My Polish byfriend freaks out when I speak about marriage. He says that he wants children with me, but he's very sceptical about marriage. How come he is like that? I think that having children is a more serious matter than getting married....
Well, I don't know that you should worry too much about it. If he isn't sure about getting married but wants children and you are saying having children is more serious than getting married...where is the problem?
Unless he won't have children until he is married? That's where the problem could lie. Is there a large age gap between you?
You're right, you should make sure he is the absolute one for you before marrying again.