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Just met the man of my dreams. I'm an American girl, he's Polish.


Melissa 3 | 18  
10 Mar 2009 /  #1
I am an American girl....who works at a St. Louis night club, one of my co-workers had a friend of his come in (love at first sight) who is Polish and has been in the states for almost five years. When I saw him come through the door our eyes locked....Lets just say I could barley work through the night! So my boss said "Go and sit with him, he is eally interested in you" . Since then we cant stop texing each other, while he is at work ( Like 400 messages a day) I love the way he looks at me... he touches me so diffrently than any one ever has. We are taking our time time with this.... I am German and Austrian, a first generation American....I also work for European people and speak Slavic. I am wondering if there is any thing I can do to impress him, "knock his socks off" so to speak. I am sure Polish me are no diffrent that most men.....But I would like some advice from people who have been in situations like this. What could a girl do to blow your doors off? Thanks for any advice you all might have. OHHHHH, how do you say "I am crazy about you" in Polish.....Thanks again.
Randal 1 | 577  
10 Mar 2009 /  #2
Ah, Polish true love... I knew that once...

I am wondering if there is any thing I can do to impress him, "knock his socks off"

You are a girl, you have everything you need to win this boy's heart. Boys are the same, no matter from where they come. ;)
OP Melissa 3 | 18  
10 Mar 2009 /  #3
I just hope hope this is the real thing. I have never felt this way before. I was married at one time and since then I have not be wanting a relationship. Then this guy walks into my life and WHAM....he is kinda shy....I am not, but when I am around this man I turn into a shy high school girl. I hope I can pick up on some of the language....But we dont have a large population of Polish here. He is thoughtfull, when he is online talking to his friends back in Poland, he has me talk to them to, and translates for us both. Its too cute. I have a hard time durrig the day not being able to see him, and he comes into the club I work at....so we constatly on the phone and texing or sending e-mails. Can any one tell me who to say some thing sweet in Polish? I would love to tex him while he is work and put a smile on his face. Thanks Every one.
Randal 1 | 577  
10 Mar 2009 /  #4
Then this guy walks into my life and WHAM....he is kinda shy....I am not, but when I am around this man I turn into a shy high school girl.

I know just how you feel. My Polish girl caused me to become a grinning, babbling idiot when I was in her presence. It is not like me at all for a girl to have this affect on me. But she didn’t seem to mind!
ZIMMY 6 | 1,601  
10 Mar 2009 /  #5
I am wondering if there is any thing I can do to impress him, "knock his socks off" so to speak. ..... What could a girl do to blow your doors off?

Invite him to your place and make him a Polish home cooked meal. The quickest way to a man's socks are thru his stomach.
Olek S - | 13  
10 Mar 2009 /  #6
how do you say "I am crazy about you" in Polish

OszalaƂam na Twoim punkcie!
[o-sha-la-wam na tvoym poonk-che]
OP Melissa 3 | 18  
10 Mar 2009 /  #7
Thats a good idea...I am a good cook. My family owns a great reuraunt. thought of making a dinner and having having hi come to it, but we could have the whole place to our selves. Or takng him to the top of the nicest Hotel here is Down Town St louis, and have dinner on the roof top. I truley am crazy for this man....Ifeel like I have no one to share all my thoughts with. My friends think I am crazy!!! I dont care what any one thinks....I want this man in my life.
plk123 8 | 4,150  
10 Mar 2009 /  #8
"knock his socks off"

start by knocking yours off... ;) :D
OP Melissa 3 | 18  
10 Mar 2009 /  #9
LOL. thats too funny. I think we have already done that a few times.....an it is FREAKIN AMAZING. So I could ot be happier with Macin. Opps I said his name. lol.
McCoy 27 | 1,275  
10 Mar 2009 /  #10
Opps I said his name

and did it wrong. its Marcin
OP Melissa 3 | 18  
10 Mar 2009 /  #11
All he can say is WOW.....I sent him the tex and he loves it. Thank you so much
k98_man  
10 Mar 2009 /  #12
This makes me happy.
mandy_8755 1 | 2  
10 Mar 2009 /  #13
"who works at a St. Louis night club"

does he live there with u?????

sweet story though.
pgtx 29 | 3,159  
10 Mar 2009 /  #14
St. Louis

invite him for a romantic picnic near the arch... i love that place... :)
sledz 23 | 2,250  
10 Mar 2009 /  #15
i love that place... :)

