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Patrycja19   
2 Oct 2010
Love / Are Polish and Slavic men perhaps a little bit insecure sometimes? [113]

The women here know what a sensitive kind of man

lmao

I can already imagine the mist in their eyes

yeah, yeah im crying lol

Maybe it's that "high maintenance" projection of

but I do agree.. I think her expectations are too high.. she is certainly not very
independent now , she wants a more old fashioned type of man who will spoil her
while she barks orders.

good luck.
Patrycja19   
28 Sep 2010
Love / THE POLISH DISEASE, wanna marry a Polish girl ? read on... [197]

stantheman,

the name says it all. why call him stan the man? cause he is a ladies man? or because
he fixes cars really really well? or he bowls a 200?

as one that exaggerates

consider him branded!! LOL

I personally agree with a lot of what you said as I know such types. In fact, you are incredibly spot on with much of your insight :)

it can be any woman.. he just found a BLANK>>

people change, i am sure he isnt what she thought he was either..
two sides to the story. has nothing to do with polish, if it did then she could use that
against him and say hes polish and lazy as heck..

anyways, look at yourself before you go throwin stones.. you didnt marry a
arm ornament now did you?
Patrycja19   
28 Sep 2010
Love / Polish Girl Doesn't Want To Touch. [240]

There might be a number of reasons she is tensing up, and they might have nothing in the world to do with her being Polish.

trevek , its true, we dont know her side.. so whatever is going on. hopefully
all works out for the best.

and I totally agree with it not being a polish thing, because anywhere a man places his
hand theres a hidden signal behind it..the messages a women sends back -tensing, move
away means please leave me alone.
Patrycja19   
28 Sep 2010
Love / Polish Girl Doesn't Want To Touch. [240]

He has no choice because he doesn't want to offend her.

lol,, she is making it plain that she doesnt want him to touch, if she was not tensing up
then I am sure he wouldnt be on here begging for help from us now would he?

he would be a happy little camper runnin around like tom cruise , and jumpin on couches!

its obvious that he likes her..she might not be attracted to him the same.

Funny, I'd have thought a hand on the knee was a bit more than holding hands.

yep , a little to much and we all know what that means. :)
Patrycja19   
28 Sep 2010
Love / Polish Girl Doesn't Want To Touch. [240]

he then says he has a choice of which direction to move and upwards (crotchwards) would be too much too fast.

he has a choice????

does he really???

friends dont have a choice... if he moves up. be prepared to meet the floor.
Patrycja19   
28 Sep 2010
Love / Polish Girl Doesn't Want To Touch. [240]

He is talking about holding hands (maybe you think that's where babies come from) and a reciprocation of affection.

I seen the mention of crotch in there and that is not holding a hand if ya know what
I mean.. his eyes were going elsewhere .

he also was going for the knee, yeah,, this is not a hand.. and only frankenstein could make
it into one. lol

muwha ha ha ha.
Patrycja19   
27 Sep 2010
Love / Polish Girl Doesn't Want To Touch. [240]

his needs and his feelings

right and they talked for hours. about what? maybe that she wanted to move out
cause hes so touchy feely...

he prob is a artist, he prob is a interesting person and very easy to talk to, how did
she end up in his spare room? under what conditions?
Patrycja19   
27 Sep 2010
Love / Polish Girl Doesn't Want To Touch. [240]

I'm sure he does not realize this, but his reaction to the story further exposes his pathology. It's fascinating how all the pieces fit together.

agree :)

I think this girl is feeling like she was put in a situation she doesnt want to be in.

