Love / Culture of Polish people (searching for a Polish guy who is the father of my baby) [45]

I don't think a "lawer" is going to help her much.

Love / Culture of Polish people (searching for a Polish guy who is the father of my baby) [45]

Puella - how else on earth is this girl supposed to sue the guy?

Love / Culture of Polish people (searching for a Polish guy who is the father of my baby) [45]

Ok, how old was the guy? And did he ever give You the name of the city in Poland where he was from? Or, I dunno, the city in the UK he worked in?

Love / Culture of Polish people (searching for a Polish guy who is the father of my baby) [45]

I'm assuming You are not married.

Here's what You have to do:

1) Sue the guy for paternity of Your child. A court in Poland may force him to submit do DNA testing.

2) Once that is established, sue him for child support. Include what he owes You on account of not contributing for 2 years - go for both a lump sum and a monthly payment.

Don't know if 1 and 2 can be wrapped up in one neat bundle in Polish Family law, You'll have to ask a lawyer who specializes in this.

Oh, and this has IMO nothing to do with him being Polish and everything to do with him being a complete ass. Don't bite on the "culture excuse". Sue.

Love / I was raised in Poland. My Family hates my wife because she's American ... [69]

^ My personal experiences with the "gorals" are few, but I guess You're making a fair point.

"^" isn't needed in the posts.

Love / Foreign Men and Polish Girls for Citizenship [59]

While You are making some good points, the author of the thread seems to be an Australian businessman, hence no reason to hand out instructions to Polish men like this or complain about THEM whining.

Having visited the country numerous times since the destruction of the Iron Curtain I can also assure You that by now most Polish men have found a hobby, "found their ambition", visited a beautician and whatnot.

Love / I was raised in Poland. My Family hates my wife because she's American ... [69]

Ok, many things have been said and most of them are spot on.

My 2 cents:

1) Your mother simply detests the idea that her son, the pride and joy of her life, has married a woman with three children. That is the crux of the matter here, race and culture are lesser issues here. Your mom thinks You are waaay to good for Your wife, whom she considers some kind of "leftovers" and is/was actively looking to break You up ( paternity testing ).

It is very likely Your mother's stance on the matter will not change. Ever. An old goat is usually a very stubborn goat.

2) With that said, You should have never, ever, for the love of Abraham, accepted a friggin' HOUSE from Your mother. Her reasoning was simple - she's payed for the house, she can make demands.

Return the house if You haven't done so yet. Never, under any circumstances, take any other precious gifts from that woman. Her gifts are a way of looking for leverage.

3) Ultimately it all boils down to whether or not You are able to stand up to Your mom. By all means I encourage You to do so. Earn Your own living. Marry the girl You want. Be Your own man.

Love / Foreign Men and Polish Girls for Citizenship [59]

You mustn't frighten from Turks. Because Turks men handsome, honest and allegiant. Meanwhile turkish men aren't drunk. For this reason, their merriage are almost all happily. i think you are in mistake that Turks arent barbar and rude. We are like polish. Why aren t you like Turks?

We always directed to world in history. We are empyreal community. Turks made leadership of Arabs, Kurds, İranians, Indians, Serbians, Greeks, all middle east, south africa, middle asia and east-north Europe.

You are in mistake and i think you don t know really Turks.

Utter bollocks.

Polish people don't kill their own daughters and sisters for dating foreigners.

Love / Foreign Men and Polish Girls for Citizenship [59]

can anybody help me -

Why should we? You might as well be a terrorist for all that we know.

Law / I am married to a Polish citizen. How can I get residency? [36]

wow, so far on here everyones been so nice and helpful, i cant believe what im reading. im an united states citizen, age 70years old, my gf, gms from jaskowice, i want to come see the place my grandparents were from before i die. if anything could change my mind i just need to read the nasty rude comments. thnk about it, he was asking about living in your country, he chooses your country over america, thats a compliment. yet people responds where what kind of scam is he up to. is that what you want all americans to react when any polish persons want to come to usa, to treat you with that same disrespect? to question if your trying to run a scam, is this the way people treat eachother in poland, with suspicion, insted of welcoming a person that wants to live in your country so bad their willing to leave family,friends, homeland to become a part of your country. i hope if you ever want to come to us that you dont encounter the visa personal with your same mindset, yet if so maybe you would realize how it feels.

