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A thought on Poland!


OP Tran Anh  2 | 72  
24 Jun 2007 /  #61
Quoting Ogorek from another thread: "There is no reason why Russia and Poland should not get along. However - for them to do so - they have to forgive and forget the bad history. Too much hidden hatred still exists e.g. Katyn - the war in 1920 etc. They should all sit around a table - get drunk - and it'll all come out in a flood of tears...
then it will be ok..."

I am sorry, Ogorek, for I just recently read this quote. Hm you could be suprisingly open and tolerant? Hope you carry this attitude all along, just not limit that to the Russians. Apologize again.
shopgirl  6 | 928  
24 Jun 2007 /  #62
Polish ultra-nationalist, and that you represent the worst aspect

But they don't see themselves this way at all. They are trying to protect something that they feel is being taken away. They have learned this attitude.
Bratwurst Boy  8 | 11831  
24 Jun 2007 /  #63
Yes I have Ravens out back and when they fight over some nibble of food....might as well be a soccer match going on outside :) Very, very noisy!

Yes...we have them too...a whole colony of them...but I like them!
Most interesting creatures!
In our germanic mythology Odin has his own two Ravens, Hugin and Munin, he sends them every morning out to gather news what happened on Earth and between his humans and in the evening they come back and tell him everything there is to know...smart birds!
Patrycja19  61 | 2679  
24 Jun 2007 /  #64
Even in the hopeless case, which should be very rare if the education system is advanced enough, compassion and empathy can be deeply instilled into all other members of the world society so that they would help instead of bullying and ostracizing the unfortunate few).

wow :))

looks admiringly to tran Anh :)) very deep indeed..
shopgirl  6 | 928  
24 Jun 2007 /  #65
Most interesting creatures!

Yeah, they're funny too. They'll "talk" to you when they are sitting on a fence. They are very smart. In Native American symbology they represent magic, secrets, dreams and the veil between this world and the next. Not bad :)
Bratwurst Boy  8 | 11831  
24 Jun 2007 /  #66
The agression of a very influential Germany in EU will be of course thousands time softer than in the 2nd WW, but it is aggression all the same

Sounds rather like just another Germanophobe...

In Native American symbology they represent magic, secrets, dreams and the veil between this world and the next. Not bad :)

Interesting that they have such an elated place in the Germanic world too isn't it?

:)
shopgirl  6 | 928  
24 Jun 2007 /  #67
Germanophobe...

Doesn't that mean someone who is afraid of germs?

(Just kidding!) :)

*tries to keep the mood from turning sour*
Patrycja19  61 | 2679  
24 Jun 2007 /  #68
which should be very rare if the education system is advanced enough

even advanced though wont control the whole population. it all boils down to
what is taught in the home.. each story is different. each history written is how
they seen it.. as divided as it was. and history is divided. maybe thats why we
stay so divided because we teach it over and over again and again and new
generations are burdened with old wounds that can never heal until we burn
our history books!!!

whos with me!!!! arghhhhhhhhh j/k.. I see I quoted myself but it wasnt me I was
quoting..
shopgirl  6 | 928  
24 Jun 2007 /  #69
Yea, that kinda the same thing that I say: if a "bad attitude" is learned because of bad things that have been experienced, then conversly,good experiences can lead to the development of a "good attitude". They real key in this is being OPEN enough to recognize that what you believe (read bad attitude) might not be true! And then be willing to change what you think, when presented with a new experience.

That's basically what my thread on Tolerance and Diversity was trying to say :)
Bratwurst Boy  8 | 11831  
24 Jun 2007 /  #70
It's not the books in the first place I think....

It's rather that WWII was the first war really totally captured on film...that was a first and makes it so special and so lingering.

I doubt that the misery of WWII was more cruel than the misery of every other war...but the cruelties of the thirty years war or the roman enslavement of whole

peoples can't as easy be seen and experienced as watching newsreels from WWII...so that impresses more I think...

.....andIlikemyhistorytoomuchasthatIwanttoburnmybooks!....:(
OP Tran Anh  2 | 72  
24 Jun 2007 /  #71
But seriously....I really would want to know what Germany should do else?