I mean ,they are friends, but hes letting her stay in the other * ROOM* she is thinking
ok, I can do this, he seems like hes going to be a gentleman, but of course, putting
your hand on someones knee is a direct advance, and I am sure she felt like he is
trying to take advantage of her.. when your not attracted to someone, you dont give them
the ok to touch you, so she is saying, hey get your dirty paws off me. or else.

but she is laughing cause she feels awkward so she is putting up with it till there is a way
out, you wait and see.. if you want to keep her as a friend popcorn, I would back off
and leave well enough alone. cause it sounds like a one sided relationship all in your
mind.

and your pushing her away in your own home. if your friends, then stay that, relationships
grow over time. its only been 4 months people dont marry in 4 months or become exclusive
( unless that is what they are looking for) right away..

she is there because you are friends and that is what you told her.. right? its ok to stay
in your spare room? I think theres more to this story and you are pushing it.

because every time someone tried to help you, you found a excuse and a reason
why it cant be done. I am only being honest, and you need that.. come back down
to reality.. take the gentleman approach with the open the car door, dont expect and
leave her some space. keep your hands in your pockets.
Patrycja19   
26 Sep 2010
Love / Unmarried couples in Poland = pathology [310]

I would put the stresses and expectations of modern life as the number one problem.

I disagree , all of these things were still happening, it just wasnt out in the open back then.

but alcohol, drugs and children born out of wedlock happened back then as it does now.
the only difference is that it was hush hush.

and illegiamite children were born all the time and i have plenty of genealogy records that
prove this.

I think there was more stress and expectations on the older generations not so much
the younger ones maybe thats why they are so much more wild, because nothing is expected
because now , they are not told what to be, but asked what they would like to be.

to be or not to be that is the question.. lol

I wouldnt blame modern life, because every new generation that is born is moving into
a more modern life then the last.

that started when life started lol otherwise we all would still be wearing bearskins and
clubbing each other..
Patrycja19   
24 Sep 2010
USA, Canada / Moved back from Canada to Poland:). Here are the reasons why. [868]

ill father was the main reason,

I am so sorry, take it one day at a time and spend as much time as you can.

[quote=aphrodisiac]I will be closer to Europe and Berlin in particular, which I love. Thirdly, I own a place in Szczecin, so it was easy, and more job opportunities for me here.

I am glad that you have opportunities, especially in this economy. Wish you all the best
;)
Patrycja19   
18 Sep 2010
Food / Ribs and Potato's (Patrycja's Mom Recipe) [13]

I wouldn't mind some tomorrow but I can't taste a thing.

seanus, try some applecider vinagar in hot water in pan -put a towel over the top and
smell the hot steam.. that will open up the nose. :)

BBL going to store :)
Patrycja19   
18 Sep 2010
Food / Ribs and Potato's (Patrycja's Mom Recipe) [13]

Zaberka

I guess its similar to it, there is a sauce on it, and the potato's are baked, but the sauce is
on them so they are not boiled and ahhhhhh you can saute the onion that might make
it less strong ( when it cooks it makes the whole house smell like onion) LOL

I know one of my friends ( she is polish decent too) her mom recently died she made
same thing but she used to put in slow cooker with potatoes and ribs and no sauce.

I guess there is variations of this?

:) its darn good .. just put it away.. I like to have it with applesauce.
I love friggin apples and applesauce.
Patrycja19   
18 Sep 2010
Food / Ribs and Potato's (Patrycja's Mom Recipe) [13]

very nice, make sure you keep a eye on the ribs, as they can dry out of you dont
add water or keep the pan moist..

my hubby made dry rub for ribs and I told him that will become solid and crust
and they will get hard and to add water or some type of moisture to the pan.

well, ha ha, he didnt listen and guess what? lol

never tell your wife she is wrong. lol
Patrycja19   
18 Sep 2010
Food / Ribs and Potato's (Patrycja's Mom Recipe) [13]

I will see if its sold in the uk. you can use any kind really, but that sauce is the best
its so goodddddddddddddddddd .lol

lemme check :)

I have some cooking now, its almost done yummy.. :)
Patrycja19   
18 Sep 2010
Food / Ribs and Potato's (Patrycja's Mom Recipe) [13]

one of my moms recipes, and I love it, cooking it now, just a simple
recipe and its baked so its not fried and not bad for you.

slab of lean country ribs.
cut up some good size potato's
put in a large roaster pan.
cut up one large onion ( make sure you open windows) LOL

dash of pepper, onion powder, garlic powder and salt ( easy on the salt)
pour on the open pit barbaque sauce and throw in the oven..

about 2 hrs or so. check potatos for softness.

you can also add carrots to this, they work good too.

