Ladybird, you need to study Islam, where man and women are segregated in social times, and Muslim women in Islam are modestly dressed, and men and women are obliged to lower their gses. your husband saw this attractive polish girl, socialize with u, saw her beauty and could not resist her. Can you Imagine how Islam deal with this social problem.?
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Religion doesn't need to be involved in every single sociological discussion there is. Thank you.
because they are allowed to have more than one woman
It's a practice that used to be allowed because of social issues at that time. Just as the bible has (see: mormons). The thing is that these books were written thousands of years ago & do not reflect the state of current society. So if you were to interpret things literally, yes you can marry multiple women.
Luckely most rational muslims & christians know how to interpret the bible by understanding which statements are timeless & which aren meant in their own timeframe. Unfortunately some people don't which results in things such as this:
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And now ot: I don't think any woman prefers a married man. Why would she ever go through so much trouble? If they really love each other, it can be true & affectionate but there will always be something in the way.