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Need advice on "vacation friend" from Poland


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19 Oct 2007 /  #1
met a guy on vacation from poland.
things got smokin hot.
i obviously never took it seriously. all fun and games. at times i would even ignore him, when he followed me around. i was three years older, travelling with a friend and him travelling with parents, made the scenario risky!

anyways i departed without any sort of contact. when we said our goodbyes i was leaving him to go party off the resort, he would never come because he was afraid of his parents. but i did not really care..so at times i think that displayed a lack of inerest.

i am usually the type of person that leaves anything that happens on vacation behind..until i got home and regretted it soooo much.

with luck...i must admit i did pray. i came across his picture on a website about a year later.

now i feel sometimes he shows interest.

he asks me really personal questions, which i answer , yet when i ask the same questions back i never get a response.

should i continue to bug him, ask him why he does not answer the same personal questions he asks me...because i am just as curious.

is he just not that in to me anymore.....even as just a friend... we did have good jokes!
urszula 1 | 253  
19 Oct 2007 /  #2
One thing about Polish guys. They don't like talking about themselves. They think a lot but don't open up much until they know you better. If ever. And they like to take things slow.

This kind of romance is hard on a person because you can't be with him yet you constantly think about him. He might even have a girl friend but is not telling you.

Next time he asks personal questions, you tell him to answer yours first.
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19 Oct 2007 /  #3
thanks for the tips urszula.

polish guys are definitely different than the typically north american guys who usually just love to talk about themselves.

he seems so shy to tell me things, but not shy to ask me such personal questions.

so frustrating. and i do not want to tell him i like him becuase i do not want to scare him

guess i will continue show patience and ask random questions and tell him random things that do not necessarily involve him. i am pretty determine to get him to like me all over again...haha
urszula 1 | 253  
19 Oct 2007 /  #4
i am pretty determine to get him to like me all over again...haha

Good Luck! I hope it works out for you.!
z_darius 14 | 3,968  
19 Oct 2007 /  #5
And they like to take things slow.

Define "things"
urszula 1 | 253  
19 Oct 2007 /  #6
haha, O.o
Things, like getting to know you better before they say they love you... ^^
natalka - | 46  
19 Oct 2007 /  #7
yes :)
sometimes taking it slow and having patience...makes for something much better in the end ^_^
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19 Oct 2007 /  #8
yea1 it just does not seem right to give up so quickly, especially since i randomly found him again and it was what i wanted after a very long time.
svengoola - | 69  
19 Oct 2007 /  #9
Just don't spread yourself too thin for him girl. He'll walk all over you.
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19 Oct 2007 /  #10
yes.. that is absolutely true.
it has to be like how it was before.
he has to like me more than i like him (but secretly it really would be equal) lol.
i messed up big time when i had the chance.
BubbaWoo 33 | 3,510  
20 Oct 2007 /  #11
he showed you interest, you ignored it now youre complaining that hes not showing you interest cheeky woman
miranda  
20 Oct 2007 /  #12
sometimes it is better to let things go, especially when he is not sharing his personal info with you. Looks like a waste of time to me, and the less he is interested, the more intriguing you will find him. He sounds liek a bit of a player to me.
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23 Oct 2007 /  #13
he showed you interest, you ignored it now youre complaining that hes not showing you interest cheeky woman

yea i was a bad bad girl!
i think he liked me too quickly the first time around even though i really liked him and i got scared so i pushed him away and then when i came back home i wish i was never so mean.. darnit.

sometimes it is better to let things go, especially when he is not sharing his personal info with you. Looks like a waste of time to me, and the less he is interested, the more intriguing you will find him. He sounds like a bit of a player to me.

you are absolutely right... but i love a good challenge especially since i know i wa able to get him before

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