Nothing has changed in Russia over 20 years, not a single thing, administratively, economically and socially its exactly the same country it was, the only difference is the official names for the administration have changed and the economy is in far worse shape since they're unable to drain neighbouring coutries.
You exaggerate, Russian society to some extend have its little obsessions. People in other states are not much smarter for sure. One thing is sure, Poland don't belong to debated issues among average Russians duo to unimportance of this state and lack of interest in politics in general of people concentrated on everyday life. Even most of Poles give a damn about Polish politics.
Go to pravda forums and read them, i've noticed you implied how Poles are bigoted about their history, you want to see indoctrination and bigotry check them out, or forums of Russia.com
I checked out both forums in the past. These are not reliable sources for sure, many obviously deluded posters prevent serious debates. Beside of that how could you wonder that many Russians posting over there have nothing positive to say about Poland? There is a bunch of Poles posting over there a lot of garbage and obviously provoking attention. If they see few Poles full of happiness that idiotic City Council, of the only capital in Europe (except Tirana) without ring road, commemorated some Chechen 'militant', that is how they consider other Poles as well. While people here care little about Chechen issue, if anything. There is visible fruitless clash of Polish and Russian ignorants.