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Techniques for meeting Polish girls


michipons  
27 Aug 2007 /  #1
Hi guys!!

I'm Spanish guy I've just moved to Poland, and obviously I expect going out during weekends around Wroclaw... So, could you give me some advices, from your experience or knowledge, for meeting or speaking with Polish girls in discos or pubs??

I mean, something about their character, what they like and what the don't... or whatever you think!!

Woman advices will be also very worthly!!

Thanks and saults everybody!!
porta 18 | 297  
27 Aug 2007 /  #2
Hey man, just go out and strike up a converation, they are just human like you and me. If you have been picking up girls before there is no difference in Poland than anywhere else :)

And, if you ask them what they like ,you will probably get the best answer. Much better than you will get from anyone on this forum.

Good Luck on your hunting :)
southern 75 | 7,096  
27 Aug 2007 /  #3
Polish girls are extremely easy to chat to.You have to be situational.Avoid cities like Krakow with lots of tourists who have created a bad reputation for foreigners.

Polish girls like handsome guys,not very extravert and serious.
They also like dancing,reading and some sports.They do not like italian style mafioso.
In general they are very happy girls and sweet.They can appear crazy sometimes.It is slavic mentality if you are used to it.
OP michipons  
27 Aug 2007 /  #4
oh! It's so nice to hear that, I think you have done a perfect aproach!!

What do Polish girl like to drink most?? (this is a question for you, woman)

Any of you know any good place for going out in Wroclaw??
sem - | 1  
13 Sep 2007 /  #5
I think southern has very good advise. He seems really down to earth.
plk123 8 | 4,150  
13 Sep 2007 /  #6
Hey man, just go out and strike up a converation, they are just human like you and me. If you have been picking up girls before there is no difference in Poland than anywhere else :)
And, if you ask them what they like ,you will probably get the best answer. Much better than you will get from anyone on this forum.

Good Luck on your hunting :)

lol.. no kidding.. just go out there and throw in you lures.. change them if you get no bites. :)
marland - | 2  
23 Jul 2009 /  #7
Jul 23, 09, 19:42 - Thread attached on merging:
Meeting Polish Girls

Hi Ladies and Gents

I was wondering if you can point me in the right direction.

I am coming to Poland early next year for my Gran's 80th, while I am here I would also like to get to know some polish women.

Any good online site where I could get to know some women, and build a friendship that can become a catalyst to a relationship and possibly more while I am in Poland.
southern 75 | 7,096  
23 Jul 2009 /  #8
am coming to Poland early next year for my Gran's 80th, while I am here I would also like to get to know some polish women

Polish women in Poland?It sounds strange.
plk123 8 | 4,150  
23 Jul 2009 /  #9
how about going outside and meeting them in person?
southern 75 | 7,096  
23 Jul 2009 /  #10
I have heard it is easier to meet them if you let your penis hanging down your trousers.
Pimpek 1 | 24  
23 Jul 2009 /  #11
I have heard it is easier to meet them

you have heard eh? sure you havent tried it..... ;p
marland - | 2  
24 Jul 2009 /  #12
plk123
That could be a problem when your 13,800km away.
southern
Thanks for the tip! You might be onto something. You really should start you own blog on relationships, or maybe on how to be a knob would be more your niche :)
PortugueseDude 1 | 4  
26 Jul 2009 /  #13
Dude...you are south european...you will manage ;P Ser espanhol é suficiente lol
aymi - | 15  
15 Aug 2009 /  #14
my advice if u are looking for serious relation with polish girls don't look for a girl in klubs :D
peter_olsztyn 6 | 1,098  
15 Aug 2009 /  #15
To start conversation in a nice way you can ask her "ale przytylas"
Alx123 - | 180  
15 Aug 2009 /  #16
If you have been picking up girls before there is no difference in Poland than anywhere else :)

Not true as far as foreigners are concerned. Lots of Polish girls, especially in touristy cities like Krakow, know very well why many foreign guys come to Poland and will be keen to show you that they are not 'typical, easy Polish girls'. Some of them are really paranoid about this. Also, in recent years, many horny Italian guys (loveable guys that they are) have given Mediterranean guys a bad reputation. Girls are still friendly to foreigners, but not as much as in the past.

So, what can you do? Be humble, humble, humble. Also be playful and make them laugh, but don't come across as too horny, don't offer to buy them a drink and don't behave like a 'playboy' - you will send out the wrong signals. Don't talk about sex, unless she is a particular type of girl. And show some interest in the girl - many foreign guys just talk about themselves all the time, and the girls assume that they only want to fk them (which is true anyway, but I think girls like to have the illusion that there could be something more).

The 'technique' I like the most is just to be honest but in a funny way. For example, if you stop a girl on the street, ask her for directions, and then confess that you didn't need any help - you just wanted to stop and talk to her because you thought she was hot. Or just say something playful like ask a girl in at a club bar if she can buy you a drink because you heard Polish girls are very hospitable. Whatever is appropriate in the moment.

Daytime game is usually more reliable because there is no competition from other guys or distractions like loud music, their b*tch friends trying to pull them away from you, no "I must look for my friends" excuses, etc. However, you need to be feeling confident to approach them in the day.

