Polish men and marriage.

My Polish byfriend freaks out when I speak about marriage. He says that he wants children with me, but he's very sceptical about marriage. How come he is like that? I think that having children is a more serious matter than getting married....

Polish men are loose cannons, they want to secure their name, but still have fun ;)

No but seriously, there is a thread here somewhere about german men vs. polish, and polish girls were talking about that stuff. Saying german men make good spouse...

I carry german traits over my polish ones, so im available! :)
JK

haha.. no, I am sure that my boyfriend is serious about our relationship, and he is the only one that I want...

It's rather an individual trait... My parents are married :)

I guess that he will marry me some day.. it is not something that should be easily done.. I was married once before, and if I should marry again, I want it to last for the rest of my life.

Well, I don't know that you should worry too much about it. If he isn't sure about getting married but wants children and you are saying having children is more serious than getting married...where is the problem?

Unless he won't have children until he is married? That's where the problem could lie. Is there a large age gap between you?

You're right, you should make sure he is the absolute one for you before marrying again.

he is one year younger than me. Well, I guess there is no problem:) he says that he wants children before getting married, but I prefer to be married first.. but I guess that I can't expect that everythin will be the way I want..

Perhaps he doesn't want to rush into something that hasn't worked out for you in the past?

maybe.. but he knows about the circumstances in my first marriage, and he understands why things went like they did. I will say that the situation between my boyfriend and I are completely different.

Well, i kinda need some help..
This friend of mine, are going to marrige a girl, her name
is martyna. But, i realy realy realy dont like the tought.
He loves another girl, and they are men to be,
i swear. It is his parents idea, and he is only 22?

Oh yeah, they get married later divorce.
He loves someone else, he will never be happy with arranged marriage.
He's an adult, it willl take guts but he has to stand up for himself.
It is his life not his parents and only has control over it.

Frm my own experience if you decide to have children at some stage he will want to tie the knot straight away. Maybe it has something to do with our culture - you don't really see Polish not being married when having kids.

You are lucky to have a Polish boyfriend. When they say they want to marry you they keep their promise (well, at least the ones I know). You wouldn't like to try to figure out Irish boyfriend who tells you at the age of 31 he's not ready for commitment and kids yet has a child with someone else already... :))

Apparently he doesn't want to bother with trivial matters ;)