if you mean was i cheating on my wife? then no - the Polish girl I was with (i found out afterwards was many times)
Well thats a different story. Then a paternity test is in order, I certainly wouldnt pay for a child that wasnt mine.
I came on here for some feedback - not moral tutoring
You have got feedback, I suspect anything moral would be lost on you.
Well i dont drink - you sound the sterotypical bitter and twisted single mother type? Are you?
Not at all, Im Irish and a male without children actually. Im just of the oppinion that if you make something its your responsibility. You were with her, you decided not to wear a condom . .perhaps you should have forseen the possibility of child maintenance then, rather than being a father
Considering you earn over 2000 a month, E200 for your child (wanted or not) seems reasonable, that is indeed if it is your kid
Over 1000PLN for child maintenance is a heck of a lot to be paying.
Not if he is earning over E2200 a month, its a fraction of his earnings. I assume the court of law took into consideration how much he earned before awarding maintenance. Im not a mother, but I suspect it is very difficult to survive on 899 PLN a month, which is what he is actually paying, the extra E75 being back dated and will cease once he has paid what he owed previously. Im pretty sure if the child was in Ireland and wanted to live with him he would end up paying a hell of a lot more.
Well i dont drink
Perhaps you should start