I mean...Germany IS one of the biggest countries in Europe...Germany IS one of the wealthiest in Europe....Germany IS one with the biggest and most successfull economy...Germany HAS one of the biggest armies in Europe....

So what?

Will Poland ALWAYS feel defensive, slighted and put down by the Germans because of that??

SORRY....BUT WE CANT HELP IT!!!

Should we part our country in many smaller ones? Should we become poor again that you don't feel threatened by us? Tran Anh???

We are being civil and helpful...WHAT ELSE DO YOU WANT???

*rant over*

I would love to rant over and over again at the state of the world. There is one great fault in all human education practice so far that it has not found a good way to combat VANITY--possibly the worst evil mankind have always been facing. Vanity forces every men, every nation compete and compare relentlessly again each others, the ones who are more successful ALWAYS prone to be MEGALOMANIAC (everyone bow down before me or else!) while the less successful are equally prone to envy, inferior hatred and cynicism. I find the situation rather hopeless when using conventional means to solve problems between nation and the grudge just carry on until either the whole human race destroy itself or each nation seek one planet (no matter how inhabitable it is) for itself in the whole universe.

But then come the true blessing of mankind, Music. I believe this is the only means to solve every bloody problems that are plaguing us today. So Bratwurst boy, get your eyes and fingers out of your silly PC and go practice some Mazurkas (I suggest the Op 24 by Mr Chopin!) and at the same time the Polish guys and gals should make a dash at the Fantasy by Schuman (the most beautiful German in my opinion!). To appreciate true music, we must foster EMPATHY, and that trait alone can save this rather childish world!
Patrycja19  61 | 2679  
24 Jun 2007 /  #72
peoples can't as easy be seen and experienced as watching newsreels from WWII...so that impresses more I think...

I watch them, I get angry.. yet I am talking to you and find you excellent human being
we misunderstood each other , its our world powers that are at fault then..

so lets stop listening to the crazies and be our human selfs..
Bratwurst Boy  8 | 11831  
24 Jun 2007 /  #73
That was not an answer Tran!

:(

There is one great fault in all human education practice so far that it has not found a good way to combat VANITY--possibly the worst evil mankind have always been facing.

What you call "great fault" has the nature inbred into every human being for a reason!

That "fault" makes us developing, evolving...without that desire to compete we would had died out long ago!

The whole nature is a competing sharks pond!
Patrycja19  61 | 2679  
24 Jun 2007 /  #74
I mean...Germany IS one of the biggest countries in Europe...

now your back to braggin.. :(
Bratwurst Boy  8 | 11831  
24 Jun 2007 /  #75
yet I am talking to you and find you excellent human being

Yes...that's my charm! :)

But how should wounds heal if every new generation will feel the same anger again and again?
When I listen to stories about the horrors of the bombing of german cities or from people who suffered the Vertreibung I feel hate too...even if I never experienced that myself!
Patrycja19  61 | 2679  
24 Jun 2007 /  #76
without that desire to compete we would had died out long ago!

those third world countries are still going strong..
Bratwurst Boy  8 | 11831  
24 Jun 2007 /  #77
now your back to braggin.. :(

No...I didn't want to brag just stating a fact!
If these are reasons for Poland to always feel uncomfortable or defensive against Germany then there is NOTHING we can do about it...we can't change it!
Patrycja19  61 | 2679  
24 Jun 2007 /  #78
even if I never experienced that myself!

I know its all the history we learn.. i wasnt born then.. so why should I feel this
anger? but I re assessed my feeling to be directed at people who do in-human things
even though it didnt change much .. because then we get into a whole bigger picture
and it contradicts itself.. *frustrating* Sigh*

No...I didn't want to brag just stating a fact!

stating it for what reason?? this is where misunderstandings come in.. I could take
you two different ways.. but I think mostly the sarcasim comes in stronger..

now if you were stating it to educate me.. you would say.. did you know that germany
is the largest country in the eu? and as the population grew so did our economy?

etc etc.. your approach was off kiester :)

Ps.. lol dont ask me what off kiester means,, i havent a clue.. :)
Bratwurst Boy  8 | 11831  
24 Jun 2007 /  #79
I know its all the history we learn.. i wasnt born then.. so why should I feel this
anger? but I re assessed my feeling to be directed at people who do in-human things
even though it didnt change much .. because then we get into a whole bigger picture
and it contradicts itself.. *frustrating* Sigh*

I think the feelings of anger and hate are totally natural.
And it is also natural to have more compassion and empathy for your own folks than for other people.