I usually make corn/green beans with this and nice salad

sometimes I throw some Keilbasa in with it, ( but first I wave it around in the street
so people know I am a American of Polish decent) :D lol

We usually mash the potatos on our plates and throw lots a butter ( yummmmmmmm)
and you can add more sauce as it is cooking so you have a really saucy rib

the potato's get a barbaque flavor to them and let me tell ya, no one will complain
about it,, and its not a hard dinner to cook!!

hope ya likey, its from the kitchen of Patrycja 19

smoochy smoochy :)
Patrycja19   
14 Sep 2010
Life / Passing your Polish language and culture to your kids [74]

Sadly, not everyone does this. I know many Polish families in England where the kids don't really speak Polish, and some Anglo families in Poland where the youngest kids don't speak what I see is acceptable English.

well maybe this was the case for families in America, my grandparents all three died so long
ago, I was mad because I never met them, it was unfair to me, because I only met
one grandmother the only thing I rememer from her is her holding me I think I was like
2 years old then her death when my mom was crying. no other memories.

why I remember this I dont know.

but if I could ask them, why didnt you tell my parents to teach me polish, I think the same
answer would have been given.. of course who knows.

but I know growing up, just because my last name had a ski on the end of it, thats all
kids needed to make fun, to say mean things and now as a adult you have other adults
telling you that you cant identify with your heritage..

I truely hope karma comes their way, I am praying for this.
And I believe it will..
Patrycja19   
14 Sep 2010
USA, Canada / PolAms -- do you regard yourselves only as 'white Americans'? [187]

I don't feel that I am doing gods work here in Poland, I'm making money here, that's my motivation. Creating jobs and bringing money into the country is just a side product of what I set out to achieve

so its self motivated, same as if you were to go to another country and start a business,
admit that its for your pocket and not someone elses. bottom line your doing for yourself!!

same as our families left and came to America to do it for themselfs.. SAME THING!!!!

As for creating jobs and bringing money into the country, you havent done it yet? so
then shut up!! make your money and steal from those who need it most.
when you provide some proof of goodwill, you can then tell others that is your purpose
but if you there for the money,, join the crowd, everyone pays taxes , so stop using
stupid shyt to back your words up.. thats a requirement in every country.

doesnt mean your doing good for the country.. good luck with that future project!
Patrycja19   
14 Sep 2010
USA, Canada / PolAms -- do you regard yourselves only as 'white Americans'? [187]

there is no Pol-Am sub-culture in America.

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polish_American
americanpolishcenter.com
ampolinstitute.org
polishcultureacpc.org
polishamericanstudies.org

well I could google all night long on the topic of Polish Americans and how they continue to contribute and keep culture a big part of their lives.

Poles assimilate. Overtime we disappear into the general population.

speak for yourself.. over time there will still be polish immigrants and they will immigrate
in the year 2525 if man is still alive!! LOL

oh yeah, im tired,, off to the pillow..
Patrycja19   
14 Sep 2010
USA, Canada / PolAms -- do you regard yourselves only as 'white Americans'? [187]

WTF?? so because we choose to retrace our familys history we have to pay taxes, and
move there and do something for the country or else we cant trace our family? we cant
learn about where we started?? are u off your rocker??

were not business people over here trying to buy up their land to take over for god sake
we are just learning and living our familys past culture!! you sound like its voodoo to
even try to learn anything or say we have family, which we do.. just because your a
brit living in poland doesnt make you god and holier that thou , why did those not native
to their country move to poland?? wasnt to become a polish person now was it??

the country is avail, lots of natural resources that practically untouched , so you went to
buy a piece of property that makes you a martyr for the whole country?

when you build a orphanage and start feeding the whole country on your paycheck
come talk to us, otherwise fek off.

