My polish g/f can be a nightmare,is it always like this

Yeah thats a good idea, take time off work and move all your valuable possesions from the house whilst she's at work/college. have you got the keys tho? you could rent a storage place somewhere for your stuff or move it round your friends/moms/whoever. if you dont have the key, get a friend to come with you when that woman is in and ask her to let you take your stuff. your mate will be your witness if she tries anything (you could even pop a voice recorder in your pocket just so you have proof that she's being abusive and a liar). i know i've been very lucky in my situation and i cant promise you it will be just as easy for you, but it wont hurt to try! the agency that was letting the house to me and those other people was happy as long as they got all their rent each month. plus that people i lived with managed to get another 3 of their relatives to come over and move in with us when i was still there, so they kinda 'replaced' me after i left.

Hey all

Last night about 9.44pm she sent me a text saying "what i should do that you never come back?"Now i know that i was only there to make up the numbers,i said that to her all along she just needed someone to help her get a house,i still belive this,i also think there could be another man involved,and now i feel i should tell you the rest of the story,when i first me her she was a prostitue,and i am not making that up,she really was,she done massage,with "extras" she gave all that up when she met me (or so she says)she has always told me she has got savings,and always seems to have alot of money,even though she only earns £600 a month,the rent on the house is £700.I believe she resents me because she had to take a crap paying job,and now earns hardly anything,she claims ilegal benefits to top up her weekly earnings.something she told me last week,i had no idea,if she gets caught i am in the **** to.i know her plan was for me to pay most of the house,her excuse was she didn't earn as much as me,but i stood my ground and told her we do it 50/50,and i think this was the final thing for her,so she had to try and get me out,but that means she will have to pay all of it,so that don't make sense.I feel like such an idiot,for letting this spiteful woman do this to me,i should have seen this coming,but i couldn't,i am such an ass.

I know you lot think i am just a stupid idiot,and the thing is,you are all right,please don't think i made up the prostitute part,to make her sound bad,it really is true.

sorry,but i am just a bit shellshocked at the moment

so now, you should know what to do... good luck in your new life....without her...

I’m convinced that since evolution took hold, we instinctively seek and want to keep a partner who is genetically superior to ourselves, and that this deeply ingrained desire and feeling we mistakenly call love. I could write a book on it, so I won’t go on too much, but the fact that you have lost your cool over her tells me that you are out of her league. To semi-quote Orwel, “we are all equal, but some are more genetically equal than others”

An article in yesterday's Guardian that talked about a triad of 'dark' genes found in men which produced character traits that consistently attracted a greater number of women. Men who possess this triad flitter from partner to partner and it is reasoned that the gene has progressed because this type of behaviour produces a greater number of offspring. It was offered as explanation to why some women find bastards so attractive

express.co.uk/posts/view/48952/Why-women-fall-for-the-bad-boys - Why women fall for the bad boy

Get rid. Find another bird. Hey come work at my place, there's a new Polish girl that started yesterday. She looks Portuguese for some reason but she's a stunner. Tanned skin, dark eyes... tasty

Damn, I feel numb
Where did that shotgun blast come from?

It was the biatch standing in the corner with a 12, mate. Didn't you see her?

WAKE THE FUK UP Y'ALL!!!!

THERE ARE OTHER PEOPLE POSTING ON THIS FORUM WHO WILL FIND THEMSELVES IN EXACTLY THE SAME POSITION IN THE NOT TOO DISTANT FUTURE BUT JUST HAVEN'T REALISED THIS YET!!!!!!!

You are a meal ticket guys, stop being taken in by a woman's looks, stop think with your d!cks and start thinking with your heads

I find myself in agreement.

If i had a rose I would give it to you for outstanding performance

So true...
You were able to fall in love with a prostitute and let her put a curb on you :/ Really... If you don't come here in the next 5 days telling us you are not with her anymore, i'll have to replace my life's aim for "smiffer's hunter" and i will kill you :D kidding.. but seriously... you should get a NAIVINESS AND STUPID NOBEL prize...

For a split second, I thought you were talking about VaFunkoolo:D

Not me :)

I am not with her,we split up on monday,not really heard much from her either,my stuff is still in the house though,i have to find me a place,my mum said she doesn't mind me staying the odd nights but does not want me to move back permanently,my now ex has moved my stuff out of the bedroom we shared,and has moved it into her daughters room,and her daughter now sleeps with her.Its going to be difficult for a while,at the moment i have absolutley no spare money to be able to go anywhere else,i have asked friends and no luck there,so i will just stay there a few nights,and the odd 1 or 2 at my mums,Yes i would admit i have been very dumb,and nieve,and yes i have played right into her hands,but at least i never married her,or got a house with her,or had children,and hopefully soon this chapter of my life will be over,but its not that easy to just meet someone else.i only wish it was.


