I am looking for a sperm donor in the Chicago area that is 100% Polish. I find myself in a very difficult situation. Eventhough taking this step is very traumatic for me, the alternative would be unbearable. I would like to have children, but have just gotten out of a very long relationship that did not lead to children. I do not have much time. I am 100% Polish and would like to find a donor that is 100% Polish. Serioius inquiries only. Or, if you are aware of any sperm banks in Poland, I would be greatful for the information. Complete discretion. Will pay.
I am a Polish man , and have also had a childless relationship that ended recently,just turned 39, have always considered having a child, you're idea sounds plausable, many details to work out....
Thank you for replying and more importantly, for taking me seriously. The other responses so far were disheartening.
As you can well imagine, this is quite a difficult position to be in as a woman. So many questions run through my mind...even if I should be doing this. But, I cannot imagine a life without children.
I'm sorry... I don't even know how to go about this. I initially thought I would be able to find donors through donor banks in the U.S. With such a big Polish population in Chicago, I thought I would definitely find a donor locally, but there do not seem to be any, or at least, I am not finding them.
My next idea was to search for donor banks in Poland, but again, I am not finding any. I've sent out some emails to different organizations in Poland, but have not yet heard back. This is my first big step.
Peter, I realize that this is very, very complicated. I am extremly nervous about this but know that I cannot put this off so I am charging ahead, painful as it may be. I am trying to stay focused on the end result. Are you open to exploring this? Please ask me any questions. I am a very high integrity person, with the best of intentions.
I look forward to hearing from you. Forgive me if I don't tell you even my first name just yet. This is so hard for me.
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face Peter, I didn't realize my message would go to 'general post.' Is there a way for us to have this conversation privately?
I've just sent two replies, 2 different addy's, and a number you can reach me. 1 addy starts with Peter , the other starts with Face. so you're not blocking or spamming me.
Yes the Holiday was was more than expected for me as-well.
go to myspace.they have alot of guys there.you may be lucky to find one from poland.but if you want their sperm i do not think they will gladly give it to you if they do not get to give you a dirrrrrrrty sanchez. :)
This poor lady is missing something in her life and her dreams are close to being psychotic. Does she not realize that children should be born from love and not a desire that someone has who has a crisis in her life? She needs psychoanalysis big-time and the sooner the better...Guys, better you use Kleenex and flush your sperm in the toilet than give this woman something that she won't know what to do with!
Thank you Ola. I know my words seem harsh, but this poor lady needs to give her head a shake and think about what she wants from life. Having a child is a long term commitment that requires love, not only from a mother, but a father as well.
I agree too I think women who put off having kids until the 11th hour and then suddenly have a dead line for getting pregnant, should not have children. Children are not for filling in voids in our lives. To willfully deny a child a father is beyond selfish! That kid will be paying with the rest of his or her life, because mothers like that never want to let go of those children when they become adults, instead they lay giant guilt trips on the children, and suddenly the children are supposed to become the spouse his mother never had, or the best girlfriend her mother never had. Its ridiculous! As far as im concerned when you engage in "go nowhere" relationships, you run the risk of having to put your plans on hold. Thats life!
