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Fresh, wholesome country lass in Poland - getting married and going back to the US [167]
Let's all refrain from ad personam attacks on PF-ers and focus on the subejct at hand, whatever it may be. In this case the basic question boils down to who wouild make a better wife: an unspoilt, God-fearing, hard-working young woman with a pro-family orientation (which does not mean she has no education or professional career) or a party girl 'po przejściach'*?
And I know life is not black or white. It could be that a single woman with kids migth be so grateful someone wnated to marry her that she'd turn into a loving, devoted wife. And conversely, some less than attractive old bachelor might likewise be so aprpeciative that a younger woman agreed to marry him that he'd treat herwell and her children as his own.
I agree there's a good chance a 50-year-old Polonian bachelor would quite likely attract golddiggers. But again, some young lady in a remote village might be so thrilled at the prospect of going to America that she might make a good wife. Or she might dump him for a more attractive partner once she got settled in.
*How do you say that in English: with baggage?
