stalking isnt a illness, its just craziness.
It is actually, but I haven't posted on PF for an argument about it. Have a look at WIlkapedia.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stalking
so everybody should sugar coat all their answers so peoples feeling dont get hurt?
No, that isn't what I meant, by highlighting my sentence in that way it appears to be taken out of context in your posting. I was merely trying to point out that stalking is a serious behavioural problem amongst other psychlogical issues and in my opinion someone shouldn't be told they may be one unless you are qualified to do so. :(
first you say people should chose their words more carefully, then you say above.you totally contradict yourself.
Again, you have taken things out of context. What I am saying is that if people were more honest with each other and communicate in that way, especially in friendships and/or relationships then there would be a lot less confusion. The poster 'ancilla' just wanted to know either way, and who can blame her. She cares about her friend, but she wasn't clear whether or not he wished to stay in touch because he was silent. When someone is silent, then some people get concerned that something may have happened to them, he must know that she has that sort of nature if they are friends already. So,if he didn't wish any further contact it would be far better to say so, than to leave her wondering if something had happened to him ? As it turns out he had texted her from Poland but she never received the texts.
I could easily highlight some of your sentences and show how you may be contradicting yourself too......e.g.
stalking isnt a illness, its just craziness.
What is craziness ? How do you define it then ?
One of the points I was making is that it's far too easy to throw out labels at someone especially as an aside comment and it can be very hurtful to that person especially when the person throwing out the comment isn't medically qualified to do so.......lol. Maybe you should have just said 'crazy'. But did you mean 'Crazy' as in 'mentally deranged; or crazy as 'unpredictable, bizzarre behaviour' ? <s>
As I said, I'm not here to argue the toss, I said I was out of my depth and therefore I looked up the facts before I originally posted :)
Have a nice day. I fully intend to do so even if the weather is awful here today :)