Why??? Its drive by..lol

The brewery is close by, you can get free Budweiser...:(
pgtx 29 | 3,159  
10 Mar 2009 /  #16
Why??? Its drive by..lol

nah.... it's a nice park there... downtown view... beautiful in April... and you don't have to be intoxicated to like it...lol...
sledz 23 | 2,250  
10 Mar 2009 /  #17
and you don't have to be intoxicated to like it

It helps to kill the stench from the river..:)
pgtx 29 | 3,159  
10 Mar 2009 /  #18
sledzik, you can kill every bit of romantism...
;)
sledz 23 | 2,250  
10 Mar 2009 /  #19
Im just a realist, thats the most unromantiac place on earth, I rather go to a fish hatchery..lol
Stay away from East St.Louis, IL, you dont want to break down there, they will strip your car down within minutes..
Filios1 8 | 1,336  
10 Mar 2009 /  #20
The quickest way to a Polish man's heart is through his pants. Use your imagination, and seduce this Polish man.
Randal 1 | 577  
11 Mar 2009 /  #21
She said they already did it.

I once touched a Russian girl’s butt while up inside the St. Louis Arch. I pretended it was a cultural greeting. :}
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
11 Mar 2009 /  #22
I'm just waiting for southern to pitch in his cultural greeting.

Hello little girl, in Greece we go down on a woman, just to make her feel welcome, LOL
SzwedwPolsce 11 | 1,595  
11 Mar 2009 /  #23
in Greece we go down on a woman, just to make her feel welcome

In northern Europe we usually shake hands, it more convenient, you don't have to brush your teeth afterward. Highly recommended.
pgtx 29 | 3,159  
11 Mar 2009 /  #24
I pretended it was a cultural greeting. :}

you should be glad her cultural greeting wasn't a face slap...

;)
PennBoy 76 | 2,437  
11 Mar 2009 /  #25
What could a girl do to blow your doors off?

Well if he finds u atractive u got the most important thing covered, i've notice many Polish men are cautious about dating American girls, cause if the get serious and end up getting married , she wont cook for him, we're used to home cooking, remember men are like stupid dogs, sex, food, rest all we need :)
Filios1 8 | 1,336  
11 Mar 2009 /  #26
in Greece we go down on a woman, just to make her feel welcome, LOL

Yes. Surely southern is the best representative for my second country.
SzwedwPolsce 11 | 1,595  
11 Mar 2009 /  #27
she wont cook for him

If someone turns down the woman he loves because he has to cook from time to time, you might think he just arrived in a time machine from the 19th century.
PennBoy 76 | 2,437  
11 Mar 2009 /  #28
No my Scandinavian friend, that's Polish mentality, he wont give her a chance, wont get close enough to get atatched, he's thinking about his future, thats smart, not eating out or take out the rest of his life. i'm guessing ur Swedish by ur login name, u do have very beautifull girls in Sweden, never been there, but have been to Denmark and Finland. From what i've noticed alot of them are feminists, so i'm sure those dont cook, since, as they see it,thats sort of degrating a woman.
David_18 68 | 982  
11 Mar 2009 /  #29
I am wondering if there is any thing I can do to impress him, "knock his socks off" so to speak.

Buy him a playstation 3.
OP Melissa 3 | 18  
11 Mar 2009 /  #30
Lol. I have gotten such a kick from all the post every one has written. To tell you the truth......I am not sure there is anything I would not do for Marcin...Even though we work at diffrent times, (he works all day and some time through the night, I work late afternoon and all night) He tex me all night, or tries to call me. I cant stand to be apart from him. I see every thing in his eyes, truth, future, and purity.....this is SO scary for me!!! I try and tell my self he must have a flaw some where, but I just have not found one yet.....not sure if I will. Its too amazing to be true. BTW He told is Mother about us tonight........ which means this is "serious" in his eyes. I can only assume he has plans for "our" future. I did not get to see him tonight....even though I begged for him to stop in and give me a good night kiss, tihs was un-fair on my part, he worked over 14 hours today and visited his Mother. I was desperate for his touch......I apologized to him, but he would not accept it. He just told me " in time, we will never be apart" Its takes my breath away to hear these things from him....MARCIN (IN ST.LOUIS) If you read this.....Know that my heart is yours.... how breathless you make me feel.

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