why is the older women such a problem for polish guys

Magdalena 3 | 1827

3 Mar 2008 / #31

I don't know of any polish couples where the wife or a girlfriend is older.

My great-grandmother was middle-aged when she married. I'm not sure she was actually older than her husband, but in that day and age a 40-year-old bride was not run of the mill either. My mother was 6 years older than my father. I am 7 years older than my partner. One of my friends has a bf at least 7 years younger as well. They're getting married soon. Etc. I am 40, and I have never heard of any older/younger prejudice. Sure, most guys tend to go for the younger crowd, but if they settle down with an older woman it's not really seen as a big deal. Is it just the people I hang out with?

Tommy

7 Mar 2008 / #32

Look, whatever you call it, love or affection, it will always remain a biological instinct of breeding, or more coarsely said, sex drive. That`s all. My mention of poets meant that it was them who started attributing some noble characteristics to such a common, even vulgar instinct. They were paid by males who realised that noble talk about love could help them seduce women faster and more efficiently.

Of course I was in love but it was purely hormonic or ferromonic matter.

OP angel 14 | 86

8 Mar 2008 / #33

it will always remain a biological instinct of breeding,

no no no no no this is not true-what about people who "fall in love" when "breeding" is impossible- same sex couples, disabilities which cannot accomodate chid-bearing-or couples who choose not to breed

They were paid by males who realised that noble talk about love could help them seduce women faster and more efficiently

or maybe they needed help in expressing their
feelings

Of course I was in love but it was purely hormonic or ferromonic matter.

i take it it didnt last-it can be transient-doesnt mean cant happen again-hormonic,ferromonic, cupidmonic or any monic for that matter

i wish you love. love, love and nothing but love

fenton - | 8

13 Mar 2008 / #34

you hav a few good years yet

shewolf 5 | 1077

13 Mar 2008 / #35

Age is not a problem for all Polish men. I suspect his family is just one of those families that happens to have a problem with it.

I don't agree that you should leave him over this. You only live once and no one has any guarantees. Just have fun.

sapphire 22 | 1241

20 Mar 2008 / #36

a biological instinct of breeding,

Sounds like you guys have been watching one too many animal programmes on TV. :)

Wyspianska

20 Mar 2008 / #37

hello i have this dilema with my polish guy (see post).

Did he at least tell his family about you and your age? If he hides it, then fukk that, find another man, obviously he's not worth ANY effort. And never have issues about your age please.