Of course, Polish girls' behaviour is not always so predictable and there are exceptions, drunk sluts, etc.... but stay away from the sexy-looking girls who like to talk to big body-builder type guys with shaved heads - you're not their type ;)
jules - | 1  
15 Aug 2009 /  #17
"ale przytylas"

lol :D
yeah that is good start to make really friendly conversation :D
Alx123 - | 180  
15 Aug 2009 /  #18
Oh, and very often if a girl does tell you that she isn't an 'easy Polish girl', it usually means that she is :) - you just have to work her the right way.

Personally, though, I find it a bit offputting when they say that.
ShelleyS 14 | 2,893  
15 Aug 2009 /  #19
Personally, though, I find it a bit offputting when they say that.

No doubt you still shag them though?

Alx, as an English woman, I can say hand on heart that most English woman would avoid you at all cost in a bar because you sound like a right cock.
Alx123 - | 180  
15 Aug 2009 /  #20
Alx, as an English woman, I can say hand on heart that most English woman would avoid you at all cost in a bar

I think I would avoid them first :)

you sound like a right cock.

Why? because I tell it like it is without the politically-correct bullsh*t? I believe the poster wanted real advice on picking up girls in Poland.
ShelleyS 14 | 2,893  
15 Aug 2009 /  #21
I think I would avoid them first :)

How? They've already moved as far away from you as they can get, so they cant smell the bull $hit you're talking.

Why? because I tell it like it is without the politically-correct bullsh*t? I believe the poster wanted real advice on picking up girls in Poland.

I dont think it was, you were talking about women in a very ungentelmanly fashion, do you want me to give you a run down on English men?

The Chav - generally no brains and only dates girls who are very similar.

The Ugly Bloke - is greatful if you even smile in his direction and was grateful when Poland joined the EU, because finally he would get some and lose his virginity

The Flash (no brains) Bloke- just good for a couple of drinks in a bar before you move on...soooooooo boring - thankfully Poland joined the EU and was grateful for the language barrier as Polish girls dont instantly know he's a boring prick.

The Flash (brains) Bloke- thinks he's gods gift but has an attitude that would turn milk sour. Was grateful that Poland joined the EU as now he can have 2 dates with a woman instead of just the usual one before she finds out he's a self-obsessed prick.

The Inteligent Bloke - good for a friend, but has no sex appeal whatsoever - Was grateful Poland joined the EU because now he might get some, he's English which automacially makes him different in the eyes of a Polish girl.

The Funny (or at least he thinks so) Bloke - makes a tit of himself on nights out with the lads, girls just dont want to be around him. Was grateful Poland joined the EU because of course they dont understand his pathetic attempts at being funny.

The Funny (actually is) Bloke- see inteligent.

The Brit abroad bloke - I really dont have time to write about this guy because he is far to disgusting and we all know too well what he is.
johncardwell 3 | 110  
15 Aug 2009 /  #22
ShelleyS:

If you hate men so much, get a girlfriend.
Many American Girls do this and they are less unhappy than they are with a man.

If it works with an American Girls, it can probably work with you.
But I hope you treat her with respect and don't abuse her.
ShelleyS 14 | 2,893  
15 Aug 2009 /  #23
If you hate men so much, get a girlfriend.

I love men, I love English men too, I was merely making a point.
Wroclaw Boy  
15 Aug 2009 /  #24
Its a tough life hey.
Alx123 - | 180  
15 Aug 2009 /  #25
I dont think it was, you were talking about women in a very ungentelmanly fashion, do you want me to give you a run down on English men?

Ha ha..this whole post is actually more insulting to Polish women than anything I or anyone else here could ever come up with :) Nice work. Anyway, I wasn't writing for you dear. What are you doing on this thread anyway? And if you are going to be here, at least stick to the topic and contribute something useful.

By the way, I have no English blood, I don't really identify with being English and I've been living in Poland before the EU expansion, so all your comments were a waste of effort.
ShelleyS 14 | 2,893  
15 Aug 2009 /  #26
Its a tough life hey.

Not really, it got easier for some virgins in the UK when Poland entered the EU though ;0)
Alx123 - | 180  
15 Aug 2009 /  #27
when Poland joined the EU, because finally he would get some and lose his virginity

Do you realise the reputation of English girls in Mediterranean countries? Far, far worse than Polish girls'. In Greece, for example, when guys compare their successes with women, they often don't count the English girls. :)

In fact, I know a Portugese guy who moved to the UK partly because of the reputation of English girls in Portugal. Obviously, he was a little disappointed to find them less promiscuous in the UK...but the point is that you English girls are not really in any position to slag off Polish girls for being easy. And many young Greeks, Italians, Spanish, Portugese have lost their virginity to English holiday tarts.
SzwedwPolsce 11 | 1,595  
15 Aug 2009 /  #28
Girls from all countries are generally more promiscuous when being abroad. And then people go to Poland and are suprised when they see that Polish girls are much less promiscuous in Poland than abroad. The same thing with English, Swedish etc girls.
Alx123 - | 180  
15 Aug 2009 /  #29
No, no, no. Why do some nationalities have a worse reputation than others? Is it totally random? How can it be?
SzwedwPolsce 11 | 1,595  
15 Aug 2009 /  #30
Of course it's not totally random. Some are more, some are less. But how promiscuous girls are abroad doesn't have to reflect how promiscuous they are at home. Everyone knows this.

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