paying taxes is part of the deal when you buy property, it doesnt help Poland it helps
the politicians dumbarse.. and every country you live you pay taxes..

just because you moved there, doesn't make you king of the land, so what you have
a job in Poland so you can feed your arse and your family, thats what people do!!

they pick a place off the whole planet that they would like to live, they move there and
they buy a home, it doesnt change the whole country of Poland just because YOU
bought one little fricken home in Poland and learned the language..

and if you choose to do that, learn the language, its because you have to , same as they
do if they come to the united states, it would be pretty f*in boring if you lived there and
didnt know how to talk to anyone, and people were screwing you over left and right and
you didnt know WTF was going on, its kinda a have to do thing.. otherwise I would bet
you would be laughed at silently while your smiling and they are talking shyt. as alot of
people of different languages do.. and dont tell me it dont happen cause it happened
to my Romanian friend who went to a store and they were talking shyt and so she looked
at her husband and talked it back to him and said good thing we dont live close to this
store, cause the help sucks!! boy did they get wide eyes!!

I dont get why these idiots keep saying we do nothing for Poland and how would they
even fricken know what we do , a good portion of the people that came to America didnt
come in 1920, they came recently, so telling them they left their country hangin, thats
pretty sad, cause you left your country you sad pieces of cow poo!

and further more, those who did come post war, wanted a better life, if they found it
in America who are you to tell them after all the shyt they been thru??

and for the 2nd and 3rd generations, there is no reason to even take any of what they
say in, for one thing, when someone traces their ancestry, its not free. you have to pay
for genealogists in Poland, there prices are not cheap, its very costly, but it does go into the economy, which does help Poland so u can f off there.. my family and many familys still send Clothing and personal need items, because some familys are still not doing so well and

its the greedy business people who come over that want to pay cheap labor ( yeah like that helps them) and have people work for nothing, how is that helping? um yeah thought so

you can F off on that one too..

when you can say that you provided substantial jobs, that you have volunteered endless
hours helping those who are homeless , and you give up your whole paycheck to save
babies that are born with some type of defect, and devote your whole life to giving to the
polish govt, dont sit here and throw fekin stones and me or anyone else who is tracing or
learning about their families or lives in America and takes part in their own culture who
recently came from Poland..

dont get all over any of these people till you can say you are the king and have done
all the things said above..

sounds fekin silly dont it?? yeah thats what were all saying about you idiots who think
you became god overnight!!!

go lick your lips and place them on a iceberg , maybe you can float to Iceland and
go pay taxes there and buy up their Ice and make a really nice business as a cold
arse-hole who is doing good for his community!!
Patrycja19   
11 Sep 2010
Love / Polish professional man in interracial dating relationship...withdraws [27]

but "you like me more than I like you"?

you have a point, a valid one.

if he was back on the dating site, those women might have seen him for who he really
was so he came back and is now playing the game till he wins.

plus he said he needed to re-roup

I know I would have slammed on those brakes cause someone would be flying out my
windsheild. lol
Patrycja19   
7 Sep 2010
USA, Canada / PolAms -- do you regard yourselves only as 'white Americans'? [187]

He goes on this forum all the time and makes Poland look so much more than it really is.

must be seanus, that explains it all.. lol..

The comment was about mediawatch saying that this forum is only for ("applies to") people of Polish descent;

Media watch is directing anger at del, and few of us feel the same. if your just making a
comment like you did and explaining it , it makes more sense, but del is completely
disrespecting Poland and Polish Americans, saying they go overboard, and have no
right to celebrate their culture in another country basically, but this is America and people
are allowed to celebrate their culture and traditions.

and he is also saying those of us who are born Americans basically shouldnt even claim
Polish ancestry, even though he can claim his scottish ancestry ( with no beliefs in it mind
you).

as for del a teacher.. Seanus, I dont know how you teach your class if you dont believe in
History or the facts that THERE IS ( reality check) Americans with Polish ancestry
and if they want to parade around in shirts that say you bet your keilbasa Im polish
the so what.. is it going to make you cry if they do??

booo hooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

lol

now I know the real scoop of who the del is. yeah, figures, no surprises there.. just
a man who argues for the sake of arguing.. I pity your girlfriend, especially since she
is polish and prob has cousins in America or the UK who celebrate their culture where
ever they live.. cause its their god given right and theres nothing anyone can do about
it!

