USA, Canada / American father's son is in Poland, [he's] told to pay child support.... [30]


I think so too.

how do we know hes not abusive? why did she leave in the first place, its only
partial story, which has a beginning, this is the tail end of it, she left 10 years ago
and one of the posters said the teen didnt want to see his father.. I wonder why??

most children want to, whether there is bad feelings or not between parents, its
their choice, if he was a bad father or if he abused the mother or little boy, certainly
he would remember and be glad there was such distance between them.

in any case, the whole story isnt posted. And it doesnt appear that hes went out of
his way to pay child support either and is collecting off his dead wifes money so
sound to me like a deadbeat.

Love / Love without chemistry? (Asian in love with a Polish woman) [195]


Southern , in some cases, women might not be interested and its her choice just as
it would be yours if you arent attracted to someone.. if its not there its not there.

no need to be superior about anything.

UK, Ireland / Missing Polish woman found murdered in Chesterton, UK [27]


same as they did with van der sloot whos all over the TV and the only reason they didnt get him in hollaway case the first time is lack of evidence.

now that hes talking deals. least what is the truth ( if he doesnt keep changing his story)

in the story above, it just says he is accused of killing her but..... in the article is says-Officers are continuing to appeal for witnesses who saw anything so no witnesses, they dont even have the body identified yet, and they are holding this guy to the murder??

Van der sloot was the last one with hollaway so it kinda gives you something there, all the sudden she is missing and hes denying he did anything, but yet shes no where to be found, and he had several different stories and hes seen leaving on camera and this guy they are accusing of murder, theres nothing.

looks like some shady shyt to me..

I hope they find her killer, but it dont sound like hes the one. I guess its a wait and see what happens.

UK, Ireland / Missing Polish woman found murdered in Chesterton, UK [27]


true, cant argue that, I just find it strange that they would even publish that
without saying they had found something..

like he was wearing clothing with her blood on it, dna tests?
he was with her last, perhaps he is ex boyfriend, something to that nature.

UK, Ireland / Missing Polish woman found murdered in Chesterton, UK [27]


agree, how can they even hold him without evidence and it didnt state any in the
article, so did they just pick him at random, or was he the last person to see her
alive?


ha ha funny.

UK, Ireland / Missing Polish woman found murdered in Chesterton, UK [27]


this scares me, cause if this is true, then anyone can be picked out of a crowd, sort of like the salem witch hunt, they call out the name and that was it for them..

so what if this guy is her boyfriend, he just dropped her off , someone was watching and went right behind him and murdered her, meanwhile this guys walking home or driving home unaware that his girl is in trouble and they accuse him, so this scenario can happen and how would someone prove innocence with the circumstance's as they are where he couldnt prove he just dropped her off and thats it because he was with her..

hmmmm food for thought.. I hope this isnt the case.

UK, Ireland / Missing Polish woman found murdered in Chesterton, UK [27]


what do they have to find him guilty of though?

there isnt really much to the story, maybe they dont release all the information in the UK ? the story itself doesnt sound right.. they cant hold him for doing nothing unless they are interrogating him and that shouldnt be news until he confesses

UK, Ireland / Missing Polish woman found murdered in Chesterton, UK [27]


I seen that too, so how can they even keep him in custody if he didnt say he did it, only that that are accusing him, unless he confessed to something

they forgot to write in the news.

News / Decoded talks inside Poland's president's plane are released in Internet [337]


I never gave credit, I QUESTION .................

and to me Russia doesnt give a whole lots of trust, why should any one else?

The boxes should have been sent to a alternate country for investigation
that way people wouldnt question russia, and it would /could have shown
their good standing by letting someone else investigate if they had nothing to hide!!

News / Decoded talks inside Poland's president's plane are released in Internet [337]


agree.

another point, why would the tower tell them to not land /say they told them
when autopilot was on? who were they talking to?

why the heck was autopilot on during approach??

I have never been in a plane, but I know one thing, someone should be at the
wheel if your that close to landing.

Love / Polish men what is the worst thing a girl can do upon first impression? [360]


omg, for the first time I agree with you zimmy... amazing thing.

Love / How to Make (Polish?) Women happy? [96]


and then she popped and you had to buy a new one with the original banknote

:) lol

Love / Are Polish men sexist? [53]


how would you know fred? you got yourself one of those?? LOL

Genealogy / Konrad Josef Urbański - please help to find information on my father.... [6]

I hope someone can help u locate them. best of luck

Life / Do Polish people have a temper? [53]


thats a definate generalization, everyone has their moments.

I always thought spaniards were sweet talkers/like to dance etc etc.
I know a spaniard on here who is pretty sweet..

my dad and his dad grew up in some tough times, which called for tough skin.
my brothers how ever are happy go lucky guys, like to hang out and both are
spawn of polish blood.

tempers are something we all posess, and given the right elements we can all
have our moments!!

Life / Do Polish people have a temper? [53]


its not the nationality its the generation.

History / Why did Hitler kill so many Jews in Poland? [261]


Really??????