1. Last time I checked Polish people are still required a visa to enter the US, so basically the US mindset towards Poles can be indeed summarized as "What kind of scam are You up to?" and they've been encountering this mindset for decades now. Hence please keep the comments about "mindset" to Yourself, sir.

2. A few of my Polish friends ( architects, businessmen, etc. ) have real horror stories to tell about visits to the US embassy and the visa interview. "Disrespectful" does not even begin to describe the attitude of US employees in the embassy in Warsaw, according to my friends. A female colleague of mine was asked whether she plans on getting pregnant during her visit.

3. So, with the above in mind, Americans are really the last people on earth that have the right to tell Poles or anyone else for that matter how they should react to people trying to enter their country.

4. As was mentioned -appropriate laws raise certain requirements for Americans wishing to enter the EU and live here. Dura lex, sed lex, live with it.

5. Again I need to point out that TS is American according to his own claims only. He might as well be Nigerian, Pakistani, Ghanian, whatever.

6. The amount of people scamming for an EU visa ( and Poland is a part of the EU having entered it in 2004 ) IMHO justifies being prudent and cautious when handing out advice to people who may be scammers.

Law / I am married to a Polish citizen. How can I get residency? [36]

^^

"he has residency in the states" - according to whom, exactly? Himself?

"he doesn't display the hallmarks of a visa scammer" - quite the contrary, he's feeding people a sob story that sounds highly bogus ( "I'm a US citizen, but I don't belong here anymore" lol ), which is hardly an uncommon method with these guys. It seems some ( you sir included ) are buying it, hook, line and sinker.

I haven't used my Polish passport all that much in the last two decades, but Poland still happens to be my country, so please be so kind and cut the ****** drama while I warn my people about scammer risks.

Law / I am married to a Polish citizen. How can I get residency? [36]

Cut the barking, will you.

I meant what I said, all your story lacks is a bit of bad english and an eternal love for a blue eyed kasia.

Law / I am married to a Polish citizen. How can I get residency? [36]

What in the name of God are you suffering on about? If you can't answer the question normally, why don't you just **** off?

I suggest you keep your tongue in check.

As I mentioned, there seems to be a new visa scammer every other week around here ( which is less than in the U.K., but still quite a bit ) and as a result there's less and less tolerance for such bs. You sir sound exactly like your average visa scammer.

Law / I am married to a Polish citizen. How can I get residency? [36]

It does sound a bit like you got kicked out of the U.S. for being there illegally and are desperately looking for a way out from Africa, Pakistan or another such wonderland.

I don't forsee you getting much help here, PF users have seen more than their fair share of visa scammers.

USA, Canada / Not everyone that lives or comes from America is RICH! [300]

^^ Touche.

What the fcuk, threadstarter? You came to U.S. on a tourist visa, decided it is ok to stay for years, did illegal jobs and you're pissed because you can't buy a mansion on a cleaner's salary or get a huge credit?

Grow up.

Love / What do Asian boys think about Polish girls? :) (and vice versa) [150]

1) southern is a troll and should generally be ignored. In most other forums he would have ended up with a ban, here he is kept around as some kind of curiosity, I guess.

2) I fully agree with DarrenM and his conclusions about the thread starter, arrogance and all. With all due respect, I believe that being raised in a sheltered environment by two rich parents and 18 years worth of life experience aren't enough to justify some of the statements that Darren referred to.

3) While I live in the UK ( travel to Poland frequently ) and am a subject of Her Majesty, I am not ethnically English/Scottish/Irish/Welsh. Hence one could say I'm pretty much in the same shoes as the thread starter... And while I may not appreciate some of the aspects of living in London or some of the local customs, I consider this a put up or shut up issue.

If indeed there are all these nasty, drunk, knuckle-dragging thugs around in the UK that make life so miserable... well... nothing is stopping anyone from jumping on a plane and planting one's roots in India or some other paradise, right?