Now putting it into perspective and don't hate the "today people" and also have compassion for other folks is more rational.
Most people can do it...some have problems....a few can't do it at all (those who are very emotional) and are trapped!
You find every kind of those in all peoples....
Patrycja19  61 | 2679  
24 Jun 2007 /  #80
natural to have more compassion and empathy for your own folks than for other people.

its really a matter of trust.. with all these historical events that happened..
more or less.. each country has a long ways to go.. but we must keep open
minds..
Bratwurst Boy  8 | 11831  
24 Jun 2007 /  #81
stating it for what reason?? this is where misunderstandings come in.. I could take
you two different ways.. but I think mostly the sarcasim comes in stronger..

Then we misunderstood each other...I really didn't want to brag or being sarcastic!

But like Tran presented it that Germany must be restraint...as in let's bond together against Germany because she is so influential!

But we can't help it...we ARE that big and rich and all...there is nothing we could do other than mutilate us voluntarily to become smaller and poorer...

If that is really the way for Tran and Co that bears nothing good for the future and Poland will always have difficulties with Germany.
Patrycja19  61 | 2679  
24 Jun 2007 /  #82
Then we misunderstood each other...I really didn't want to brag or being sarcastic!

I dont want that either.. but your only one that feels this way. its probably a
misunderstanding most of the time with these types of conversations..

[i]Ithinkivelosthim../i]
most  - | 27  
24 Jun 2007 /  #83
Tranh An you fool, I am British.

But I have lived in Poland for 7 years and lived in Germany for4 years so I have a unique perspective to tell you that you are talking nonsense.
shopgirl  6 | 928  
24 Jun 2007 /  #84
But like Tran presented it that Germany must be restraint...as in let's bond together against Germany because she is so influential!

Let's look at Germany another way, or even the US....in the view of other countries ...."for a country that has so much, much is also expected". When there is great power, there must also be great fairness and balance, or you will not be respected. Every mistake made, is magnified by power. And that is just how it is!
Patrycja19  61 | 2679  
24 Jun 2007 /  #85
there must also be great fairness and balance,

Agree. until recently, usa was admired by poland, the media makes us look bad
showing only the bad about the war.. then it dont help that the missle base is going
into action.. but at least the American People get a better reputation even though
our politics suck.
shopgirl  6 | 928  
24 Jun 2007 /  #86
I think the feelings of anger and hate are totally natural.

These may be natural responses to events, but if not handled constructively, they can become powerful forces for destruction.

You have some choice in what you do with those feelings. Focus on hate and anger, and they will grow. Focus on life, and you move forward.

(I have to add this: I wasted one year of my life being angry and bitter at something someone had done. I was consumed. It made me physically sick. Then one day I realized it was only me who was keeping myself locked in the anger. I was the one who suffered by being angry/bitter. I will not ever do that again.)
krysia  23 | 3058  
24 Jun 2007 /  #87
Many people who write things against America have never been here and base their ideas on TV programs. But once they visit the US, they are surprised it is not at all how the media has portraid it. And most American don't agree with the politics so the information others have gathered pertains to the political outview of the United States, not the "little people".
zion  
25 Jun 2007 /  #88
I myself have never been in Poland

what about come here first then get to know things in the ground then write about then !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
lef  11 | 477  
25 Jun 2007 /  #89
I like Germans, and Germany, nothing against them.. many helped during the wars
and died along side the Jewish and Polish who were in hiding. at least i like those
who represent true human beings.. :)))

Could I please ask people who have not suffered at the hands of the Germans/Russians not to make silly comments on things they do not know or never experienced.

It may be ok for people who have not experienced the terror of those times to say lets move on, but for those people who have suffered forgiveness is a tough call.

Please do not insult those Polish people who have suffered and are still suffering.

Pat, you may want to enlighten me and provide some facts of those" German people who helped in the war"....I'm listening!
horunPoland  - | 109  
25 Jun 2007 /  #90
what a lot of MERDE !!!!!!!!!

you are merde red mother...er

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