I would have never thought of that had you not come to the rescue to tell us
this well thought out sentence.

quote=1jola]Why? Well, he said they were taking over the culture, economic life, education, etc. and thus destroying indiginous culture[/quote]

basically the same thing I wrote above ( he was trained to think this way)
as he wasnt born hating them.

I do realize Im no expert, never claim to be, but I highly doubt you are one..
so whether my post was misunderstood or not. I cant help that you cant put
the two together and figure out it was basically same thing.

History / Why did Hitler kill so many Jews in Poland? [261]

anti-semitism has been around for thousands of years it seems like they have prevoked
other tribes ( jewish) because they are the chosen people, sparked other religions in
the past to have hostile feelings towards them ( apparently) given this evidence
I think it would be safe to say hitler was more then likely trained to believe or forced
to believe this and the creation of a perfect race could be from suggestions of past
writings

The earliest account of anti-Semitism is to be found in the Book of Esther (third or fourth century B.C.E.) which tells the story of the attempt by Haman to exterminate all the Jews in the Persian Empire under Xerxes. Although this account may not have been historical, it provides evidence that Jews suffered from outbreaks of anti-Semitism in the Persian Empire. Egyptian prejudices against Jews are found in the writings of the Egyptian priest Manetho in the third century B.C.E. who, reacting against the Biblical account of Exodus, claimed the Jews were a leper colony that had been expelled and then taken over Palestine, a land to which they had no claim.[2]

newworldencyclopedia.org/entry/Anti-Semitism


I read that too, so heres a man joining the nazi party who blames the jews for
everything, hmmmmmmmm think he might be hiding behind a mask of some sort.

but, I believe its deeper, because his brother was forced to run away at a young
age. cant bring the guy back to life and hang him again, even though that might
be the cure and closure for some.

History / Why did Hitler kill so many Jews in Poland? [261]


We know theres more then one man out there whos capable of evil

The real question is what triggered his evil
he was talented artist among other things, he seemed to be no different
then anyone else stuggling in those times.

repressed memory? a way of letting out his anger hes kept quiet for so long?

Maybe he was sexually abused by a man who was jewish?

the list goes on and on.

:) Thank you sean

newworldencyclopedia.org/entry/Adolf_Hitler#The_early_ years_of_the_Nazi_Party

Hitler's entry and rise
After the war, Hitler remained in the army, which was mainly engaged in suppressing socialist uprisings breaking out across Germany, including Munich (Bavarian Soviet Republic), where Hitler returned in 1919. He took part in "national thinking" courses organized by the Education and Propaganda Department of the Bavarian Reichswehr Group, Headquarters 4 under Captain Mayr. A key purpose of this group was to create a scapegoat for the outbreak of the war and Germany's defeat. The scapegoats were found in "international Jewry," communists and politicians across the party spectrum, especially the parties of the Weimar Coalition, who were deemed November Criminals.

This gives some vaulable insight

History / Why did Hitler kill so many Jews in Poland? [261]


Well Adolfs brother ran away from abuse, I highly doubt his father said , well son
since your the only one left, I guess I will skip the spanking/beatings.

For someone to kill the way he did, he must have seen some things, people
can hide behind art, its a way to let out emotions.

my further thoughts go to ( he was possessed).

PS> hello everyone :) miss ya all

USA, Canada / Do many Polish people in America hate Americans? [592]

at least our ancestors didnt drop us off on a island because we were misfits of society!
I dont hate anyone, cause its a strong word .

USA, Canada / My wife wants to return to Poland...but I want to stay in the US [155]

six months is hardly enough time, as he said she hasnt met any friends, etc etc.
if none of her family is here, thats hard, it would be the same for him, if he lived
there, maybe he could pay for her family to come see here?

as for having a child and staying as long as she did, maybe she does love him or
maybe she isnt getting something from the relationship , there could be numerous
things going on.

But this is clearly a example of why international relationships are difficult.
even if there wasnt a child. there is so much culture difference, and it
is something to learn from. its not like if they did part ways he could just go
over to her home and pick up the child for the weekend like we can here.

USA, Canada / My wife wants to return to Poland...but I want to stay in the US [155]


she hasnt changed anything, she is just home sick, she hasnt even left yet.


seanus, isnt that a bit over the top? you dont even know this couple and already
your accusing her /assuming she will b*itch and moan and you have no clue.

you said some sound advice , now it just sounds like your b*itching.
and it isnt even your wife.. go figure.


how can you even say this?? why would someone travel half across the world , to have
a kid when they can have one in poland just the same, dont have to deal with the
immigration, loss of money , courts etc etc??????

thats just plain reaching for straws there zimmy!!

she is home sick thats it!!!

USA, Canada / My wife wants to return to Poland...but I want to stay in the US [155]


maybe if your the robot from lost in space..lol


yes it does, but it sounds like hes pretty torn up, maybe see counselor
someone on a professional level who might be able to offer up some suggestions
or ideas to help both?