4) I've noticed a fair few polish girls going for asian ( south asian ) boys, not all, but they do get quite a lot of attention. Rather than white english, or even polish boys.

Could it be because traditionally Asians have strong relationship/marriage morals ( monogamous ) very low divorce rates etc. , and generally have a good wealth.

Bullshit statements. I haven't noticed the trend mentioned at all, unless you are referring to the Polish peasant class ( "wiesniaki" "buraki" ) women and even they rather tend to go for african immigrants instead of asians ( guess the darker the better, but you'd have to ask the interested parties ). What I keep on noticing in London however is fit Indian birds going out with white guys and I must confess I plowed through an indian lady or two in my younger and wilder days.

Love / Polish girls fall for Indian guys ? [217]

Haha well that's funny . I am Indian, 6 foot and athletic/muscular build as I am
An avid weightlifter. I got top marks in all of my subjects and am
Now well on the way to earning a degree. My grandparents came to England with nothing and have worked so hard that we now own a big house in a lovely area. So I suggest you think

Again before stereotyping Indians , as we are probably the most successful migrated race around.
Oh, and all of my girlfriends have been white :D

You're way too sexy for us ol' gents over here, indian boy. Go and play somewhere else with other indian supremacists.

Love / I'm impressed by Polish girls and their beauty, going to marry my Polish GF [16]


Now that you say Iranian...

possibility of Marriage with a polish lady

Loads of similarities :-)

Love / I'm impressed by Polish girls and their beauty, going to marry my Polish GF [16]

First guess indian.

Guess number two - paki.

Love / Fell in love; I need to go back to Poland for 2 months - what to say at work (UK) [50]

1) You wrote what you wrote, that pretty much sums up your initial intentions, so don't act like nothing happened. We are not all wee kids here, you know, and we can make our own observations.

In your case my observation is: You received the ( well-deserved ) negative response for trying to fcuk your boss out of his money illegally, hence you pretend like it wasn't your initial intention.

2) I see you are having some trouble understanding what permanent employment really is.

You are employed permanently so your boss can expect you to be there at all times if/when required by law. Had he wanted things otherwise he would have hired temps from an agency for less $$.

Now there are certain unique situations in which law grants an employee the right to cease working and deal with an emergency of personal nature. Shacking up with a new boyo is not one of them.

Why does the law reserve such rights for emergency situations? Because, no matter how long a notice your employer is at a fcuking loss when one of his permanent employees decides to quit working for 2 months. In a best case scenario someone else has to carry the workload. And if they can't, guess who is losing money?

3) If you still don't understand what I'm talking about - feel free to head up to your boss and tell him about this uber-brilliant idea of yours - "Look, I'll give you plenty of notice and I'll be just gone for two months. You know, I just need to see if me and this guy can really hit it off. We cool, right?".

They'll either give you a big hug and tell you to go for it or fire you ( In this economy I'm strongly betting on the latter ) and the problem will be solved.

4) I've hardly been rude, I've been realistic. Too bad you can't take it.

5) I'll keep pointing my finger at you until the sun runs out of plasma. Because I sure as hell don't want the Polish to mass-import their lovely "oh, let's fake some disability/illness and screw my employer/the state out of their money" custom over to Blightey. People who do that should just hop on a plane and go back to where they came from.

6) Saying other people are thieves when you plan to steal is really no excuse.

Love / Possibility of Marriage with a Polish lady [96]

Stereotypes... I guess they are around for a reason.

Love / Fell in love; I need to go back to Poland for 2 months - what to say at work (UK) [50]


Right on the spot.

What is it with Polish people ( especially Polish women, to be fair ) and the whole "don't judge me" attitude?

I've encountered that more than once ( at least seven times to be specific ), each and every time it was a Polish female doing something either morally questionable or blatantly criminal and then pullling a "don't judge me" card on people ( often her countrymen ) who suggested it is not a proper thing to do.

So, I gotta ask, is Tupac really popular with the girls over in Poland, with his whole "only god can judge me" thing? :-)

Sarcasm aside, Brits have every right to judge you, get pissed off, or even inform authorities if you are out there trying to scam your employer ( as was pointed out - plenty of locals without jobs at the moment ), live off the benefits or have sham marriages for a few bob so more of these nice Nigerian gentlemen can stay in the country.

