Understanding Polish Man

sledz 23 | 2247

27 Oct 2008 / #31

the benefits are good:)

polishgirltx

27 Oct 2008 / #32

but only short term ;)

ShelleyS 14 | 2883

27 Oct 2008 / #33

But I Started the argument... not him... :S :S :S

Maybe it was one argument too many and he'd had enough, cant blame him really I prefer to have friends I have a laugh with and enjoy their company not ones that pick fights! Each to their own though :)

OP Lilianna77

27 Oct 2008 / #34

Well, I think he is resentful with me, I guess as he hasn't said much....... fair enough though, I'll give him sometime...

I am just impressed on how mad he could get, if previously he was so patience with me, maybe it was the last drop....

z_darius 14 | 3960

27 Oct 2008 / #35

I am just impressed on how mad he could get

Yahve held his anger for 3 days. Polish men can do better than that :)

OP Lilianna77

27 Oct 2008 / #36

Hahahaahah Really??? how better???? .... Just to have an idea :P

Siegfried 1 | 100

28 Oct 2008 / #37

Lilianna:

believe me, we are VERY GOOD at this.

I didn't read the whole topic, but here are my thoughts (as a polish man):
-are you sure it's only friendship? remember that men have different way of thinking: "hmmm... we are friends... but we talk a lot... obviously she likes me... hmm... probably she is interested in me... hmmm... I wonder how she looks naked... hmmm". NO MATTER WHAT BE CAREFUL WITH "FRIENDSHIPS"

-polish stereotype is that man should chase women and be the side which takes actions - if something is wrong we take it VERY personally (especially young ones)

-we can get really offended by comments about Poland, polish way of thinking, us personally

-person who started argument should be the one who appologizes(? difficult word)

-one interesting thing: from my experience if you guys started DELETING YOURSELVES FROM EVERYWHER.... ohhh how cute... are you REALLY sure it's a friendship? :D I did it few times and believe me or not - it wasn't friendship at all (and it supposed to be!).

general idea for polish guys: start talking with him again and don't bother if he plays offended queen :) just keep talking ;)

OP Lilianna77

28 Oct 2008 / #38

Hiii Siegfried thanks for the Feedback!!! :)

are you sure it's only friendship? ........I wonder how she looks naked... hmmm". NO MATTER WHAT BE CAREFUL WITH "FRIENDSHIPS"

Well, we used to flirt but just as a game, but yeah I was pretty sure we were just friends.....

person who started argument should be the one who appologizes(? difficult word)

Well, I already did, I sent to him a long open sincere message. He has just responded minutes ago with "I read it, I need to think" ....

Yup, that was it! lol

one interesting thing: from my experience if you guys started DELETING YOURSELVES FROM EVERYWHER....

Mmmmm I am the one who started the deleting thing, I've done it couple of times before, and always fixed the situation, but this time got different....

start talking with him again and don't bother if he plays offended queen :) just keep talking ;)

Yeah I kind of feel he's very resentful, dunno how much time he needs though....

THANKS AGAIN!!

OP Lilianna77

29 Oct 2008 / #39

Hii Everybody!!

Just to let you know that my friend and I are talking back again. It's still a bit strange, but we are working out.....

Thanks for all the help! :D

From this experience, I think Polish guys just need a little bit of time to chill out. But they still got good hearts.... :D

mazzastaffordsh 2 | 68

1 Nov 2008 / #40

hello Lilianna77 My advice to you is there are plenty more men out there. Forget this one he is not worth the effort!!

krakow1 3 | 55

5 Nov 2008 / #41

and he feels so uncomfortable talking about emotions

Sounds like a typical case of High Functioning Autism HFA/Aspergers Syndrome to me.

Check this out on google and see if you find any similarities