Fuzzy, I enjoyed your post.. thanks :) was cool. I retract other misunderstood posts :)

yep.. off to work.. la la la smooches and all that mushy stuff to yas..
muwhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.
Patrycja19   
7 Sep 2010
USA, Canada / American Polonia. Wisconsin - the most Polish state? [112]

Scottish by nationality

my view is that there isn't, personally

then why not just call yourself british? if you have no ethnic background and dont
believe in it, why would you even claim to be scottish?

you make no sense. so anything you say is all a bunch of bull.

again, the only reason you talk crap is cause your jealous of polish
cause there is scottish Americans who have the same festivals, same claim to their heritage
and same need to find their great grandparents.. do you have any issues with them?

yeah, thats what I thought.. I think you are a troll.. and I bet your one of our old trolls
that we all wanted booted a long time ago. but I cant remember his name cause
he wasnt that important to me , and he was a jerk!!
Patrycja19   
7 Sep 2010
USA, Canada / PolAms -- do you regard yourselves only as 'white Americans'? [187]

Others just sit in the New World harking back to their families' past, while some of us have a connection with PL stronger than mere ancestry.

So what does this have to do with people having the soul right to trace their ancestry?

dumphia has every right to trace his ancestry and no one is going to make any
bad remarks that he cant because he lives in poland and has no connection to his
home in scottland because he doesnt pay taxes there and he no longer wears his drag
outfit and blows pipes..

yeah that wouldnt be fair, and those scotts living in America , well, they cant go back
to the homeland and trace their ancestry because they have no connections anymore.

so they dont have rights to learn about where their forefathers lived and all the wars and
the basic history itself of anything other then the land they live and pay taxes on..

no schooling for you American scotts!! nope siree budd, no social studies, no Americans
need to learn about anything else that goes on outside of their green grassy backyard!!
no children shall attend school and learn about history in itself, because it involves crossing
the ocean to where it all began.

yes , we must all heed to the powerful man in drag ( oh sorry) the scottish know it all
dumphia!!

Jonni, your a bagpipe blower follower.. tsk tsk.
Patrycja19   
6 Sep 2010
Genealogy / Polish nationality? Which of the following (if any) determine being Polish. [231]

you just said the same thing i said.. so do you have a point?

none of us CLAIM to be them.

we CLAIM our heritage, which so many think we dont have any rights.

I say KISS my left butt cheek.. I will do what I want, I live in America, I will
Learn about my family, anyone who doesnt like it can go kiss RONALDS golden
MCnuggetts !!!

its our choice, you have polish ancestors, so someone says to you , dude, you have
no business having polish ancestry when you are American, thats like telling a
african American, hey , i dont give a crap if your ancestors come from africa, you
have no business calling yourself african American. but they are born in America,
and are American, but they cannot claim African heritage ( that is funny as hell)
cause its obvious, they can trace their beginnings back to the beginning of time
when they began... and they dont need a paper trail..

It might be harder for POLISH, due the facts that every other country took over
and there might have been some other mixes in there, but same as we cant prove
all the way to the piast dynasty, it can neither be disproved.

so get the hell out of the way, cause the American Polish are on the rise and we
are one nation you need to back away from. you might be the next victim of a
large keilbasa that we wave around and smack people with.. ha hah haahaha
Patrycja19   
6 Sep 2010
Genealogy / Polish nationality? Which of the following (if any) determine being Polish. [231]

so, if people are finding that being just American isnt enough, then that still isnt ok
get it straight, people are finding themselfs thru their history of family.

otherwise you dont know who you are. then you have people telling you to not be
who you are? WTF>>

so why call yourself a chicago pollock if your just American..

I smell a hypocrite