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couples in love in poland who do not live together-why?

angel 14 | 86  
8 Jan 2008 /  #1
hi i am on another thread but id thought id post this question here. my 27 year old male polish friend who is coming here to find work, (you may have seen my other threads) has a girlfriend back in poland whom he has a child with 6 year old-they are not married and dont live together-is this normal in poland?-they do love each other-i havent asked why they do not live together - i do know she is 22- and reading between the lines-i think he got her "into trouble" aged 16-what are your thoughts- he doesnt say much about her or his child
lilbribri321 - | 1  
8 Jan 2008 /  #2
wow thakyou for telling me that
krysia 23 | 3,058  
8 Jan 2008 /  #3
They might not live together because they feel it's wrong? Or their families feel they shouldn't? Or some other reason. Although it is becoming more acceptable to live with each other before marriage in Poland, it is still considered morally wrong.
OP angel 14 | 86  
9 Jan 2008 /  #4
it is still considered morally wrong.

his sister has two children and she isnt married she lives with her partner- i think it may have something to do with her family keeping him away from her-he got her pregnant at 16-he says he loves her- i said why are you not together then- he doesnt talk about it-he has no photos of her or the child-the child and the girlfriend do exist- i have spoken to her- just wondered what people on here think- before you get the wrong idea i have a boyfriend-so i am not interested in my polish friend romantically-he is such a nice person just want to help him-

Or their families feel they shouldn't

- you mean they dont like him/her?-BUT if you love someone how can you bear this?

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