Polish Women get a lot of love

How would you feel if you were engaged to a woman you deeply loved and some other man comes along and tries to get her to go out with him? Have you considered the feelings of the other man? Just wondering. I just think she's in a vulnerable place right now because she's facing a lifelong commitment and maybe it's not a good time to mess with her life.

I 100% agree with you shewolf, because all of you will end up hurt. She cheats b/c she is confused. She loses him, he loses her. And you will end up without her. And three live ruined.

I understand this view...I have had my former wife be unfaithful....but shewolf in matters of the heart we can only go forward with what feels right. How wrong would I be to let such a spectacular woman get away from me? I don't view her as a prize or a possesion but rather an enhancement to the man I am as well as me being an enhancement to the woman she is and both of us despite the difference in nationality I don't see either of us wanting power over the other.

In a way you're thinking of being the very thing you find so unattractive about American women. It's all about you. Who cares about the fiance. Who cares about her life and her plans.

Girls - I agree with you to a point, however it does take two to tango.

you would be a better man, the kind of man that deserves a good woman.


and she should leave her fiance first before she does that.

Whoa ..whoa whoa...this isn't all about me. Of course I care about her life and future goals. This isn't one man wanting to add just any woman to his list of conquests. I'm learning a new language so I can understand her culture and any relatives I may meet in the future.

Honestly it sounds like he is falling in love with her, but I don't think it is both ways. Is she engaged to another Polish guy or what? If she was going to leave her fiance for him she has had plenty of time to do so.

Yes..she is engaged to a Polish guy and this is the second time in 12 months they have been engaged...she ended it this past August...he tried again in Dec. (with the same ring?..starting anew deserves a new ring...yes?)...Even her friends know it won't last but they don't say anything as will I not

I hope you do find the love that you're looking for. If it doesn't work out with her, if she doesn't leave her fiance for you, at least you know what kind of woman you're looking for and there are many Polish women out there for you who I'm sure are like her.

well while she is trying to figure it out the last thing she needs is another man there clouding her brain with their opinion. This will more than like make her more rebellious.

this is a wise choice, to just hang in there and wait and see what happens. maybe she will see that he's not the one and she'll be free eventually to pursue.

Thank you shewolf...you do understand..I would also bet that if you were in the same room as her and I you could feel the heavy vibrations of both myself and her delighting in knowing each other.