I know you were not talking about me, because I am the main support of my
home right now and without this my family would be not have food, roof over
their head, so my rights to work and make a living would not be even a thought
if those before me didnt fight to get women in the workforce.. and my wages would
be shyt.

there are many men out there who step up to the plate, if this is such the case
with you , then you shouldnt be treating others less then how you want to be treated
and with the same respect.. it goes both ways.

USA, Canada / My wife wants to return to Poland...but I want to stay in the US [155]


Point taken, sorry I forgot to post to your post ( oopsey daisy)

I hear what your saying, long term the child will be affected.

where is my daddy mommy?? oh he lives in the United states,
he couldnt come live with us. mommy was homesick.

I know I couldnt imagine trying to explain this to my child let alone why
so many children in poland have daddys who live with them and hers lives
so far away. it might not happen for a few years, but eventually it will.

marriage is supposed to be a sacred thing. she knows this, unless her intentions
were other wise.
Ironside pretty much summed it up, the only people who know them best are
their friends and family. hers living in poland ,maybe she should ask them as well
as he ask his friends.

sorry I forgot to include you in my post before.. that was so bad of me
* roll eyes* lol

USA, Canada / My wife wants to return to Poland...but I want to stay in the US [155]


good post, kinda what I was hinting at, either way someone has to sacrafice
what they long for to keep their home life stable.

Im not saying poland would or wouldnt be the right choice, but he should talk
more to her, find out maybe theres other things on her mind, not just poland.


would you like some cheese with that berry berry sad whine.


some very good food for thought. you are so right, his friends know him and her
both, either way, he is reaching out, obviously my post was misunderstood
next time I will just private post to that person when its such a personal issue
because this really did get way our of hand and I hope this man and his wife
do find resolve.

Thank you :)

and good post Chris, its nice to see/get feedback like this. rather then get sarcastic
and just ask me.

Nice post f stop.


well zimmy ditto. because you keep placing all women in this:


make you a deal, I will stop picking your personal life if you stop picking at women
in general and knock off this mangina attitude just be yourself for a change and
stop with the sarcasim so we can all have some nice conversations/attitudes for a
change cause this mentality only causes confliction and isnt healthy.

I think everyone has something to offer the Polish forums.. either way someone wins.
and people might start actually enjoying the forum again..

USA, Canada / My wife wants to return to Poland...but I want to stay in the US [155]


WTF says you. read a little better, as logic has it another male who still dont get it!!

you even quoted it... I put out suggestions, I didnt tell him he had to go, there are
other options.


yes I did, you didnt read it carefully, I said take her out, help her get a job etc etc
but you only read part of the post.


zimmy, if you had one caring bone in your body, you wouldnt be divorced. I see
where your heading on this thread. leave the guy alone, dont corrupt his mind
with your pig ideas.


stop!! this is not a divorce. or that type of divorce. hes asking for help/advice
about her home sickness. for all we know she is a wonderful person just home sick
and he seems like a good man too, this is just a sad situation and yes, the child is
the most important.. no they might not be able to make the choice of who they want
to be with, but both parents have to get along and agree in order for this child to
understand the situation and if she did go back with the child, she would miss her
father, and vice versa..


thats not what I meant, you obviously didnt read either. or misunderstood my
post.. yeah thats it.


I hear your point, but you totally missed mine, and I am pretty disappointed that
so many did.. I know its not easy to uproot, move , and especially now, but thats
something they could talk about or maybe already have.


are you talking to me scrappy? cause I would really like to know WTF your so uppity about!!

USA, Canada / My wife wants to return to Poland...but I want to stay in the US [155]


theres a couple of other suggestions, I see you decided to pick up on this one
and make it negative.. in the end the child is the most important as seanus
pointed out, but its obvious he loves her and doesnt want to lose her and is
willing to send her back just to stop her sadness.

USA, Canada / My wife wants to return to Poland...but I want to stay in the US [155]


u silly


zimmy give some advice not your *MALE* opinion..

Jozek,

put yourself in her shoes. she came here, she married you, why dont you make
the effort to live in poland? its not like people arent moving there.

then you will know what she is going thru.

if you love her, then go with her, make arrangements. she is your wife, she
should honor the marriage, but at the same time, letting her go isnt solving
the delimma, because you will be hearbroken.

that little baby girl is both of yours, she belongs to both of you together.
you should sit down with your wife and explain to her how much you love them
maybe start going out more with her, take the baby to the sitters and have some
fun together.. life become routine, you dont have to be polish to feel like this
anyone can get homesick if the life they are living isnt completely happy, and
I am no expert, but sometimes men get to working and come home and forget
that its hard on some of the women and if you think your giving enough just ask
her, i am sure she wants to see more then just the four walls everyday. especially
when she is home 24/7. maybe she should work part time just to have a get a
way from the home. people need to have a social life, thats what she is missing
thats not a polish thing, she misses home because thats her comfort zone.

best of luck :)

Law / Polish Cop Took My Car Registration :S [143]


you seem to have the worst luck :)