I have been thinking for some time about how quallified we are when answering Personal Problems.
It seems to me that most of these are related to girlfriend/boyfriend relationships and in particular Polish-English relationships. Not Polish-Polish or English-English
Is it because some of us might have experienced something similar ? Is it because some of us might have friends who have similar problems ? Is it just common sense ?
Another problem I have is wondering why it is that the original poster gets all the sympathy when we haven't heard the other side of the story.
And why is the usual answer to these personal problems almost always: He's cheating on you, he's married, he already has a girlfriend. Surely there can't be, what seems, such a large number of people who are taken in this way.
I'd like to know why people cheat. What drives these people ? How can they be spotted before a romance begins.
I'd also like to know what posters think about giving the wrong advice, smart a$$ comments and how this might tip someone over the edge.
Does anyone wonder if some people have taken our advice and that advice has been wrong. And in fact a relationship might have been ruined because of one of our comments.
Hopefully, the answers to these questions will show that we do know what we are talking about and can be trusted.
English = English speaking.
It seems to me that most of these are related to girlfriend/boyfriend relationships and in particular Polish-English relationships. Not Polish-Polish or English-English
Is it because some of us might have experienced something similar ? Is it because some of us might have friends who have similar problems ? Is it just common sense ?
Another problem I have is wondering why it is that the original poster gets all the sympathy when we haven't heard the other side of the story.
And why is the usual answer to these personal problems almost always: He's cheating on you, he's married, he already has a girlfriend. Surely there can't be, what seems, such a large number of people who are taken in this way.
I'd like to know why people cheat. What drives these people ? How can they be spotted before a romance begins.
I'd also like to know what posters think about giving the wrong advice, smart a$$ comments and how this might tip someone over the edge.
Does anyone wonder if some people have taken our advice and that advice has been wrong. And in fact a relationship might have been ruined because of one of our comments.
Hopefully, the answers to these questions will show that we do know what we are talking about and can be trusted.
English = English speaking.