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Is it typical for Polish guys to fall in love quickly?


Sparky  - | 92  
3 Jan 2007 /  #31
I completely agree---I think that goes for about everything in life, not just love! People tend to appreciate things more when they have to work for it.

I have always respected women who have made work for their attention.
Besides it is just logical if she makes it hard for me to get her than I assume she makes it this hard for everyone. Which really builds trust in the relationship. I don't worry about her talking with other men.
ROZ  2 | 93  
3 Jan 2007 /  #32
well we havet slept together yet, but usualy i would on a first date,he wanted to wait...

Since it appears your guy is gay, you wanna go out? :)
bolo  2 | 304  
3 Jan 2007 /  #33
Why do you say so? I never sleep on a first date (I'm not gay).
ROZ  2 | 93  
3 Jan 2007 /  #34
I never sleep on a first date

I never sleep on a first date either... I'm usually busy :)
bolo  2 | 304  
3 Jan 2007 /  #35
I'm usually busy

I'm usually not requested too...:(
shewolf  5 | 1077  
3 Jan 2007 /  #36
What?! Nobody wants to sleep with you? Maybe they're the ones who are gay. :)
ROZ  2 | 93  
3 Jan 2007 /  #37
ROTFLMAO :)
bolo  2 | 304  
3 Jan 2007 /  #38
What?! Nobody wants to sleep with you?

Maybe "vezza" was dating me? :) There's no need to rush these things. I'm a little scared of women who think I would sleep with them on the first date. Fortunately, I have never met such a woman in my life and probably never will.
shewolf  5 | 1077  
3 Jan 2007 /  #39
Fortunately, I have never met such a woman in my life and probably never will.

But you never know what they were thinking in their minds. :)
ROZ  2 | 93  
3 Jan 2007 /  #40
What?! Nobody wants to sleep with you? Maybe they're the ones who are gay.

Hold it... That makes them lesbians.... Nice! :)

Bolo, don't forget your camera! :)
bolo  2 | 304  
3 Jan 2007 /  #41
But you never know what they were thinking in their minds.

I'm tired of thinking with my own mind - my date then always ends up with watching "Pierogies" movie and going to sleep. Alone.
ROZ  2 | 93  
3 Jan 2007 /  #42
Then after 15 years of marriage they want to be single again.

I always said when my wife turns 40 I'll trade her in for 2 20 year olds :)
Grzegorz_  51 | 6138  
4 Jan 2007 /  #43
well we havet slept together yet, but usualy i would on a first date

:)

I never sleep on a first date either... I'm usually busy with my hands and my penis

:)
Ranj  21 | 947  
4 Jan 2007 /  #44
Quoting: ROZ, Post #34
I never sleep on a first date either... I'm usually busy with my hands and my penis

Hey, that's not what it originally said, although I'm sure it was implied.:)
Arien  
4 Jan 2007 /  #45
After about 25 most guys start wanting to have a steady woman.

The reason I asked about his age is because a younger man who says he loves you usually means something different than an older man who says the same thing.

you'd be surprised how many ''grown up men'' (25 - 30+ !) - in the army for example - cheat on their wives and girls while away. and vice versa. :)

some guys are serious, some aren't. it has nothing to do with age, it all comes down to personality. but I agree, after a certain age most people do grow up. :)

but from my experience, - which is limited! - is that younger girls aren't exactly steady women? most girls between 16 - 22 are just looking for fun? - atleast around these parts - so I think the whole age theory is flawed. men or women, it doesn't matter, we all have different personalities, some value certain morals, others don't.

not that it bothers me. :)
Ranj  21 | 947  
4 Jan 2007 /  #46
some guys are serious, some aren't. it has nothing to do with age

I agree with you, Arien. I think what it comes down to is character. Some people have it (men and women) and some people don't.

after a certain age most people do grow up.

This I disagree with in the sense that you mean. People grow up physically, but they don't necessarily mature. Again, I think it boils down to character and values a person holds, not their age.:)
Arien  
4 Jan 2007 /  #47
People grow up physically, but they don't necessarily mature.

that's what I meant. but some people are more mature after a certain age, life experience and all that. :)
OP vezza  2 | 26  
4 Jan 2007 /  #48
hhhhmmm lots of interesting points... :)

but how much life experience a person has at any given point will vary hugely, im 19, i think im quite mature and have a lot of life experience,could be more or less than millions of other 19 yr olds,

and as for men growing up???? when you're young you think that everything falls into place and when your grown up, thats it. done! but ive realised that people never really grow up, not totally, men especialy, but thats just in my experience of dating older men,

oh and as for my original post, thanks to everyone for their comments, useful or otherwise :) anything else is still welcome.