Get used to it.

Love / Fell in love; I need to go back to Poland for 2 months - what to say at work (UK) [50]

Ok, let me clarify.

Do employees in U.K. have an annoying habit to call in sick when their nose starts running on a Sunday evening?

Hell yeah.

Is it common to see ppl faking medical problems that supposedly last for 2 freakin' months just to shack up with their new guy/girl in another country?

Hell no.

Who ends up carrying the burden? Your co-workers. What if they can't? Your employer is at a loss.

That **** is so sickening it should be criminal.

Love / Fell in love; I need to go back to Poland for 2 months - what to say at work (UK) [50]

^^ That's all fine and dandy and I know that in Poland employees **** both their employers and the national social services ( ZUS ) on a daily basis by faking medical conditions, but please for the love of all that's good and pure - don't bring these "customs" to the UK.

Love / Fell in love; I need to go back to Poland for 2 months - what to say at work (UK) [50]

Just too funny...

1) or give a medical certificate of temporary work disability - you mean as in "get a doctor to lie in writing to your employer about a non-existing medical condition that supposedly prevents you from working so you can shack up with your new boyo"?

I'd fire you on the spot if I was your boss.

You are actually giving hard working Polish people a very bad name. It is 2 months we are talking about here, not calling in sick on a monday morning due to bad weather.

2) It is time to **** or get off the pot. Either one of you quits your job and moves to the other one's country of residence or this thing continues on for a while, then dies from natural causes.

Tertium non datur.

If you're expecting your employer to pay up in any shape or form for your love life and arising aspirations you'll be crudely awoken by reality, honey.

3) Purely pragmatically, if you met the lad "a couple months ago", then quitting your job and moving to another country to be with him is pure nuttery.

History / Maus by Vladek Spiegelman - animals to represent Poles? [68]

In the usual Polish fashion many of You guys fail to acknowledge that apart from a significant number of brave and heroic Poles that did all they could to ease the plight of Jews at great personal risk there was also a very visible chunk of the Polish population that sold Jews out to the Nazis for food or out of spite.

Nothing is black and white, please remember that.

Spiegelmann had an artist's right to portray all the nations like he saw fit, you don't like it - sue him.

Love / Polish girls fall for Indian guys ? [217]

Damn, that was one uneducated and extremely agitated indian boy over there....

Love / I WANT HER BACK EVEN IF I HAVE TO CROSS THE OCEAN WITH A BOAT AND GO WALKING TO LÓDZ [58]

Let's break this down:

You met the chick on facebook.

Went to see her.

Didn't stay with her for any significant amount of time, because You had "other pressing matters".

As a result she doesn't want to see you.

Now you are desperate to see her.

Love / Polish girls fall for Indian guys ? [217]

Damn, what a bunch of bs here.

1) I'd like to see the source behing the "statistics" provided by malay on p. 4. You know, a link to a scientific paper or something. Especially something to back up this ridiculous claim about the 5 richest people in the world being indian.

2) It would be very nice of you, indian boys, to use proper grammar and punctuation while you post here. Talking especially about that madan boy on page 4, also about malay.

If you don't know them, have word or something correct this for you.

In all honesty, there are serious issues with understanding just what the **** you are trying to say.

3) Most white women as a rule don't dig indian men. Reasons:

a) Lack of respect for women in patriarchal indian families.
b) indian males aren't too physically attractive.

Sure, a polish slut may, from time to time, **** an indian guy to get to sleep on a sofa in london for free, but that's pretty much as far as it goes. Educated polish women have pretty much the same approach to indians as do other girls in Europe. That is: "no thank you, go away, don't bother me."

4) The claim about India being a peaceful nation belongs in someone's ass. See the Kashmir conflict.

5) To be fair, Indian women are usually very pretty and know how to take care of themselves. Many professional Indian women choose white guys in UK for exactly the same reasons as are listed in 3 here. It's not difficult to see a very fit Indian bird with a white guy in some of London's poshest clubs nowadays.

Love / India guy Polish girl [57]


- quit clowning, for real.

Indian women can be breathtakingly beautiful.