Met the most perfect Polish man, THANKYOU POLAND! Now how do I keep him?

Him - Shy, intelligent, kind, perfect gentleman who opens car doors for me, compliments me! He has a wicked sense of humour in which he makes me laugh all the time and the biggest part which I have fallen for, his innocence! He is a virgin, never been kissed, never had a girlfriend and we are both 26 years old....is this a good sign for a Polish man? He wasn't born in Poland but both parents were

Me - Shy until u get to know her, friendly and make him laugh all the time too, been heartbroken too many times to count, unfortunately not a virgin, also not polish unfortunately

We are both pretty awkward at times due to our shyness but make each other laugh, we work together too and both are studying the same profession at college. Only problem was our first date, I didnt realise he was a virgin and I ended up kissing him and scaring him. Then we ended up having the big relationship talk which we never should have, but we left that behind and went on our second date in which we really hit off.

Well our third date was last night, and let me just say wow!!! We went to a caberet show in which he finally got the nerve to make his move on me!! He kissed me, then went for a walk and we ended up making out in the car. He is very romantic and we want to take this slow, so we didn't do the last part for long (I said i probably should get home to sleep as I think he is the typical respectful Polish man who will value me more if I don't give him everything at first). Anyway, we are seeing each other later in the week to have a video night at his house for the first time! :) He lives with his family who are of course very close, so I am kind of expecting to meet them all, and yeah! Any ideas how I should be apart from awkward self lol? Only thing is I find he doesn't pay etc now like he did first date, but I am completely ok with that. I mean, I would much rather have an honest true man than someone who pays all the time!

Also relationship wise, I am pretty sure he is getting tips from his Polish Mum, so how long will it take him to ask me properly to be his girlfriend in Polish tradition?

Are we progressing well too?

He sounds wonderful. Does he have single brother for me? Lol.


Sometimes it's good to take things a little slow. Moving too fast may scare him off; especially since he's still a virgin. If the two of you decide to make love, your first time together should be very special and long waited for.

Good luck in your relationship.

That's a quite an achievement! ;-]


dunno, the only thing that I ask girls is to bring me a beer from a fridge..and I'm 100% Pole, LOL (but hey, that's only me ;-])

lol beckski, actually he has two! I will send them your way lmao. Polish family purpose in life must be to produce amazing partners for others! lol

Thankyou too, yes I want his first time to be really special so I am going to hold off for a while in that department.

Rafal: Lol @ beer from fridge, I have a feeling I may be ordered to do that lmao