supposed to read other versions because the translations are not reliable.

No it isn't. Though quite a few more versions are approved than used to be.

You're supposed to consult a 'scholarly churchman' ie a well educated priest of one of the more intellectual orders.

Plus a 'religious mature'.

Anyway as far as I'm concerned if Jesus didn't say it I'm not interested.

Spot on. And indeed he never once mentioned the subject as far as we know.