Since it appears your guy is gay, you wanna go out?

and bolo, my guy is not gay and no i dont wanna go out, sorry :)
sapphire  22 | 1241  
4 Jan 2007 /  #49
I think Polish guys are definitely more romantic than their British counterparts (cant speak with any knowledge of Yanks). My Polish man tells me he loves me at least 10 times a day, in person, or by phone or text if we are not together. No other guy Ive been out with has ever done that... as far as my memory serves me, it was normally only after one pint too many down the pub...and they never held doors open and bought me flowers every week.. Blimey, Im starting to feel Ive led a deprived life before.
Ranj  21 | 947  
4 Jan 2007 /  #50
as far as my memory serves me, it was normally only after one pint too many down the pub...and they never held doors open and bought me flowers every week.. Blimey, Im starting to feel Ive led a deprived life before.

LOL, Sapphire! I can relate.

I think Polish guys are definitely more romantic than their British counterparts (cant speak with any knowledge of Yanks).

I can concur with this also, as far as the Yanks go; I've never dated a British man although I once dated a guy from British Columbia (does that count?) I want to add, so as not to offend my Yanky brethren, there are some who have been extremely romantic, but none come even close to the Polish man I dated!:)
shewolf  5 | 1077  
4 Jan 2007 /  #51
you'd be surprised how many ''grown up men'' (25 - 30+ !) - in the army for example - cheat on their wives and girls while away.

You're telling me? They do it even when they're not away. :)
ROZ  2 | 93  
4 Jan 2007 /  #52
Quoting: Grzegorz_, Post #44
Quoting: ROZ, Post #34
I never sleep on a first date either... I'm usually busy with my hands and my penis

Hey, that's not what it originally said, although I'm sure it was implied.

Of course it was implied... His sentence is correct: Busy with my hands and my penis and not busy with my hands on my penis :)

Two weeks until another Vegas trip... NICE! :)
Ranj  21 | 947  
4 Jan 2007 /  #53
Two weeks until another Vegas trip... NICE!

Nice! I was just there over New Years!:) Where are you staying?
ROZ  2 | 93  
4 Jan 2007 /  #54
and bolo, my guy is not gay and no i dont wanna go out, sorry

Hey, Bolo didn't write that. I did.... Regardless, you're too young... Never thought I'd say that.. I prefer the 28-38 yr old Milfs no larger than a size 6.. Gotta have standards :)
dominik  
4 Jan 2007 /  #55
if you wanna now mine opinion its like that:in the begining its always nice, lovley,perfect and then always something goes wrong so all relationship's are thesame.So don't by fuul of hope mayby im wrong but usually its like that see ja!!! I was honest
Amathyst  19 | 2700  
4 Jan 2007 /  #56
arrrh a breath of fresh air with your optimism!
Sparky  - | 92  
4 Jan 2007 /  #57
People grow up physically, but they don't necessarily mature. Again, I think it boils down to character and values a person holds, not their age.

I agree. I guess age really doesn't matter. Some people never want to grow up. I remember how fun it used to be going out all the time and never having to worry about anything. But I got burn out on it. I don't care to party at all now, and I am only 29.
Eurola  4 | 1898  
4 Jan 2007 /  #58
But I got burn out on it. I don't care to party at all now, and I am only 29.

Oh, Sparky you need some sparks in your life. :) 29 is no age to give up on fun.
Ranj  21 | 947  
4 Jan 2007 /  #59
I remember how fun it used to be going out all the time and never having to worry about anything. But I got burn out on it. I don't care to party at all now, and I am only 29.

Oh, Sparky you need some sparks in your life. 29 is no age to give up on fun.

Just because he has given up going out to party all the time doesn't mean he's giving up on fun. I stopped "partying" when I was 30 and I can tell you with all honesty, the last decade has been the best so far in my life!:)
shewolf  5 | 1077  
4 Jan 2007 /  #60
I stopped "partying" when I was 30 and I can tell you with all honesty, the last decade has been the best so far in my life!

Are you saying you're 40? No way! You look much too young.

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