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My polish ex threatens to commit suicide after separation


southern 75 | 7,096  
26 Mar 2009 /  #1
I had a recent change of a polish girlfriend to another and the former told me that life has no meaning and she is thinking of commiting suicide cause I was not serious with her.

The thought that sth like this might happen fills me with guilt and I don't know how to handle the situation.
Do polish women often exaggerate?If they threaten with suicide,they also commit it?(I don't want to end another Casanova with girls dying for me).
pgtx 29 | 3,159  
26 Mar 2009 /  #2
if you made another stupid joke thread, it's not funny...
OP southern 75 | 7,096  
26 Mar 2009 /  #3
It is true.I am in abyss.She writes me life is not worth living if I cannot find love and so on.
I think she took things too seriously.She pressed me for common living and marriage and when I denied she turned to suicidal thoughts.
Cardno85 31 | 976  
26 Mar 2009 /  #4
Chances are she's talking rubbish just to get you back. Tell her to stop being a div, grow up and move on with her life.

*Also I love how you say you had a recent change of a polish girlfriend like a mobile phone provider haha*
OP southern 75 | 7,096  
26 Mar 2009 /  #5
Tell her to stop being a div, grow up and move on with her life.

She is too senditive.I cannot write to her like that.Basically all the conversations followed the same motiv which was what are you going to do to keep me? and then if you don't want me,life is not worth living.
Cardno85 31 | 976  
26 Mar 2009 /  #6
Let's look at it from an outsider with no feelings for this girl. The chances of someone going through with that is little to nothing and if they do then they obviously had much bigger problems than just you breaking up with them.

I wouldn't worry about it too much mate, chances are this will come to nothing.
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
26 Mar 2009 /  #7
All the tricks of the trade come out, manipulation and all. Well, there is consistency. When she was with you, she was taking it hard and she is doing the same now ;) ;)
OP southern 75 | 7,096  
26 Mar 2009 /  #8
When she was with you, she was taking it hard and she is doing the same now ;) ;)

What does it mean?
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
26 Mar 2009 /  #9
Oh, Jesus man, use your imagination ;)
OP southern 75 | 7,096  
26 Mar 2009 /  #10
Maybe I should stick to my czech lovers.They never ask for serious things etc.But sometimes I also want to slap them.
I think many people misconceive the balkan power.
Randal 1 | 577  
26 Mar 2009 /  #11
Let's look at it from an outsider with no feelings for this girl. The chances of someone going through with that is little to nothing and if they do then they obviously had much bigger problems than just you breaking up with them.

I wouldn't worry about it too much mate, chances are this will come to nothing.

Weren't you downing yourself before as having no common sense, Cardno? You seem to have plenty.

Just try to ease the poor girl down, Southern.
niejestemcapita 2 | 561  
26 Mar 2009 /  #12
She pressed me for common living and marriage and when I denied she turned to suicidal thoughts.

If a man did this I would run a mile and you should do the same.
SHE IS A BUNNY BOILER!!!!
anyway its your fault for shaggin random loony women and then dumping them for someone with bigger tits or something.
Choose better Southern.
szarlotka 8 | 2,209  
26 Mar 2009 /  #13
Since when did wrists threaten suicide
Cardno85 31 | 976  
26 Mar 2009 /  #14
Weren't you downing yourself before as having no common sense, Cardno? You seem to have plenty.

Hahaha, I have plenty when I can take an outsiders perspective. Zilch when it comes to dealing with myself...hence launry girl, ex girl, etc threads...
pgtx 29 | 3,159  
26 Mar 2009 /  #15
its your fault for shaggin random loony women and then dumping them for someone with bigger tits

Since when did wrists threaten suicide

lol... good one...

;)
Cardno85 31 | 976  
26 Mar 2009 /  #16
Since when did wrists threaten suicide

That's true, even if you cut your wrists properly (no easy feat) then it will still be hours to bleed out from there.
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
26 Mar 2009 /  #17
Bigger tits make a difference in southern's eyes. As long as he doesn't make a tit out of himself, that's ok ;)
cjjc 29 | 408  
26 Mar 2009 /  #18
Oh southern! The forum loves you dude!
miranda  
26 Mar 2009 /  #19
yah, the attention wh......he is;)
Randal 1 | 577  
26 Mar 2009 /  #20
SHE IS A BUNNY BOILER!!!!

LMAO! Me and my buds love this term! Any semi-nutty chicks recieve this tag. It becomes conversational, a proper address, as in "I was out at the bar and I ran into Bunny Boiler..." Lol...
miranda  
27 Mar 2009 /  #21
southern, maybe you have Kavorka???????- the animal allure............
Cardno85 31 | 976  
27 Mar 2009 /  #22
Like this?
sex-panther.com
miranda  
27 Mar 2009 /  #23
Like this?

he, he - he might.

I was referring to Kramer from Seinfield. He had the same problem, only he wanted to get rid of it, so the priest told him to wear garlic around his neck and bathe in vinegar;)
LAGirl 9 | 496  
27 Mar 2009 /  #24
She needs some seriuos help.
Cardno85 31 | 976  
27 Mar 2009 /  #25
No she doesn't, that's the last thing an attention seeking nutter like that needs!
Patrycja19 63 | 2,699  
27 Mar 2009 /  #26
She is too senditive.I cannot write to her like that.Basically all the conversations followed the same motiv which was what are you going to do to keep me? and then if you don't want me,life is not worth living.

she thinks you love her, perhaps you said something that sparked this or made
her believe it was more then what was intended .. were you honest and open
and told her that nothing was going to happen in the future or did you lead her on
till you seen something better?

either way, someone needs to communicate better :)
plk123 8 | 4,150  
27 Mar 2009 /  #27
I wouldn't worry about it too much mate, chances are this will come to nothing.

i disagree however southern, you need to completely cut of all contact. if you hang around the chances are that she may take the step anyway.. slashing at least..

That's true, even if you cut your wrists properly (no easy feat) then it will still be hours to bleed out from there.

not true.

Bigger tits

*thumbsup* :)

No she doesn't, that's the last thing an attention seeking nutter like that needs!

lagirl is right. this girl needs professional help.. not southern's

either way, someone needs to communicate better :)

don't blame him for that loose cannon. is that how you took rejection?
Wulkan - | 3,251  
27 Mar 2009 /  #28
I had a recent change of a polish girlfriend

poor try to convince us u ever had a girlfriend :D
Wroclaw Boy  
27 Mar 2009 /  #29
If they threaten with suicide,they also commit it?(

Not in a million years
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
27 Mar 2009 /  #30
Exactly, it's all just tactics

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