Sounds like a plan,where you work,and where in uk.......lol

I know that.. But i meant about leaving 'her' house permanently... But you are at your mom's place now :) So all good.. You just have to get your stuff there and move on with your life... I really know how hard it is.. I should even apologize for the Nobel prizes i gave to you, cause thinking deeply about it, we don't choose the person we will fall in love next.. :/ Well, you shouldn't even regret of starting this relationship, cause it was really good at some point of it... But just try to move on with that.. Hard for sure, but just do your best Brittish Lord :D

So sorry for something i said up in my posts:)

Smiffer,

Good decision, my friend. We are all proud of you here!!! Best of luck to you :)

G.

Thanx for the support people,and LCzachor no need for appologies mate,sometimes the truth is whats needed.

Update

Me and the ex are still ex's,i now sleep in the room her daughter was in,we still talk,and it doesn't seem to be as bad as i thought,we agree we can come and go as we please.She said her daughter is not to keen on me now,but i can accept that it must be hard for her to hear us 2 argue.So thats the situation as for now,i am going to keep looking for a way out,and find somewhere to go.

I have some of the same issues after 7 months. Very stubborn, never taking blame, quick to yell, blames it all on "that's just how we are". Lay down the ground rules hard and fast. They eventually step in line.

That's how my mom is. She's all Polish and never takes the blame for anything. She's always right. She can call me stupid etc., but I wouldn't dare to talk back to her.

Yes, that's how they are. lol

I tried to lay down some ground rules,and she just kicks back harder.

Update
We are both still living in the house,lanlady has said as long as we both pay our share of the rent,we don't have to leave,and even if we don't pay it would take 2 months to get us out.

My ex says she doesn't want me in the house,and she also said she has no feelings towards me cus she thinks i cheated on her,when we were together,and that i was meeting other women after we split.truth is i have never cheated on her,or on any other of me old g/f's.now she just keeps throwing it back in my face,and she says she don't care??if she didn't it wouldn't be an issue,i think.All last week she was asking to see my mobile phone bill when it came through.i said ok,then i realised i'd done something stupid,we were split up mind,nearly 2 weeks she said if there were any womens numbers,there would be no chance of us getting back together (so remember she asked when we were split up,meaning i have nothing to prove) on the 18th june,she sent me some nasty texts,and i was hurt,so i rang some massage parlours in the city we live in,i thought,i knew the numbers would show on the bill,and i would open the bill,and leave it lying around,see if she saw them.now i rang the numbers from my mums house,and she was in the room when i done it,and she said it was a stupid idea.I knew that i would get my phone bill the week after,now it took longer than usual for my bill to arrive (about a week,normally 3 days)when it arrived i noticed it had already been opened,and someone had tried to stick it back down with glue.she had steamed it open,and i think she had rang the numbers,we had been getting on well last weekend,spent alot of time together,then since monday this week,she is just being horrible to me,and she has virtually told me she opened it,so now she don't trust me,the thing is i done this when we were already split up.maybe a lesson there for others in a similar position,although this does not give someone the right to go through your things,i explained to her why i done it,but she just keeps throwing it back in my face.

I think you deserve each other. Sorry.

Thats ok miranda,everyone has there own opinion.

Be a Slav.Next time arrive with a bottle of vodka and a whip.

A Slav or a slave?

A Slav.Give her a taste of home.

what do you want me to say. After six pages of deliberation and people telling you to look after yourself, you are still living with her and the drama is still going on.

I am not really that interested in the details of a phone bill and such. You cannot handle her and you are venting on PF. Nothing gets done. The situation is as it was at the beginning.

I know it is easy to say and more difficult to do, but if you have money to call the parlor instead of getting some consuling, than you like where you are.

What's with the whip?

Polish girls love the whip.When he appears like that,she will raise her skirt and kneel.

smiffer,

You are fighting a lost cause. We gave you advice, which you seemed to ignore and now you are playing stupid mind games. The girl doesn't like you and that's that. Stop looking for revenge.

Simply by staying in the house you are making her and her daughter's life a misery. And you are enjoying it.

Smiffer,you have to find an english cougar to pay the rent for you.

Why you guys like loose women and then expect them to be faithful girlfriends and wives.This dosen’ t make sense. It’s known from the very beginning what the future with such woman will be like.