poligreg
11 Sep 2007 / #1
HI IM LOOKING FOR POLISH GAY FRIENDS.MINE E-MAIL poligreg@gmail
Looking for Polish gay friends in USA
londonwest
16 Oct 2007 / #2
I am not polish but i am very found of them. I believe they are truely real and honest. i have one polish friend and i love him greater than i love any of my friends. He is cute and smart. my name is charles my email is charleswestland@comcast.net
jareck
16 Oct 2007 / #3
does one have to discriminate on the sexuality to be friends? does ones sexual tendency differtiate them as a human being. if sex is an material act and personality more to do with ones spiritual sense then waht is the connection.
he wants to hang out with people with likewise intetests, whats wrong with that?
does one have to discriminate on the sexuality to be friends? does ones sexual tendency differtiate them as a human being. if sex is an material act and personality more to do with ones spiritual sense then waht is the connection.
jareck
16 Oct 2007 / #5
nothing is worng with that - but it creates differences between people, the world is about equality
_Sofi_
16 Oct 2007 / #6
maybe he already has friends who are different from him, and as Marek S says, he now
wants to hang out with people with likewise intetests
the world is about equality
not really
jareck
16 Oct 2007 / #8
well thats what i thought - deep down people arent bothered, only when it suits them... justt one question apart from same sex interest what other interests will gay people have then others...?
what other interests will gay people have then others...?
im not gay, i dont know.
_Sofi_
16 Oct 2007 / #10
what other interests will gay people have then others...?
well my gay friend is interested in the events happening in Glasgow, theatre events about homosexuality etc, club nights targeting homosexuals and such. There are many things, which I'm sure not many of his straight friends would hold any interest in. Just as a couple of examples.
I don't think there are any differences apart from same sex attractions.
But I think it's about meeting people who are gay, to relate to them.
Most gays go through the same thing, the rejection and so on.
Might feel more comfortable to be open?
Or maybe there are other more physical reasons?
I don't know.
It matters on the individual.
Yes there's the gay functions and culture as well.
Again that's an individual preference, not all follow it.
Oh actually on gay night clubs.
At least in Australia some straight people do go to them.
It's about the music and atmosphere.
But I think it's about meeting people who are gay, to relate to them.
Most gays go through the same thing, the rejection and so on.
Might feel more comfortable to be open?
Or maybe there are other more physical reasons?
I don't know.
It matters on the individual.
Yes there's the gay functions and culture as well.
Again that's an individual preference, not all follow it.
Oh actually on gay night clubs.
At least in Australia some straight people do go to them.
It's about the music and atmosphere.
jareck
16 Oct 2007 / #12
thanks for the information,
to be honest like you said there doesn't seem to be any real differences apart form the sex attraction...
the reason i asked is ebcasue in the 70's researchers concluded that there was a gay gene, this was then refuted later on looking at minnesota twin studies.
i just wanted to find out any specific personalities that gay people might have... what about soemone who is gay and then they didnt actually feel gay and turned back to straight is there a specific agy or not gay interest they hav.. i dont think you can call them bi becasue they have swinged back?
to be honest like you said there doesn't seem to be any real differences apart form the sex attraction...
the reason i asked is ebcasue in the 70's researchers concluded that there was a gay gene, this was then refuted later on looking at minnesota twin studies.
i just wanted to find out any specific personalities that gay people might have... what about soemone who is gay and then they didnt actually feel gay and turned back to straight is there a specific agy or not gay interest they hav.. i dont think you can call them bi becasue they have swinged back?
_Sofi_
16 Oct 2007 / #13
what about soemone who is gay and then they didnt actually feel gay and turned back to straight is there a specific agy or not gay interest they hav.. i dont think you can call them bi becasue they have swinged back?
My friend was in a lesbian relationship for a year. She now considers herself straight and has no sexual interest whatsoever in females. It happens, but there were circumstances for her (I'm not willing to discuss).
Bisexual/Gay/Straight are really labels in my opinion.
I don't know about totally switching from one to another.
Bi is someone who is attracted to both sexes.
You said the person noticed they had no same sex attraction so they switched and called themselves straight.
If they honestly have no attraction to men, then I'd say they're straight.
I think this switching goes both ways really.
You can't claim that people can switch, unless you can?
I know I can't, so I take it that people can't switch.
You can lie to yourself and everyone around you that you've switched.
I just think accept attraction the way it is and accept yourself for who you are.
From what I know, researchers are unsure at the moment what causes homosexuality.
There are theories floating around about it.
I don't know about totally switching from one to another.
Bi is someone who is attracted to both sexes.
You said the person noticed they had no same sex attraction so they switched and called themselves straight.
If they honestly have no attraction to men, then I'd say they're straight.
I think this switching goes both ways really.
You can't claim that people can switch, unless you can?
I know I can't, so I take it that people can't switch.
You can lie to yourself and everyone around you that you've switched.
I just think accept attraction the way it is and accept yourself for who you are.
From what I know, researchers are unsure at the moment what causes homosexuality.
There are theories floating around about it.
_Sofi_
16 Oct 2007 / #15
I know I can't, so I take it that people can't switch.
I don't believe you can 'switch' either. My friend looks back on her relationship as a mistake, and thinks back on her feelings at the time that she was bisexual as another mistake she made. In all, she never was bisexual to begin with, and she does understand why she had the relationship, but that is what I won't discuss on here.
I don't believe anyone 'switches' - but maybe it is possible for someone to discover attraction for the sex they didn't know they could. I know this to have happened before, but with that friend it was simply a case of them finding someone that they fell in love with, it wasn't about swtiching at all - but realisation. [this is a completely different friend to the one who had a year-long lesbian relationship]
I just think accept attraction the way it is and accept yourself for who you are.
I completely agree :)
jareck
16 Oct 2007 / #16
I just think accept attraction the way it is and accept yourself for who you are.
can i ask, what do you think the health implications are of such a relation in temrs of male to male and the psychological in temrs of female to female...
if both are tested and clean, i dont see any
Quoting: jareck
can i ask, what do you think the health implications are of such a relation in temrs of male to male and the psychological in temrs of female to female...
if both are tested and clean, i dont see any
can i ask, what do you think the health implications are of such a relation in temrs of male to male and the psychological in temrs of female to female...
if both are tested and clean, i dont see any
I agree, why should there be any if they are both tested and clean?
Psychological?
I don't understand, would a male to female contact have psychological damage?
Obviously not so why should there be any with male-male/female-female?
ihmpesh
1 Nov 2007 / #19
can any one invite me to USA? i am a gay here in Pakistan. email id is IHMPESH@YAHOO.COM
stay where you are...